Lasting longer

[Deeeazy]

Been off the punting game for a while so been at home with the mrs and also waking off every now and then.

I normally last around 5/6 mins with new girls and a bit longer at home. But lately Im breaking all sorts of speed records when wanking and last around 2-3 mins.
 
How to the hell do i practice lasting longer as it’s now getting ridiculous. I tried letting go and relaxing before climax but didn’t work!!!!!

[winkywanky]

Perhaps practice edging in your own time?

Or bang one out about an hour before a punt. That should enable you to last longer.

[Davey Dykes]

Well you've tried waking, what's your seeping like?

[neil_williams]

Tramadol

[winkywanky]

Tramadol? WTF?

Perhaps you'd like to list all the side-effects too neil?

[winkywanky]

Perhaps practice edging in your own time?

Or bang one out about an hour before a punt. That should enable you to last longer.

Good point about the waking, if you're asleep during the punt, the risk of cumming early is vastly reduced  .

[Moby Dick]

Its all in the head.

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[Doc Holliday]

Its all in the head.

It is indeed.

Tramadol? WTF?

Perhaps you'd like to list all the side-effects too neil?

As long as you take plenty of alcohol with it you'll be fine 

The evidence for off label use of Tramadol for PE is somewhat inconclusive although studies suggest it does work. Assuming you can obtain this prescription only drug it is not something you should be self experimenting with.

[winkywanky]

Its all in the head.

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Good point, when the sap starts to rise, close your eyes and think hard about Nora Batty hitting you up the backside with a carpet-beater. Assuming this wouldn't actually turn you on, this is liable to delay ejaculation as desired.

Although it has to be said, you do run the risk of not cumming at all  .

[winkywanky]

As long as you take plenty of alcohol with it you'll be fine 

 

[winkywanky]

I think Tramadol over the internet from China, along with half a bottle of whisky would be fine. What could possibly go wrong? 

Apart from the fact that if you actually came, you might not even be aware of it. Let alone the drive home, where all manner of excitement might occur (which the punter would be completely oblivious to until they came round in the police cell a day later).

[winkywanky]

Oops...

Well you've tried waking, what's your seeping like?

Good point about the waking, if you're asleep during the punt, the risk of cumming early is vastly reduced  .

(Must be all that Tramadol I'm taking  ).

[Deeeazy]

Lol @ waking !!!

[Deeeazy]

Its all in the head.

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In my head I want to last !!!!

[OakTree]

I don't know if anyone else finds this but using this method I'm able to bang out for near enough as long as I want. The first few minutes of penetration are a bit tricky but I just slow down or more importantly slow her down. I might pull out for a few seconds then once that initial sap rising has been conquered I can bang away for how ever long I want. I then build up (in my mind) when I want to finish and the sap starts rising again for me to finish.

I've always found the first few minutes the tricky bit but once that is passed it's please your self time, so to speak.

I always book an hour and use most of it up.

[Happylad]

Say to yourself "I`m not going to cum, I can`t feel a thing" 1000 times while you carry on wanking or fucking, and after the 1000th I guarantee that you won`t feel a thing and simply can`t cum.

[bdyno]

This is why I always book an hour.  5-10 minutes for a blow job to get things started.  10-20 minutes of general foreplay & pegging, leaving 30 minutes for some fucking once I'm back ready for action.

[RandomGuy99]

Personally, I find after a few minutes of foreplay I get into the zone mentally and never really think about cuming or not.  On my very first punt the girl told me to just relax and not over think it and that's good advice.  I only cum early if I'm not able to get into zone.

I'm a one pop guy, so struggle to cum twice in an hour.   I used to see a girl who loved to make me cum through oral with the first 5 minutes and then get me going again for the rest of the booking.  She got me up and we fucked away for 30 minutes, but I couldn't pop again.  She was a bit pissed off that she hadn't managed to make me cum twice.

[MilleMiglia]

Tramadol

No.

[mradventures]

you can get condoms with stuff that numbs you so u last longer

im at the opposite end so can bang away for ages, presumably cos i dont feel much

[lentski]

try stub spray u will last longer

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just dont let her suck your cock, u will numb her mouth!   lol

 

[Colston36]

Well you've tried waking, what's your seeping like?

Excellent! I used to seep but now I can barely wak.

[Deeeazy]

I’m going to practice edging but it feels like torture. I always cum haha

[winkywanky]

Excellent! I used to seep but now I can barely wak.

 

[winkywanky]

I’m going to practice edging but it feels like torture. I always cum haha

You need to exercise a little restraint, show some gumption and discipline boy!

[proxima22]

I've got the exact opposite problem. I tire myself out so much with too much exertion and then feel under pressure as the clock ticks down and often can't cum during sex. I don't have a problem at home but the combination of a condom reducing the sensation and worrying I'm going to run out of time usually means I have to finish myself off manually.

It took me a couple of years of punting but I eventually found a few SPs who make me feel relaxed enough to cum in the bag. Usually, they're not too young so not too into really energetic sex and crucially they don't ever make me feel under pressure to cum. Funnily enough they've all been 30min bookings, so I didn't tire myself out! First time it happened I was genuinely amazed, felt like I'd just lost my virginity again!

[neil_williams]

Tramadol? WTF?

Perhaps you'd like to list all the side-effects too neil?

I get it on prescription works wonders for me

[Fabaceous]

I use Durex Extra Safe condoms and put two on. I can last ages!
I bought some extra thick condoms off amazon too - they work as well.
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[pewter]

I find that Kamagra keeps me hard and slows down the need to cum a lot.
Individual dosage by experimentation. 
I take 75mg + two Ibuprofen for the perfect combination.  This stops any headaches as well.
Be careful though if you have any ticker problems or mixing with certain other meds.

[Moby Dick]

Tie a knot in it.
Make it a double knot, painful as hell but can’t come at all.

[winkywanky]

I get it on prescription works wonders for me

What condition have you been prescribed it for?

[Deeeazy]

Tie a knot in it.
Make it a double knot, painful as hell but can’t come at all.

Tie a knot on my cock ?  Pls explain further.

[Happylad]

Excellent! I used to seep but now I can barely wak.

 I sometimes get the same troube, but I find a coupe of Panados soves the probem.

[Moby Dick]

Tie a knot on my cock ?  Pls explain further.

You remind me of my school days:

You “Come to the front of the class and explain yourself Master Dick.”
Me “But Miss I am just practising my knot tying.”
“Ouch stop pulling me ear” as you drag me to the headmasters office with me cock hanging out of me flies. Everyone pointing and laughing at me little Moby.

Just another day in the classroom

Just start with an overhand knot.
Make sure your bladder is empty first though.

[neil_williams]

What condition have you been prescribed it for?

osteoarthritis

[winkywanky]

Sorry to hear that. I should imagine you're on various other stuff too for that condition.

But you shouldn't suggest obtaining and using Tramadol to other people who don't have a medically-indicated need for it. It's a powerful drug with narcotic side-effects and it's also addictive.

Add to which, if they get hold of it ellicitly there's no way of knowing whether they're getting the real thing, nor whether the dosage is as stated.

[Punterperson1971]

I’ve mentioned this before but one wg I see regular uses a shoelace tied round the base and balls of my cock and it’s fairly tight and it helps slow the feeling of ejaculation,it does work as I pound the shit out of her and last longer than I’ve done in the past with other wg’s.

[Happylad]

The OP does not state whether or not he is circumcised.  If he is not then there is a simple method (which worked perfectly for me in my more vigorous youth, when I had the same problem.)

If he is not circumcised, then he should pull back his foreskin and keep it retracted; this will probably result in some slight irritation for a few days until his glans penis gets used to its unprotected contact with his underpants, but will not last long.  However the result will be that his glans penis is slightly desensitized and will not react to the stimulation of intercourse or OWO so quickly.

When in my late teens I first started experimenting with sex I found that I only had to touch a naked girl and I was squirting all over the place, and when I mentioned this to a Jewish friend he laughed, and explained that Jewish men never had that problem, and ritual circumcision was all down to Eve exercising her womens` rights to enjoy sex as much as men - all nonsense, of course, but I decided that keeping my foreskin retracted would probably work just as well, and it worked like a charm, and after a couple of months I found that I could keep going for as long as most girls wanted, and by the time I was married I usually kept going for half an hour or more - of which my wife always took full advantage.

Until I had to give up last year I was still able to keep going for half an hour or more - one youngster, after her second orgasm, asked "Where the hell do you get all your energy?"

I still "wear" my foreskin retracted, and although at my age and with all my health problems I can no longer achieve a proper erection (and certainly not fuck a girl) I can, with gentle oral or manual manipulation feel all the pleasurable sensations, and even manage a mild orgasm.

[Moby Dick]

I’ve mentioned this before but one wg I see regular uses a shoelace tied round the base and balls of my cock and it’s fairly tight and it helps slow the feeling of ejaculation,it does work as I pound the shit out of her and last longer than I’ve done in the past with other wg’s.

The fact she is a regular would mean, for me, I would last longer.
I don’t need to tie a knot in it  as I have got older. Or is that because I see regulars and become desensitised.
First time encounters used to be over quickly, allowing 2 or more pops especially if she is attractive and good with it.

[Punterperson1971]

The fact she is a regular would mean, for me, I would last longer.
I don’t need to tie a knot in it  as I have got older. Or is that because I see regulars and become desensitised.
First time encounters used to be over quickly, allowing 2 or more pops especially if she is attractive and good with it.

Well it works for me

[Home Alone]

I’ve mentioned this before but one wg I see regular uses a shoelace tied round the base and balls of my cock and it’s fairly tight and it helps slow the feeling of ejaculation,it does work as I pound the shit out of her and last longer than I’ve done in the past with other wg’s.

No disrespect, Pp1971; but as your solution sounds as bit, erm, amateur; other, commercial, options are available:

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The one I always take with me was sourced from the same company but is a slightly different model.

[sadolddeejay]

I have a far shorter fuse with WGs than I do with my OH. What works for me is that with WGs I usually start off with a BJ, but when the sap starts to rise I tell them to stop, and then fool around for a while (tit play, RO) with no penetration until I've calmed down a bit and feel ready to continue. Then I move on to missionary as that gives me control over speed and depth, and usually feels a bit looser. (With cowgirl you don't have much control over the WG's speed.) I stop again if I feel that I'm getting close to cumming. In doggy you have a fair amount of control over speed etc too, depending on how much she likes to push back, wiggle, or twerk, although the view can be so much of a turn on that you just can't help cumming. When I feel ready, I shift to whatever position I fancy for cumming.

On the pharmaceutical front, apparently Priligy can help, though I've not tried it.

I also find that ED medication (I use Cialis) gives me a better quality erection, and that makes me a bit more numb than without that medication.

[Punterperson1971]

No disrespect, Pp1971; but as your solution sounds as bit, erm, amateur; other, commercial, options are available:

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The one I always take with me was sourced from the same company but is a slightly different model.

No disrespect but if it works for done why not mention it to others

[Home Alone]

No disrespect but if it works for done why not mention it to others

It was simply a question of time when I posted.

I'd had a load of - non-punting - things to do on Saturday but I thought it would be helpful if I were to post a link to Amazon's 'cockring page'. Even though it wasn't a link to the specific make and model of cockring I had bought, I posted the link to that page as I felt sure that anybody on this Board who wanted to buy a cockring from Amazon would have the common sense to research all the items on that page before making their own personal selection.

If that wasn't helpful enough for you, Punterpetson, then I'm sorry.

[Punterperson1971]

It was simply a question of time when I posted.

I'd had a load of - non-punting - things to do on Saturday but I thought it would be helpful if I were to post a link to Amazon's 'cockring page'. Even though it wasn't a link to the specific make and model of cockring I had bought, I posted the link to that page as I felt sure that anybody on this Board who wanted to buy a cockring from Amazon would have the common sense to research all the items on that page before making their own personal selection.

If that wasn't helpful enough for you, Punterpetson, then I'm sorry.

The only reason she done it was it was the spur of the moment thing and she didn’t have anything else to go round my cock as sometimes I do cum quick so this was an easy solution,like I said it worked for me.

[hawai5o]

Been off the punting game for a while so been at home with the mrs and also waking off every now and then.

I normally last around 5/6 mins with new girls and a bit longer at home. But lately Im breaking all sorts of speed records when wanking and last around 2-3 mins.
 
How to the hell do i practice lasting longer as it’s now getting ridiculous. I tried letting go and relaxing before climax but didn’t work!!!!!

Used Super Kamagra 100mg couple of years ago and it did work . 2 in one ,The Erection + the delaying factor .

[Deeeazy]

So since my initial post, I have practiced self edging with and without porn and found it very hard not to cum. Did set a min of 10 mins which kinda worked.  I was also getting ready for my friend with benefits ( which I met on wechat visit and meet over the holidays.

2 days before the meet, I had a wank and tried to make it last at least 12 minutes. Took a half of a 20 mg cilias and took another half the next day. Met my lovely Chinese friend on the 3rd day at her hotel room.

20 mins into our meet I went for the kiss which led to a very intimate DFK and then onto a bit of pussy eating and then onto the sex. 4 mins in and I came like a dog and interestingly didn’t even get full on hard on. LOL

Need further training !!!!!

[sacredrealm]

So since my initial post, I have practiced self edging with and without porn and found it very hard not to cum. Did set a min of 10 mins which kinda worked.  I was also getting ready for my friend with benefits ( which I met on wechat visit and meet over the holidays.

2 days before the meet, I had a wank and tried to make it last at least 12 minutes. Took a half of a 20 mg cilias and took another half the next day. Met my lovely Chinese friend on the 3rd day at her hotel room.

20 mins into our meet I went for the kiss which led to a very intimate DFK and then onto a bit of pussy eating and then onto the sex. 4 mins in and I came like a dog and interestingly didn’t even get full on hard on. LOL

Need further training !!!!!

I haven't fully figured out yet for myself wheather edging is a help or detriment for this at this time. I feel like getting good at edging has probably helped overall in some way, to get to a certain place by myself, though with my few escort experiments so far, I have seemed to perform better when I haven't been playing with myself and would say it would also feel better. Edging I think could be a useful tool for practice but I've at least recently experienced that it would make me ejaculate sooner the next time.

This is sort of what I strive for at the moment, to wait til I can next have a "real" experience. I haven't done that well at sticking to that in the past few weeks, and I'm not too hard on myself but feel more able to again for now to see if if it can make the next experience better.
I guess the thing with my case is I had become very conditioned to using my own hand and watching images, so the reality of the "real" thing was almost something to get accustomed to to be able to enjoy it as I should, and it's an ongoing process. Of course I  don't mean that I haven't enjoyed it, more that I realized I need a lot of practice with the "real" thing, in order to last longer for one thing.

Also I very much believe in edging with a partner. I think this is probably the most powerful. I never actually aim to ejaculate to be honest. Maybe I should try changing that mindset now and then. I have just tended not to like how it feels after, so far, although its less so with a person probably.

Talking about the foreskin thing, the last one I saw, who was very nice, I felt my enjoyment and stamina was not as it could have been, because she pulled my foreskin back before putting the condom on. It might be different if there was no condom and it happened naturally, though this area for me is very sensitive and at least with the condom it kind of felt more held in that position rather than moving freely. I'd speak up about that next time ha. It didn't happened with the other few though.

[theejaculator]

Want to last longer? Go to your Doctor...tell him/her how modern life is getting you down and/or you never want to get outta bed most days. Diagnosis ....depression...solution (maybe not) anti- depressants. Take for a few weeks....you'll last hours....potentially
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[MissWolf]

Want to last longer? Go to your Doctor...tell him/her how modern life is getting you down and/or you never want to get outta bed most days. Diagnosis ....depression...solution (maybe not) anti- depressants. Take for a few weeks....you'll last hours....potentially
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And that wins the most stupid and potentially dangerous piece of advice post

Really mate why the fuck would you advise someone to lie about their mental health to be prescribed with drugs that may or may not help but are likely to make his mental health actually suffer for real because he doesn't need them and may be addictive

You need help