I have been for a “proper “ tantric massage, didn’t work for me.
I think those who believe in it and genuinely offer it find something more than just the carnal cravings that most punters, me included, seek. I couldn’t focus on all the breathing, eyes closed and connectivity. I wanted an attractive lady touching me, sometimes the will she / won’t she, but definitely wanted to be able to touch her and for her to offer he as a minimum.
I have had trantric massages but with and without he, the latter being incredibly frustrating especially if the masseuse is attractive! In each case the cost wasn’t more than most independent girls who offer massage with he, so not necessarily more expensive but maybe less value for money!