I can't cum standing up!?

[thekman100]

Hey folks, weird question I guess but does anyone else have this problem?

I recently tried a gloryhole (review to come), and it was a pretty good BJ, and I sort of got near but just couldn't finish. It got me thinking and I believe in over 20 years of sex, real world and punting. I have never cum standing up. I'd make a rubbish porn star!

I don't masturbate in the shower or feel comfortable standing doing that. I have obviously had sex standing but it doesn't move me along so always change.

I have a regular WG I might try it with, I am not worried something is wrong with me, just wondered if it was common, or unusual.

Cheers.

[Dipper]

First time I’ve ever heard of that.

Sounds like it’s psychological to me. A past bad experience or something ?

[Fuzzyduck]

Not really, though I find it's not as enjoyable. Maybe something to do with angles when having sex. That said, wanking in the shower is wonderfully self-indulgent. I don't know if blood draining to your legs is a factor. As Dipper said, it might be psychological. Certainly the more you think about it now when you're standing up, the more pressure you're putting on yourself and the less likely it will happen. Some therapy with your regular is recommended!

[HarryZZ]

It seems odd but many years ago with a civvy stood up doing doggy I realised I could smell her and she wasn't too fragrant, went back to mish and it was fine, I later learned that when you're laid down it somehow reduces your sense of smell, it's a real thing not just me, so there is a physical difference in your body when you're stood up.

[Lema]

Hey folks, weird question I guess but does anyone else have this problem?

I recently tried a gloryhole (review to come), and it was a pretty good BJ, and I sort of got near but just couldn't finish. It got me thinking and I believe in over 20 years of sex, real world and punting. I have never cum standing up. I'd make a rubbish porn star!

I don't masturbate in the shower or feel comfortable standing doing that. I have obviously had sex standing but it doesn't move me along so always change.

I have a regular WG I might try it with, I am not worried something is wrong with me, just wondered if it was common, or unusual.

Cheers.

The only time I've ever cum standing was during a none stop blo job that lasted about twenty minutes with a WG while she let me film it.
But that's the only time .

[vw]

Hey folks, weird question I guess but does anyone else have this problem?

I recently tried a gloryhole (review to come), and it was a pretty good BJ, and I sort of got near but just couldn't finish. It got me thinking and I believe in over 20 years of sex, real world and punting. I have never cum standing up. I'd make a rubbish porn star!

I don't masturbate in the shower or feel comfortable standing doing that. I have obviously had sex standing but it doesn't move me along so always change.

I have a regular WG I might try it with, I am not worried something is wrong with me, just wondered if it was common, or unusual.

Cheers.

Never have managed to cum standing up, you are not alone. 

[santiago2]

I always enjoy standing up when having a BJ CIM  never have any problem giving em a good mouthful, when your'e laying down on your back your'e shooting uphill.   

[candec]

I like doggy when I am standing and it sometimes is a real effort to cum. I often revert to wanking off over the girls breasts.

[Knny]

I think if it was a woman with nice full lips on the other side of the glory hole, you might have cum more easily, rather than a bloke with cracked lips and bristles.

:joking:

 

[threechilliman]

Never have managed to cum standing up, you are not alone.

I struggle too, although last time out I managed it. Might have had something to do with the girl knelt before me with her mouth open ready to 'receive'!!

Doesn't always work mind....

[king tarzan]

Never done standing up

[Lema]

I've never cum In a WG's pussy either. I can normally only cum  lying on the bed with a bj or hand relief. 

[mrdiamond77]

Not sure if I have either.  Always either kneeling or lying down.

[agent47]

It seems odd but many years ago with a civvy stood up doing doggy I realised I could smell her and she wasn't too fragrant, went back to mish and it was fine, I later learned that when you're laid down it somehow reduces your sense of smell, it's a real thing not just me, so there is a physical difference in your body when you're stood up.

That was probably her arse you could smell. Never heard that lying down effects your sense of smell.

[Dipper]

That was probably her arse you could smell. Never heard that lying down effects your sense of smell.

Aaah.... the dreaded cheesy pussy/ arse whiff.   

Lost my hard on a few times due to this blighter.

[itk]

I can cum standing up, but find it very difficult to do so, much prefer to be laying down even with CIM finish

[Dipper]

I take it most can tug one off standing?

[bearcat69]

I don't really cum often whilst standing during a punt now that I think about it. Although I am a bit of a lazy bugger and often do like to just lay down and let her do most of the work to be honest

I do like standing BJ's from a visual point of view, and I think that's why you see them in porn a lot, but I actually don't find them particularly relaxing or sensually enjoyable. 9/10 times would much rather prefer to be laying down and relaxed when cumming from a BJ. Sex is a bit different for me though, I very much enjoy a standing fuck when up for doing that, particularly if I'm holding the girl tight and squeezing her tits and kissing her neck whilst fucking her from behind, can and definitely have cum a lot of times like that, mostly in civvie sex though, only really a few times in punts. Have found it disappointingly difficult to find many WGs who are comfortable in those kind of positions. I suppose when you think about it, it's kind of a rather intimate way to fuck, involving a greater level of trust and being uninhibited than most WGs will be comfortable with. So I'm not hugely surprised to hear somebody say this actually OP.

[PleadInsanity]

It does'nt make any difference to me standing, sitting or laying down.

[Kingy28]

It does'nt make any difference to me standing, sitting or laying down.

I'm the same. I love fucking whilst stood up & have no problem finishing when I'm on my feet

[Lema]

I take it most can tug one off standing?

No! I can't even tug myself off standing 

[12yoyoyo]

You are not alone.  I'm not sure if it is scientifically proven or just anecdotal, but I have noted that toes turn away from you when cumming.  That is less likely to happen when standing.  Try to tip-toe when standing to help you cum.

[shagmore]

Can come standing up, sitting  or laying down. No issue

[JamesKW]

Hey folks, weird question I guess but does anyone else have this problem?

I recently tried a gloryhole (review to come), and it was a pretty good BJ, and I sort of got near but just couldn't finish. It got me thinking and I believe in over 20 years of sex, real world and punting. I have never cum standing up. I'd make a rubbish porn star!

You would make a good porn star,they don't want people who can cum quickly,they want either those who can recover quickly or who can hold on for ages,as it can take a while to do a film,may take a few cuts.

[Dipper]

No! I can't even tug myself off standing 

Very surprising. 

[thekman100]

Hey folks, thanks for the replies!

Well, it seems I am not alone which makes me feel a bit reassured I'm not a freak (not that I needed it, but thanks). I might try to tug one off standing up to see if I can but it just seems such an odd feeling to do it. My body is saying...go on, sit on your ass, it's much easier! This is what happened during the gloryhole experience. My head started thinking...this would be so much easier if I was sat down at least! So maybe partially psychological, maybe if I achieve it once...the next will be easier?

As for a porn star...haha, yeah, I am not a 5 min wonder by any means and cum for bloody ages (which puts off some WGs with CIM!). Though it is often a curse. I am SO bloody jealous of you guys who get 2 pops in a 30 min session, I barely manage one!

The shower wank completely eludes me though, I need porn...and don't fancy ruining my phone. 

[billydrummer]

Hey folks, weird question I guess but does anyone else have this problem?

I recently tried a gloryhole (review to come), and it was a pretty good BJ, and I sort of got near but just couldn't finish. It got me thinking and I believe in over 20 years of sex, real world and punting. I have never cum standing up. I'd make a rubbish porn star!

I don't masturbate in the shower or feel comfortable standing doing that. I have obviously had sex standing but it doesn't move me along so always change.

I have a regular WG I might try it with, I am not worried something is wrong with me, just wondered if it was common, or unusual.

Cheers.

Same with me.  Wanking, blow jobs, shagging... no chance of cumming. Feels like I get to about 80% and then just stick, then nerves kick-in and if I don't change position it all goes tits-up.  Never really bothered me, I just skip it and do something else.

[gerrybear]

Same with me.  Wanking, blow jobs, shagging... no chance of cumming. Feels like I get to about 80% and then just stick, then nerves kick-in and if I don't change position it all goes tits-up.  Never really bothered me, I just skip it and do something else.

No chance of cumming: even if don't do it as often? I had started to have this problem (age related I think) and the situation is better now. I have been seeing the same woman for a while. She is married but has not had sex with her husband (20 years older than her) since he had a heart attack. We can see each other about once or twice a week. This has solved my problem of not cumming, as I have stopped punting since I met her. (BTW, I'm the same age as her husband.)

[gerrybear]

Did you read this thread? Worthwhile.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.0

[thekman100]

Did you read this thread? Worthwhile.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.0

Dude, I'm a single male bachelor. If you think you can go more than 48 hours without a wank, you are a stronger minded man than I! Lol.

It makes sense though abstenance will improve normal sex. But I get too bored.

As an update I managed to finish standing up, but only just about. I was ready to go sitting down but almost lost it standing. Really odd but at least I know its possible. I very much doubt I could go from scratch standing.

I did it watching Lucy Li. If you don't know here, trust me, she's worth a free pornsite search. So hot!

[Analist]

If it's a big deal, then you need to train yourself physically and mentally. Most of us are used to coming when we're lying down or kneeling in doggy so it takes some effort to adapt to the different angles when you're standing.
Practice doggy with you standing off the bed rather than on it. If you get the height of the bed right, this is a half-way house between normal doggy and standing upright. Once you can come this way, then you can try masturbating standing up and BJ standing up.

[MrMatrix]

No! I can't even tug myself off standing 

Its a struggle for me as well.

[Dipper]

Its a struggle for me as well.

Get some practice in.

Never know when you’ll need this skill

[MrMatrix]

Get some practice in.

Never know when you’ll need this skill

Alas Dipper it wont be this week.