Punting when you want to, but dont actually feel like it.

[lovemachine]

I often want to go for a punt but this doesnt always coinside with me really feeling up for it,but once there the mood will kick in.For this reason I dont like pre booked appointments.
what do you guys do,not bother or punt anyway.

[PLeisure]

er, No.....
Why ??? 

[uutarn]

The title is an oxymoron.
If you don't feel like it, why are you wanting to punt?

[threechilliman]

I feel like shagging every day, so the problem doesn't arise for me. The real problem is resisting the urge to punt.

tcm

[cueball]

I want to podge em all. Trouble is my bank balance, energy levels and sanity dictate the limit.

Booking in advance is easy for me, barring illness I'll certainly be in the mood to podge her when the door opens 

[lovemachine]

The reason for me not feeling like it is Im doing quite an intensive gym training program which leaves me tired and sore most of the time,but I still want to,especially after seeing all the lycra clad beauties wiggling their bums on the gym machines.

[vw]

I often want to go for a punt but this doesnt always coinside with me really feeling up for it,but once there the mood will kick in.For this reason I dont like pre booked appointments.
what do you guys do,not bother or punt anyway.

I only punt when I want to and for that reason most booking enquires include the required time as "As soon as possible"  . 

Works for me, but do much research and prep work before hand so have identified a prossie for most scenarios.

the advantage of same day is you know exactly what you are in the mood for and something you might not fancy days in advance.

[Buttons]

I'm having the opposite problem. I have the funds, I want to punt (a treat to myself for a recent promotion) but there are no escorts in my area that I want to see.

Plenty of good ones around, but I am setting myself a rule this time that it must be a new escort.

I'll sort something though.

[Stiltskin]

I have this problem and that's why I don't really do advance bookings. Some days I wake up and can't be arsed with all the hassle that goes along with it. Other days wild horses wouldn't stop me.

[Madone1]

I very rarely make pre bookings more then a day in advance normally if I'm horny have the cash and the time I will go for it. But if I don't want a punt I would much rather save the money and effort until I do.

 It sounds like you are just going through the motions give punting a rest for a month or two get your mojo back.

[Arley Hall]

I must admit there are times when I have a very dysfunctional relationship with punting. I've texted girls in the morning and actually been quite relieved when they didn't respond by the afternoon when I was 'hoping' to see them. It's almost as though I'm 'schizophrenic' - there's one side of me that's urging me not to miss opportunities to fuck new nubile girls - and another side of me that would really just prefer a quiet life.

Philip Larkin puts it well in his poem "Wants" .....

"Beyond all this, the wish to be alone:
However the sky grows dark with invitation-cards
However we follow the printed directions of sex
However the family is photographed under the flag-staff -
Beyond all this, the wish to be alone.

Beneath it all, the desire for oblivion runs:
Despite the artful tensions of the calendar,
The life insurance, the tabled fertility rites,
The costly aversion of the eyes away from death -
Beneath it all, the desire for oblivion runs."

I feel that "desire for oblivion" very often - but maybe I'm just weird.

[DG]

I almost always book in advance and am therefore always looking forward to and up for it. Sometimes when I don't have a booking in the next 3 or 4 days I might get the urge and look around, but if I can't find someone suitable within an hour or so, I start to realise I don't really need it as I've got a great meet organised in a few days and I want to be fighting fit for it; nothing worse than a wasted load followed by the inability to perform well with one of your favourite girls 

[YorkshireLad]

I would punt everyday if I had the money.

[OakTree]

I have this problem and that's why I don't really do advance bookings. Some days I wake up and can't be arsed with all the hassle that goes along with it. Other days wild horses wouldn't stop me.

Im pretty much the same. I've found sexual urges impossible to plan or predict therefore I book on a when I need basis.

[cat1144]

I would punt everyday if I had the money.

+1

 

Yip I'm with you

To ensure I dont go bankrupt and can pay my mortgage, go on holidays, pay into the pension, etc..I only punt once a month

if I had the ££, I'd be punting everyday 

[Anadin]

I find that when I'm absolutely up for it I can't find anyone as incalls are basically done to the girls schedule and they can't always accommodate me. I've occasionally punted when I don't really want to as it's a now or never situation. Ultimately if I had the money for outcalls and agency girls I suspect I'd be much happier.

[mrfishyfoo]

I would punt everyday if I had the money.

+1

Always thinking with my dick. Just wish I could get me a GF that thought with her fanny all the time and then I would be in heaven.

[Sonny Crockett]

I would punt everyday if I had the money.

Same for me. Also enthusiasm is key. That would make the difference between having a good time and a great time.

[Edward Trotter]

I only punt when I want to and for that reason most booking enquires include the required time as "As soon as possible"  . 

Works for me, but do much research and prep work before hand so have identified a prossie for most scenarios.

the advantage of same day is you know exactly what you are in the mood for and something you might not fancy days in advance.

My approach too. I've sometimes made a booking a couple of days before and thought about it so much that by the time I've come round to it I've gone off the idea. Sad I know but unfortunately that's how my kind works. I find that the best thing to rekindle my libido is to go away on business for a week or so, preferably abroad where I don't know the punting situation, and by the time I'm back home I'm chomping at the bit and anything goes. It seems to 'reset' my libido or punting body clock for a few weeks. Most of the time these days I go for "as soon as possible" so as to take advantage of the fact that I'm feeling horny right there and then.

[Sonny Crockett]

That is the disadvantage of booking punts in advance. Come the day of the meet, you may no longer be in the mood and have a crap time.

[vw]

That is the disadvantage of booking punts in advance. Come the day of the meet, you may no longer be in the mood and have a crap time.

Yes but it is simple enough to cancel the right way, ll these prossies get you to confirm on the morning of the punt so you can easily pull out then without any upset !

Well they think it is also acceptable to cancel then according tot many UKE posts so in all reality no such thing as advance bookings just blind faith !

[peter purves]

I must admit there are times when I have a very dysfunctional relationship with punting. I've texted girls in the morning and actually been quite relieved when they didn't respond by the afternoon when I was 'hoping' to see them. It's almost as though I'm 'schizophrenic' - there's one side of me that's urging me not to miss opportunities to fuck new nubile girls - and another side of me that would really just prefer a quiet life.

Philip Larkin puts it well in his poem "Wants" .....

"Beyond all this, the wish to be alone:
However the sky grows dark with invitation-cards
However we follow the printed directions of sex
However the family is photographed under the flag-staff -
Beyond all this, the wish to be alone.

Beneath it all, the desire for oblivion runs:
Despite the artful tensions of the calendar,
The life insurance, the tabled fertility rites,
The costly aversion of the eyes away from death -
Beneath it all, the desire for oblivion runs."

I feel that "desire for oblivion" very often - but maybe I'm just weird.

This is an excellent post!

Been there many times, the relief instead of outrage for a booking not answered   

[Fututor]

My first punt, five years ago, was simply out of a combination of curiosity allied with a diminishing sex life at home. But having opened Pandora's box (actually she was an Eastern European called "Chantel" but I digress...) it quickly became compulsive.

However after a couple of heady years I realised I was often just punting because I could. It had become expensive and although there was still an underlying thrill it had lost much of its lustre. I took 12 months off.

Then, realising that I could ward off the compulsion simply by having a wank and save myself, and my cash, for a few high quality outings based on good research was something of a revelation (surprisingly enough) but that balance has kept me at this hobby a lot longer than I'd expected. I'm probably happier with a few punts with a good regular these days than I was in my "honeymoon" phase when I was seemingly trying to fuck the every EE agency girl in London...