What percentage of escort clients are narcissists?

[Kelgon85]

Yes I do feel entitled to sex with hot women because I am considered attractive and take care of myself in terms of keeping fit. When a hot civvie girl rejects me I just laugh because I know I could just pay for a girl even better looking than her. So I guess I am a narcissist. I used to take rejection personally and feel depressed about it now I don’t care. The way certain women behave I feel like they deserve to get objectified and used for sex.

That..............really doesn't make sense.

[Thephoenix]

I can relate to lee.

I turned up for example the other night to a dance event salsa and bachata. I was the most muscular guy in the place, this coupled with extreme narcissism I felt entitled to dance will all the hot girls there.

Some girls danced with me but not all of them. Some refused to dance with me and danced with men that are not attractive instead 

I think Donald trump has very similar personality traits, is extreme levels of narcissism. Narcissists do tend to be special people on the whole though. Elon musk for instance is another narcissist and he is the richest man in the world.

There are pros and cons to this personality trait. When you have big ego it forces you to achieve more to keep up with the ego.

Eddie hall is another example of a massive narcissist and he won the worlds strongest man in 2017.

Are you serious?


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[southcoastpunter]

although the thread hasnt been that enlightening, discussing personality traits of punters is potentially interesting, as ever if you dont find something interesting just move on, the usual suspects jump in with their schoolboy abuse.

and you of course are always very respectful to everyone else!! right!

i try to respect other peoples opinion even though i might disagree with them but this is a question and a plain stupid one imo. none of us can possibly know the answer - yes you can speculate but you might as well speculate on the colour of the Lochness Monster!

[Alexmck]

Is there a thread on the proportion of escorts that come across or are narcissistic/have traits and whether this is changing over time?

Thought there was but might have imagined it after a few too many whiskies

[PilotMan]

I can relate to lee.

I turned up for example the other night to a dance event salsa and bachata. I was the most muscular guy in the place, this coupled with extreme narcissism I felt entitled to dance will all the hot girls there.

Some girls danced with me but not all of them. Some refused to dance with me and danced with men that are not attractive instead 

I think Donald trump has very similar personality traits, is extreme levels of narcissism. Narcissists do tend to be special people on the whole though. Elon musk for instance is another narcissist and he is the richest man in the world.

Both lookers, just like you I'm sure 

[akauya]

I can relate to lee.

I turned up for example the other night to a dance event salsa and bachata. I was the most muscular guy in the place, this coupled with extreme narcissism I felt entitled to dance will all the hot girls there.

Some girls danced with me but not all of them. Some refused to dance with me and danced with men that are not attractive instead 

I think Donald trump has very similar personality traits, is extreme levels of narcissism. Narcissists do tend to be special people on the whole though. Elon musk for instance is another narcissist and he is the richest man in the world.

There are pros and cons to this personality trait. When you have big ego it forces you to achieve more to keep up with the ego.

Eddie hall is another example of a massive narcissist and he won the worlds strongest man in 2017.

I also dance salsa and bachata (and cumbia for my sins) why some girls refuse to dance with you may have nothing to do with you being muscular or good/bad looking - if you're a shit dancer they just won't want to dance with you.

No matter how unattractive a man is, if he's a good dancer girls will flock to them.

Personally I haven't really seen many muscular guys being great dancers (and I've been dancing for many years) most brilliant dancers are slim and nimble.

[willie loman]

I also dance salsa and bachata (and cumbia for my sins) why some girls refuse to dance with you may have nothing to do with you being muscular or good/bad looking - if you're a shit dancer they just won't want to dance with you.

No matter how unattractive a man is, if he's a good dancer girls will flock to them.

Personally I haven't really seen many muscular guys being great dancers (and I've been dancing for many years) most brilliant dancers are slim and nimble.

muscular guys tend to be crap dancers, they are a bit stiff, oddly enough fat birds are often good dancers.

[marc_hotsteppa]

I can relate to lee.

Who's Lee?

[Doc Holliday]

I also dance salsa and bachata (and cumbia for my sins) why some girls refuse to dance with you may have nothing to do with you being muscular or good/bad looking -

Yes there may be other reasons

It can be embarrassing though, sometimes I take tadalafil before I go to salsa dance classes. If there is a hot girl I can get rock hard boners which is embarrassing!

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[hairdownthere]

I can relate to lee.

I turned up for example the other night to a dance event salsa and bachata. I was the most muscular guy in the place, this coupled with extreme narcissism I felt entitled to dance will all the hot girls there.

Some girls danced with me but not all of them. Some refused to dance with me and danced with men that are not attractive instead 

I think Donald trump has very similar personality traits, is extreme levels of narcissism. Narcissists do tend to be special people on the whole though. Elon musk for instance is another narcissist and he is the richest man in the world.

There are pros and cons to this personality trait. When you have big ego it forces you to achieve more to keep up with the ego.

Eddie hall is another example of a massive narcissist and he won the worlds strongest man in 2017.

There is nothing funnier than seeing a muscled guy trying to do nimble moves.

[mills_and_bhuna]

Jeez. If Mumsnetters ever take a notion to troll this site , this particular thread is going to be like a magnet :lol:I
I still can't decide if the OP is trolling or is on the spectrum

[Doc Holliday]

I still can't decide if the OP is trolling or is on the spectrum

Neither can I. I have always given him the benefit of the doubt and leaned towards the latter, but I am beginning to have doubts?

As I posted earlier we have been here before https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=390082.msg3964014#msg3964014

[nombre]

Punters seek out prossie services for a variety of reasons, and it's not appropriate to assume that all punters who use these services exhibit narcissistic traits.

[Lou2019]

Neither can I. I have always given him the benefit of the doubt and leaned towards the latter, but I am beginning to have doubts?

As I posted earlier we have been here before https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=390082.msg3964014#msg3964014

I’m very aware that ND presents itself in many forms, however that certainly didn’t cross my mind with this particular individual. He does as I think we’ve established from his postings has many narcissistic traits (overinflated ego and self importance for example). It does seem unusual (and only going on experience here having dated a couple of them unfortunately), to almost be proud of the fact that he has these traits. You would think one would be in denial about being it not bragging.

[Lou2019]

Punters seek out prossie services for a variety of reasons, and it's not appropriate to assume that all punters who use these services exhibit narcissistic traits.

Where was it assumed that ALL punters exhibit narcissistic traits? I’ve never met one in a professional capacity.

[Iamforreal]

Yes there may be other reasons

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I find this very strange, why would someone take taldafil before going to dance?

[Doc Holliday]

I’m very aware that ND presents itself in many forms, however that certainly didn’t cross my mind with this particular individual. He does as I think we’ve established from his postings has many narcissistic traits (overinflated ego and self importance for example). It does seem unusual (and only going on experience here having dated a couple of them unfortunately), to almost be proud of the fact that he has these traits. You would think one would be in denial about being it not bragging.

I agree.

Frequently yes that is the case. Treatment of NPD is difficult and complex and the first hurdle is admitting it is actually a problem. I think that this has also been mentioned before. I seriously doubt he has NPD?

If however he is not just trolling, and taking into account we are anonymous individuals on the internet, it does appear he may have an undiagnosed personality disorder affecting how he views relationships.

[akauya]

I also dance salsa and bachata (and cumbia for my sins) why some girls refuse to dance with you may have nothing to do with you being muscular or good/bad looking

Yes there may be other reasons

It can be embarrassing though, sometimes I take tadalafil before I go to salsa dance classes. If there is a hot girl I can get rock hard boners which is embarrassing!

I forgot about that, thanks for fishing that gem out Doc. If that's true I can only imagine how horrified girls must be at the look of a beefcake approaching them with a raging hard-on on the dance floor! 

But joking aside, this is worse than I thought.

Latin American dances are very sexy. Bachata in particular is a very sensual dance and can get extremely close and personal - unfortunately it attracts creeps like this guy who ruin it for the rest of us who just want to enjoy a beautiful dance with other people.

For anyone who doesn't know what bachata is like, have a look at this:

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At dance lessons, the teachers make it very, very clear the personal boundaries one must not cross. Men in particular are taught how to position their body so they don't grind against their dance partner, even though the dance is very intimate. The sensual bachata (as oposed to the 'open' bachata) is only done with people you know and trust. If what this guy says it's true (taking taladafil before gong to dance lessons) he's a danger to women and he should be expelled from lessons.

[GoodLookinGuy]

I can relate to lee.

Narcissists do tend to be special people on the whole though.

Well yes if you consider Hitler "special"......Ultimately they are always unhappy as the grandiose delusion always collapses and eventually people figure them out for what they are and leave them. Many are in chronic debt (obviously not Elon I guess) due to having to spend beyond their means to try to appear to live up to their fantasy of themselves.

[Colston36]

In this sense a cad is someone who has lots of sex with different civvies - often by immoral means like tricking them into thinking if they spread they'll have a relationship.
Casanova is maybe the most famous example.

While a cad  would often be a chad, the reverse is not true.
E.g.  a sex mad chad might be a punter saint - as he's too good to break lots of lasses hearts, which he might have to do even if he wanted to get lots of variety for free. (Granted, promiscuous civvy lasses do exist, but even with hook up culture & apps, not always easy for even a chad to link up with in the desired quantity, depending on location, how much time he has for the chase, etc.) 
Or a regular chad might be a normie in a faithful relationship, just partnered with a high tier civvie.

If you actually read Casanova's memoirs - which are fascinating - you will conclude he did nothing of the sort.

[Doc Holliday]

For anyone who doesn't know what bachata is like ...

I thought it was perhaps an Italian bread 

[PilotMan]

For anyone who doesn't know what bachata is like, have a look at this:

I thought it was perhaps an Italian bread 

I thought it was a little Fiat sports car 



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[standardpostage]

I thought the title, referred to escort clients, who grew flowers : narcissus 

[RandomGuy99]

I thought the title, referred to escort clients, who grew flowers : narcissus 

[Moby Dick]

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