Lasting longer

[sadolddeejay]

One of the side effects of many antidepressants is loss of libido so recommending taking them to last longer probably not a good idea unless the libido is off the scale.

[Deeeazy]

And that wins the most stupid and potentially dangerous piece of advice post

Really mate why the fuck would you advise someone to lie about their mental health to be prescribed with drugs that may or may not help but are likely to make his mental health actually suffer for real because he doesn't need them and may be addictive

You need help 

Or get addicted. Rather cum in 5 mins to be honest.

[The man]

I was very lucky in my teens to come across a copy of a sex manual, following instructions and plenty of solo practise I've always (bar two disastrous punts) been able to last a long time, easily 20mins to an hour and cum when I choose to (the timing usually depending on how long I've booked a punt for).The book recommended two things: Lots of kegels, squeezing the muscles that stop you peeing, 100 fast reps followed by a 30 second long hold, do this every day. Secondly masturbate or have sex nearly every day, (I think the next bit sounds like edging) when you feel the sap rising stop and squeeze those kegel muscles until the feeling passes (masturbating or during penetration), then continue and repeat each time until you've done 3 to 5 stops. Now for the hardest part, dont allow yourself to cum after those stops, you're only supposed to cum once a month! Perhaps a bit extreme, maybe try once a week instead. I put in lots of solo practise as a teenager and then I didn't have to practise it once I was having sex as i always felt I could then control when to cum. The other thing it also said was not to try and distract yourself from cumming, be aware of sensations so you know when to slow down and stop/pause.

[winkywanky]

Want to last longer? Go to your Doctor...tell him/her how modern life is getting you down and/or you never want to get outta bed most days. Diagnosis ....depression...solution (maybe not) anti- depressants. Take for a few weeks....you'll last hours....potentially
..

I'm assuming you're joking, but beware, there might be one or two on here thick enough to take you seriously and give it a try  .

[theejaculator]

And that wins the most stupid and potentially dangerous piece of advice post

Really mate why the fuck would you advise someone to lie about their mental health to be prescribed with drugs that may or may not help but are likely to make his mental health actually suffer for real because he doesn't need them and may be addictive

You need help 

Jesus calm down..I wasnt recommending asking for anti psychotic medication from the doctor!!!

I think that Priligy is effectively an anti depressant...or SSRI inhibitor

[theejaculator]

I'm assuming you're joking, but beware, there might be one or two on here thick enough to take you seriously and give it a try  .

Well point taken...kind of...but I'm not going to self censor on UKP of all forums just because of the hard of thinking 

[millbush]

Jesus calm down..I wasnt recommending asking for anti psychotic medication from the doctor!!!

I think that Priligy is effectively an anti depressant...or SSRI inhibitor

It's not an antidepressant it is an SSRI inhibitor,as always though take my advice with caution I'm just a pretend doctor 

[winkywanky]

Well point taken...kind of...but I'm not going to self censor on UKP of all forums just because of the hard of thinking 

Who's the one that's hard of thinking, if you propose people get hold of anti-depressants illegitimately to 'enhance their sex lives'?

Only a complete fuckwit would say such a thing.

You can refuse to self-sensor the contents of your head all you like, but you can also expect to get called out for talking complete bollocks  .

[winkywanky]

Jesus calm down..I wasnt recommending asking for anti psychotic medication from the doctor!!!

I think that Priligy is effectively an anti depressant...or SSRI inhibitor

It's not an antidepressant it is an SSRI inhibitor,as always though take my advice with caution I'm just a pretend doctor 

I can see you two are going to have a lot of fun together, I think I'll just leave you both to it  .

[Itzmurph]

Ok oldish thread but I was doing a bit of searching and came across it.

I can vouch antidepressants do indeed stop you cumming easily but bloody hell what a way to do it. I was on citralopram at one point and could go for hours (as so to say). I think I’d rather not be able to climax than gush in 20 seconds and all desire goes but we sometimes don’t have a choice.
After a later bout of depression I was put on Certraline.
Both have potentially ridiculous side affects including suicidal thoughts at first and heart palpitations/racing. I ended up in a&e due to this and the ward nurse after asking if I was taking any meds, as soon as she heard certraline she knew the cause.

I won’t lie, if you really need them they can be a life saver after a few weeks when they kick in. They aren’t to be messed with tho IMO.

Wish I could help with PE, I get it myself. As it’s linked to seratonin I wonder if necking some strong dark chocolate would help (no idea, I just thought of that). Another possibility having a few vodkas is a non starter if driving to a punt obviously.
I suspect walking from the pub to a massage place would earn you short shrift smelling of drink.

I’ve heard taking Levitra can help and having a strong storker is no detriment. May try that one day 

[Handel2020]

I have had the PE problem for most of my adult life. The SSRI thing is interesting but these drugs can also reduce your sex drive. Someone mentioned retracting foreskin during sex earlier but this makes no difference for me. I know there are masturbation exercises but they have to be done regularly and I am not convinced they work if you are conditioned enough to get over excited / anxious. My PE went away when I was punting a lot in my 20s. At that time I felt like I could see any WG and last a decent amount of time.

I feel like this issue robs you of good experiences with sex. The reason I enjoyed parties when I went to them is I could get aroused multiple times in 2 hours and would last longer each time. And I could take a break and chat to other guys between session which took my mind off the stuation. In fact my best memories with WGs are probably from parties for that very reason.

[Rochelle]

I use Durex Extra Safe condoms and put two on. I can last ages!
I bought some extra thick condoms off amazon too - they work as well.
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That's just silly.

[Doc Holliday]

That's just silly.

Exceedingly.  Never double up with condoms.

[barrynoid]

I suffer from PE, especially when I'm not having sex regularly. I have been using Priligy for a year or so when I punt and I find it very effective. I have to say that the first dose I took floored me, which is common apparently, but subsequent doses have been fine. There is a certain amount of "hangover" afterwards including headaches but the control I gain and the fact that I enjoy the punts much more out ways this. I only see 4 or 5 girls a year so there are big gaps between me taking it, not sure I'd want to take it every week.

[winkywanky]

That's just silly.

Exceedingly.  Never double up with condoms.

Very true, you could end up vulcanising your cock with all the extra heat and friction.

[Don-Pedro]

I had a REAL PE problem.  0.5-1 minute.
Tried everything. Including meditation, priligy etc. None of these worked.
But found the cure.
Emla salve.
Use 30 minutes prior to intercourse. Wash off before start. Works prefect.
I can do 30 minutes. Depends really on how much you put on your penis.

[winkywanky]

But can you actually feel anything?

[Don-Pedro]

But can you actually feel anything?

I finally cum, so...
Apply only on the bottom of the foreskin and appropriate amount (need to experiment 2/3 times)
Wash off. Worst case you will get back the feel in 20-30 minutes.
For me this is the only solution that works and I find pleasure in longer punt although some feel i obviously damped a little.

[winkywanky]

Didn't mean to be a damp squib, whatever works for you is just great 

[Deeeazy]

I had a REAL PE problem.  0.5-1 minute.
Tried everything. Including meditation, priligy etc. None of these worked.
But found the cure.
Emla salve.
Use 30 minutes prior to intercourse. Wash off before start. Works prefect.
I can do 30 minutes. Depends really on how much you put on your penis.

Can still get hard ? Lol

[Handel2020]

I finally cum, so...
Apply only on the bottom of the foreskin and appropriate amount (need to experiment 2/3 times)
Wash off. Worst case you will get back the feel in 20-30 minutes.
For me this is the only solution that works and I find pleasure in longer punt although some feel i obviously damped a little.

I guess OWO is out of the question if you have used this cream or she will end up with a numb mouth?

[Convince Me]

I guess OWO is out of the question if you have used this cream or she will end up with a numb mouth?

Good question. Was thinking the same myself.

[Don-Pedro]

You must remove it with water and soap.
Never heard complain

[Marmalade]

One of the great advantages of pre-Internet, before posh-little-Adultwork-upthemselves hookers, and definitely before we had to give them all fancy little ladylike names, is being able to disconnect from the fantasy. And it worked exactly the same for civvies, like the slag you went home with last night from some lowlife pick-up joint and shagged her arse in her stinking council estate tip. Just as the point of no return starts to arise, focus on that dirty great spider on the ceiling, the filthy fag butts on her dresser, or the annoying sound of cheap plywood headboard banging off her fucking wall. Only for a second or two. Dirtbag delay: works nearly every time. 

[PepeMAGA]

Citalopram definitely delays things. I took it when I was younger and it pretty much made it impossible to come...but was hard enough to bang in nails.

I've tried viagra in the past to try and reduce the time it takes me to come, but it had the opposite effect, so that might be a safe option. think the effect varies between different people.

[Handel2020]

One of the great advantages of pre-Internet, before posh-little-Adultwork-upthemselves hookers, and definitely before we had to give them all fancy little ladylike names, is being able to disconnect from the fantasy. And it worked exactly the same for civvies, like the slag you went home with last night from some lowlife pick-up joint and shagged her arse in her stinking council estate tip. Just as the point of no return starts to arise, focus on that dirty great spider on the ceiling, the filthy fag butts on her dresser, or the annoying sound of cheap plywood headboard banging off her fucking wall. Only for a second or two. Dirtbag delay: works nearly every time.

There's something in this. For example when having a tommy tank I could use this and it would work. However, when someone else is doing the business for me I could think of anything bad and it would have little effect. But then I am an extreme case.

[bossanova]

I'm hoping that all the exercise I'm doing in lockdown has an effect on my fitness and performance!

(and the not wanking as much)