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Offline Auron

Interesting point just made by one of the chaps when commenting on my review. Whats the general consensus on pre wank before a punt , did it once and ended up cancelling my punt , thoughts please  :hi:

Online RandomGuy99

If I have a pre-wank then I won't cum on the booking. It really depends what you want from the booking e.g. bang away for an hour or two with no cum or cum on the booking.

Offline Silverrocket

As one of the older generation not wanting to cum too soon,I will have a wank the day before.This seems to work for me,nothing worse than having a build up of cum then cumming as soon as the masseuse starts the HE.

Offline bonham

If I have cum before a punt thers no way I feel like paying £150 for a shag.
Or enythink for a massage.
Ideally I like it to be at least 5 days

Offline alabama1

As one of the older generation not wanting to cum too soon,I will have a wank the day before.This seems to work for me,nothing worse than having a build up of cum then cumming as soon as the masseuse starts the HE.

Lucky you. I thought that was only a problem for the younger generation.  :D
« Last Edit: March 19, 2023, 04:59:52 pm by alabama1 »

Offline badsin

Never done it, think I'd cancel if I did  :hi:

Online Stevelondon

Last thing on my mind if I’m going punting to be honest. I like going in full of anticipation and longing. Not wanting to last longer (is that the reason for a pre punt wank)

Maybe it’s different for me (and others I suspect) cos I like the overall experience rather than just shagging for as long as I can.
Funny how things change as you get older.  :D

Online Dipper

20 years ago maybe.

These days no chance otherwise I’ll struggle keeping hard, and possibly cumming at all if I unloaded too close to the punt day.

It’s a fine balancing act for me. Too close to the punt then a struggle to pop/stay hard. But if I go too long with a big backlog like many I can pop way too early.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2023, 06:09:19 pm by Dipper »

Offline bonham

It's abit like shaging your wife then going straight out and paying for a shag.
I wouldn't even have done that in my 20s  :lol:

Offline jamiekinkxxx

Why would you ever consider it? 100% never in my own case

Online Dipper

Why would you ever consider it? 100% never in my own case

In the hope of lasting a bit longer.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

In the hope of lasting a bit longer.

Juts have a wank in that case and save the cash, or ensure you meet a girl that doesn't have a one pop limit

Online Dipper

Juts have a wank in that case and save the cash, or ensure you meet a girl that doesn't have a one pop limit

Not quite the same as a fuck though. As discussed above it’s not something I do now anyway.

I’ve never been more than a one pop merchant, Splash and dash only. I’ve neither the time, money or inclination to lengthen bookings.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2023, 08:41:02 pm by Dipper »

Offline jamiekinkxxx

Not quite the same as a fuck though. As discussed above it’s not something I do now anyway.

I’ve never been more than a one pop merchant, Splash and dash only. I’ve neither the time, money or inclination to lengthen bookings.

Fair enough  :thumbsup:

Online Stevelondon

Not quite the same as a fuck though. As discussed above it’s not something I do now anyway.

I’ve never been more than a one pop merchant, Splash and dash only. I’ve neither the time, money or inclination to lengthen bookings.

Its why we are all different. I have loads of time, a bit of dosh and lots of inclination.  :D
A dash is what I sometimes ask for in a pint.  :D

Offline Handel2020

I have done this in the past due to premature ejaculation. In some cases it caused me to cancel a punt or not to book at all. I am in my forties now and would be careful of doing it as I tried it not long ago and couldn't get hard during a punt. How the WG managed to get me off at all is a mystery.

Offline big-al93

have tried a few times wanking but not to completion, but usually go too far. :cry:

Offline Herts_Outcaller

Normally I jerk off once a day, but with punting, I abstain for 24-72 hours before. Makes sure I'm ready to go when the moment comes

Offline Spamhead75

I think I now know if one is needed pre-punt or not.  If I'm seeing an SP for the first time definitely abstain for at least a day as the temptation is to cancel and with such limited choices these days you cannot narrow it further by cancelling and then risk not getting another booking with her.

However,  a pre-punt wank before seeing my regular SP last time worked well enabling me  to not feel like I'm about to cum as soon as I start fucking her. So I will be trying that method again next time.

Offline Markc

I normally wank every day to pornhub, Onlytease and OnlyFans website. When planning a punt l normally
don’t cum for a about 4 days before so l can give the escort a good load. Last week l was with a regular and
l hadn’t cum for 5 days before and while we where kissing and she was playing with my cock she commented
on how hard l was. At the end of the session l delivered a large load in her mouth which she swallowed.

Offline Kool Keef

I have a wank when i'm trying to resist the temptation to punt.
Been happening a lot lately with the cost of living crisis  :(

Offline versace

I normally have 2-4 days of abstinence before a punt and that works the best for me. I’ve had a wank hours before seeing a girl and I ended up not being able to cum at the punt.

Offline Generalstockinghead

If I have a pre wank now then I’m odds on no going out to play.  I’m far more likely to take a V and that makes me last the hour or so before I cum.  Sometimes even leaves me loaded for a round 2 with another SP if I’m still in the zone.

Terrible heartburn though

Offline Adoniron

I never do it. I'm more likely to abstain for 1 or 2 days beforehand.

Offline Handel2020

I just remembered this came up in another thread. One punter said he would always abstain before a punt if he was seeing a WG for the first time because she might be providing a bad service or he might not be into her. His logic was that you are better off to be able to get your money's worth by getting hard even if you don't think the service is great. Seems like a good idea to me.

Online Jamboney

I find a tactical wank a few hours before a punt will help me last longer during round 1. Haven't reach a point yet where doing this affects my ability to get a second round in, fingers crossed that's a few years away.

Offline guymids-72

It was me that made the comment on the OP's review.
I can expand here.
So I've always suffered from a bit of a hair trigger and now due to my age it takes longer to recover.
So on a 30 or 60 minute punt I probably would have shot my load after 10 mins and wasted the next 20/50 mins.
Having a tactical wank 90 mins ahead desensitizes me and I can pretty much control when I cum.
On a longer 90 or 120 min booking with my reg I don't bother with my routine as the longer booking givea me time to recover for round 2

Offline Henry61

Well I'm in my 60's and a pre wank would stop me cumming with the Escort. I try to leave it for a day or 2, so I know I'm going to enjoy myself.

Online Hobbit

Interesting point just made by one of the chaps when commenting on my review. Whats the general consensus on pre wank before a punt , did it once and ended up cancelling my punt , thoughts please  :hi:

Having a prewank is like having a meal before going to a restaurant. What's the point? The best thing to do is not to get too excited or think of something to make you relax.

Online Dipper

Having a prewank is like having a meal before going to a restaurant. What's the point? The best thing to do is not to get too excited or think of something to make you relax.

Easier said than done when you’ve some velvet skinned hottie riding the life out of you.  :D

But I do hear what you’re saying.  :drinks:

Offline versace

Having a prewank is like having a meal before going to a restaurant. What's the point? The best thing to do is not to get too excited or think of something to make you relax.

+1

Offline JonasG

A wank the night before is usually the latest I'll do.

On the day and the mojo to punt will go.

Offline myothernameis

To pre wank or not to wank, guess on my load, and what i have built up, and going to come all over her face, so in this instance, no wank

If it just came down to foreplay and sex, I would probably have a wank, the night before

Offline pantywetter

When I was 20 I would sometimes have a wank 15 minutes before so I could last the whole session.

Now if I wank on the day there would be a risk of not coming or a week erection, especially if I don’t really fancy the girl.  There’s also a risk of cancelling the punt in the post cum clarity.

The day before is probably about right for me so I remain in total control but still enjoy myself.

Offline southern punter

When I was 20 I would sometimes have a wank 15 minutes before so I could last the whole session.

Now if I wank on the day there would be a risk of not coming or a week erection, especially if I don’t really fancy the girl. 

Similar here but it was like I went from 'same-day prewank to make sure I last' to 'avoid previous day wank to make sure I'm fully charged' in the space of a few months.  I cant help wonder if a certain virus might have related

Offline guymids-72

Easier said than done when you’ve some velvet skinned hottie riding the life out of you.  :D

But I do hear what you’re saying.  :drinks:

Easier said than done
If it's a 2 hour meeting with my reg then no need for a pre wank.
But for a 30/60 minute meeting with someone new to me, then I absolutely do and pop half a bluey for insurance. Never lose my mojo and I can enjoy the meet without having to worry about blowing in the first 10 mins

It's not right or wrong just what works

Offline shagmore

No, as I only usually only come once, can hold on ages before coming, think max is nearly 2 hrs of fucking and sucking.
If I was to have a pre-wank, then would be no use at all. The night before not a problem

Offline sim0256

We are all different and two things do make a difference, age and health. mental attitude might also play a part.
A reg I see chatted about this and she said there is no  normal. Some guys are just a one pop person others cannot wait to get the first one over so they can work to the second or even the third!
Anyone seeing a rapid change can probably put it down to a illness of change in mental state, covid might very well be one of those responsible.  I personally was unable even to get an erection for over a year due to cancer treatment and when it did return it was 'dry cum' only for a while . I can still have that and even on a good day there will be very little to clean up!. Docs say I just gotta live with it , sexually I just aged before my time . Thankfully now I have a few I see who understand it may take a while to cum , so a 30 minute session is out but the foreplay is great when the girl knows the situation.
So 'pop' away there lads and remember there is no such thing as usual or normal.

Offline Rockhead

So 'pop' away there lads and remember there is no such thing as usual or normal.

Great post - and thank you for sharing.

For me, a pre-punt wank would be an absolute disaster, other than the fact that I'd almost certainly have no interest in going through with the meeting and would therefore save some money!

As I get back into the hobby (after a lengthy break due to an 'arrangement' and other more boring matters) I'm beginning to wonder if cumming is necessarily the be all and end all, anyway. The intimacy, tease, play and tussle with a hot, naked female can be worth the 'ticket price' alone.

Offline Handel2020

We are all different and two things do make a difference, age and health. mental attitude might also play a part.
A reg I see chatted about this and she said there is no  normal. Some guys are just a one pop person others cannot wait to get the first one over so they can work to the second or even the third!
Anyone seeing a rapid change can probably put it down to a illness of change in mental state, covid might very well be one of those responsible.  I personally was unable even to get an erection for over a year due to cancer treatment and when it did return it was 'dry cum' only for a while .

On the last part I think the body adjusts for the lack of sex and state of mind. I think this is also true of mental state / attitude if there is depression.

The strange thing is I could cum multiple times at parties like LMP years ago, but on a one to one meet I would be very luck if I managed round two. It was purely down to being in my own head and pressuring myself to get hard, or being with other people in a social atmosphere and not feeling the same pressure because my mind was distracted.

Offline camshaft72uk

As has been said,  age, fitness, previous experience as well as just how good the girl is for you,  all effect this.

20-30 years ago would definitely have been a pre punt, maybe even 10 years with some girls.  Would still be a two shot easily,  even if the pre was in the shower at the SP's!

These days don't have the pre punt as only ever had it was to last longer.  Not for being premature ( been lucky in that department),  just to last longer,  especially if the girl really does it for you.

Offline VitIron

It’s a fine balancing act for me. Too close to the punt then a struggle to pop/stay hard. But if I go too long with a big backlog like many I can pop way too early.

What did you find is the right balance for you?

Online Dipper

What did you find is the right balance for you?

I reckon unloading three days prior  is around the sweet spot for me.

Offline Roman77

I think it's very much an age thing. When young (many years ago) and inexperienced if the girl was really hot it was easy to pop twice in an hour, the first time sometimes far too quickly. To last longer a little diy beforehand helped.

As time catches up and everything began to slow down I found the diy unnecessary and got to the stage where I was allowing 2-3 days before a meeting to make it worthwhile.

Everybody is different, age, diet, illness, fitness levels can effect performance. Once you except what makes you happy go with it. There's no hard or fast rule. Just enjoy your time.

Offline VitIron

I reckon unloading three days prior  is around the sweet spot for me.

 :thumbsup:

Offline sirloverman

Edging is the key.

Masturbate until the point of ejaculation and hold back then go again repeat 6 times if you ejaculate by accident keep wanking and stop until hard again. Then drink 2 litres of water.

The water should get you pissing in the next 45 minutes leading to a shorter refractory period.

Online Dipper

Edging is the key.

Masturbate until the point of ejaculation and hold back then go again repeat 6 times if you ejaculate by accident keep wanking and stop until hard again. Then drink 2 litres of water.

The water should get you pissing in the next 45 minutes leading to a shorter refractory period.

What timescale pre punt?

Offline PrimeBritiishBull

Did on my first punt, can’t remember if I use to with a non-punt shag. Mind you there was a number of years between my first punt and my last shag, either way lasted forever. Now my pre-punt routine is just hydration, bigger the arrival the better the feel.

Offline sirloverman

What timescale pre punt?

Edging is good in general. Even on a daily basis.

In regards to pre sex I would do it 3 hours before in a 30 minute session in the shower is also a good option.

Offline Bat

I only started punting this year and have a score of 12 happy meetings so far.

I decided to stop wanking completely as part of this new life and have survived 2 months and 12 days so far 😂

Toughest period was a 17 day holiday recently but the girl I saw on the day after I came home had genuine trouble keeping it all in her mouth after a particularly enjoyable CIM 🙈

In answer to the OP. I was really worried about coming way too quickly on my first punt but, with some effort, managed to survive about 30 mins until the SP looked me in the eyes and said “would you like to face-fuck me now” - that did for me pretty quickly!

Since then I’ve found that holding off from wanking has raised my level of excitement / longing for each punt so, for me, it’s been quite a revelation and a real bonus :)