UK Punting review brought up in a meet

[proton.punter]

Same for me.
Never been contacted back.
Always leave a good gap between the punt and review, and avoid details which may identify you.
Best to keep a low profile.

I always leave a good gap, now have had two punts since my last review, I even have it typed up already.

But..punting with the Mrs has its downsides in being able to post reviews anonymously. Had a couple of SP’s say “first time with a couple” or “don’t see many couples”, making me think they will for sure know it’s me. And being as one may well become a regular it stops me leaving a review I’m afraid.

[hullad]

I had one 'lady' complained about one of my reviews and demanded it was removed. It wasn't she was as my report was spot on poor service, lighting up skunk just after starting and she never put the phone down.

[Steely Dan]

But..punting with the Mrs has its downsides in being able to post reviews anonymously. Had a couple of SP’s say “first time with a couple” or “don’t see many couples”, making me think they will for sure know it’s me. And being as one may well become a regular it stops me leaving a review I’m afraid.

Proton ... you could describe the ease of booking, the location, the escorts appearance (and attitude/language skill) and the basic services (OWO, DFK) and leave out the part about it being a MFF.  I leave out anything that could ID me.  I won't even mention that I normally sing a chorus of 'Ricki don't lose that number.'

[bedhedred]

I won't even mention that I normally sing a chorus of 'Ricki don't lose that number.'
😂

I still haven't done a punt with a 'Dan' soundtrack to it. Must do one soon.

[Malvolio]

Make sure you don't do it without the fez on.

[PLeisure]

I won't even mention that I normally sing a chorus of 'Ricki don't lose that number.'
😂

I still haven't done a punt with a 'Dan' soundtrack to it. Must do one soon.

bhr - any major dude will tell ya'...

[Captainhowdy666]

Had one recently who said she knows about it and said “it’s give good service, get good reviews”

[bedhedred]

bhr - any major dude will tell ya'...

🎵
"I crawl like a viper
Through these suburban streets
Make love to these women
Languid and bittersweet"

"Drink Scotch whiskey 🥃 all night long
And die behind the wheel"🎶

[Bertiebeenthere]

But there is no 'e' in Scotch Whisky

[Stoking]

Only been punting since '11, but due to an early regular thanking me for my positive review I now leave quite a gap before posting a review.

Most girls I've met tend to have some knowledge of this site. With most being good they're very much in favour of reviews.

I had one girl raise it up with me saying how bad this site was, I tried to change subject but when pressed I decided to mention the Derby Peartree mob and the Asian guy going around derby mugging punters and hassling girls. She admitted she never really thought it from that perspective and then said it probably a good idea to stop punters being scammed, B&S and for our safety 😅 small victories eh?

[bedhedred]

Some girl was bitching to me recently about how awful ukp is. I pointed out to her that if it wasn't for ukp, I'd never have heard about her or been inspired to travel the distance out of my area to book her. She had to back down after that.

[Ali Katt]

No I'm too busy shagging.

[Buttons]

I got asked once if I knew of this site. Apparently it’s full of “sad little bastards”. I just said I’d never heard of it and internet geeks don’t interest me 

[KerachiDope]

A few years ago I had an SP ask me if I was on UKP. As a lurker, I knew of the forum but I wasn’t a member then so I quickly told her that I am definitely not into watersports.
She laughed it off and I dodged that question.

[myothernameis]

I got asked once if I knew of this site. Apparently it’s full of “sad little bastards”. I just said I’d never heard of it and internet geeks don’t interest me 

When an escort asks you this, have you heard of UK-punting, we could be truthful.  And have an explanation, so after last weeks booking with escort, and was asked about UK-punting, so you checked the site out

[suttonporksword]

I always deny any knowledge, what's the benefit of revealing what you do outside the 4 walls of the punt? I would be wary of any girls who ask questions about this as they either have had a bad review or something to hide. These days if you are a service provider and you cant handle what's posted online you shouldn't be in that business

[braggy]

My only negative review here was read by  WG or she was informed about it and I was called a sick old man by an aggressive SP some days later by text to my punting number

[Colston36]

Another thing is, try not to get too chatty in a punt. She doesn’t need to know your line of work, your hobbies, your favourite television programme or your previous punting experience. Turn questions round by asking her about herself. Remember that someone who is sweet GFE today may not be sweet GFE tomorrow — especially if she has a prossie friend about who you one day have to give a negative review.

I confess  - I am not in the least careful about what I say. Never had a any trouble as a result. No girl has ever mentioned UKP to me.

[Malvolio]

My only negative review here was read by  WG or she was informed about it and I was called a sick old man by an aggressive SP some days later by text to my punting number

The horror of punting in Croydon - but as you'd clearly never want to see her again, no harm done.  Having a dreadful punt like yours is exactly the experience that needs a negative review to warn off other punters.

[Torqy]

I have only ever had it mentioned once, the SP brought up the fact that she had had a bad review and she was pissed about it, daft, I’d read the review and there were 8 other positives reflecting her service. I just reckon girls are used to compliments and validation, girls are nowhere near as resilient as men when handling rejection.

[JonasG]

Quite a few times for me, between 5-10 I'd say. One even worked out it was my review but she was cool with it and I still see her now.

[Thepacifist]

I never mention UKP and I don’t recall any girls asking me about it. If I give a negative I’ll block their number to try and avoid any hassle.

[onedivergent]

On an occasion I've been told to not trust uk punting and also asked if I use it to review other than adultwor. I was asked as said I read a review of the provider I was seeing Only time I was asked about this.
Some service providers have a valid point I think but this is a punters domain and each experience is to the individual.

[Atrueyorkie]

It always makes me laugh when it gets brought up. Doesn’t happen often and to be fair only got mentioned to me once. The perception that we’re effectively some secret organisation is quite comical when anyone can join. Plus the perception were equal to hitlers men because were evil 

Of course a few are twats but to expect a whole community of human beings to be spotless is not gonna happen. I think the vast majority are alright

It’s such a balanced place which gives proper reviews I’m honestly confused why the site is demonised by SP’s. Plus we give them traffic, is it not a win for both sides?

[Home Alone]

It always makes me laugh when it gets brought up. Doesn’t happen often and to be fair only got mentioned to me once. The perception that we’re effectively some secret organisation is quite comical when anyone can join. Plus the perception were equal to hitlers men because were evil 

Of course a few are twats but to expect a whole community of human beings to be spotless is not gonna happen. I think the vast majority are alright

It’s such a balanced place which gives proper reviews I’m honestly confused why the site is demonised by SP’s. Plus we give them traffic, is it not a win for both sides?

Ah, but doesn't it go back to Torqy's comment above - #Soixante-neuf as it happens! - that "girls are nowhere near as resilient as men when handling rejection."?

A bit of a generalisation, maybe; but with at least a germ of truth at its core. Nobody - male or female - is going to object to being told they're doing their job very well.

Without wishing to be too sexist, I can remember when I got a promotion in my Day Job, my new Line Manager advising me always to look for at least something positive to find in the performance of female staff when appraisal time came around, whereas the assumption was that male staff could take unvarnished criticism.

[nwluvit]

Ah, but doesn't it go back to Torqy's comment above - #Soixante-neuf as it happens! - that "girls are nowhere near as resilient as men when handling rejection."?

A bit of a generalisation, maybe; but with at least a germ of truth at its core. Nobody - male or female - is going to object to being told they're doing their job very well.

Without wishing to be too sexist, I can remember when I got a promotion in my Day Job, my new Line Manager advising me always to look for at least something positive to find in the performance of female staff when appraisal time came around, whereas the assumption was that male staff could take unvarnished criticism.

So what did you tell them? Come on love, you need to do better than that. (negative comment).  But, on the plus side your tits look great in that blouse!!

[Home Alone]

With the number of feminists in that office, I was the soul of tact & diplomacy!

[LLPunting]

With the number of feminists in that office, I was the soul of tact & diplomacy!

"You look marvellous today, that outfit fits so well, love the colours and cut, where did you get it?  My darling Maureen would love it!
Now let's talk about how you've been doing this month..."   

[Blackpool Rock]

"You look marvellous today, that outfit fits so well, love the colours and cut, where did you get it?  My darling Maureen would love it!
Now let's talk about how you've been doing this month..."   

I would think that would get you a disciplinary in HR 

[blend57]

I had what seemed like a bad run on here where girls were also members and came on saying they wanted the reviews removed or altered etc, i'm sure there were more than 2 but the ones I can remember weren't even Negatives and 1 was even a glowing Positive 

I think it is only the moderators who can remove a review so it is pointless for a SP to ask a punter. Generally the moderators do it when a review breaks the rules. However, I think the moderators do remove reviews, posts and threads for other reasons.

[Ali Katt]

I think it is only the moderators who can remove a review so it is pointless for a SP to ask a punter. Generally the moderators do it when a review breaks the rules. However, I think the moderators do remove reviews, posts and threads for other reasons.

The last one I did was a fake review by a pimp. Review stayed up, but it got changed to a negative and was titled white knight review. Reviews are virtually never removed, escorts and punters can complain as much as they want.

[pbrown355]

The site would be pointless if we could all post and remove reviews at will.

[Sheraton]

once had a SP call me within 60 mins of posting a review of a punt  I had earlier in the day.  Many SPs review this site so I would advise to leave a reasonable gap between punt and revew

[Kelgon85]

I've only ever been to one who's bought this website up before. She was complaining about a negative review she had because she had to cancel an appointment because of a death in the family and the punter gave her a negative before he knew the reason why she cancelled.

[Atrueyorkie]

I've only ever been to one who's bought this website up before. She was complaining about a negative review she had because she had to cancel an appointment because of a death in the family and the punter gave her a negative before he knew the reason why she cancelled.

Ehhh I don’t wanna be a dick but that’s a common excuse. You can’t question it as well so it’s a perfectly valid reason to cancel.

Condolences to the relevant party if it’s genuine of course.

I’ve used the move in my civvy life because I didn’t wanna speak someone in particular anymore 

[Typhoonlagoon85]

Just had a message about a review I left. What is wrong with some people on here. They obviously told this woman but yet hasn’t contributed to the cause. It’s starting to put me off leaving reviews now if there is a backlash to it. Whoever it is sort yourself out ffs. You get no more telling these girls about this site 

[daviemac]

Just had a message about a review I left. What is wrong with some people on here. They obviously told this woman but yet hasn’t contributed to the cause. It’s starting to put me off leaving reviews now if there is a backlash to it. Whoever it is sort yourself out ffs. You get no more telling these girls about this site 

How do you know someone on here told the SP and she didn't just read it herself? and how would the SP know who you are to message you unless you told her your name on here.   

Edit

Just had a look and you're putting the time of the booking on the review, no wonder they can link the review to you.

BTW you putting the time it was on adds no value at all.

[southcoastpunter]

edit - taken out as Daviemac put pretty much what i was going to say

[Typhoonlagoon85]

How do you know someone on here told the SP and she didn't just read it herself? and how would the SP know who you are to message you unless you told her your name on here.   

Edit

Just had a look and you're putting the time of the booking on the review, no wonder they can link the review to you.

BTW you putting the time it was on the review adds no value at all.

Yea that’s a thought 🤦‍♂️ But someone did actually tell this person tbh. I don’t think it’s even the time as it was months ago it’s just the fact it was a terrible meet and giving to much info isn’t a great thing as I singled myself out . I’ll learn by my mistakes.

[Handel2020]

I had heard that one WG was already aware of UKPunting and had supposedly contacted someone after he left a review. For that reason I mentioned UKPunting to her, and she said "the guys on there talk too much".

Other than that I wouldn't mention reviews. I find it a bit awkward that a neutral or negative review I write might be seen by a WG. Before I came on this site I regret to say I left a positve review for one WG on AW when it should probably have been negative. I still feel I let myself down by doing that especially as the punt was so bad.

[Moby Dick]

The last one I did was a fake review by a pimp. Review stayed up, but it got changed to a negative and was titled white knight review. Reviews are virtually never removed, escorts and punters can complain as much as they want.

For a while, and I don’t know if it still is the case, but banned member/inactive members reviews were removed from the SP index, and would be harder to find in the regional discussion boards.

[Atrueyorkie]

Yea that’s a thought 🤦‍♂️ But someone did actually tell this person tbh. I don’t think it’s even the time as it was months ago it’s just the fact it was a terrible meet and giving to much info isn’t a great thing as I singled myself out . I’ll learn by my mistakes.

+1 on what daviemac said. Unfortunately there’s a thing as too much information. Been there done that so can sympathise. Even though it was months ago there would still be text receipts that would match up with the time and date you publicly displayed on you’re review so it would not be hard for any of your visits to be tracked back to you. Unless most comms was via call.

If it actually was someone feeding back to the WG then it could be that the review got too much exposure which in a way Is bad too as the popularity might increase white knights trying to gain favour with the sp.

Best advice, change that punting number and like the general consensus, learn. You can put a general date I.e. couple months ago. Don’t ever put the time, as you might as well be holding up your passport photo to the review while your at it 

[Blackpool Rock]

Yea that’s a thought 🤦‍♂️ But someone did actually tell this person tbh. I don’t think it’s even the time as it was months ago it’s just the fact it was a terrible meet and giving to much info isn’t a great thing as I singled myself out . I’ll learn by my mistakes.

This is why a lot of people leave a while between seeing a girl and reviewing to try and break the connection however if it was a terrible punt then there is also merit in getting a Negative up quickly to warn others.

As you say learn from your mistakes and keep a few details vague like when you saw her and anything that can specifically mark you out as being punter X

Don't let it put you off reviewing though, about 4 years ago I had 3 or 4 reviews in a row that got questioned by girls who were members on here or who had been told about the review by a white knight

[Typhoonlagoon85]

This is why a lot of people leave a while between seeing a girl and reviewing to try and break the connection however if it was a terrible punt then there is also merit in getting a Negative up quickly to warn others.

As you say learn from your mistakes and keep a few details vague like when you saw her and anything that can specifically mark you out as being punter X

Don't let it put you off reviewing though, about 4 years ago I had 3 or 4 reviews in a row that got questioned by girls who were members on here or who had been told about the review by a white knight

Blackpool rock you are right. I can leave a well reviewed profile for a while but a bad meet needs to be out there. I was bothered at first but looking at it now it was an honest review and hasn’t had no affect on the wg in question. I told her it was an honest review and I didn’t slag her off and if she thought it was any different then she really needs to read a room. It wasn’t my sort of meet so a reviewed it on my preference/ account. What people take from my review is down to the individual as everyone is different. I am still picking things up as I am learning as I go. I try my hardest to put as much as I can in as I take out from this site. It’s worrying on another level how long these girls keep your info and messages as I deleted everything and had to work out who she was when she message. Punter phone is definitely being purchased today 🤦‍♂️

[Blackpool Rock]

Blackpool rock you are right. I can leave a well reviewed profile for a while but a bad meet needs to be out there. I was bothered at first but looking at it now it was an honest review and hasn’t had no affect on the wg in question. I told her it was an honest review and I didn’t slag her off and if she thought it was any different then she really needs to read a room. It wasn’t my sort of meet so a reviewed it on my preference/ account. What people take from my review is down to the individual as everyone is different. I am still picking things up as I am learning as I go. I try my hardest to put as much as I can in as I take out from this site. It’s worrying on another level how long these girls keep your info and messages as I deleted everything and had to work out who she was when she message. Punter phone is definitely being purchased today 🤦‍♂️

2 of the reviews I got grief for were a Neutral and even a glowing Positive FFS