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Offline sharpshoes78

In my experience every time I ask for striptease (that is on the likes list) they always say it's not on offer
I understand that lapdancing can be a skill that not all girls have but a sexy strip can't be hard?
Not expecting her to do circus acts but just a sensual undressing while I watch like the pervert I am

Anyone else found this?

Offline RandomGuy99

Yes, I have found this.  Never found a SP willing to do it.

Offline Adoniron

Is it that most SPs are self-conscious of their bodies despite spending their working lives naked?
Is it that they are crap and dancing?
Or is it just that they want to get on with it and get you done ASAP?

Offline bhudda

Is it that most SPs are self-conscious of their bodies despite spending their working lives naked?
Is it that they are crap and dancing?
Or is it just that they want to get on with it and get you done ASAP?

possibly the third of your choices ... it's extra effort that is unlikely to lead to you finishing very much quicker

Offline B4bcock

OP,  do you request it during the booking process or when you actually meet the SP?    They usually like to know in advance if anything specific is required.

Offline sharpshoes78

Normally in the booking process
I like to make sure I know exactly what services are on offer and if they are extra
Don't like surprises

Online mr.bluesky

The V.I.P room at victoria house parlour in Lutterworth used to have a pole dancing pole in the room. Not sure if it still does. I remember booking a two girl massage in this room once. One noshed me off whilst the other did a sexy pole dance then they swapped over. Happy days  :yahoo:

Offline Jerk Chicken

In my experience most SPs believe they don't have the experience/skillset to carry off a sexy striptease to a punter just sitting there watching on.

A couple of my regulars now deliver a sexy striptease from time to time without me asking. That was never on offer on the first meet.
Banned reason: Previously banned (Sean70) - Pimp, dangerous and using UKP review threats to demand extra services
Banned by: Kev40ish

Offline winkywanky

In my experience every time I ask for striptease (that is on the likes list) they always say it's not on offer
I understand that lapdancing can be a skill that not all girls have but a sexy strip can't be hard?

Not expecting her to do circus acts but just a sensual undressing while I watch like the pervert I am

Anyone else found this?


Asking a WG to do a striptease is a bit like asking a bloke to dance.

Most are shit at it, and all are self-conscious at the prospect.

Offline willie loman


Asking a WG to do a striptease is a bit like asking a bloke to dance.

Most are shit at it, and all are self-conscious at the prospect.

That's true, always found the pole dancers in the sopranos utterly unerotic.

Offline Handel2020

The V.I.P room at victoria house parlour in Lutterworth used to have a pole dancing pole in the room. Not sure if it still does. I remember booking a two girl massage in this room once. One noshed me off whilst the other did a sexy pole dance then they swapped over. Happy days  :yahoo:

Can't believe I looked on adultwork and other sites for a parlour in Lutterworth when I went there last year but found nothing. I must have forgot to Google or something.

I should mention the Romanian girl who I gave a neutral review would sometimes dance for me. She was quite something. When I see a nice arse shaking it takes on a life of its own. I wouldn't call her dancing striptease though.
« Last Edit: June 15, 2020, 10:19:29 pm by Handel2020 »

Offline Malvolio

You could always go to a strip club, get a dance and then make the dancer an offer for a punt - you might find one who's up for it before you get chucked out.

Offline RandomGuy99


Asking a WG to do a striptease is a bit like asking a bloke to dance.

Most are shit at it, and all are self-conscious at the prospect.
+1

Better to just get on with the sex.  That way they don't have to look at me from a far and regret agreeing to see me.

Offline HarryZZ

They're just ticking boxes, in my area with my parameters I get 21 girls on AW, if I tick "striptease" there are 14, even if I tick "sybian and machine sex" there are still 8, I've visited many of them and I've never seen a sybian machine.

Offline Home Alone

They're just ticking boxes, in my area with my parameters I get 21 girls on AW, if I tick "striptease" there are 14, even if I tick "sybian and machine sex" there are still 8, I've visited many of them and I've never seen a sybian machine.

Presumably, grounds for walking if the SP's a bit 'meh'?

Offline catweazle

I remember many years ago there used to be a place in Soho where you were in a little room with a tiny stage at the end. A girl would come in, do a very explicit striptease then either fuck you or suck you off, depending on what you paid.

Online Pedalwall

I also find it frustrating. I quite like the idea of a sexy striptease at the start of a punt. I remember asking one SP who was happy to put your cock in any and every hole as soon as you got through the door as well as snogging your face off who said she was "too shy" to perform a striptease. I did see one SP many years ago in Bristol - think her profile was Annie666 - who was happy to perform at the start of the put. She was great - music on, sexy striptease which she interrupted to snog your face and grab your cock, followed by a fantastic fuck. she went back to Prague, I think, shortly after I came across her - just a coincidence I hope - and, as far as I know, has never been back.

Offline Son of the Desert

It's not even a formal strip tease I want.  I just like to see a girl slowly undress and let me enjoy her body as it's revealed.  I don't always want the girl naked when I fuck her.  Sometime it's great to just reach a point and and then get into her.  Most WGs just assume that that you want them naked and having sex ASAP and aren't interested in the enticement side of things at all.

Offline RandomGuy99

Only had a striptease once on a first booking of a MILF. She seemed a little lacking in confidence in her looks.  She started stripping and told me if I didn't like what I saw, then I could leave with no payment.  I liked what I saw and then saw her every week for 6 months while I was working in her area.

Offline unclepokey

My idea of a striptease with a working girl would be all about her teasingly getting my clothes off.
It's not, however,  a service I would pay for as in normal circumstances I'm out of my clothes as quickly as I can be having asked the woman concerned to be naked behind the front door.

Offline Handel2020

It's not even a formal strip tease I want.  I just like to see a girl slowly undress and let me enjoy her body as it's revealed.  I don't always want the girl naked when I fuck her.  Sometime it's great to just reach a point and and then get into her.  Most WGs just assume that that you want them naked and having sex ASAP and aren't interested in the enticement side of things at all.

Since I started punting I always insisted on taking thw WG's bra, stockings, and knickers off for her. Firstly I quite enjoy the process of revealing her as I go along. Secondly when they do it themselves it usually isn't sexy and some of them don't even look at you when they are taking their clothes off. It's more like they are at home.

Online Moby Dick

In the UK you’d have to get the WG to get dressed up first so she can then strip. Too much effort for them.

My first paid fuck was a stripper. Quid in the hat and she picked me to fuck her on the stage to a round of applause.

Had many a lap dance of WG since then, and during my travels around Europe you find most “Cabaret” bars have WG stripping, more pole dancing before trying to get you to “separate” to a private curtained area where you can guzzle extortionately priced fizzy wine and fuck ‘em.

Sadly stripping and sex are rarely combined in the UK these days.

Ask a Regular is your best bet.

Online Moby Dick

It's not even a formal strip tease I want.  I just like to see a girl slowly undress and let me enjoy her body as it's revealed.  I don't always want the girl naked when I fuck her.  Sometime it's great to just reach a point and and then get into her.  Most WGs just assume that that you want them naked and having sex ASAP and aren't interested in the enticement side of things at all.
Just ask them to leave their tart outfit on.
I need to see stockings, suspenders, straps, heels, etc to keep me interested.
Pulling her knickers to one side and fucking her in front of the mirror like she’s on a porn set is what I need, and get.

Offline Boristheboy

I had the inverse problem once, about seven years ago. I saw a girl who insisted on doing a striptease, even though I told her I really didn't want one. She wasn't especially good at it either.
My other main memory of that punt was that her flat was freezing cold and I actually called time on it early so I could get in her shower to warm up.

Offline DoctorSalchicha

In one of my bookings, I remember talking this to the lassie (as she stated on her profile) but she refused to do it once we were at my place, in my living room, very odd behaviour as I was really looking forward for the it.

Offline Home Alone


Asking a WG to do a striptease is a bit like asking a bloke to dance.

Most are shit at it, and all are self-conscious at the prospect.

That's a bit like trying to encourage a girl to 'talk dirty'; that self-consciousness kicks in and they say they "feel uncomfortable" about doing it, even if they haven't deleted it from their list of likes.

For me, it's a real turn-on; and I feel cheated if I only get something half-hearted. And, of course by that stage, it's almost certainly too late to 'walk'.

Unlike, maybe, if she won't do a striptease for you.

Offline winkywanky

Any WG lacking the ability to talk dirty must surely be in the wrong job?

Having sex for money is about as 'dirty' as it gets, and surely can't be that difficult. Talking dirty is fun.

I dunno, some WGs can be just so up-tight  :rolleyes:.

Offline RandomGuy99

Any WG lacking the ability to talk dirty must surely be in the wrong job?

Having sex for money is about as 'dirty' as it gets, and surely can't be that difficult. Talking dirty is fun.

I dunno, some WGs can be just so up-tight  :rolleyes:.
People seem to think that SPs are super confident, extroverts who love getting naked.  I've not found any like that.

They're actually normal people with their own issues just like us punters:

- some are genuinely shy
- some lack confidence in their looks or how they do the escorting job, so need a bit of reassurance
- some don't like their teeth, so aren't confident smiling
- some just aren't naturally very smiley - not because they're not happy or content, but they just don't feel the need to smile to show they're happy
- some are a bit self-conscious
- some aren't natural dirty talkers as they feel silly or stupid doing it
- some feel they can't dance, so a striptease may not be for them
- some find small talk with strangers difficult
- some aren't confident in their level of skill in the English language
- some have scars that they worry may put people off seeing them
- some have visible disabilities
- some have invisible disabilities like deafness or poor eyesight

They're just normal people like you and me, but they do an unusual job and they deal with us punters pretty well most of the time.

The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.

Offline winkywanky

People seem to think that SPs are super confident, extroverts who love getting naked.  I've not found any like that.

They're actually normal people with their own issues just like us punters:

- some are genuinely shy
- some lack confidence in their looks or how they do the escorting job, so need a bit of reassurance
- some don't like their teeth, so aren't confident smiling
- some just aren't naturally very smiley - not because they're not happy or content, but they just don't feel the need to smile to show they're happy
- some are a bit self-conscious
- some aren't natural dirty talkers as they feel silly or stupid doing it
- some feel they can't dance, so a striptease may not be for them
- some find small talk with strangers difficult
- some aren't confident in their level of skill in the English language
- some have scars that they worry may put people off seeing them
- some have visible disabilities
- some have invisible disabilities like deafness or poor eyesight

They're just normal people like you and me, but they do an unusual job and they deal with us punters pretty well most of the time.

The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.


More than half of those apply to me, and I LOVE talking dirty.

They're no more abnormal than I am.

Offline Kool Keef

It's not even a formal strip tease I want.  I just like to see a girl slowly undress and let me enjoy her body as it's revealed.  I don't always want the girl naked when I fuck her.  Sometime it's great to just reach a point and and then get into her.  Most WGs just assume that that you want them naked and having sex ASAP and aren't interested in the enticement side of things at all.

Absolutely agree, the enticement & the anticipation at the start  of the punt are a big part of the turn on for me.
A pet hate of mine is when I specifically request an outfit & the WG quickly strips out of it within seconds of getting in the room.
Let me enjoy it ffs!!  :dash:

Offline RandomGuy99


More than half of those apply to me, and I LOVE talking dirty.

They're no more abnormal than I am.
Many of them apply to me too. One of the things I like about SPs is that they don't judge me on my looks, scars, nervousness or my many other unique qualities and attributes. 

As long as I'm clean, respectful and on time then they are happy to see me. I enjoy my time with them and I've learned that some people I expect to be super-confident and extrovert because they're good looking are actually just normal people like me with their own hangups. This in turn helps me to be a little more confident in myself.

I think hearing dirty talk from a client can be a little cringey for the SP and not something every SP is 100% comfortable with. It must get a little boring as an SP.  However, as long as you and the SP are comfortable with it then it's all good.  Not all SPs are comfortable putting on a PSE act and many just behave as normal, which can be refreshing.
« Last Edit: June 17, 2020, 09:27:23 am by RandomGuy99 »

Offline JJ72

Probably not what people on this thread are looking for but I got one from a massage girl a while back
Part of a new menu and figured I'd try it out
She was great but it was just a bit naft. Wouldn't do it again

Offline Home Alone

Probably not what people on this thread are looking for but I got one from a massage girl a while back
Part of a new menu and figured I'd try it out
She was great
but it was just a bit naft. Wouldn't do it again

And her link for those of your colleagues on Ukpunting.com who might be interested in that 'great' service is???  :unknown:

Offline Notpastit

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Laryssa/Anita has performed her strip show for me several times, from wearing full outfit down to stockings /suspenders/heels, great dancer. wiggly arse in your face etc, really gets into it, v horny!

Not seen since last December but will be revisiting hopefully if still arnd when all this shit is over!


Offline Son of the Desert

Absolutely agree, the enticement & the anticipation at the start  of the punt are a big part of the turn on for me.
A pet hate of mine is when I specifically request an outfit & the WG quickly strips out of it within seconds of getting in the room.
Let me enjoy it ffs!!  :dash:

Absolutely - talk about missing the point - use the outfit to entertain me and let me decide what gets removed and when,

Offline hamchang

On the occasions that i put up a reverse booking for basically a hour hour of private dances and the rest fucking, I rarely got anything back. On one occasion I did the response was to go to the club she danced in and the fucking to come later. Essentially it seems if they are good dancers they get all the money they need teasing in the lap dance joints without needing to be impaled on a cock. In the past i have met with a few lapdancers in Brum for a fuck and they never delivered the dancing then either.

Offline Atlas1957

My guess would be:

Most strippers charge an hourly rate higher than escorts.

Good stripping is quite hard, so its a niche skill.

Then the stripper skilled escort gets 2 minutes into the dance and the punter realises snogging/groping/shagging is more fun.

Offline rubric


More than half of those apply to me, and I LOVE talking dirty.

They're no more abnormal than I am.

Think some people are able to create distance between the persona they are playing at that moment and their real persona and others aren't.  Going to improv classes was a bit of a revelation in that regard.

Offline winkywanky

Think some people are able to create distance between the persona they are playing at that moment and their real persona and others aren't.  Going to improv classes was a bit of a revelation in that regard.


I'm a tree!
  :D

Offline rubric


I'm a tree!
  :D

Yeah quite :D Some people are able to put aside their inhibitions temporarily and others aren't, even when they don't know anyone in the room and its lowest stakes.

Offline datwabbit

If a striptease means throwing clothes on the floor one by one then they can all do it. There's no reason to think an escort can dance sexily regardless of what she's doing with her clothes. In fact, some lapdancers don't dance sexily because of the crap music they've been given.

If you want a striptease then I recommend burlesque. The women design their act so they're different. Nipples are covered by swinging tassels and the thong stays on but the flexibility of some of those women  :wacko:

Offline king tarzan

Just ask nicely within the realms of civility.. and it is not a problem.. simpletto..
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Offline Rochelle

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Any WG lacking the ability to talk dirty must surely be in the wrong job?

Having sex for money is about as 'dirty' as it gets, and surely can't be that difficult. Talking dirty is fun.

I dunno, some WGs can be just so up-tight  :rolleyes:.
I'm in the wrong job then, but I'm not quitting just yet.

Offline winkywanky

I'm in the wrong job then, but I'm not quitting just yet.


I find it very hard to believe you never talk dirty Rochelle, deep in the throes of the sex act  :unknown:.

Offline winkywanky

Perhaps you let your body do all the talking  :D.