Porn no longer does anything

[yorkieyorkie]

Just sharing my views and seeing what position others are in. I’m not yet 30 but porn now no longer does much for me. Even having a wank takes quite a while whilst watching porn. Few years back I would be right on it but now only penetrative sex gets me going and I’m punting pretty much once a week now.

I suppose what I’m trying to say is that porn = boring and punting = thrilling.

[adamza]

Just sharing my views and seeing what position others are in. I’m not yet 30 but porn now no longer does much for me. Even having a wank takes quite a while whilst watching porn. Few years back I would be right on it but now only penetrative sex gets me going and I’m punting pretty much once a week now.

I suppose what I’m trying to say is that porn = boring and punting = thrilling.

I'm of a similar age to you. Porn definitely does do something for me, however I've pretty much given it up, and it's one of the best decisions I've made.

Growing up in the modern age, I was practically hooked on porn from around age 14. In retrospect, I can't think of anything worse for your sex life. It completely desensitises you and ruins actual sexual experiences (at least it did for me in the past).

I maybe watch it once a month maximum now and don't plan on increasing that anytime soon. Much prefer fucking gorgeous WGs and then wanking over the memories 

[stevedave]

I get what you're saying. I guess it comes down to who you're shagging.

I'm mid 30's. I can't lie, I got home from work this evening and had an epic wank to some, very dirty, porn.

The way I look at it, saved me £60. At least.

[p3ngu1n]

FWIW my personal experience is that it's all to do with balance. I personally dip in and out of punting (literally). I thoroughly enjoy it while it lasts, and the variety it brings with zero emotional baggage, but I know to take a break when it starts to feel "routine". I really only tend to watch porn when I'm punting.

When I'm not punting, I revert to civvie sex (combination of a partner if I've got one going and/or random dates from Tinder, PoF) and just that change gives me that excitment for a bit. Obviously everybody's different, and personal circumstances will dictate what options are available; but that's me 2 pence 

[Splodge]

For me porn is essential. Thankfully I can punt, or date and still fit porn in. Wh3n not punting or dating and when in the mood, it's sometimes non stop lol. Prefer the real thing but porn works for me. In fact, right now !

[Tricks]

I'm mid 30's. I can't lie, I got home from work this evening and had an epic wank to some, very dirty, porn.

Thanks for sharing

Wanking is a very important part of my sex life and as its known to delay the onset of prostate cancer, I consider it preventive medicine

[Ali Katt]

I'm of a similar age to you. Porn definitely does do something for me, however I've pretty much given it up, and it's one of the best decisions I've made.

Growing up in the modern age, I was practically hooked on porn from around age 14. In retrospect, I can't think of anything worse for your sex life. It completely desensitises you and ruins actual sexual experiences (at least it did for me in the past).

I maybe watch it once a month maximum now and don't plan on increasing that anytime soon. Much prefer fucking gorgeous WGs and then wanking over the memories 

My experiences are pretty similar, but I think I've had some form of addiction since the age of 11. I don't know about desensitisation, but I do know it has been made me very lazy when it comes to dating as it is a comfort blanket.

[Splodge]

  lol, you're welcome..

If going for a punt I save my fluids as I know these ladies want us out of them after a few minutes lol. It's nice when you meet a lady who doesn't rush you but really we know they just want the money of course. When abroad in rlds my punts can take longer and some ladies haven't been too impressed lol. But haven't complained thankfully.  Can't wait to report from Germany this year for you guys.  All being well of course.

[MrMatrix]

Its a well know fact that wanking desensities your bellend. A lot of youngsters and I mean late 20/30 year old must be strugging if they've been on a diet of on line porn for 10 /20 years . But what I didnt realise is that the same can happen to women as it desensitises their clit. Looks like it works both ways. 

[Ali Katt]

Its a well know fact that wanking desensities your bellend. A lot of youngsters and I mean late 20/30 year old must be strugging if they've been on a diet of on line porn for 10 /20 years . But what I didnt realise is that the same can happen to women as it desensitises their clit. Looks like it works both ways. 

That's interesting if it's true. It doesn't sound like a bad thing though, less likely to be a quick shooter.

[adamza]

That's interesting if it's true. It doesn't sound like a bad thing though, less likely to be a quick shooter.

Potentially makes ED more common though which is definitely not ideal 

I had issues in my uni days "keeping it up" when I started having casual sex for the first time. I cut out porn and things improved dramatically 

[MrMatrix]

That's interesting if it's true. It doesn't sound like a bad thing though, less likely to be a quick shooter.

Thats true if you are going to shoot your load. But take this further and more often than not you just cant get sensitised enough and you walk away not having unoaded. Very frustrating I asure you.

[maxxblue]

Its a well know fact that wanking desensities your bellend. A lot of youngsters and I mean late 20/30 year old must be strugging if they've been on a diet of on line porn for 10 /20 years . But what I didnt realise is that the same can happen to women as it desensitises their clit. Looks like it works both ways. 

I don't think it desensitises your bellend, but I do think it desensitises your mind.

[MrMatrix]

I don't think it desensitises your bellend, but I do think it desensitises your mind.

I agree it does desensitises you mind..... as well. Your mind looks for the next "fix". But it dont do your bellend any good after 20 years either.

This thread covers the whole issue at greater length.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.msg2017245#msg2017245
A guide on how to cure erection problems in punting...
This also discusses the death grip and other things associated with wanking - worth a read if you have problems.

[myothernameis]

There good porn, and then there story porn, the good porn I watch for a quick wank, but lately been watching porn based stories, and find them very good and have a story behind them, most last around 30 min's, and don't wank my self until the end

Most of these stories will have 6 episodes, and one of my favourite stories is Vampires

Most of these story based porn videos come from the girlsway's studios

[MrMatrix]

There good porn, and then there story porn, the good porn I watch for a quick wank, but lately been watching porn based stories, and find them very good and have a story behind them, most last around 30 min's, and don't wank my self until the end

Most of these stories will have 6 episodes, and one of my favourite stories is Vampires

Most of these story based porn videos come from the girlsway's studios

Dont suppose you have a link for these stories at all.

[myothernameis]

Dont suppose you have a link for these stories at all.

Uploading part one to my one drive, and once uploaded will post link, and leave up for the week, and if I have free space, will post part two as well

[threechilliman]

I don't think it desensitises your bellend, but I do think it desensitises your mind.

Agreed and you'll soon be in need of this thread.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.0

[myothernameis]

Part one of Girlsway Vampires, link will take you my onedrive folder

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[Malvolio]

Porn and punting both work for me.  My tactic is to not watch porn or knock one out for three days before I punt; this ensures I'll be raring to go when I do punt.

[peter purves]

Just sharing my views and seeing what position others are in. I’m not yet 30 but porn now no longer does much for me. Even having a wank takes quite a while whilst watching porn. Few years back I would be right on it but now only penetrative sex gets me going and I’m punting pretty much once a week now.

I suppose what I’m trying to say is that porn = boring and punting = thrilling.

Is there a burn-out here

For me, I went off porn after speaking to Jasmine Black, She broke the spell of the fantasy, which now constitutes a part of my Punters Alienation.

[Stiltskin]

I used to wank to any old grainy videos when I was younger. It has to be HD these days, but as that gets boring I'm trying VR porn. Some of that VR POV stuff is bloody amazing.

[Zeusthedoc]

Depending on my day - I have a lead up to it.
I'll wake and have a browse for a bit before I start my day. Don't actually finish, just edge myself a few times.
Again at lunch - either in the loos or in the car (out of the way in the back of the car park)
And then when I get home, again...

Then I let rip in the evening. Its a great thrill when I allowed myself to blow. Feels good coz its been building.
Occasionally, I can't be assed and will just go hell for leather in the AM. Usually it's a not a big load, but it depends on how tired/dehydrated I am.

The actual porn side of it - I just click thru recommend videos, scan watch them (skip a few mins watch a few).
There are a few videos I have that I will use as my go to vids when I wanna see specific performers, otherwise - it's all generic/same.

[magnetico]

For me, I went off porn after speaking to Jasmine Black, She broke the spell of the fantasy

What did she tell you ? Sounds pretty extreme.

[Dipper]

I agree it does desensitises you mind..... as well. Your mind looks for the next "fix". But it dont do your bellend any good after 20 years either.

This thread covers the whole issue at greater length.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.msg2017245#msg2017245
A guide on how to cure erection problems in punting...
This also discusses the death grip and other things associated with wanking - worth a read if you have problems.

Or maybe a desensitised shaft in circed gents. The bell isn’t necessarily needed to tug one off. Never had any sensitivity problems but did develop a light coloured bruise during my teens, possibly due to excessive jacking

[peter purves]

What did she tell you ? Sounds pretty extreme.

Not as such, there were no horror, stories but it is clear that the industry is based on an illusion/fantasy that the viewer by watching plays his part also. Having her in front of me, listening to her chat about family, expectations from life etc it is clear as a person she is a million miles removed from what you see on the silver-screen.

This may also perhaps explain why that some porn stars do not necessarily make good WGs, and/or are nothing like in their movies, as it is a different set of criteria or fantasies that they have to develop.

[Norfolkfuntimes]

Thanks for sharing

Wanking is a very important part of my sex life and as its known to delay the onset of prostate cancer, I consider it preventive medicine

I think I have improved my chances of avoiding prostate cancer then. Years of constant ejaculation...

[JonasG]

A question:

Is a desensitised dick just porn use or wanking as well?

If you cut out porn but still wank, will it still cause problems?

Or do you cut out both?

[Charliehutton]

Back in the '80's when the hardcore stuff was illegal in this country it was more exciting, because it was harder to get. Nowadays there's a bottomless ocean of it available anytime, anywhere. We'd all have our favourite stars; mine was Kandi Barbour, because she reminded me of sweet, innocent, virginal Marie Osmond, and, boy, did I fantasise about fucking her.

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Thrilling stuff, and proper, hairy muffs back in those days, too.

[hungrypunt]

long winded but defo true
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[workinallweek]

Thanks for sharing

Wanking is a very important part of my sex life and as its known to delay the onset of prostate cancer, I consider it preventive medicine

well i would have got it at about 30 rather than 56 then ...... sadly i think its as much of a myth as the one that says excesive wanking can cause prostate cancer

[smartieshouse]

I must admit to really enjoying porn. The variety is amazing and caters for every fetish I have!!

Happy to go from Tiny4k to Femdom and all ports in between!!:-)

[Littlefoot]

Just sharing my views and seeing what position others are in. I’m not yet 30 but porn now no longer does much for me. Even having a wank takes quite a while whilst watching porn. Few years back I would be right on it but now only penetrative sex gets me going and I’m punting pretty much once a week now.

I suppose what I’m trying to say is that porn = boring and punting = thrilling.

For me too much of either porn/wanking or punting becomes a bit boring. If I punt 3-4 times a week and don’t watch porn, I’ve been known to lose wood on punts. Then when I have a change, stop the punting for a while and jerk off to porn, at first I find it very exciting. But after a while of just watching porn and jerking that becomes boring and I lose wood half way through a wank. So then I find punting exciting again. I think it’s about not having too much of one thing for me, and in my case aging plays a part. I never lost wood 10 years ago whilst wanking off to porn. So these days I like to mix it up a bit, to keep my sexual excitement high!

[DOUGLAS56]

I would say that porn has definitely helped my sex life more than hindered it. I tend to watch a lot more amateur porn then the big companies production. Most of them dont feel natural only a few do.

As long it does not interfere with your day to day activities. You should be fine. Like already mentioned too much punting also has its drawbacks

[MrMatrix]

I would say that porn has definitely helped my sex life more than hindered it. I tend to watch a lot more amateur porn then the big companies production. Most of them dont feel natural only a few do.

As long it does not interfere with your day to day activities. You should be fine. Like already mentioned too much punting also has its drawbacks

Like its bloody expensive.....

[megaman]

Abit of porn is OK I think but not too much like everything in life. I've done a few test runs with my penis wankin and notice if I wank with the foreskin pulled back then I get bigger. Don't know if it's because the foreskin holds the blood in at the top of the penis the bell end but wankin with the foreskin pulled back seems to be better and get me bigger and harder.
We hear all the time that porn is bad for us but abit well not hurt you, you need a bit of porn I think but not too much

[candec]

The trouble is porn is so easily accessed now so it has become very boring. I limit myself to a few xvideo/xhamster clips once in a while.

[Chorley]

I find that porn can quickly become boring, mainly due to the sheet availability of it on the net.
I tend to restrict myself now due to this and find that if I lay off, even for a few days,  and then use  edging, I can shoot some pretty big loads.   

[hungrypunt]

A question:

Is a desensitised dick just porn use or wanking as well?

If you cut out porn but still wank, will it still cause problems?

Or do you cut out both?

The desensitised cock comes from death grip, the porn use affects the chemicals in your brain that turns you on.
After weaning off porn, you will find you get harder by the thoughts and not the images, then the cock, if left for a while gains back feeling and gradually less touch is needed for arousal.

At least leave the porn for a bit see how you go, you may be surprised, watch that link I posted on the TED talk earlier porn experiment it has some sound facts.

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[JonasG]

The desensitised cock comes from death grip, the porn use affects the chemicals in your brain that turns you on.
After weaning off porn, you will find you get harder by the thoughts and not the images, then the cock, if left for a while gains back feeling and gradually less touch is needed for arousal.

At least leave the porn for a bit see how you go, you may be surprised, watch that link I posted on the TED talk earlier porn experiment it has some sound facts.

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Ok cheers gonna try and give it ago.

Lately with the girl on top position I've noticed my hard on goes down a bit but it's fine for other positions. :|

Gonna stop the porn and wanking for a bit.

[Plan R]

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[nervous1]

I got my external drive out the other week which has my favourite/worth keeping clips that I collected over the past 10-15 years after not bothering with it for ages.  Thought it would be a thrill to see all this  stuff again but aside from a couple I was shocked at just how little interest I had in all this stuff that I once couldn't keep away from.  Think both punting and tube sites have played a  big part but it struck me how different my tastes are nowadays.  For a start, absolute stunners dont do it much for me since they are unrealistic even by punting standards.  When I'm on tube sites I tend to click more on BBW (often not very beautiful) and middle aged women who seem more genuine in their attitude to sex.  It's almost as if the our fantasies become more realistic as time goes on.

[Ali Katt]

I got my external drive out the other week which has my favourite/worth keeping clips that I collected over the past 10-15 years after not bothering with it for ages.  Thought it would be a thrill to see all this  stuff again but aside from a couple I was shocked at just how little interest I had in all this stuff that I once couldn't keep away from.  Think both punting and tube sites have played a  big part but it struck me how different my tastes are nowadays.  For a start, absolute stunners dont do it much for me since they are unrealistic even by punting standards.  When I'm on tube sites I tend to click more on BBW (often not very beautiful) and middle aged women who seem more genuine in their attitude to sex.  It's almost as if the our fantasies become more realistic as time goes on.

With porn we are always looking for the newest stuff, as we memorise each clip visually quickly. It's a bit like watching any film, if I watched the films I saw as a child again today as an adult most would be crap even though I loved them at the time.

When I was really young I was turned on by swimsuit pictures. Who can say the same today.