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Offline king tarzan

Something they do for the sake of getting customers?
Something they really genuinely enjoy?
Are we as punters going into get too intimate selfishly?


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Offline django0700

I have never contemplated this. IMO she is selling, I am buying and the only gun involved is my trusted single shot, double balled pistol... :cool:

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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If your breath is clean and you dont slobber all over my face i quite enjoy it,  be weird to do a punt with out kissing!!
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Offline king tarzan

I have been told by a few over the years that the amount of snogging I do is abnormal.. just far far far too much.. but said with smiles and then carry the continuation of yummy dfk on!!
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Offline PRIYA-X

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Sometimes I enjoyed it, sometimes it was really annoying. Depends on the whole vibe of the meeting, their hygiene, and truthfully, whether they are actually a good kisser or not.

Offline Plan R

I hope SPs don't  mind it too much - obviously assumes very good hygiene and not being pushy
about it.

I couldn't believe it was on the menu when I came back to punting after a 15yr lay off.
As somebody who first got into regular punting in the early 90s (the era of the rub-n-tug punt)
I can't believe how much better, as in much more on the menu, it is these days
 :yahoo:

Offline Jeremy

If it's something they really have an issue with I'm sure they'll ask you to stop or, not offer it in the first place. Worrying what they think beyond that is pointless IMO.

Offline mike63

I hope SPs don't  mind it too much - obviously assumes very good hygiene and not being pushy
about it.

I couldn't believe it was on the menu when I came back to punting after a 15yr lay off.
As somebody who first got into regular punting in the early 90s (the era of the rub-n-tug punt)
I can't believe how much better, as in much more on the menu, it is these days
 :yahoo:
Very much my experience after a similar layoff.

Offline king tarzan

I hope SPs don't  mind it too much - obviously assumes very good hygiene and not being pushy
about it.

I couldn't believe it was on the menu when I came back to punting after a 15yr lay off.
As somebody who first got into regular punting in the early 90s (the era of the rub-n-tug punt)
I can't believe how much better, as in much more on the menu, it is these days
 :yahoo:

When I started punting late 1990's no one kissed
Then the foreign influx 🙏🙏🙏🙏and the competition to get punters began.
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Offline king tarzan

If your breath is clean and you dont slobber all over my face i quite enjoy it,  be weird to do a punt with out kissing!!

👍 True professional
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Offline Strawberry

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Kissing is the 'norm' for me whoever I've having sex with, I offer it because it wouldn't occur to me to not kiss anyone I was getting sexual intimate with.

Very occasionally perhaps once a year or two someone will ask for no kissing, I felt awkward the first this happened sort of 'where do I start' I have learned to adapt and of course simply spend more time on other services.

Can't speak for anyone else I do hear that pre-a-certain date kissing was not the norm for paid sex, I wasn't aware of that until I was already involved as far as I'm concerned I'm just doing what I would paid or not.


Offline Annabellebeauty

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I absolutely love kissing, makes everything so much more passionate and personal, throws me off a little when a client prefers not to kiss, makes it feel more mechanical for me. Obviously if a client has bad oral hygiene it is off putting and it’s harder to enjoy/get into but kissing a clean mouth really starts the booking off well x x

Offline Rochelle

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I enjoy it most of the time. If they slobber or if there's just way too much tongue, I tell them to calm down. If it's still horrible, then there's a lot less kissing.

Offline Colston36

Strange: I rarely care that much about or even remember if I kissed except with one girl, LottieLou in Gloucester who I love to. I have absolutely no idea why this is. There's nothing special about her mouth. It is nothing to do with affection; I like someone else more. At over 80 sex remains a mystery to me. I think I should go for analysis;

Offline Winker121

Sometimes I enjoyed it, sometimes it was really annoying. Depends on the whole vibe of the meeting, their hygiene, and truthfully, whether they are actually a good kisser or not.

What would you say makes a good kisser?  I go to a lot of trouble with my oral hygiene before a punt but a regular who I have spent far too much hiring often gets me out the door without even a peck. Going to lose her a customer if I can't rectify the situation!

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What would you say makes a good kisser?  I go to a lot of trouble with my oral hygiene before a punt but a regular who I have spent far too much hiring often gets me out the door without even a peck. Going to lose her a customer if I can't rectify the situation!
A regular I see literally pounces on me as soon as I’m undressed and ready for action.

Offline PRIYA-X

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What would you say makes a good kisser?  I go to a lot of trouble with my oral hygiene before a punt but a regular who I have spent far too much hiring often gets me out the door without even a peck. Going to lose her a customer if I can't rectify the situation!

I would say that someone who doesn’t force it themselves, and also doesn’t use their mouth and tongue as some sort of vacuum device suffices as a good kisser in the punting world. I had clients whose idea of kissing was shoving their tongue down your throat and swirl it around for some time, with no mouth/lip movement to accompany. I didn’t like that.

Based on your experience with your regular; and I hope you don’t mind me saying - if it irritated me to kiss someone, I generally wouldn’t see them again. She seems to welcome repeat visits from you; I would say this is a subpar service (if she advertises being comfortable with kissing.)

As others have said, a punt would seem really strange without kissing.

Offline Strawberry

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I would say that someone who doesn’t force it themselves, and also doesn’t use their mouth and tongue as some sort of vacuum device suffices as a good kisser in the punting world. I had clients whose idea of kissing was shoving their tongue down your throat and swirl it around for some time, with no mouth/lip movement to accompany. I didn’t like that.

Based on your experience with your regular; and I hope you don’t mind me saying - if it irritated me to kiss someone, I generally wouldn’t see them again. She seems to welcome repeat visits from you; I would say this is a subpar service (if she advertises being comfortable with kissing.)

As others have said, a punt would seem really strange without kissing.

Also someone who kissing on the lips rather than wide mouth around, some people open their mouths wider than I can open mine or at least wider than is comfortable...............I will guide back to my lips if it does happen.
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Offline aronteo

I never kiss - it's my personal preference. Nothing to do with the girls I see, but it is just that I prefer to leave that for my personal life; I know that some of the girls I see have been actually kind of offended by that - we talked about it and I explained my reasons.

By the same token, I have never seen the point of the 'girlfriend experience'; I have a girlfriend and don't want the same 'experience', nor I seek intimacy. I just look for sex, and something different compared to what my girlfriend is prepared to offer.

And this doesn't mean that I disrespect the girls I see - quite the contrary.   :hi:

Offline LLPunting

When I started punting late 1990's no one kissed
Then the foreign influx 🙏🙏🙏🙏and the competition to get punters began.

Kissing was available in the late 90s, never had a problem at The Cottage or Les Girls, admittedly you had to do your market research and it was more likely to be YMMV.

Was Swiss Angie around then?

The Thai girls on Romily St?

Offline king tarzan

Kissing was available in the late 90s, never had a problem at The Cottage or Les Girls, admittedly you had to do your market research and it was more likely to be YMMV.

Was Swiss Angie around then?

The Thai girls on Romily St?

Everywhere I called or who ever I saw no kissing
Owo was extra..
Everywhere around Hounslow Ealing Hanwell Harrow was very basic services as standard norm..
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Offline Happiness

I would say that someone who doesn’t force it themselves, and also doesn’t use their mouth and tongue as some sort of vacuum device suffices as a good kisser in the punting world. I had clients whose idea of kissing was shoving their tongue down your throat and swirl it around for some time, with no mouth/lip movement to accompany. I didn’t like that.

Based on your experience with your regular; and I hope you don’t mind me saying - if it irritated me to kiss someone, I generally wouldn’t see them again. She seems to welcome repeat visits from you; I would say this is a subpar service (if she advertises being comfortable with kissing.)

As others have said, a punt would seem really strange without kissing.

What's bad kissing to you may be good to another girl. I feel like you are getting a long way ahead of yourself.

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Offline LLPunting

Everywhere I called or who ever I saw no kissing
Owo was extra..
Everywhere around Hounslow Ealing Hanwell Harrow was very basic services as standard norm..

Were those SPs of all nationalities and races in those areas?  Any cultural inhibitions involved as much as shifting SP general practices?

I also enjoyed such mileage with the orientals at that old ground floor flat along Bromley Rd in Beckenham, wasn't that around at that time?

Offline LLPunting

What's bad kissing to you may be good to another girl. I feel like you are getting a long way ahead of yourself.

 EDIT: :sarcastic:

Indeed, some people enjoy kissing forcefully and clumsily others more languidly and sensually with skill and variety.  A seasoned kisser will figure out which gets the better response from their kissee and if their intent is to inflame desire then they will adjust style accordingly.

Offline PRIYA-X

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What's bad kissing to you may be good to another girl. I feel like you are getting a long way ahead of yourself.

 EDIT: :sarcastic:

I was asked a question and I answered it.

You’re right, some girls might like that. I, personally, do not.

Online WARSZAWA16

My first experience of a girl offering kissing was in 1999 with a very striking young Italian girl named Francesca who worked in the Tottenham Court Road/Holborn area. I remember when I made the initial phone call to see her the maid/receptionist said - "she kisses, which I understand is quite unusual". I only saw her a few times unfortunately as she wasn't around for very long and towards the end it became very difficult to see her anyway as she was usually "booked up". She provided a very good affectionate and attentive service at £90 for an hour I seem to recall.   

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In my opinion they enjoy it with guys they fancy like we all do.
But if they’re ugly but clean, they don’t enjoy it but they’ll grin and bear it, the good escorts will make it seem like they absolutely love it with you.

Online hendrix

Not a fan. Used to do it (and RO) out of politeness :D - but I don't enjoy either activity so rarely bother now. I get that some WG's find that awkward, but I don't often see those types anyway.

As for what they might think about technique etc, I couldn't care less as the buyer. As long as service is agreed and hygiene is impeccable, I'm not there to be judged (to my face anyway :D)
« Last Edit: October 07, 2019, 10:58:56 pm by hendrix »

Offline Bonker

Only if the girl is very good looking and I'm reasonably confident she's had a good clean up after sucking her previous client's knob.

Otherwise I push them off. I'm so fucking handsome they all want to kiss me.

Offline winkywanky

I have been told by a few over the years that the amount of snogging I do is abnormal.. just far far far too much..


In addition: you've been told by everyone on UKP over the years that the amount of snogging you do is abnormal.. just far far far too much...  :D

Offline MissWolf

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I have been told by a few over the years that the amount of snogging I do is abnormal.. just far far far too much.. but said with smiles and then carry the continuation of yummy dfk on!!

This  :thumbsup:

I've had some amazing sensual kisses and thatsareal turn on for me, but then I've had some who just grab my head, open their mouth as wide as possible and ram their tongue down my throat as far as possible while dribbling and slobbering,  I actually had one guy split my upper lip with his tooth trying to do this, believe me it not nice in any form.

DFK involves lips, tongues and sensual movements not drowning by drool  :vomit:  :mad:

Offline MissWolf

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If your breath is clean and you dont slobber all over my face i quite enjoy it,  be weird to do a punt with out kissing!!

Hahaha wrong quote first time I meant this one  :dash:

Offline Home Alone

And where does it begin? I know I'm going to have an enjoyable hour if she starts DFK as soon as she's locked the door with me safe inside the flat! :D
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Online jesse4585

Are we as punters going into get too intimate selfishly?

IMO,   no.

Back in the 90s,  a common reason given for WG's not kissing was that it was too intimate.  I guess that might be where you're coming from.

So the thing is,  "Less is more" applies to kissing.  For most WG's, the  unusual amount of kissing you apparently like won't increase the intimacy level, if anything it might even reduce it slightly.  Extremely long kissing sessions can cause tongue fatigue, especially if there's a lot of tongue wrestling.  But most probably you move on to your mango desert and other delights before that happens.


Offline JonasG

Most just tolerate it I guess, but as long as they put on a good show. No drama.

Gotta say though, it's actually pretty staggering how both some punters and WGs can go that long in life and not know how to kiss properly.

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Gotta say though, it's actually pretty staggering how both some punters and WGs can go that long in life and not know how to kiss properly.
In that case maybe it would be a public service to type out a few kissing tips.  Not an easy thing to write about, but here's my effort for what it's worth.

* Lick your lips just before kissing - dry lips are not nice to kiss.
* Start slow, mainly just lip to lip action,  maybe just flicking her lips with your tongue.
* Get more adventurous with your tongue, but keep it mostly brief & teasing, unless she responds strongly, then it's good to start entwining tongues & getting some little wrestling matches going.
* Don't feel rejected if she keeps the kissing mostly light - even in civvy relationships the lass sometimes never wants to DFK

I guess it's easier to learn in person,  I guess occasionally skilled WGs & punters do a bit of kissing teaching...

Offline Jonestown

There are big differences between European and oriental kissing etiquette , it helps if you can be a man for all seasons.

Offline winkywanky

...you can't just say that without explaining JT!

Offline dubs

I kiss kinda like I'm eating a delicious ice cream cone. Put your lips on, slightly open mouthed and then lick with the tongue.

I never plunge my tongue in just as i wouldn't with an ice cream.

Offline Plan R

Is your breath fresh ?
Do you have spinach on your teeth ?
Is your deodorant strong enough ?

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Offline Kelgon85

Kissing is very important to me, as I find it a great turn on. However, what I will say is that I always let the SP initiate kissing, and then I gauge what she is comfortable with. Then I take it from there. I never just shove my tongue down someone's throat.

Online Moby Dick

Something they do for the sake of getting customers?
Something they really genuinely enjoy?
Are we as punters going into get too intimate selfishly?
I haven’t checked but I reckon more have OWO on their likes list than DFK.
What does that say about a guys dental hygiene?
Is kissing more intimate than sucking a bare cock?
Years gone by WG didn’t kiss. Think they used Pretty Woman as their guide book.
All seemed to change probably in the “naughties”
Now WG do it to get repeat bookings.
I don’t really care, sure it turns me on, but so does watching her finger her arse, or her trying to suck the life out of  my prostate. :thumbsup:
Think I prefer the later to DFK
« Last Edit: October 08, 2019, 03:48:59 pm by Moby Dick »

Offline willie loman

Interesting thread, what appeals to one girl repels another, that goes for just about everything,,fingering , fanny licking etc, as ever the assumption is, that the crap kisser is the bloke, though I would agree that blokes who shove their tongue down girls throats without any preliminaries are getting it wrong, but girls can be too aggressive as well. I avoid kissing girls whose teeth are too big for their mouth, what I find difficult is knowing when to break for air. As a general rule I accept the girls choreography on the kissing front, put your cheek against hers and if she pulls you onto her mouth off you go.

Offline JAYZ

I have always been a lover of a good kissing session with a beautiful woman. The authentic kissers have been in the minority, but they were very good and tended to enjoy it too as there were requests not to stop or to kiss again. My most recent encounter involved a beautiful young woman telling me that kissing was not allowed, so I experienced the exteme opposite end of the spectrum. In future I will ask about kissing before handling any financial transaction.

Offline Bonker

"In future I will ask about kissing before handling any financial transaction."

I hope your bank manager has good oral hygiene.

Offline distancetravel20

Kissing makes or breaks a session.  I too now confirm with the agency and with the girl, which I don’t like doing but needs must.
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Offline cueball

Kissing makes or breaks a session.
This ^^^


Kissing is essential to a good punt for me

Offline Convince Me

This ^^^


Kissing is essential to a good punt for me
100% my friend.

Generally if she is poor kisser her oral skills will be. Kissing is so intimate more so than intercourse.

Offline MrMatrix

This ^^^


Kissing is essential to a good punt for me
+1.
I generally confirm on the phone and face to face. No FK, I will walk more often as not.