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Author Topic: Seeking.com in the South West  (Read 67890 times)

Offline Mr_Kinky

Yes hotels or Airbnb.  City centre Ibis and Marriot are pretty good.  I like daytime meet ups because you often find bargain.  Day use is a good app

Offline METEOR

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Another Bristol girl from the burbs but is willing to travel. Wanted 400 originally and didn't budge so I sacked her off and left then dooropen, then out of the blue she said 200. After our ses she told me that she needed money for her holiday hence the price drop. I'd say a pretty accomplished shag with a good positive attitude, gets right down to business and delivers. She also has a mate she can bring for a threesome (with huge tits apparently, she's the girl with the massive forehead in her photos) but the friend is a bit of a minger per my tastes. I wouldn't bother again but don't read too much into that as I rare do revisit the same girl.
I remember talking to her a year or 2 ago. They'd only meet as pair back then for £350-400 and an a bit extra for BB. like you I didn't fancy her mate so didn't bother.

Offline Mr_Kinky

Anybody know the difference between  Diamond and Premium.  I am on Premium obviously so I can read/write messages.  Not sure if there's any benefit of the Diamond membership

Offline updownandaround

Anybody know the difference between  Diamond and Premium.  I am on Premium obviously so I can read/write messages.  Not sure if there's any benefit of the Diamond membership

The "premium" vs "diamond" debate has been ongoing for some time on here and elsewhere but in all the years (10+) I've been doing Seeking then I've found the diamond membership works out better for me and my Seeking use case.

Offline Mr_Kinky

Interesting.   In what way?  Better looking matches?  I might give it a go

Offline updownandaround

Interesting.   In what way?  Better looking matches?  I might give it a go

You get featured on the home page more often, I think that's one of the main benefits but you can do the same with a profile boost too. I have generally found that I get more interest as a diamond member than the standard membership.

Offline Mr_Kinky

Thanks.  I will give it a shot.

Offline updownandaround

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Ok Ok, so I'm going through a bit of a MILF phase.

I'd been chatting to this one for a while, usual story, couldn't make up my mind if I could be arsed to see her or if I fancied her enough. This one has serious semi pro vibes and I suspect she's probably dabbled in sex work previously, so on top of asking for stupid money (500) she also wanted me to get a hotel. I told her I couldn't be arsed to source a hotel. She did the whole routine about "I don't invite men to my place", fair enough. In addition, I politely and indirectly told her that 500 is a stupid amount of money for Bristol and for a girl 40+. So we leave things like that. Time passes and one night she's clearly had a few bottles of Lambrini she calls me out of the blue. She surprises me and invites me over as she can't drive to me as she's been drinking clearly. A quick look on Streetview revealed she lives in a decent area and as luck would have it I wasn't far away that evening as I was doing my rounds in Cardiff. She answers the door and it's straight down to business. She's a little heavier than her photos (aren't they all) but not unpleasant to look at and I'm happy to report this girl is a total throat goat. I left her 100. Not sure I would return.

Offline Danj89

Thanks for confirming that she been chatting to me but the Convo went dead.

Offline Danj89

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I'm pretty sure I've seen this one on AW but can't seem to find her on there. PimEyes pegs her as a used panty seller. She wants money up front so suspect she's a scammer. Anyone know of her?

Didn't see her on aw but spoke to her agess ago ,said she was getting 250ppms for coffee meets, I suggested she kept doing it and moved on.

Offline Cunning Punt

said she was getting 250ppms for coffee meets, I suggested she kept doing it and moved on.

Total bollocks I reckon. The only way she would be getting 250 from a coffee meet is if she gives the impression she is up for sex afterwards, asks for the cash upfront and does a runner.
« Last Edit: May 20, 2023, 08:13:08 pm by Cunning Punt »

Offline mikeg1600

Is it me but i joined SA in 2020 and met some really nice woman of various ages in the Bournemouth and Southampton areas most could accomadate. I rejoined this year and to me its gone downhill, think i have wasted my money, not one meet yet, and so many scammers, or wanting money or gifts first etc, one woman from London because I wouldn’t buy pictures etc started sending abusive & threatening messages also not so much choice either.

Will give it until my membership runs out next week and don’t think i will bother again.

Offline updownandaround

Total bollocks I reckon. The only way she would be getting 250 from a coffee meet is if she gives the impression she is up for sex afterwards, asks for the cash upfront and does a runner.

This goes into the category of "Shit girls on Seeking say", along with:

My last sugar daddy paid me 25K a month
My last sugar daddy, who was a billionaire, moved away to [insert country] and it became impractical to continue the arrangement

Offline Danj89

Yeh she recently reached out again and said she was in an actual arrangement with someone which recently ended that was a 200ppm, which is fair enough and looking again. I'm currently in a pretty decent arrangement, just window shopping atm .

Offline Danj89

Is it me but i joined SA in 2020 and met some really nice woman of various ages in the Bournemouth and Southampton areas most could accomadate. I rejoined this year and to me its gone downhill, think i have wasted my money, not one meet yet, and so many scammers, or wanting money or gifts first etc, one woman from London because I wouldn’t buy pictures etc started sending abusive & threatening messages also not so much choice either.

Will give it until my membership runs out next week and don’t think i will bother again.

I think it's pot luck like waiting for buses when I was looking in that area a while back in 2019 no one would accommodate, then around 2021 onwards had 2 arrangements with 2 separate young milfs who could.

Offline Everhard115

Yeh she recently reached out again and said she was in an actual arrangement with someone which recently ended that was a 200ppm, which is fair enough and looking again. I'm currently in a pretty decent arrangement, just window shopping atm .

What is you mode of operation Updownandaround ? I have in my early 40's , decent shape have no DP but I give them access to my private gallery when I have some pics once I message them. My struggle is that I get them to whats app but then they go really quiet and barely reply. Even if they reply then very flakey last minute cancellations etc are pretty annoying.

I am limited with time as can only meet one day a week and I feel that spoils my chances. Girls loose interest or some one else comes along and then its game over.

Thanks

Offline updownandaround

What is you mode of operation Updownandaround ? I have in my early 40's , decent shape have no DP but I give them access to my private gallery when I have some pics once I message them. My struggle is that I get them to whats app but then they go really quiet and barely reply. Even if they reply then very flakey last minute cancellations etc are pretty annoying.

I am limited with time as can only meet one day a week and I feel that spoils my chances. Girls loose interest or some one else comes along and then its game over.

Thanks

My MO is pretty simple.

I have a pretty decent profile on Seeking in terms of written content, to the point where girls compliment me on it, it's designed to suck in the intelligent ones which is a preference. Remember that a lot of guys will almost immediately ask for a girl's number or hand out theirs, this is a bit desperate in my books so I will make a girl jump through a few hoops first. (Also remember that girls live in a different world to us blokes, regardless of heir looks, they get a lot of interest on Seeking/Insta/real life so you have to stand out in your approach and make them invest in the interaction) These questions qualify the girl as to whether she's the right one for me and it moves to convo along. Remember that most girls haven't got a clue how to maintain or even start a conversation because they expect us to and often haven't really developed those skills. Once at the end of my script, I get them to bounce to my Whatsapp. After that, we'll do a voice call and then a video call, if I'm happy after those two stages then I'll organise a meat. (Spelling mistake intended)

Offline Everhard115

 Thank you , got it. Pretty solid approach and seems to work for you. I will try it when I get on seeking next.

Offline simit

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This one has reappeared with a new profile.  Based in Gloucester / Cheltenham.  As had a profile on AW - be warned.

Offline updownandaround

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This one has reappeared with a new profile.  Based in Gloucester / Cheltenham.  As had a profile on AW - be warned.

What's her AW profile?

Offline Cunning Punt

It shows the state of things on Seeking when fairly ordinary looking chubby lasses in Glos. are expecting at least 250.

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250-300ppm and can't host.


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250 a week, can host.


« Last Edit: May 27, 2023, 02:09:29 pm by Cunning Punt »

Offline Mr_Kinky

I noticed some girls have the premium account.  Not sure why though, since girls exchange messages for free. 

Offline Maverick090

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This one has reappeared with a new profile.  Based in Gloucester / Cheltenham.  As had a profile on AW - be warned.

Anybody seen recently, is she worth a punt? Does anybody have her AW link?

Online southcoastpunter

I noticed some girls have the premium account.  Not sure why though, since girls exchange messages for free.

it gives them enhanced filtering and "hiding" (certain info) facilities - and its a LOT less than we guys pay, something like £18 per month and (it used to be, not sure if it still is) free for any girl signing up with a University email address (to encourge Uni students to join presumably). Some women also think it demonstrates they are "serious" about being a SB and not just time wasters.

FWIW, some guys tend to think that premium ladies are the more "pro" ladies but i haven't personally found that to be the case.
« Last Edit: May 28, 2023, 10:48:33 am by southcoastpunter »

Offline Cunning Punt

FWIW, some guys tend to think that premium ladies are the more "pro" ladies but i haven't personally found that to be the case.

Yes, as you say, I reckon most of the girls on premium have an education establishment email.

Offline Palace123

I noticed some girls have the premium account.  Not sure why though, since girls exchange messages for free.

Almost certainly scammers, Pro's or asking for the world...since good looking girls are inundated, they don't need to market themselves whatsoever and tbh..I can't see them forking out just to see more of people's profiles - girls are not used to paying for dating sites so I very much doubt they would here.  IMO if there's a premium profile..something is not quite right..
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Almost certainly scammers, Pro's or asking for the world...since good looking girls are inundated, they don't need to market themselves whatsoever and tbh..I can't see them forking out just to see more of people's profiles - girls are not used to paying for dating sites so I very much doubt they would here.  IMO if there's a premium profile..something is not quite right..

You do post some crap. did you read the above? OK you are entitled to your opinion but as always you express it as fact. it is not fact!

Offline Palace123

You do post some crap. did you read the above? OK you are entitled to your opinion but as always you express it as fact. it is not fact!

I've never expressed anything as fact...but your earlier statement appeared to be to be factually informing people that hot girls are legitimately paying for premium for a bunch of reasons...if you read I said IMO...but, you seem to be disparaging of other opinions.


Let's agree that you carry on believing your notion that they are mainly legit and are more than happy to spend money on features.....I'll stick with mine which is that they are getting featured/boosted for a reason.  I'll leave it on this...it pays to be wise and cautious.
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Offline BN99

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I have a suspicion this one

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Is on AW as

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She just sent me an offer on MYP. And the pictures between the 3 sites are all the same person.

Offline updownandaround

She just sent me an offer on MYP. And the pictures between the 3 sites are all the same person.

By the looks of things, the dinner will cost more than the ppm 😂

Offline Maverick090

She just sent me an offer on MYP. And the pictures between the 3 sites are all the same person.

I did her about 18 months ago, she was offering it on a plate for free back then. But I just got cold feet as she was desperate and a big old bird. 🐷

Offline inalco

She just sent me an offer on MYP. And the pictures between the 3 sites are all the same person.


MYP?

Which site is that pls?  Sorry to be dense.

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MYP?

Which site is that pls?  Sorry to be dense.

i might be wrong, but i took that as a typo and he meant - WYP (Whats Your Price) where a lady can offer you a first date for £x and/or you can offer a lady £y for a date or counter offer. It costs nothing to join and offer dates but you have to buy credits to open communications/messages with the lady.

Offline updownandaround

i might be wrong, but i took that as a typo and he meant - WYP (Whats Your Price) where a lady can offer you a first date for £x and/or you can offer a lady £y for a date or counter offer. It costs nothing to join and offer dates but you have to buy credits to open communications/messages with the lady.

I think it's part of the Seeking diaspora of websites, I've heard good things about it but I've never tried it. There used to be a site called MissTravel too along similar lines, the idea being you found girls who wanted to travel with you, for a price.

Offline inalco

i might be wrong, but i took that as a typo and he meant - WYP (Whats Your Price) where a lady can offer you a first date for £x and/or you can offer a lady £y for a date or counter offer. It costs nothing to join and offer dates but you have to buy credits to open communications/messages with the lady.

Many thanks, I hadn't heard of that site before, and yes I'm sure you're right, it was a typo.

Not so many from the Bournemouth area, but none I recognise from AW, so that's a bonus I guess.

Offline radman67

WYP comes with a health warning a lot of the girls on there will frankly try to fleece you


Offline updownandaround

Same girl..

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and

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Has anyone managed to meet with her?

Yes I have met her, some years ago now, I'm not sure she was fully on the game in those days. No idea what she looks like these days as most of the photos on SA were being used back in 2019!

Bad attitude, crap shag, incredibly entitled, need I go on?

Online southcoastpunter

Same girl..

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and

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Has anyone managed to meet with her?

is it the same girl?

i have met the seeking one (although not through Seeking) earlier this year - and it wouldn't surprise me if she was on escort sites.

I would only partly agree with updownandaround as I didnt think she came across as particularly "entitled" although she does have strong opinion on certain things and she has done lots of things in and connected with "paid sex" and sexual entertainment /lap dance clubs etc. she therefore has a view on the value of her time, although it wasn't too bad from memory - something like £150 plus travel plus babysitter costs.

Crap shag? depends on what you like. she likes it hard and fast and is up for more or less anything.

Offline updownandaround


is it the same girl?

i have met the seeking one (although not through Seeking) earlier this year - and it wouldn't surprise me if she was on escort sites.

I would only partly agree with updownandaround as I didnt think she came across as particularly "entitled" although she does have strong opinion on certain things and she has done lots of things in and connected with "paid sex" and sexual entertainment /lap dance clubs etc. she therefore has a view on the value of her time, although it wasn't too bad from memory - something like £150 plus travel plus babysitter costs.

Crap shag? depends on what you like. she likes it hard and fast and is up for more or less anything.

I must have caught her on a bad day in that case but either way, I wouldn't go back for seconds. In my journey on Seeking so far, different guys have different experiences with the same girl. I just found her to be a commodity shag.

Online southcoastpunter

or perhaps i caight her on a good day! i only saw her the once and she wasn't my personal cup of tea but might "do it" for another guy!

Offline updownandaround

or perhaps i caight her on a good day! i only saw her the once and she wasn't my personal cup of tea but might "do it" for another guy!

So true what you've said there. I met a girl last year who does OF and so many guys absolutely hated her but I on the other hand got on with her like a house on fire. I stopped seeing her mainly because whenever I went to see her I didn't know if she was secretly recording the whole thing for her OF. She certainly wasn't shy at being on camera!

Offline Cunning Punt

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Cheltenham.

Fake profile, possibly a member of this site. Your phrases are a dead giveaway, pal!

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Cheltenham.

Fake profile, possibly a member of this site. Your phrases are a dead giveaway, pal!

I chatted with this one some while ago on 07387 306106.  Waster!

Offline Hantsolo

or perhaps i caight her on a good day! i only saw her the once and she wasn't my personal cup of tea but might "do it" for another guy!

Spoke to her years ago but never met, every time I rejoin she messages me and is always keen to meet. Still offering £150ph, could sometimes accommodate but has always sounded too professional and too many "do and don't" for me.

Offline updownandaround

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Again, posting this in the SW thread as I didn't manage to find an active thread in the Wales section. If you engage with this one then be prepared for a lot of sob stories but once we cut to the chase she wanted 200.


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