Your punting persona

[Romeo Sensini]

Does it differ from the real-time you.

Just read a review on here of a girl that I've seen a couple of times and it has made me realise that I need to try and let go more in my punts.

The trouble is, it takes much longer than an hour for my confident self to surface.

There must be other blokes on here who are reserved in real life, but do any of you manage to unleash your inner "beast" from the off?

[cueball]

For me, I can't have two personas, I've got one face for all.... like it or lump it.

My personality is the same on here, on punts and in real life.

Confidence in punting comes with experience though, we have all been that shy first time punter.

Next time you're feeling shy or lacking confidence.... think of the money.... you're paying upwards of two quid per minute... every minute costs two quid... There's no time to waste... get stuck in.

[Romeo Sensini]

There's no time to waste... get stuck in

Thanks, thats a good motto to start with.

Also, Google is telling me to take more risks.

[fudi_maar]

here must be other blokes on here who are reserved in real life, but do any of you manage to unleash your inner "beast" from the off?

Good thread. Yes, I'm very polite and civil in real life and have been the same in my punting persona. However....just in the last month I am consciously trying to change that. Being 'nice' in the bedroom is not as beneficial as I thought it would be. I'm realising that a lot of woman want to be dominated, they want a strong man in the bedroom, they want to be told what they have to do. They want a strong, assertive guy who's in control. So, I'm becoming that. The last few blowjobs I've had, I've held onto the girls hair/head/neck and moved her head up and down, rather than being the gentleman that I have been. I've pulled their hair as I fuck them doggy and they love it. I've shoved my cock in their mouths when they are talking to assert the dominance, and I've encouraged them to take it in deeper, and it's worked well.
I have had women in my private life tell me that I need to be more alpha, and I'm sure I have lost a lot of shags cos I come across as the softly-spoken, polite, nice guy. Well, if women want a bad-boy, then I can try and become one to the best of my abilities.

[mrpeterman]

Yes I deffo have two persona's ,,in civvies life sex is clearly a two way affair, ire try to make girl cum if eating her out, finger her ifvthat what she likes etc etc, and will not 'demand' too much chopping and changing positions etc

When punting I likes what I likes, I'm there for me, so get things some partners may not enjoy doing, i.e. Them facesitting, 69' I like to instruct the working girl how I like my cock sucked and don't move on from that or anything else until I'm ready, I go for the positions I like to have the girl, i.e. Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl etc if eating her out I move on from that when I'm ready,

All in all during civvie sex I'm a willing and caring partner or generally try to be ...in punting I'm there for me and my needs alone, that's not to say I don't try to have a bit of banter with the wg, but I tell them much more my needs and wants, as they want me in and popping and out in quick time where in real life you get chance to explore and work out your partners needs/likes

I remember one wg telling me or asking me what I liked, as she wasn't a mind reader so I instructed her during cock sucking and she did it exactly as advised it was fucking awesome

So yes I have 2 personas in that sense

[amanhasnoname]

Very useful thread for those of us yet to build the experience to get exactly what we want from our bookings, many thanks for your input guys and I'm sure lots of will learn from it 

[Happylad]

When you get to my age there isn`t time to have more than one personnage

[12 MONTHS IN A YEAR]

Paying or not, just as we have a persona so does the WG. More important to be what you are than what your not. Imagine your WG
is trying to be dominant, you push her, she ups the stakes, are you willing to push higher again?
Not saying advice is wrong above, just do not get yourself into a situation you cannot handle.
Slightly off track I remember watching a programme about escorting etc on one of the obscure channels on SKY. This guys was paying
bundles for BBW action, however he would not date one. Would have been cheaper to by a mile.

[billybobsmith]

Paying or not, just as we have a persona so does the WG. More important to be what you are than what your not. Imagine your WG
is trying to be dominant, you push her, she ups the stakes, are you willing to push higher again?
Not saying advice is wrong above, just do not get yourself into a situation you cannot handle.
Slightly off track I remember watching a programme about escorting etc on one of the obscure channels on SKY. This guys was paying
bundles for BBW action, however he would not date one. Would have been cheaper to by a mile.

Well, there are certain girls I would punt with i.e. tattooed, pierced, Goth type for example that I wouldn't go for on civvy street.  I've been with the odd larger girl and I would be embarrassed to be seen out with someone the size of a tank or to bring home some girl with 20 facial piercings etc. to meet my parents.
Same with black, Chinese etc. women.  I don' mind shagging the odd Asian girl as they're something different but in my real life, I would want to be with a girl of my own Caucasian skin tone and wouldn't want mixed race children and so on.  Maybe non-PC or seem racist these days but it's just my upbringing and I'm sure my parents would prefer this.

[12 MONTHS IN A YEAR]

Billy the way you answered that was fine, always find it interesting paying for a lady you could meet for free, however I do get your point sir.

[billybobsmith]

Billy the way you answered that was fine, always find it interesting paying for a lady you could meet for free, however I do get your point sir.

Well, in my town I can count the number of black women on one and Asian girls on both hands.  Practically none and the handful I know are in their 40s-50s / married usually to white guys.
Same with girls with loads of tats and piercings.  Seen a few about but they're not anywhere near my social circles so AW / SA gives me a chance to experience something different.

[bearcat69]

I'm just me on a punt really. Maybe a bit more extroverted and sexual, I don't normally go around calling girls dirty bitches whilst slapping their arses in every day situations, and I don't want to waste any time getting stuck in, but other than that I am just me, although I'll use a different name and be vague about my life details of course. But other than that, I don't see any need to put on airs and graces to a prossie. Best not to try too hard to impress a prossie IMO, they might get the wrong idea and a whore with WAS bothering me is the last thing I need.

[joe diddley]

For many of us, I suspect, you have a different persona for punting in your early days. After a while as you become more relaxed in the 'hobby' you find that your punting persona evaporates and you become more ... err ... you. Good to still punt with a different name, occupation (if this might identify you) and general area of residence, but otherwise it's too much of a pfaff to comport yourself differently.

[YorkshireGuy]

I'm always myself but also reserved and never know what to say when we meet for the first time, after we've fucked that soon disappears so I feel completely relaxed.

[Romeo Sensini]

Good thread. Yes, I'm very polite and civil in real life and have been the same in my punting persona. However....just in the last month I am consciously trying to change that. Being 'nice' in the bedroom is not as beneficial as I thought it would be. I'm realising that a lot of woman want to be dominated, they want a strong man in the bedroom, they want to be told what they have to do. They want a strong, assertive guy who's in control. So, I'm becoming that. The last few blowjobs I've had, I've held onto the girls hair/head/neck and moved her head up and down, rather than being the gentleman that I have been. I've pulled their hair as I fuck them doggy and they love it. I've shoved my cock in their mouths when they are talking to assert the dominance, and I've encouraged them to take it in deeper, and it's worked well.
I have had women in my private life tell me that I need to be more alpha, and I'm sure I have lost a lot of shags cos I come across as the softly-spoken, polite, nice guy. Well, if women want a bad-boy, then I can try and become one to the best of my abilities.

This is what I'm interested in. I suppose the key is in the making the conscious decision to be different.

[stampjones]

For many of us, I suspect, you have a different persona for punting in your early days. After a while as you become more relaxed in the 'hobby' you find that your punting persona evaporates and you become more ... err ... you. Good to still punt with a different name, occupation (if this might identify you) and general area of residence, but otherwise it's too much of a pfaff to comport yourself differently.

100% agree Joe

[Romeo Sensini]

Paying or not, just as we have a persona so does the WG. More important to be what you are than what your not. Imagine your WG
is trying to be dominant, you push her, she ups the stakes, are you willing to push higher again?
Not saying advice is wrong above, just do not get yourself into a situation you cannot handle.
Slightly off track I remember watching a programme about escorting etc on one of the obscure channels on SKY. This guys was paying
bundles for BBW action, however he would not date one. Would have been cheaper to by a mile.

Theres an old saying that chubby girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you 

[YidArmy]

I find as soon as my dick gets hard the inner dirty bastard inside me comes out naturally. That applies in my private and punting lives. IMO girls quite like the nice, polite guy who's got a bit of a dirty streak in the bedroom. 

[Gordon Bennett]

Just be true to yourself. Absolutely no point in trying to put on some sort of front or act a certain way. Main thing is to enjoy yourself on your punt and avoid any thoughts of measuring your experience by what others say or claim.
My guess is that the average punter is not half as charismatic, confident and virile as you may think, but like I say, they are irrelevant: just do what you want to do, not what you think you're supposed to do.

[OakTree]

I do slip into character when I'm on a punt.

In the real world I have the worries and limitations of normal humdrum life, bracing myself against the shit of a simple day.

Punting on the other hand is a step out of that. In that world I'm carefree, super confident and on a mission.

It's a shame really I don't bring that persona to the table in real life.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

I think I'm pretty much the same. I'd no more adopt a different persona with a WG than I would with a hairdresser or accountant or something.

[willie loman]

Just be true to yourself. Absolutely no point in trying to put on some sort of front or act a certain way. Main thing is to enjoy yourself on your punt and avoid any thoughts of measuring your experience by what others say or claim.
My guess is that the average punter is not half as charismatic, confident and virile as you may think, but like I say, they are irrelevant: just do what you want to do, not what you think you're supposed to do.

To thine own self be true, as polonius advised Hamlet. I personally take control, not because I'm alpha, but I find letting the girls set the pace, crap massage etc, doesn't work. I try in a punt, to have the same sort of encounter as I would have in real life.

[12 MONTHS IN A YEAR]

Theres an old saying that chubby girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you 

[Thecunninglinguist]

When you get to my age there isn`t time to have more than one personnage

+1 l have the same problem! They get what they get on the day.

[Redbull4]

I'm more true to myself when meeting with a WG then any other time normaly. I don't come up with false and elbarite details. Stick to the basics that way you don't have to remember who you said to who, be yourself and the rest will take care of itself.
I also try and be kind to a WG, I'm only there to have a good time nothing more nothing less.

[BarryProudfoot]

I do slip into character when I'm on a punt.

In the real world I have the worries and limitations of normal humdrum life, bracing myself against the shit of a simple day.

Punting on the other hand is a step out of that. In that world I'm carefree, super confident and on a mission.

It's a shame really I don't bring that persona to the table in real life.

That is interesting. Have you ever actually tried being the carefree, super confident guy in the real world?

[rockharders]

Never once occurred to me to put on some kind of "personality" when I see a WG. Sure even after many years of mongering I can still get nerves when seeing a new girl, but once I get over that I just become myself. I'm not interested in being someone I'm not if I don't enjoy it.

I'm just there to fuck and have fun. I'll be anonymous with my name, vague about my work and use a punting phone number.

[Silver Birch]

I think I am fairly natural to myself when on a punt, but a quick read of words like "very sexy man", "lovely guy", "great fun" in my AW feedback would suggest otherwise 

In more seriousness, the main difference is that I am not worried about being judged when expressing things I enjoy and want to try. In a relationship, some things just cannot be 'unsaid' if she finds the idea abhorrent.

[catweazle]

I have a complete alter ego: name, occupation, location, age, status. I've done it for years so it's easy to put on the other me (but like soap actors who have only played one character)

[drogo]

I have a complete alter ego: name, occupation, location, age, status. I've done it for years so it's easy to put on the other me (but like soap actors who have only played one character)

same, although I do like to change it up sometimes, is it weird that I 'downgrade' myself in my counter ego?

[Home Alone]

As a result of some successful counselling a few years ago, I'm much more self-confident than I used to be and I'm fairly sure that comes across in my punting.

Also, although I'm a fairly vanilla sort of bloke, I occasionally visit an Escort who I think will take me out of my comfort zone. When that happens, I feel great: both because I've gone out of the comfort zone; and because I've survived!

[Jay189]

Just myself.

Don't see the point of persona tbh?

I even use my real first name and job when they ask.

[Delfrommem]

I adopt the persona of Michael Aspell for punting.


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I try to affect this face when getting rimmed.

[FLYING BLUE]

For me, I can't have two personas, I've got one face for all.... like it or lump it.

My personality is the same on here, on punts and in real life.

Confidence in punting comes with experience though, we have all been that shy first time punter.

Next time you're feeling shy or lacking confidence.... think of the money.... you're paying upwards of two quid per minute... every minute costs two quid... There's no time to waste... get stuck in.

Same goes for me. Ive no time for double dealing...I am who I am.

[howrude]

I certainly don't put on an act when punting but there is a way I behave which which I wouldn't normally. Different situations bring out different behavior and the discreteness, anonymity and excitement of punting has it's spontaneous effect. I'm naughtier, more puerile and crude in a way which turns me on but which I would hold back on if I was dating.

[Dipper]

I adopt the persona of Michael Aspell for punting.


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[JamesKW]

Good thread. Yes, I'm very polite and civil in real life and have been the same in my punting persona. However....just in the last month I am consciously trying to change that. Being 'nice' in the bedroom is not as beneficial as I thought it would be. I'm realising that a lot of woman want to be dominated, they want a strong man in the bedroom, they want to be told what they have to do. They want a strong, assertive guy who's in control. So, I'm becoming that. The last few blowjobs I've had, I've held onto the girls hair/head/neck and moved her head up and down, rather than being the gentleman that I have been. I've pulled their hair as I fuck them doggy and they love it. I've shoved my cock in their mouths when they are talking to assert the dominance, and I've encouraged them to take it in deeper, and it's worked well.
I have had women in my private life tell me that I need to be more alpha, and I'm sure I have lost a lot of shags cos I come across as the softly-spoken, polite, nice guy. Well, if women want a bad-boy, then I can try and become one to the best of my abilities.

I find it different on the party scene,we have a lot of young bucks who pound the girls from here to kingdom come and like to perform infront of their mates,so the girls are really appreciative of the guys who treat them better and you get longer time.

[Wideload]

I'm normally a happy go lucky chap and punting is similar to civi.  I once went to see a lady who no longer works which I'm disappointed about, however, was having a shit day, had a crap drive over to see her.  Only had half an hour with her, but as soon as we were in the bedroom, something came over me and I ordered her onto her knees and told her to stick me. Well, the language that came out of me was like I was a legend pornstar. Pulled out and shot a load over her face. Bloody loved it, but not had the confidence to repeat it.