Men - do any of you feel slightly envious you can't sell your body for sex?

[ipreferbutts]

For me, I feel somewhat envious/jealous/bitter that I can't sell my body for sex in the same way women can. Do any other men feel this way?

Obviously it is what it is. Biology gave men far higher testosterone, so women have the luxury of being able to charge for sex when men cannot. Even a fat ugly woman can charge £100/hour and get high demand for her services. But a decent looking man cannot charge anything, because the demand simply isn't there.

Maybe I am the only one who thinks this way, who knows.

[imtheman]

I think I'd starve if I tried to charge ladies to enjoy my body 

[Metalgear2018]

Some men do. Who are good looking

[OakTree]

I’ve mentioned this before on here. Years ago long before I’d ever paid for sex I worked with a guy who was a male escort in the evenings. He was a handsome rugged lookin fellow but He was a bit cagey about what was involved as I quizzed him about all the gorgeous stunners he must of fucked. His reply was I can assure you it’s nothing like you think. In my naivety back then I had no idea he was probably getting his arse banged for cash. The plain reality of it is that most male escorts predominantly are of only interest to gay punters.

[ipreferbutts]

I think I'd starve if I tried to charge ladies to enjoy my body 

Well yes, precisely my point.

Some men do. Who are good looking

Nah the demand just isn't there.

I’ve mentioned this before on here. Years ago long before I’d ever paid for sex I worked with a guy who was a male escort in the evenings. He was a handsome rugged lookin fellow but He was a bit cagey about what was involved as I quizzed him about all the gorgeous stunners he must of fucked. His reply was I can assure you it’s nothing like you think. In my naivety back then I had no idea he was probably getting his arse banged for cash. The plain reality of it is that most male escorts predominantly are of only interest to gay punters.

Yes the gay market has high demand. I was more referring to straight men, but your point is definitely a valid one.

[shagmore]

Yep, would love to get paid for having sex, but the only draw back is that you would probably get all the dog ugly ones, and not the stunners .

The grass is always greener..

I will stick with the way things are rather than earn a fe sucks to bang an ugly fatty.

[JamesKW]

Some men do. Who are good looking

If they are skrewed by a lot of men, if you read SAAFE you will know this is a complete myth.At swingers and fetish parties I have seen the most obese,unattractive women you could imagine being pumped by young attractive men for free.A woman never needs to pay.

[Rocket Scientist]

I'll give my body to science upon my passing

[peter purves]

For me, I feel somewhat envious/jealous/bitter that I can't sell my body for sex in the same way women can. Do any other men feel this way?

Obviously it is what it is. Biology gave men far higher testosterone, so women have the luxury of being able to charge for sex when men cannot. Even a fat ugly woman can charge £100/hour and get high demand for her services. But a decent looking man cannot charge anything, because the demand simply isn't there.

Maybe I am the only one who thinks this way, who knows.

I wouldn't want to

Nothing to stop a male attempting doing it though - and I think there is a market there also

[Rocket Scientist]

Yep, would love to get paid for having sex, but the only draw back is that you would probably get all the dog ugly ones, and not the stunners .

this must be how most prossies feel. It's a service not a dating agency

[wristjob]

Yep, would love to get paid for having sex, but the only draw back is that you would probably get all the dog ugly ones, and not the stunners .

But that's the job and that's what girls get. I don't think I'd want to for a one-off, but if I could earn 2 grand a week screwing and eating out fat hideous women I'd probably get used to it.

@OP - yes I am a bit jealous. There are plenty of critics who fail to acknowledge it's an option, and an option we don't have,

[django0700]

Do any other men feel this way?

Not me.

[TomUnknown4]

Yeah would be an ideal situation really, to be able to do it on the side as well as a normal career. Really got me thinking now 

[CheeseBoard]

Simply no.

If I did, then it become a chore and fun would go out of it. 

[Jonestown]

Who says if you are a male you cant sell your body, you dont know until you have tried, and i guess 99% of us have never tried. Im sure there is a lot of blue rinse out there clamouring for a banging that would be happy to give you a start in a new line of work - just get yourself up on AW and see what happens.

[JamesKW]

Who says if you are a male you cant sell your body, you dont know until you have tried, and i guess 99% of us have never tried. Im sure there is a lot of blue rinse out there clamouring for a banging that would be happy to give you a start in a new line of work - just get yourself up on AW and see what happens.

Go to any swingers party and you will see there are men that have no quality control at all,even with my low levels there are women that I wouldn't consider.These women can get as much as they want free of charge.They just need to visit places like Rios.The Bi Fun party I reviewed last year is a perfect example.

[MilleMiglia]

Hetero male escorting is pretty well non existent. Long before I ever came to this forum I'd read numerous articles, in all manner of publications, all saying the same thing.

[freeze44]

Well its discrimination at it's worst! Love to get paid but unless I'm getting rodgered up the ass then no way I can perform like a female. 3 times a day at most and if requested to give a big load then be only a dribble by 3rd time! And to cope with the mingers be taking viagra via drip!!

Plus men normally good at comms, timekeeping and keeping 'family' problems to a minimum so be great at being reliable to. Think would also have better chat and banter and would have drinks and sport/porn on the telly as well.

So reckon be a top prozzie...just lacking a pair of tits and a pussy....life so unfair! 

[WASA38]

External Link/Members Only. 1969 film which won many awards.

Probably a fair assessment of chances of success, even for someone with Jon Voight's looks.. 

[StumbleBum]

Where are all the equal rights campaigners now 

[Jonestown]

External Link/Members Only. 1969 film which won many awards.

Probably a fair assessment of chances of success, even for someone with Jon Voight's looks..

Things have moved on a bit in the last 50 years, Id like to think Richard Gere’s American Gigolo was a slightly better advert for male service providers.

AW London has 1075 male SP’s, surely they cant all be gay ?

[JamesKW]

Things have moved on a bit in the last 50 years, Id like to think Richard Gere’s American Gigolo was a slightly better advert for male service providers.

AW London has 1075 male SP’s, surely they cant all be gay ?

At parties I have been to I have seen fat women in their sixties being shagged by young six foot black blokes,(definitely not one for the wank bank) for free, if you think you have any chance on AW why not set up a profile.

[Rocket Scientist]

The male paid sex market is small but does exist.  Typically it's the husband booking the guy for cuckold/voyeur sessions

[Chorley]

At parties I have been to I have seen fat women in their sixties being shagged by young six foot black blokes,(definitely not one for the wank bank) for free, if you think you have any chance on AW why not set up a profile.

From what I've read on sites like Fabswingers, black guys are very much in demand and can make a killing. The downside, as you've alluded to, is that they probably have to shag a fair few mingers   

[JamesKW]

From what I've read on sites like Fabswingers, black guys are very much in demand and can make a killing. The downside, as you've alluded to, is that they probably have to shag a fair few mingers   

I don't think they care,many young ones will shag women I wouldn't consider for free and my bar is fairly low.A youngish black guy is very much in demand at any fetish or swinger event,which means the old,ugly girls are more selective on who shags them.At most events of this nature there are ten times more men than women.

[Skeleton]

Thought about this, but then next time you're on a train/bus, have a look round at the women and see how many you would want to even see naked, never mind have to shag them, for me the number is pretty low so I know I wouldn't be cut out for escorting!

[FlaccidChimp]

I have visited a few WG's that enjoy their work. One lady only worked 3 days a week because well.. that's how many times a week she wanted to have sex and she probably only slept with 1-2 guys on those days. She also had a regular day job. She basically selected a few decent looking guys she wanted to sleep with and got paid for it (120 an hour). She is an average looking woman. That's an extra £360 a week.

I've also had masseuses that liked me offer paid sex. Some I heard that give full service wouldn't do it with me also. It like they select who they want to sleep with, and can decline because they only have to do massages.

[Rocket Scientist]

IShe basically selected a few decent looking guys she wanted to sleep with.

How does that work; does she check them out before the meet?

[OakTree]

I have visited a few WG's that enjoy their work. One lady only worked 3 days a week because well.. that's how many times a week she wanted to have sex and she probably only slept with 1-2 guys on those days. She also had a regular day job. She basically selected a few decent looking guys she wanted to sleep with and got paid for it (120 an hour). She is an average looking woman. That's an extra £360 a week.

I've also had masseuses that liked me offer paid sex. Some I heard that give full service wouldn't do it with me also. It like they select who they want to sleep with, and can decline because they only have to do massages.

You’re deluded mate.

If I had a pound every time a WG told me she only does this for fun and only sees a couple of punters a day I could punt for free.

As for picking just the good looking ones, apart from massaging your ego it would be unlikely. Unless of course you sent her a photo. Please tell me you didn’t send her a photo.

[FlaccidChimp]

I went to see her a few times. Apart from this time I had never seen a WG pull out her vibrator and massage her clit during intercourse while she moans. I'm positive she enjoyed it. After several weeks of finding her profile, she pulled it. She gave me a new number and told me she is only doing hours now. She's the only WG I met that had done this.

 Also one day when I walked out of a walk up some girls saw me and one said she would consider escorting. She said she's going to sleep with guys anyway and this way you get paid. The other girl then informed her that she would have to sleep with less attractive men too, which she didn't want to do. I'm certainly not a model but have a fair amount of looks. I also see decent looking guys visiting massage shops and other places so it's not impossible for a WG to do this if she wants. Lots of them however probably visualize bank notes on your head while they're sleeping with you.

[FlaccidChimp]

How does that work; does she check them out before the meet?

She saw punters less discriminately at first then changed her number and only gave it out to the guys she wanted as regulars.

[Analist]

You might as well ask
Women - do any of you feel slightly envious you can't sell your body for sex?

Let's face it, the proportion of women who actually escort is a very small minority. And the ones who enjoy the profession will be a minority of that.
In theory all women could escort but in reality most would never consider it even if they're poor and desperate.
Becoming an escort, male or female, needs mental toughness, a high level of service to attract repeat customers, and business sense. Not many of us would fit the bill.

[fallentrees1321]

Got to be honest I am not envious that it is not a career choice that is open to me .

I just would not want to force myself to get it up and perform for anything that walked through the door . After a while you would probably stop enjoying sex  . Besides given as others have already said , even the biggest and ugliest of women can find someone to give them one for free , imagine the sorts you would end up with coming to you to pay for it . I mean ive tackled a few big birds myself in my younger years when I used to drink myself stupid all the time . But doing it day after day whilst sober would probably just destroy the sex drive eventually .

I know this is precisely what a prossie does (well not get it up but you get the idea) , but that is their choice .

[Rocket Scientist]

Got to be honest I am not envious that it is not a career choice that is open to me .

I just would not want to force myself to get it up and perform for anything that walked through the door . After a while you would probably stop enjoying sex  . Besides given as others have already said , even the biggest and ugliest of women can find someone to give them one for free , imagine the sorts you would end up with coming to you to pay for it . I mean ive tackled a few big birds myself in my younger years when I used to drink myself stupid all the time . But doing it day after day whilst sober would probably just destroy the sex drive eventually .

I know this is precisely what a prossie does (well not get it up but you get the idea) , but that is their choice .

Can male porn stars cherry pick?  If they're doing a shoot with chubbies, someone's got to fuck them

[Ali Katt]

You’re deluded mate.

If I had a pound every time a WG told me she only does this for fun and only sees a couple of punters a day I could punt for free.

As for picking just the good looking ones, apart from massaging your ego it would be unlikely. Unless of course you sent her a photo. Please tell me you didn’t send her a photo.

+1 The guy doesn't even fuck women only has massages according to his posts.

[Ali Katt]

Can male porn stars cherry pick?  If they're doing a shoot with chubbies, someone's got to fuck them

Does seem to be the case if they are well known enough.

I don't think they care,many young ones will shag women I wouldn't consider for free and my bar is fairly low.A youngish black guy is very much in demand at any fetish or swinger event,which means the old,ugly girls are more selective on who shags them.At most events of this nature there are ten times more men than women.

Does seem to be true on all accounts. The irony is black women are less in demand than even Asian women or so it seems. With regards Black men I know one guy who is Black with two Jamaican parents he wants to settle down and have a family, but is sick of women using him to fulfil some "black cock" fantasy they have, he's sort of average looking, I know it's easy to be envious but if you are looking for something serious imagine how annoyed you would be if you found women were only seeing you because of your skin colour and the myths surrounding it and cared nothing about your personality.

[DeanoDeano]

Girls that don't want to be full time SPs and exercise a level of choice can just go on SA and take their pick.

[JamesDim]

It does seem a bit of a travesty that fat ugly beasts can be rewarded for their misfortunes, by earning an absolute stack of cash from charging men to stick their cock inside them - especially when there's averagely ok looking guys who struggle to laid at all the conventional way, let alone charging money for it.

The funny thing is, that some of these beats are probably shunned in daily life and no man looks their way (the way it should be if a women lets herself go in such a manner) - yet in the world of punting and online, there's an army of men willing to pay their hard earned cash to have sex with them. It really speaks volumes about how desperate us men are, just for a bit of fanny - men think with their dicks is an understatement.

Is it time we men on UKP began to take a stand by blacklisting these fat ugly prossies? Why should they deserve to get paid and celebrated for their gluttony, lack of hygiene and laziness? '#dontpayfortrash #onlyprettywomendeservetobepaid #menhaveselfrespect

Why are we letting these ugly rotten whores capitalise on our weakness for sex? It puts the male gender to shame.

Blacklist these garbage waste disposal units and let's only pay for the women who take pride in their appearance and body, hitting at least a 7/10 in looks - who's with me?

*tumbleweed*

p.s just kidding (mostly) 

[Bogof60]

It does seem a bit of a travesty that fat ugly beasts can be rewarded for their misfortunes, by earning an absolute stack of cash from charging men to stick their cock inside them - especially when there's averagely ok looking guys who struggle to laid at all the conventional way, let alone charging money for it.

The funny thing is, that some of these beats are probably shunned in daily life and no man looks their way (the way it should be if a women lets herself go in such a manner) - yet in the world of punting and online, there's an army of men willing to pay their hard earned cash to have sex with them. It really speaks volumes about how desperate us men are, just for a bit of fanny - men think with their dicks is an understatement.

Is it time we men on UKP began to take a stand by blacklisting these fat ugly prossies? Why should they deserve to get paid and celebrated for their gluttony, lack of hygiene and laziness? '#dontpayfortrash #onlyprettywomendeservetobepaid #menhaveselfrespect

Why are we letting these ugly rotten whores capitalise on our weakness for sex? It puts the male gender to shame.

Blacklist these garbage waste disposal units and let's only pay for the women who take pride in their appearance and body, hitting at least a 7/10 in looks - who's with me?

*tumbleweed*

p.s just kidding (mostly) 

Ffs
What are you trying to say.
We should only fuck stunners who just lie there with their legs open and charge $ 200 for the privilege. 
Or should we be allowed to fuck a 6 10 who gives her all.
Give me the 6 10 who actually has a pulse to those over entitled 10 10 who are up their own arses.
You sound like the punting police

[ipreferbutts]

You might as well ask
Women - do any of you feel slightly envious you can't sell your body for sex?

Let's face it, the proportion of women who actually escort is a very small minority. And the ones who enjoy the profession will be a minority of that.
In theory all women could escort but in reality most would never consider it even if they're poor and desperate.
Becoming an escort, male or female, needs mental toughness, a high level of service to attract repeat customers, and business sense. Not many of us would fit the bill.

You're missing the point. I said the demand is always there for you as a woman - regardless of how ugly, fat or deformed you are, there will always be plenty of demand from men to have sex with you. Not the case for a man.

I never mentioned anything about enjoying it or having "business sense". All I said was that the option is available for a woman, if you ever want to do it. The option isn't even available to men.

It does seem a bit of a travesty that fat ugly beasts can be rewarded for their misfortunes, by earning an absolute stack of cash from charging men to stick their cock inside them - especially when there's averagely ok looking guys who struggle to laid at all the conventional way, let alone charging money for it.

The funny thing is, that some of these beats are probably shunned in daily life and no man looks their way (the way it should be if a women lets herself go in such a manner) - yet in the world of punting and online, there's an army of men willing to pay their hard earned cash to have sex with them. It really speaks volumes about how desperate us men are, just for a bit of fanny - men think with their dicks is an understatement.

Is it time we men on UKP began to take a stand by blacklisting these fat ugly prossies? Why should they deserve to get paid and celebrated for their gluttony, lack of hygiene and laziness? '#dontpayfortrash #onlyprettywomendeservetobepaid #menhaveselfrespect

Why are we letting these ugly rotten whores capitalise on our weakness for sex? It puts the male gender to shame.

Blacklist these garbage waste disposal units and let's only pay for the women who take pride in their appearance and body, hitting at least a 7/10 in looks - who's with me?

*tumbleweed*

p.s just kidding (mostly) 

This is never going to happen because men have 5 times the testosterone (on average) that women do, so women can afford to be picky about who they have sex with and many average/ugly looking men are left with the scraps, so to speak.

Ffs
What are you trying to say.
We should only fuck stunners who just lie there with their legs open and charge $ 200 for the privilege. 
Or should we be allowed to fuck a 6 10 who gives her all.
Give me the 6 10 who actually has a pulse to those over entitled 10 10 who are up their own arses.
You sound like the punting police

That's true, I much prefer a 5/10 woman who finds me really sexy and puts in a lot of effort to the sex, compared to a 9/10 who makes no effort and doesn't like me. Every time I mention that though, people just call me gay, so perhaps most other men don't think this way.

[lewisjones23]

You're missing the point. I said the demand is always there for you as a woman - regardless of how ugly, fat or deformed you are, there will always be plenty of demand from men to have sex with you. Not the case for a man.

I never mentioned anything about enjoying it or having "business sense". All I said was that the option is available for a woman, if you ever want to do it. The option isn't even available to men.

This is never going to happen because men have 5 times the testosterone (on average) that women do, so women can afford to be picky about who they have sex with and many average/ugly looking men are left with the scraps, so to speak.

That's true, I much prefer a 5/10 woman who finds me really sexy and puts in a lot of effort to the sex, compared to a 9/10 who makes no effort and doesn't like me. Every time I mention that though, people just call me gay, so perhaps most other men don't think this way.

Id much rather go with a stunner who lay there than a bit of a dog putting some effort in

[Rocket Scientist]

If I attended a party with a selection of ladies waiting to be rogered, call them the good, the bad and the ugly, then I'd  probably shag the chubbies too. I mean, once you're there may as well fill your boots and make hay while the sun shines. I couldn't wouldn't show the same enthusiasm for a paid one2one session with a fatty. And that's why ugly birds get fucked at swingers parties. Am I alone?

[LLPunting]

Ffs
What are you trying to say.
We should only fuck stunners who just lie there with their legs open and charge $ 200 for the privilege. 
Or should we be allowed to fuck a 6 10 who gives her all.
Give me the 6 10 who actually has a pulse to those over entitled 10 10 who are up their own arses.
You sound like the punting police

All the commenters are in their own bubbles about what being an SP means to them, the circumstances, preconceptions and prejudices involved and the motivations in force.

I am very envious that any woman can sell sex services more easily than most men, she just needs to find her niche and Internet porn and escort sites make it very easy to find it.  I must make a better effort at finding my niche and having a go.  Will send a postcard when my first benefactor flies me somewhere awesome and we fuck like rabbits from one end of the penthouse to the other and all the way across the infinity pool.

[welshman]

Well yes, precisely my point.
Nah the demand just isn't there.
Yes the gay market has high demand. I was more referring to straight men, but your point is definitely a valid one.

I am quite surprised there is a demand for gay escorts. I assumed gay men could easily obtain sex through saunas and cruising spots and would not need to pay for sex.

[Plan R]

Men have to obtain and maintain an erection.
Women just have to open their legs...and possibly grease their rat up with some lube.

[GreyDave]

If I attended a party with a selection of ladies waiting to be rogered, call them the good, the bad and the ugly, then I'd  probably shag the chubbies too. I mean, once you're there may as well fill your boots and make hay while the sun shines. I couldn't wouldn't show the same enthusiasm for a paid one2one session with a fatty. And that's why ugly birds get fucked at swingers parties. Am I alone?

Before it got closed I went to a party at the Spa in Beacontree..(some of you know the place )  helped by 3 doses of 25mg sildenafil though the 4 hrs I was there
 I did the good the bad and the ugly  but in reverse order it was after putting in quite a bit of effort on my part  shagging ( ugly) a plump mid 60+ lady with a bit of a tum in maybe 4 or 5 diffrent postions I was them introduced to her (bad ) freind a 50 somthing Milf type who rode me and came close to fracturing my pelvise as she squated on me later in the party they both introduced me to maybe one of the most stunning slim black as night brazlian girls who I thought OMG this will be great .....She lay there like a dead fish as I did her in front of the other 2 and to top it all that woman that was working the bar stuck head around door way as shouted there Pizza at bar now...with this she pushed me off and went to get some

I reckon that some ugly plump fatties are more fun to shag than stunners I doubt if I could ever of even with blue pills manager to do more than 4-5 in a day  WG`s manage to do that number in an hour,
they let the punters put the effort in as a male we would have difficulty laying back and letting them do what we do them to us males we would manage a few rises then its Mr Softey

[Kinky Foxx]

Men have to obtain and maintain an erection.
Women just have to open their legs...and possibly grease their rat up with some lube.

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  PMSL   

Anyways,  I am jealous of woman  because they can sell it and I would be destitute, and for for ability to have;

   Multiple Orgasms.

   Stacked Orgasms.

   Clitoral Orgasms.
 
   G spot Orgasms.

   A spot Orgasms.

   Breasts/Nipple  Orgasms.

   Cervix  Orgasms.

   Anal Orgasms.

Where are the equalities and Sex discrimination people when you need 'em  now huh!   

[JamesKW]

If I attended a party with a selection of ladies waiting to be rogered, call them the good, the bad and the ugly, then I'd  probably shag the chubbies too. I mean, once you're there may as well fill your boots and make hay while the sun shines. I couldn't wouldn't show the same enthusiasm for a paid one2one session with a fatty. And that's why ugly birds get fucked at swingers parties. Am I alone?

Yes,thats why I like parties.You get a selection of different girls and you will always have some bad experiences but there will always be regulars you know are good or enthusiastic newbies.I try and get through all the girls so have never had a bad time.You have to be prepared to block out voyeurs,those waiting and anyone trying to speed you up (though at the same time not hog the girls).Its an experience that's not for every punter.

[JamesKW]

they let the punters put the effort in as a male we would have difficulty laying back and letting them do what we do them to us males we would manage a few rises then its Mr Softey

The party scene can be quite brutal,many girls try it and many only do it the once,some have been reduced to tears.Any girl that's a regular on this scene,and there are a few,they come back time and time again, must really love sex.

[Spiceoflife]

I'm sure with a lot of guys at parties, it's a numbers thing. How many holes can I get my cock in? As for blow jobs, close your eyes and does it matter what they look like? Technique is more important.