Has anyone ever asked a SP for a discount 😂

[Jujy78]

So when I was 18/19 used to go to Soho a lot and at that age weren't exactly rich. But I remember I think it used to be £20 a shot, but I remember I used to haggle and say I've just got £15 is that ok? Most of the time it worked. Cut to 2024 things are a lot more sophisticated, with the internet and everything pre arranged etc and most of them advertise do not ask for a discount which is understandable. Anyway punting in my area is very dried up and I have a regular that I've seen about 8 times in the last 2 years. I'd like to see her more regularly but she only does long meets. I wouldn't say she's pricey £90 for 30mins (is a bit steep I think) £120 for 45mins and £140 for 1hr is ok. This is how much she charges. Now I'm thinking of asking her if she can accommodate 15mins meet for about £50-£60. If she does allow that then I'll be seeing her more often in addition to the 4 times a year. I like my longer meets with her but I also want those last minute quickies when I have the urge. She did used to advertise £40 for a quickie but this was years ago before I started seeing her. I might just ask her when I see her next. I've been seeing her for 2 years and we have a good rapport so I'm sure she won't mind and just politely decline at worse. Technically not asking for a discount but a shorter meet I guess.

[daviemac]

The title of the thread doesn't reflect what you are saying, asking for a discount on her advertised rate for a duration she offers is frowned upon and will get you reported on the likes of ClientEye and SAAFE.

Asking if she'll do a booking length that she doesn't normally do for a fee agreed between you is totally different and not asking for a discount as such.

[MysteryManNo.7]

Asking for a discount is, in my opinion, a really scummy move even if you've seen the escort a number of times.

I've been given some quite generous discounts a number of times by indies I've seen a few times before but I would never even consider asking for one.

[Punterperson1971]

Same here some of the ones I see regularly when I give them the money they say oh give me £90(should be £100)some actually do it because I see them often enough and leave on time and are clean and respectful as well

[GorillaWarfare]

Never asked for a discount. If the SP is advertising a price I don't feel is worth it I just don't contact. I'd imagine a lot of people try it anyway - and if a WG can get people to pay that price then they'll always do it. Probably the most likely person to give a discount from being asked would be someone with the proverbial dusty phone, and usually they have that for a reason.

I did manage to get a £10 discount through a reverse booking once, but obviously that was the SP offering it to me which is different.

[Jujy78]

Never asked for a discount. If the SP is advertising a price I don't feel is worth it I just don't contact. I'd imagine a lot of people try it anyway - and if a WG can get people to pay that price then they'll always do it. Probably the most likely person to give a discount from being asked would be someone with the proverbial dusty phone, and usually they have that for a reason.

I did manage to get a £10 discount through a reverse booking once, but obviously that was the SP offering it to me which is different.

I've never ever asked for a discount and I don't think I ever will. I think it's quite embarrassing to be honest. apart from my early punting days when I was young in Soho only. I even remember going in once with £15 all pound coins 😂 Perhaps my title and content of my post is a bit misleading. But I just wanted to get a feel if anyone has ever dared to ask. I really do like the SP I see regularly and we share a very good rapport like I said technically I'm not asking for a discount but a shorter meet with her so I can see her more frequently.

[rocket88]

I have never asked for a discount,but I was given a tenner off punts from a regular back in the day. She said it was her 'loyalty scheme'!

[Jonestown]

I'm doubtful that seeing a girl four times a year, once a quarter, would give you "regular" status in regard to any price negotiation, perhaps just ask if she could give you a price for a 15 minute quickie. Don't be surprised if you get rebuffed though, a lot of girls don't offer quickies because they take as much admin work as a 30/60 minute booking and they carry a high likely hood of drifting into overtime.

[timsussex]

I did once have several conversations with a domme lady regarding a particular role play which she seemed keen on. Finally I asked a cost (she didnt advertise prices) I told her it was beyond my usual rate and she offered a reduced rate "because my roleplay interested her"

Whether that was true ? but I did have a very enjoyable hour.!

[Colston36]

I did once have several conversations with a domme lady regarding a particular role play which she seemed keen on. Finally I asked a cost (she didnt advertise prices) I told her it was beyond my usual rate and she offered a reduced rate "because my roleplay interested her"

Whether that was true ? but I did have a very enjoyable hour.!

If youwant to try something on the kinky side that the lady likes, I can see that happening. 

[chadpitt]

Asking for a discount is, in my opinion, a really scummy move even if you've seen the escort a number of times.

I've been given some quite generous discounts a number of times by indies I've seen a few times before but I would never even consider asking for one.

Chump mentality

[Southernbloke]

I have never asked for a discount. I did a RB earlier this year for a £160 an hour, the SP I accepted a bid from advertised at £140 an hour but I still paid her the £160 .
I think any kind of haggling or asking for a discount is just rude.
An SP I got talking to once told me that a prospective client asked her on the phone if there was any movement on price to which she replied yes I can put them up 😆 . Seriously though I can’t imagine what a punt would be like if it started off with a discussion about her prices “awkward “

[Jonestown]

I think any kind of haggling or asking for a discount is just rude.

Perhaps we have to take into account that we are now a multicultural society with some cultural elements where looking for a discount and generally haggling over price are the norm, rather than just being rude.

[Southernbloke]

Perhaps we have to take into account that we are now a multicultural society with some cultural elements where looking for a discount and generally haggling over price are the norm, rather than just being rude.

You might be correct there but also an SP would be well within their rights to haggle about which services they would provide in a shorter lower priced appointment that they don’t advertise.
A price is advertised for a certain amount of time so they can give the customer the correct service which works for their business model.

[B4bcock]

Any discussion of a discount at the start of a punt is guaranteed to set up a bad vibe for the whole meeting.  A bit like sitting down in a restaurant and telling the serving staff you don't intend to leave a tip at the end of the meal.

[mr.bluesky]

Any discussion of a discount at the start of a punt is guaranteed to set up a bad vibe for the whole meeting.  A bit like sitting down in a restaurant and telling the serving staff you don't intend to leave a tip at the end of the meal.

Have to agree, asking for a discount from a service provider just makes you look like a tightwad. If you know what the price is upfront then take it or leave it. Simple as that.

[Stevelondon]

I did once have several conversations with a domme lady regarding a particular role play which she seemed keen on. Finally I asked a cost (she didnt advertise prices) I told her it was beyond my usual rate and she offered a reduced rate "because my roleplay interested her"

Whether that was true ? but I did have a very enjoyable hour.!

Something similar.
I saw someone, enjoyed it and so asked about a particular roleplay which would have meant two separate hour length bookings in the same afternoon.
Her hourly rate being, let’s just say (made up number) £200.
But her two hour rate was not just that doubled, it was set at £350.
(I can only think to encourage longer bookings maybe.

But as my roleplay idea was to have an hours booking early afternoon then another a couple of hours later. I fully expected her to treat it as such. Two separate 60 minute punts.

But no. I recall her smiley when I messaged her suggesting the roleplay and she said it would be fun and so would be charging me as if it was a two hour meet……. £350.
Lovely lass. 👍🏻

What I’m getting at. I would NOT have asked her for the lesser fee. It’s not polite.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Any discussion of a discount at the start of a punt is guaranteed to set up a bad vibe for the whole meeting.  A bit like sitting down in a restaurant and telling the serving staff you don't intend to leave a tip at the end of the meal.

+1

[Doc Holliday]

Asking for discounts is not uncommon, which is why so many SP AW profiles mention not to ask.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I did once have several conversations with a domme lady regarding a particular role play which she seemed keen on. Finally I asked a cost (she didnt advertise prices) I told her it was beyond my usual rate and she offered a reduced rate "because my roleplay interested her"

Whether that was true ? but I did have a very enjoyable hour.!

I don't think there is anything wrong with this, esp when in discussions with a prodomme about kinks prior to setting up a session. You didn't ask for a discount , she offered it as the kink interested her. That is very different to the OPs approach

[Adoniron]

I think if you try to haggle over the fee you'll get a poorer service from the SP. For me the service is more important than the price. If you can't afford to punt, don't.

The only exception is the oriental massage shops where there are no published priced for extras and it's OK to haggle about them.

[signy]

I don't think there is anything wrong with this, esp when in discussions with a prodomme about kinks prior to setting up a session. You didn't ask for a discount , she offered it as the kink interested her. That is very different to the OPs approach

This is common practice when discussing complex or out-of-the-ordinary bookings. The standard rates don't cover exactly what is required, so questions have to be asked, but it is completely different from simply asking for a cheaper rate for a basic GFE or whatever.

A couple of times I have explained what I want in a roleplay where it looks a bit complex for an hour and the escort has come back with "I like the sound of that, so don't worry if it runs a bit long". Again, it is her offering, not me asking.

[jamiekinkxxx]

This is common practice when discussing complex or out-of-the-ordinary bookings. The standard rates don't cover exactly what is required, so questions have to be asked, but it is completely different from simply asking for a cheaper rate for a basic GFE or whatever.

A couple of times I have explained what I want in a roleplay where it looks a bit complex for an hour and the escort has come back with "I like the sound of that, so don't worry if it runs a bit long". Again, it is her offering, not me asking.

100%

[ZeroCount]

The only time I've ever asked for a discount is when I've turned up to a booking to unexpectedly find there were two girls there to choose from, and I find myself fancying both of them, so decide to go for the threesome.

Invariably they'll ask for the normal rate each (e.g. £60 + £60) to which I always give it a shot to see if they'll accept a bit less (e.g. £100). Sometimes it works and sometimes not, but it just seems much less cheeky than simply asking a girl for a straight-up discount on her advertised rate, which I'd never have the gall to do.

[Punterperson1971]

I see one who openly advertises discount
Ie: £60 now £50
£100 now £80
£150 now £130
And one I saw recently has it on her profile £10 off of you book through aw
I still wouldn’t dream of asking for more discounts

[jamiekinkxxx]

I see one who openly advertises discount
Ie: £60 now £50
£100 now £80
£150 now £130
And one I saw recently has it on her profile £10 off of you book through aw

Not the same is it 

That is the SP offering a discount, not a pushy punter askign for one!

[daviemac]

I see one who openly advertises discount
Ie: £60 now £50
£100 now £80
£150 now £130
And one I saw recently has it on her profile £10 off of you book through aw

So are you saying you would ask her for a discount on the discounted rates she is offering? 

[Punterperson1971]

No dm I wouldn’t
Was in between doing something at home and adding to my post

[Punterperson1971]

Not the same is it 

That is the SP offering a discount, not a pushy punter askign for one!

It’s still a discussion that’s all 

[daviemac]

It’s still a discussion that’s all 

This thread is about punters asking SPs for a discount, if you want to discuss SPs offering discounts start a thread on it, they are two distinctly different things.

[Vic69]

I had a client last week that I had seen once before, he asked me for a discount of £100 as "he was off work"  I explained this is my livelihood and asked if he would go into Tesco and ask for a discount as he was "off work", to me and I think to other SP asking for discounts is a red flag, it shows lack of respect and boundary pushing.  I won't see this client again.

[Jujy78]

I think asking for a discount as a new client is a very bad idea. If you've been seeing an SP for a couple of years plus and you know each other well. Even if it's a no, I don't think the SP will get offended or judge you. I could be wrong but that's just my gut feeling. I have seen a regular since 2003 and she has never put her price up for regulars. She advertises £130 an hour but charges £100. I see her once or twice a year, have to travel 400 miles there and back 3hrs each way, see her for a couple of hours and well worth it. With her I can ask for anything though I don't as I still feel bit embarrassed. In our last meet I got really excited and asked her if I can film her and she didn't mind at all in fact was playing to the camera.

[finn5555]

No harm in asking I guess they can only say yes or no 🤷‍♂️

I punt within a set budget so haven’t asked, been offered to extend for reduced rate but only when we was already together.

[mancsguy1975]

I did actually when i was at university many years ago now.

Enquired if i could have a student discount (with valid NUS card of course).

The SP at Manyana at Selly Oak in Birmingham (now closed) did laugh at me (probably thought fair play, hes got the balls to at least ask)  but sadly no discount was forthcoming.

[TomTank]

Something similar.
I saw someone, enjoyed it and so asked about a particular roleplay which would have meant two separate hour length bookings in the same afternoon.
Her hourly rate being, let’s just say (made up number) £200.
But her two hour rate was not just that doubled, it was set at £350.
(I can only think to encourage longer bookings maybe.

But as my roleplay idea was to have an hours booking early afternoon then another a couple of hours later. I fully expected her to treat it as such. Two separate 60 minute punts.

But no. I recall her smiley when I messaged her suggesting the roleplay and she said it would be fun and so would be charging me as if it was a two hour meet……. £350.
Lovely lass. 👍🏻

What I’m getting at. I would NOT have asked her for the lesser fee. It’s not polite.

I'd love to hear more details about your and Tim's sessions - did you review them at the time?

[Webby581]

MANY years ago I went to a spa place in Loughton.
It was £15 for entry and a massage as I recall, which I paid using 2×£10 notes and the receptionist gave me change.
My masseuse was very skinny (not my type) with small boobs (ditto) and not really terribly friendly.
But i was naked on a table and horny, so went ahead - the massage was rubbish, but nevertheless she got my little fella standing to attention and then asked for £15 extra for a HJ.
By now I wasnt really feeling like I was too bothered either way, and said that I only had a tenner so if that was OK with her I would have the hj but if not just finish the massage please.
She took the £10 note I proffered and did the business.
10 mins later I was in the shower when the curtain was pulled back and a now very aggressive masseuse screamed at me that the receptionist had given me a £5 note in change, and SHE WANTED IT as I obviously had more than just £10 on me.
She was waiting at the exit when I was leaving and I gave it to her, as my - "but we agreed £10" fell on deaf ears and I feared a stabbing or something.

I did actually need most of that £5 for fares home which was why I had Claimed to only have £10.
Anyway - lesson learned 

[Webby581]

Oh - just recalled another time when I visited a WG at her place in Catford.
She was from Birmingham and I read about her later in the papers as she was a victim of a gang that went round robbing WGs - but I digress.
On my 1st visit I shot my load VERY soon after we got down to Business. She offered me a £10 discount on my next visit to compensate for my disappointment (I suspect the total cost was only about £30 or 40, so a very good incentive to return.
How nice of her?
Which I did of course. Don't recall how long I lasted that time 

[Payyourwaymate]

So when I was 18/19 used to go to Soho a lot and at that age weren't exactly rich. But I remember I think it used to be £20 a shot, but I remember I used to haggle and say I've just got £15 is that ok? Most of the time it worked. Cut to 2024 things are a lot more sophisticated, with the internet and everything pre arranged etc and most of them advertise do not ask for a discount which is understandable. Anyway punting in my area is very dried up and I have a regular that I've seen about 8 times in the last 2 years. I'd like to see her more regularly but she only does long meets. I wouldn't say she's pricey £90 for 30mins (is a bit steep I think) £120 for 45mins and £140 for 1hr is ok. This is how much she charges. Now I'm thinking of asking her if she can accommodate 15mins meet for about £50-£60. If she does allow that then I'll be seeing her more often in addition to the 4 times a year. I like my longer meets with her but I also want those last minute quickies when I have the urge. She did used to advertise £40 for a quickie but this was years ago before I started seeing her. I might just ask her when I see her next. I've been seeing her for 2 years and we have a good rapport so I'm sure she won't mind and just politely decline at worse. Technically not asking for a discount but a shorter meet I guess.

Do you ask Sainsburys, Mcds or any other business providing a service or a product for a discount? I think not lol. Job judgement aside, don't short people trying to make a living.

[pantywetter]

Surprising answers.

I haven’t asked for a discount before but I wouldn’t find the idea that offensive on either side.  It’s just a negotiation and she’s free to say no.

I wouldn’t ask at a retail store but I would ask a lot of service type businesses - builders, accountants,
 etc - for a discount. 

[Stevelondon]

I'd love to hear more details about your and Tim's sessions - did you review them at the time?

It was quite roleplay specific if you get my drift. Even though it was a while ago. I wouldn’t really fancy disclosing details.
Besides. I think the SP in question knew me well enough as I had seen her a few times. Not sure she would like it out there so to speak that she would do the service for everyone.

Befure I get asked. No it’s not something incredibly weird 

[Jonestown]

No harm in asking I guess they can only say yes or no 🤷‍♂️

In times past I used to frequent pubs that would often have a sign uo saying:-

Please Don't Ask for Credit, as a punch in the face often offends

[JontyR]

I wouldn’t ask at a retail store but I would ask a lot of service type businesses - builders, accountants,
 etc - for a discount.

To be fair you'd often ask those kind for a quote. And a quote is often the start of a negotiation, I may detail that a quote is a little bit more than I would like to pay in the hope that it may detail that they are willing to move for the basis of securing the business.

But we don't generally ask for quotes where there is a distinct price list.

[daviemac]

Surprising answers.

I haven’t asked for a discount before but I wouldn’t find the idea that offensive on either side.  It’s just a negotiation and she’s free to say no.

I wouldn’t ask at a retail store but I would ask a lot of service type businesses - builders, accountants,
 etc - for a discount.

The difference is a punter isn't asking a builder or accountant etc to suck their cocks and shag them. When you ask an SP for a discount what you're actually saying is you want to shag them but don't think they're worth the money they're asking and that's bound to go down well.

[willie loman]

if you see a girl 3 times a week, some sort of discount is fair, if it suits the girl, did it for one girl , but otherwise pay full price, if she values you as a customer, extras etc will be thrown in.

[Private Parts]

Jujy78.

Next thing along with discount you’ll be asking for a VAT Receipt.

Cheapskate

[finn5555]

But we don't generally ask for quotes where there is a distinct price list.

You would be surprised how many do say, what do i get off that list price 

[Southernbloke]

I must be weird but if I see a SP a few times I usually give them a tip so that means I pay more.

[finn5555]

 don't think they're worth the money they're asking

In many cases, and reviews on here are testament to that it is the case they aren't worth it 

[MissWolf]

The difference is a punter isn't asking a builder or accountant etc to suck their cocks and shag them. When you ask an SP for a discount what you're actually saying is you want to shag them but don't think they're worth the money they're asking and that's bound to go down well.

They can ask me for a discount any time they like, if they do they won't have to pay me a penny, because they won't be getting a booking   

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Well in the past i have negoiated some girls to see it my way - just a suggestion that i only have "x" hundred in my budget but would you like dinner and a few hours of private etc whatever time afterwards?

Let me know what you think..

More often than not was accepted, and they know they were going the receive more custom in later meets from a decent punter....