Got myself in a bit of a bad situation.

[metallica1994]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

[PunterP]

Shes scamming you for money with fake sob stories, why would you get sad over cutting ties with her?

Also, no can't say I could ever fall for an escort - this is just a business and we're just clients, nothing more.

[oddson1970]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

Sorry for being blunt but you are a sap and she is rinsing you for all you have.Never contact her again and consider whether this hobby is for you....personally,l don't think it is.

[Jonestown]

I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune.

In Thailand it's called dead water buffalo syndrome.

Is this Lexy ?

Did you actually get to fuck her ?

[Hotpocket]

Dont feel bad, you did right thing, she will be onto the next one already and wont give you a second thought once she realises the money is gone.

[southcoastpunter]

OP - Sounds like you have what is called here (not sure if its a proper medical name or not - but it is used here) EAS - Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

If you do a search for "EAS" you will see that there has been quite a few previous threads about it. Maybe worth you reading some of them. Will confirm that you aren't the first to get into a situation like that - and i am sure you won't be the last!

[scutty brown]

You're paying for her drug habit.
Name and shame her

[metallica1994]

Shes scamming you for money with fake sob stories, why would you get sad over cutting ties with her?

Also, no can't say I could ever fall for an escort - this is just a business and we're just clients, nothing more.

Because I fell for her and really liked her but yeah you are right. It's just business and we are just clients.

[metallica1994]

OP - Sounds like you have what is called here (not sure if its a proper medical name or not - but it is used here) EAS - Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

If you do a search for "EAS" you will see that there has been quite a few previous threads about it. Maybe worth you reading some of them. Will confirm that you aren't the first to get into a situation like that - and i am sure you won't be the last!

Never heard of that before but it makes sense. Got too attached for sure.

[metallica1994]

Dont feel bad, you did right thing, she will be onto the next one already and wont give you a second thought once she realises the money is gone.

Yeah it was hard but yeah she probably will be.

[metallica1994]

In Thailand it's called dead water buffalo syndrome.

Is this Lexy ?

Did you actually get to fuck her ?

Yes met for business 5 or 6 times.

[metallica1994]

Sorry for being blunt but you are a sap and she is rinsing you for all you have.Never contact her again and consider whether this hobby is for you....personally,l don't think it is.

You're right mate. I fell for it head line and sinker. Got too attached.

[Cunning Punt]

I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

Er no, because we're not weak and stupid.

Good to see you've finally come to your senses and cut contact, if indeed this is actually true and you've not just posted this out of lockdown boredom.

[metallica1994]

You're paying for her drug habit.
Name and shame her

Possibly or just an easy source of money for her.

[ulstersubbie]

Dont feel bad, you did right thing, she will be onto the next one already and wont give you a second thought once she realises the money is gone.

Harsh but true.

[metallica1994]

Er no, because we're not weak and stupid.

Good to see you've finally come to your senses and cut contact, if indeed this is actually true and you've not just posted this out of lockdown boredom.

Yeah it's true. I posted on here because it's been eating away at me.

[Jonestown]

Yeah it's true. I posted on here because it's been eating away at me.

not just you, you're bank balance must looked pretty tattered as well.

[metallica1994]

not just you, you're bank balance must looked pretty tattered as well.

Yeah my savings took a hit.

[scutty brown]

Possibly or just an easy source of money for her.

Possible but unlikely - you're just making excuses for her

That kind of insistent demand virtually always signifies an  immediate need - i.e a quick hit.
Seen it too many times

[metallica1994]

Possible but unlikely - you're just making excuses for her

That kind of insistent demand virtually always signifies an  immediate need - i.e a quick hit.
Seen it too many times

I've been funding her habit then.

[PunterP]

Tbh I agree with a couple other posters - who is the escort? You should post their name on here/do a review so others know to watch out for her otherwise it looks like a fake story.

[Hotpocket]

Reading between the lines it sounds like you might still be emotionally attached, i would definitely advise to not go back there, throw her number away and dont look at her profiles. But then again it is your life and you should do whats right for you ,

[metallica1994]

Tbh I agree with a couple other posters - who is the escort? You should post their name on here/do a review so others know to watch out for her otherwise it looks like a fake story.

Didn't want to name and shame just needed to get this off my chest and talk to someone about it. It definitely isn't a fake story.

[metallica1994]

Reading between the lines it sounds like you might still be emotionally attached, i would definitely advise to not go back there, throw her number away and dont look at her profiles. But then again it is your life and you should do whats right for you ,

Thanks for advice. I have slowly pulled myself away since Xmas but still have the attachment there.

[scutty brown]

I've been funding her habit then.

Probably
Someone here can probably confirm it if you ID her

Reality is the best way to break attachment

[Punterperson1971]

Didn't want to name and shame just needed to get this off my chest and talk to someone about it. It definitely isn't a fake story.

Not another “I need time away to heal story”name her because she suckered you in and she will do same to others too, also some people may be more vunrable than you and could lose more,so put link up and save a few people from punting with her.

[Subboy1980]

You've got the dreaded EAS.  These types of women are masters of pity me manipulation.  They will make up sob stories about things in their life to make you feel guilty or the need to help them.  They prey on men who fall for them as they know how to play them.  Its all for money and you won't get any return.

These women are relentless and nothing will stop them to get more and more from you until it really affects you mentally.  Its horrible but seriously mate you need to cut all ties with this girl.  They tell lies for a living, it becomes a habit to them.  Just don't go back!  Or the 4 F saying,  find fee fuck flea!

[metallica1994]

Not another “I need time away to heal story”name her because she suckered you in and she will do same to others too, also some people may be more vunrable than you and could lose more,so put link up and save a few people from punting with her.

(Facebook name removed as per rule #22). Wynter on adultwork not sure if she has took down profile.

[metallica1994]

You've got the dreaded EAS.  These types of women are masters of pity me manipulation.  They will make up sob stories about things in their life to make you feel guilty or the need to help them.  They prey on men who fall for them as they know how to play them.  Its all for money and you won't get any return.

These women are relentless and nothing will stop them to get more and more from you until it really affects you mentally.  Its horrible but seriously mate you need to cut all ties with this girl.  They tell lies for a living, it becomes a habit to them.  Just don't go back!  Or the 4 F saying,  find fee fuck flea!

You have totally hit the nail on the head there. I felt guilty and sorry for her. It has been affecting my mental health.

[Lou2019]

You're paying for her drug habit.
Name and shame her

harsh but true x

[Lou2019]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

why oh why! it’s a business transaction that’s all I’m saying

[metallica1994]

why oh why! it’s a business transaction that’s all I’m saying

Thought she liked me and it was all for me.

[Lou2019]

Thought she liked me and it was all for me.

you pay us to like you

[Payyourwaymate]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

You need some time to heal aswell without naming the woman right? lol. 

EDIT: Oh I see you named her at least. Nevermind then. Good luck with the healing.

[spiralnotebook]

Sounds a familiar story, wonder if it’ll follow the same pattern as the other sob stories that usually aren’t.

[scutty brown]

[Removed by Mod] on Facebook. Wynter on adultwork not sure if she has took down profile.

Do you mean this one?
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

(Facebook link that contained pictures of children removed)

Reports on *are*unting that she's a crackhead


PS Do you have a relative named "Anth"???

[OakTree]

Is this for real? come on. Don't get me wrong she's the sort of fuckdoll looking girl I'd book but a blind man on galloping horse could see she's never a keeper.

When did you wake the fuck up?

[niceguy30!!]

I actually had a relationship with an escort, she never asked for anything, she wouldn't even let me pay for anything. Going out for meal it pissed me off because I didn't want to think I was into her for how much money she made. It was because I was punching, and in awe of how amazing she was.
You got scammed mate. Don't feel bad only, feel bad about your mistake not her. She wasn't genuine.

[Blackpool Rock]

Is this for real? come on. Don't get me wrong she's the sort of fuckdoll looking girl I'd book but a blind man on galloping horse could see she's never a keeper.

When did you wake the fuck up?

PMSL  Yeah not one that you'd meet and think "Can't wait to show her to the family" 

[Blackpool Rock]

Do you mean this one?
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Reports on *are*unting that she's a crackhead


PS Do you have a relative named "Anth"???

So presumably a Barebacking crackhead 

Hope the OP covered up 

[scutty brown]

So presumably a Barebacking crackhead 

Hope the OP covered up 

I smell a windup by a member of another forum, especially as its an NE thread

[OakTree]

I smell a windup by a member of another forum, especially as its an NE thread

I've got my doubts.

[billybigbollocks888]

Hi I might sound crazy saying this but here goes. I got to know of a local escort/prostitute and would often look her up on facebook but without taking the plunge. Would message her how much for business but would never follow through and meet her. I then saw she was doing phone chat/vids on vivastreet so I paid for that and loved it. Over the next few months paid her for pics/vids but she was asking me for money all the time and I would give in and give her it. Finally met her a few months back in person for business. It was amazing and fell for her. From there it was a downward spiral. She was constantly asking me for money nearly every day and said she would send nude pics if I did. I would get every sob story and feel sorry for her. It was costing me a fortune. Met her another 4 or 5 times just before Xmas but I've got to the point where I can't do it anymore. It's relentless constantly asking me nearly every day for money. I feel awful but I've cut contact with her. Anyone experienced anything like this?

Have only seen this one escort aswell ?

I was worried about liking an escort to much myself when I first started this hobby, as Iv fallen lustyfully for women from one night stands from being young. So as a rule of thumb when i  started this I said to myself  I wouldn’t make back to back bookings with the same girl for that reason .

You’ve done the right thing, cutting contact as she will just keep at you because your a soft touch.


My advice get back in the saddle and ride a few different ponys in quick succession, write some reviews like your test driving a new car that might help with the EAS, train yourself to see them as objects you pick up and put down .


Good luck 🤞

[heisenberg.]

You have totally hit the nail on the head there. I felt guilty and sorry for her. It has been affecting my mental health.

You born in 1994? I'm not much older than you yet I've been punting since I turned 19 pretty much.

She's taking you for a dumb kid with no experience. It's purely business. You even know it yourself so why make this thread? I've had this before in the past in my early days...some of the younger escorts try take advantage of my money because I was seeing her almost on a weekly basis. However I knew it's strictly business and moved on.

Wait until you go to Thailand mate...like I did, you will be having every single girl asking to be your girlfriend. It's all about money.

Really consider if this is for you, otherwise step back and take a breather. Maybe go through official escort agencies only or start of with some nice thai massages with hand relief (my preferred these days).

[Slow grinder]

Mettalica.... for ALL of our sakes on here...you've got to name and shame bud... women like her are parasites who feed on OUR habit!

[OakTree]

Mettalica.... for ALL of our sakes on here...you've got to name and shame bud... women like her are parasites who feed on OUR habit!

Read through the thread mate, he has.

[rowdow]

Have only seen this one escort aswell ?

I was worried about liking an escort to much myself when I first started this hobby, as Iv fallen lustyfully for women from one night stands from being young. So as a rule of thumb when i  started this I said to myself  I wouldn’t make back to back bookings with the same girl for that reason .

You’ve done the right thing, cutting contact as she will just keep at you because your a soft touch.


My advice get back in the saddle and ride a few different ponys in quick succession, write some reviews like your test driving a new car that might help with the EAS, train yourself to see them as objects you pick up and put down .


Good luck 🤞

Great advice.

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone new, the faster the better.

[scutty brown]

FFS the longer this thread runs, the more people are getting suckered.
This is a hit-and-run troll, and so far the OP is succeeding quite well

[billybigbollocks888]

FFS the longer this thread runs, the more people are getting suckered.
This is a hit-and-run troll, and so far the OP is succeeding quite well

Either way mate, it’s summit to read, and could be a lesson for some .

[LeeVanCleef]

Do you mean this one?
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only


Reports on *are*unting that she's a crackhead


PS Do you have a relative named "Anth"???

Isn`t that a bit naughty putting her Facebook profile up?