What do you do with your hands when having a BJ

[Bogof60]

I am not a fan of Face Fucking but tend to enjoy a BJ lying on my back.
Standing up with her on her knees is also very desirable.

But What do you do with your hands ?

My Preference would be to stroke her head gently as she administers the pleasure.
But then I worry that she may think I am going to ram my cock down her throat so she goes a bit defensive and ruins the moment.

I have found myself flapping my hands around like a landed fish 
Feeling like a complete Mong.

Shagging from behind is easy , just grab her hips.
Her on top is the same just grab her tits.
Me on top occupies my hands anyway holding myself up.

But during a BJ 

[Steely Dan]

Feeling like a complete Mong.

WTF?  Is it the 1970s?

[Bogof60]

Nope

Still feel like a complete Mong now in the 210's

[threechilliman]

Hang on tight.

[Coriniumstud]

Play Call of Duty 

[Hugger-Mugger]

Hold your phone steady.

[Bonker]

I make shadow puppets on the wall behind her.
Sometimes I conduct the music.
Other times I take knitting or crochet.
On rare occasions I balance a harp on her back and learn to play versions of heavy metal classics.

This could be under "stupid answers to stupid questions".

[Shortandsensible]

Play a game on your phone

[Waterhouse]

Nothing - they’re usually either tightly tied together or to the bed.   

[matoombaDan]

I carry on with my Rubik's cube.

[Tecova]

Call my mum.

Make shadow puppets using the dim lighting arrangements.

Or being more serious.  I normally just caress the girl's shoulders or put my hand over hers.

[myothernameis]

But What do you do with your hands ?

Write my review of the escort

I feel a right mong so here my review   

[Plan R]

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[Naughtyboyuk]

If the girl has long(ish) hair I like to gather it and hold it out of the way so I have a better view of her sucking and licking my cock

[jeanphillipe]

I conduct a syphony orchestra

[lborocd1]

I tend to hold my phone during a bj. I quite like taking the off snap of the lady enjoying a good suck ( and occasionally a video of she is really enthusiastic...

Always nice to play it back afterwards and watch the moment that you cost her throat with baby batter

[threechilliman]

I conduct a syphony orchestra

As she syphons you.

[freeze44]

Some cracking answers and food for thought! 

Could make balloon animals???

[RAJEC]

Start writing a review 

[Fuzzyduck]

But What do you do with your hands ?

She's probably thinking she's never given a penguin a blowjob before.
As a general rule of thumb, use your hands to guide the SP to administer the kind of blowjob YOU want to receive.

My Preference would be to stroke her head gently as she administers the pleasure.
But then I worry that she may think I am going to ram my cock down her throat so she goes a bit defensive and ruins the moment.

Trust me on this one, I think you'll be absolutely fine doing this. The fact you even have to ask this question means you are unlikely ever to be too aggressive.

[Beamer]

With a couple of my regulars, I tend to be giving her RO whilst she is performing the BJ.

[Jonestown]

With a couple of my regulars, I tend to be giving her RO whilst she is performing the BJ.

I think 69 is such a wasted opportunity, BJ and RO each deserve undivided attention, both giving and receiving, it's like having your starter and desert at the same time.

For myself, during a BJ, I like to lay back, relaxed, hands behind head, fingers interlaced, and ponder the wonders of the world.

[Beamer]

I think 69 is such a wasted opportunity, BJ and RO each deserve undivided attention, both giving and receiving, it's like having your starter and desert at the same time.

For myself, during a BJ, I like to lay back, relaxed, hands behind head, fingers interlaced, and ponder the wonders of the world.

Each to their own 

[Squire Haggard]

I think 69 is such a wasted opportunity, BJ and RO each deserve undivided attention, both giving and receiving, it's like having your starter and desert at the same time.

For myself, during a BJ, I like to lay back, relaxed, hands behind head, fingers interlaced, and ponder the wonders of the world.

 

[Fuzzyduck]

Each to their own 

Exactly.
With a SP, and especially during a blowie, it should be about YOU and what YOU want to do.

[Moby Dick]

Hold up the score cards.
8/10 for effort
6/10 for technique

Or video/record your cumshot on her or your phone (permission granted)

[tangledupinblue]

Count out the ££, nice and slowly.

[Punterperson1971]

Count out the ££, nice and slowly.

Normally a 69 with my hands holding her ass cheeks apart with my tongue deep in her ass.
With another I see she’s on her knees and I’m in chair and she spits on my cock and licks my balls and wraps her tits s round them then I push them together for a tit wank.

[Berbatov82]

I try and hold at least one of her hands so that her bj doesn't turn into a hj.

[B4bcock]

I slowly sniff then lick my fingers.  One by one.    Mmmm 

[Gordon Bennett]

I do "Jazz Hands" and sing show tunes.

[Moby Dick]

Pick ya nose

[hungrypunt]

Start writing a review 

[Jeremy]

WTF?  Is it the 1970s?

Mong's made a bit of a comeback in the last decade. It's retro

[redveee]

Could make balloon animals???

Condoms are readily available too 

[hungrypunt]

Mong's made a bit of a comeback in the last decade. It's retro

And SB I see regular 21 yo girl uses that word. AND SPAZ 

[DaveR]

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[DaveR]

I do "Jazz Hands" and sing show tunes.

😂
Or maybe a Kenny Everett

[Colston36]

Hold your phone steady.

Other than seize her firmly by her ears, I do take videos.

[snaitram99]

If lying down, get her to do it from the side so you can access between legs. 

Standing up with her on knees, preferably sideways on to a mirror, as someone said hold hair back (gently!) and enjoy the view.

[Malvolio]

Either finger her or run your hands over her body.

[CheeseBoard]

Recreate the gorilla playing the drums in the Cadburys advert 

[InMefan]

I also prefer a blowjob when laying down on my back, just feel very relaxed this way, I usually just stroke there hair or body with my hand depending on what position they are in.

[rubric]

The question seems to betray a certain social awkwardness, it really doesn't matter where your hands are - concentrate on the view and be in the moment a little more. I generally just leave my hands on my hips/at my side unless there's hair I want to lift out of the view, or the girl wants to offer deep throat/FF.

[bhudda]

Give her a round of applause

[freeze44]

Give her a round of applause

  or a slow handclap if no good??

[Bonker]

Beat out a rhythm on her head as you sing...

Baby, you're a girl, make a big noise
Lying on the sheet, gonna have a big arse someday
You got cum on your face, you big disgrace
Selling your cunt all over the place, singin'

We will, we will suck you
We will, we will fuck you

[bhudda]

or a slow handclap if no good??

Dont mention the clap 

I did once but i think i got away with it

[mr.bluesky]

I prefer it when I stand up and she is sitting on the end of the bed, that way I can reach down and fondle her titties 

[delta69]

Squeeze ur nipples