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Offline od13218

This must be an old chestnut for most guys here - but having recently returned to punting after a long break, and having limited budget and opportunity, it's often a dilemma for me.
So my typical scenario is, I find I have a few notes in my pocket and a couple of hours when no-one else is expecting me - but the catch is it might be a good few weeks before my next chance. Do I go with the old faithfuls that I know and trust? (advantages - known good service, VFM, etc) or do I take the chance to try something new (which is part of the whole thrill of punting in the first place for me - but obviously could result in a dud)? Personally it's also complicated by my rather wide-ranging tastes - sometimes a quick soho pump & dump is what I need, sometimes a longer GFE, sometimes I like a bit of BDSM.
Anyway, I'm interested in how other guys decide - do you generally stick with the devil you know or seek out pastures new?
Any and all opinions welcome!
Cheers
Doug

Offline cueball

Well, I started the year intending just work through a rota of regulars but I've a roving eye and after this week it'll be no16 of the year, so, I'm a bit of a new faces type of chap but I intend to have a bit of previous punt return rota through April and May.

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Quesadilla

  • Guest
When I started out of course it was all a novelty, but I quickly learned that I have consistently better punts with regulars - and the quality of the punts actually keep getting better the more we get to know each other. 

As with many things in life it really comes down to your personal attitude to risk. Some are more risk averse than others, for me personally life is too short to take unnecessary risks so unless I see great reviews from trusted punters of someone who delivers all the services on my likes list I don't bother with chasing novelty and stay on the well beaten path.

Given your stated likes obviously for the pump-n-dump experiences novelty seems ideal - what have you got to lose? But for a longer GFE or BDSM session I think you will have consistently better results with a reg.  If I were you that's how I'd split it to get the best of both worlds.

Online Blackpool Rock

Regulars if you have had a bad punt or two but I also like a bit of variety and tend to try a couple of new girls if I have a few days off work and time to arrange something

Offline threechilliman

1 regular a month, 2-3 newbies

tcm

Offline cueball

1 regular a month,

Yes, I'm wondering who the regular is, think she might find herself on my rota too, she's getting closer

Offline Trevor12

Regulars if you have had a bad punt or two but I also like a bit of variety and tend to try a couple of new girls if I have a few days off work and time to arrange something

This works for me too.

Offline hendrix

When I started, I was all about the "pump and dump" but it's changed over the years. Punting mostly with regulars has meant I could push boundaries (my own and theirs) in a way that would be impossible with a new girl. That's what interests me most nowadays, trying things that I might not have even known existed a few years back. I rule nothing out though, I might go through a spell where all I want is "pump and dump" in which case, I don't need to spend what my regulars charge as there's plenty of quality available for basic services.

Siadwel

  • Guest
I was wary about finding a 'regular' after the last time I saw the same girl three times. The third time, I definitely got a 'He's-a-regular-don't-have-to-try-too-hard-anymore' vibe and a very lack-lustre punt, so I went back to Lucky Dip and got burned.

I've found one now that just gets better and better, seen her four times now. As Q said, life's too short to take unnecessary risks, and like Hendrix said, it's got easier to push boundaries and she's always willing.

Trouble is, she's right the very top end of my budget and she's going to bankrupt me, if I don't break the 'her' habit. Soon.

But not yet  :D

Offline monstar

I still have too many girls on my hotlist to settle down just yet.  :wacko:

Offline Sonny Crockett

It depends!!!! There's the possibility if you do go a long period without punting and then make a comeback, that the lady who you regularly visited may no longer be active!!! From there it would probably be better to seek new girls that are to your liking services wise, and take it from there!!!!!

spkmstr48

  • Guest
I agree with hendrix, to a point. For me it's all about novelty and variety. I have a type I like, young and submissive, beyond that it depends what I want from the session. Sometimes I need a regular to develop a roleplay character, sometimes I need the excitement of a new (to me) girl and sometimes I just need to fuck.

Offline od13218

Really interesting replies, chaps, thank you!
I think I need more time to establish some regulars, having been off the scene for a while - so I think I'm going to work on building up a really solid shortlist over the next few months, and then I should be able to have a nice balance between tried and trusted and the thrill of someone new.
Enforced pause coming up (temporary hopefully!) due to cashflow - but hope to add to my lists soon. I promise to post reviews!
Cheers - thanks for all your input   :thumbsup:
Doug

DG

  • Guest
My best punts have come with my regular. The more I see her the more she just knows what I want and her execution is excellent. I need a bit of variety now though but a regular will always give you a good safe punt.

Loki

  • Guest
don't see the point of going back to the same ones over and over again... will just get as boring as sex with your bird... not really what I'm after...

Yes, I have to TOFTT now and again, but so be it.... always good to try different pussy...

same taste gets very stale, very quick for me..

 :thumbsup:

willbred

  • Guest
When I started out of course it was all a novelty, but I quickly learned that I have consistently better punts with regulars - and the quality of the punts actually keep getting better the more we get to know each other. 

As with many things in life it really comes down to your personal attitude to risk. Some are more risk averse than others, for me personally life is too short to take unnecessary risks so unless I see great reviews from trusted punters of someone who delivers all the services on my likes list I don't bother with chasing novelty and stay on the well beaten path.

Given your stated likes obviously for the pump-n-dump experiences novelty seems ideal - what have you got to lose? But for a longer GFE or BDSM session I think you will have consistently better results with a reg.  If I were you that's how I'd split it to get the best of both worlds.

This pretty well sums up my feelings on the subject

willbred

  • Guest
When I started out of course it was all a novelty, but I quickly learned that I have consistently better punts with regulars - and the quality of the punts actually keep getting better the more we get to know each other. 

As with many things in life it really comes down to your personal attitude to risk. Some are more risk averse than others, for me personally life is too short to take unnecessary risks so unless I see great reviews from trusted punters of someone who delivers all the services on my likes list I don't bother with chasing novelty and stay on the well beaten path.

Given your stated likes obviously for the pump-n-dump experiences novelty seems ideal - what have you got to lose? But for a longer GFE or BDSM session I think you will have consistently better results with a reg.  If I were you that's how I'd split it to get the best of both worlds.

This pretty well sums up my feelings on this subject

johnnyboy61

  • Guest
Sorry to resurrect an old thread, but there's so many threads on here about regulars I didn't want to start a new one, especially having started one myself a few weeks ago. I just thought I'd share a recent experience with you that highlights what I think is an advantage of seeing regulars.

On that WGs site I noticed a discussion about girls being blindfolded by their clients and there was almost universal condemnation that this was far too risky and shouldn't be contemplated. This set me thinking about how exciting it could be for both parties to remove one sense so as to highlight the others, especially touch. During foreplay with a reg she asked if I minded if she watched some porn on her phone whilst I went down on her as it would help her to climax. She had some difficulty finding the clip she wanted, and having brought along a blindfold of the kind that you use to get some sleep on a long haul flight, but having felt uncomfortable suggesting it earlier, I asked her if she trusted me. Having got the go ahead we both found it quite a turn on, her not quite knowing which part of her body was going to be kissed or touched next, and she would give a little jump as I explored a new area. I don't know whether it was as a consequence of this, but the sex was some of the best ever. In fact at the end it looked as if we might have had a split condom which obviously caused some initial concern until we realised that the creamy semen like fluid covering my balls and dripping from her vagina were her own juices. As well as the blindfold, this was also a first for her.

For those who think that sex with a regular can get boring, think how that element of trust that you've built up can be used to advantage. I am sure that there are many of you who have introduced WGs to new experiences, but there are perhaps some things that a girl will only consider trying with her must trusted regular clients.


spkmstr48

  • Guest
Sorry to resurrect an old thread, but there's so many threads on here about regulars I didn't want to start a new one, especially having started one myself a few weeks ago. I just thought I'd share a recent experience with you that highlights what I think is an advantage of seeing regulars.

On that WGs site I noticed a discussion about girls being blindfolded by their clients and there was almost universal condemnation that this was far too risky and shouldn't be contemplated. This set me thinking about how exciting it could be for both parties to remove one sense so as to highlight the others, especially touch. During foreplay with a reg she asked if I minded if she watched some porn on her phone whilst I went down on her as it would help her to climax. She had some difficulty finding the clip she wanted, and having brought along a blindfold of the kind that you use to get some sleep on a long haul flight, but having felt uncomfortable suggesting it earlier, I asked her if she trusted me. Having got the go ahead we both found it quite a turn on, her not quite knowing which part of her body was going to be kissed or touched next, and she would give a little jump as I explored a new area. I don't know whether it was as a consequence of this, but the sex was some of the best ever. In fact at the end it looked as if we might have had a split condom which obviously caused some initial concern until we realised that the creamy semen like fluid covering my balls and dripping from her vagina were her own juices. As well as the blindfold, this was also a first for her.

For those who think that sex with a regular can get boring, think how that element of trust that you've built up can be used to advantage. I am sure that there are many of you who have introduced WGs to new experiences, but there are perhaps some things that a girl will only consider trying with her must trusted regular clients.

Very good points which expand on one of my earlier posts on this thread.

It all depends what you want out of a session and it's good to have regulars available for certain situations and a HL of new girls to see for others.

Offline Mansell

I can echo Johnnyboy's comments, I have been having some amazing sessions with my regular girl. Where there is total trust between us and blindfolds etc are no problem. Just back from a mind blowing session yesterday when I didn't think it could get much better, it went up another notch at her instigation.

Offline KidCandyShop

I have a regular who on one of my previous visits let me tie her up and blindfold her and explore her submissive nature which is something she does not advertise. I can't see this happening on first visit as trust has to be built. so for me it has to be a mix of a couple of regulars and the occasional new one for variety. 

Offline od13218

I've had time to reflect on this since my original post. I think the key factor for me is the number of opportunities I have, which is quite limited  - sometimes I can't punt for several weeks/2-3 months, and then have 1 or 2 chances to get a good one in before another drought, and I worry about making the "right" choice. But I find I enjoy myself more if I take the attitude that if it doesn't work out this time, there's always a next time: I just might have to be patient! So I now try to trust my mood more - there are times when I really just want a totally new experience (either simply a new WG, or a punt of a new type (BDSM, PSE, TS - whatever might have caught my fancy)), and others when I need a familiar face and pussy :)
Interesting to hear all your thoughts - thank you!



Offline RedKettle

I posted recently about my first go at a proper role play and that was with a regular and I just don't think it would have worked (in fact I would not have suggested it) with an unknown girl.  It was fantastic and shows the benefits of a regular.

I like a balance between regulars and newbies, like others such as tcm have said above.  My problem now is that after seeing a run of good girls (or rather not so good) I am building up an unmanageable list of "regulars".  Or rather ones that I would like to see regularly. 

Mind you a nice problem to have as in the days before UKP I had a couple of decent regulars and it seemed every new girl I tried was a dog or was OK looking but shit attitude.

Aspen

  • Guest
When I started out of course it was all a novelty, but I quickly learned that I have consistently better punts with regulars - and the quality of the punts actually keep getting better the more we get to know each other. 

I agree with that pretty much 100%. Plus,

I think also it depends on your personal circumstances. If you already have a partner/wife who is non cooperative sexually, the main aim might to be to have variety and/or maybe pure sex rather than a bit of intimacy. If you're single with no prospects of that changing then a trusty regular who you get on well with is a much better substitute and makes you feel human again for a little while. The trouble with chopping and changing is that it can be quite stressful, and you find yourself seeking something that you're never going to find. A regular takes the stress away, but you still get the initial excitement of the encounter.