Loosing Interest

[BlueRock]

Too bloody right, you only have to look how many absolute horrors in the worst picture thread on here actually have feedback.
Or is sticking your cock in an ugly as fuck old bag and paying for it a fetish for these twats?

[RadioKid]

As i once read from another forum, its sort of an unquenchable thirst. One that costs too much.

I cringe at the thought of how much i've spent over the years. Not to mention the shit punts and time spent "searching", travelling and returning etc.

[Marmalade]

As i once read from another forum, its sort of an unquenchable thirst. One that costs too much.

I cringe at the thought of how much i've spent over the years. Not to mention the shit punts and time spent "searching", travelling and returning etc.

They’re overcharging cash deposit machines. But maybe if you read reviews properly you might cringe slightly less: just basing it on your review history of clearly crap prostitutes.

Punting is not exactly living the high life; sometimes it just makes living the medium life more acceptable. 

[JonasG]

As i once read from another forum, its sort of an unquenchable thirst. One that costs too much.

I cringe at the thought of how much i've spent over the years. Not to mention the shit punts and time spent "searching", travelling and returning etc.

It's like any vice though.

Imagine how much you've spent on booze your whole life.

[shagmore]

I think one of the earlier posts on here summed it up, that you loose your own self respect.
Been 2 weeks without looking at AW or paying for a WG.
Also saving me a bloody fortune.....

[WKD123]

Very odd..... I read this thread when it first started with interest but couldn't relate to it until..... last Saturday I managed to get an hour with a girl I had my eye on for a while, but had moved to a more difficult to reach location. I made the effort, however, as she was available and I could make the trip.   Just the type I imagined I would be shagging when I started this punting lark, but in the days after I was beginning to question whether I should in fact carry on - it was a positive experience but.... can't quite put my finger on it   (no pun intended).   

Maybe it is because I have been like a kid in a sweet shop and simply booked too many punts close to each other?  Has that been anyone else's experience?  I'm going to take the advice on this thread and leave it for a while now, until I have a real urge to fuck, rather than just to tick another girl off the HL.   

[JonasG]

Very odd..... I read this thread when it first started with interest but couldn't relate to it until..... last Saturday I managed to get an hour with a girl I had my eye on for a while, but had moved to a more difficult to reach location. I made the effort, however, as she was available and I could make the trip.   Just the type I imagined I would be shagging when I started this punting lark, but in the days after I was beginning to question whether I should in fact carry on - it was a positive experience but.... can't quite put my finger on it   (no pun intended).   

Maybe it is because I have been like a kid in a sweet shop and simply booked too many punts close to each other?  Has that been anyone else's experience?  I'm going to take the advice on this thread and leave it for a while now, until I have a real urge to fuck, rather than just to tick another girl off the HL.   

I'm doing what you're currently doing (lots of punts in a short period of time) but I'm still enjoying it tbf.

[JonasG]

But I'm sure eventually I'll max out.

Most people I assume have that splurge of punting when they first start.

[threechilliman]

Maybe it is because I have been like a kid in a sweet shop and simply booked too many punts close to each other?  Has that been anyone else's experience?  I'm going to take the advice on this thread and leave it for a while now, until I have a real urge to fuck, rather than just to tick another girl off the HL.   

I were like that for the first 18 months - ticking them off the HL - I think its a newbie thing. Once you realise what you like and don't like you can quickly reduce that HL. I made myself answer the question 'What do I want to see her for?' Just a shag or something specific I had in mind? If I couldn't think of a specific reason she got ditched. Looks like you're taking the advice which will serve you well.

[Marmalade]

Like that annoying R.E.M. song, "Losing my religion". Initial excitement fades. Then you get disillusioned. But recognise everything for what it is -- there's a happy medium if you can find it. A prostitute's a prostitute. No more, no less. (And maybe it's not very much: but it's a hole when you have a need for it.)

 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Yep a Wg's a escort and very rarely owt else;!

Civvies?, well had an affair with a young one had to sadley had to call it off the both of us but i still vividly remember every time we were at it, hot raw spontanious and fun and 'err BB neither of us was carrying anything.

Never had the same with a WG some quite close but not that her WANTING to shag you:!

[Danger!WillRobinson]

Certainly losing interest in trying anyone new, after a few horrors, but still happy to stick with regulars, and even then thinking about cutting down to just the one regular - she does what I like, we get on*, etc.

Increasingly find myself not being arsed to go through the whole rigmarole of trying to communicate likes, role play, etc. with new (to me) SPs. If I ever have a crap meet, I find myself booking a regular fairly soon after to make up for it, so why risk the crap meet in the 1st place...

*not in an EAS way - I'm not that daft

[Silver Birch]

I think I only had 2 punts in 2017 (plus a few massages, but they don't really count, do they?). I still waste a lot of time looking at AW and posting on here, but I just can't raise enough interest to get out there and do it.

I have ticked everything on my bucket list (bar one ), and can't find the enthusiasm to make a new list. I have literally done everything that appeals to me, and much more   , but after I had done most things a few times, the box is ticked and I do not have the urge to do it again.

Recently I have visited a few massage shops and enjoy the thrill of not knowing exactly what is going to happen, but even that is losing its thrill 

I am not conciously planning to retire, but subconsciously I think it may be happening 

[brandonpete]

Totally understand 'shagmore'.......It's like being a Junkie....you're always looking for a repeat of the first time...the 'hit'!

[NIK]

Interestingly I didn’t follow the expected pattern of going at it like a bull at a gate from the off.
 I first punted in the early 80s but only had 3/4 punts for the rest of that decade. I think this was because I was still in my 20s / early 30’s and I still had hopes of getting a girlfriend and for 2-3 years in the middle of the decade I did. Also had a handful of previous dalliances. Equally importantly I didn’t actually know prossies were available locally. My punts had all been in London and Amsterdam. My relationship founded when I was 29 and a couple of years later I’d all but given up on looking for another. I discovered prossies advertising in the local paper in 1990, I don’t know how long this had been going on, but that was it for me. However I still didn’t go mad initially and in 90,91,92 I still only had about 4 punts a year. Indeed the first 3/4 times I actually saw the same one, who ironically in view of my preference for younger ones was older than me.
I still had to be careful as by this time I was a mature student, although money wasn’t much of a problem as I had part time work, some savings and a full grant back then and I never paid more than £60/70.
1992 was the year my punting increased and I had more than I’d had previous 3 years put together. By 94 I was working full time again and within another couple of years earning more than in my previous job, therefore my punting mushroomed both in terms of frequency and locality.
For the next 15 years or so I would have 20-30 a year before it tailed off again to 3/4 a year around the time UKP was born.
I am now down to even less than that. I have in effect come full circle.
Except without the girlfriend!   

[S.X. MacHine]

Well, at just over five years, I am a relative novice compared with some contributors to UKP, and, yes, the GFE doesn't hit the spot the way it used to.
I now seek out the services of specialists; submissives who can take a flogging etc... There are only a handful of suchlike WGs in Scotland, but some are real enthusiasts, carrying it over to their personal lives. As most of my punts are repeat visits, I know the girls, which makes for relaxing and successful meetings.
The other aspect of punting which I'm drawn to, is group sex situations. This still sets the pulse racing.
Recently, I've been thinking of trying a tranny. But maybe that's a bit too..ahem..'gay'...

[Jjon]

You're losing interest because it soon gets boring. You can take a break but it will soon get boring again. If there were thousands of cheap red hot wgs nearby you would get more jaded more quickly. Why do I carry on? There's fuck all else to do.

[Steely Dan]

There's fuck all else to do.

Bleak.

May I suggest train spotting? I believe it is there to do, cheap and legal. Might suit. /shrug

[Marmalade]

Bleak.

May I suggest train spotting? I believe it is there to do, cheap and legal. Might suit. /shrug

And the price of coke might fall if Labour get in. 

[Jjon]

Well I'm sorry about that. I could combine the two. I've got so choosy I'm travelling vast distances in order to obtain decent punts & to get away from the munters in my area. As soon as you find a good hooker they change - prices shoot up, availability becomes difficult, services & attitude drop, they disappear, get bad cosmetic surgery etc. Persian Camila, Busty Bad Girl & Cutest Lucy in London to name a few.

[Ramone78]

This is a very interesting thread,
I've largely stopped, and have been in a steady decline for around 5 or 6 years. Prior to this I was Punting two or three times  month minimum.
Perhaps sounds strange but UKP is largely the cause of this. To explain I'm generally a spontaneous Punter, so would begin looking at who was available (usually the same day) then do my research on here. Inevitably it would seem the available WG has been the source of Neg or Neutral Field Reports or discussion, so move onto the next WG & so on, until the Window of opportunity has closed !
I think theres also been a case of scratching (most) of the itches that needed scratching over the past 20 odd years.
Also theres been a decline in SP's in my area, too many EE's etc, then theres has been increased rates & my own Pet hate the "extras" where the £60 HH punt turns into a £100 HH so at one point was almost arriving at a Punt with an inevitability of impending disappointment
So yes I'm saving money on dodgy Punts but now hardly punting at all. 

[MrMatrix]

This is a very interesting thread,
I've largely stopped, and have been in a steady decline for around 5 or 6 years. Prior to this I was Punting two or three times  month minimum.
Perhaps sounds strange but UKP is largely the cause of this. To explain I'm generally a spontaneous Punter, so would begin looking at who was available (usually the same day) then do my research on here. Inevitably it would seem the available WG has been the source of Neg or Neutral Field Reports or discussion, so move onto the next WG & so on, until the Window of opportunity has closed !
I think theres also been a case of scratching (most) of the itches that needed scratching over the past 20 odd years.
Also theres been a decline in SP's in my area, too many EE's etc, then theres has been increased rates & my own Pet hate the "extras" where the £60 HH punt turns into a £100 HH so at one point was almost arriving at a Punt with an inevitability of impending disappointment
So yes I'm saving money on dodgy Punts but now hardly punting at all.

I too have fallen foul of this. I tend to book the same day and have the same problems as you've just described and the window of opportunity is missed. I've lost as much as 4 hours out of the day and probably tried to contact 2,3 SPs. They may reply , they may not- and so you feel you have to do something that day and give up and move on. 

[NIK]

This is a very interesting thread,
I've largely stopped, and have been in a steady decline for around 5 or 6 years. Prior to this I was Punting two or three times  month minimum.
Perhaps sounds strange but UKP is largely the cause of this. To explain I'm generally a spontaneous Punter, so would begin looking at who was available (usually the same day) then do my research on here. Inevitably it would seem the available WG has been the source of Neg or Neutral Field Reports or discussion, so move onto the next WG & so on, until the Window of opportunity has closed !
I think theres also been a case of scratching (most) of the itches that needed scratching over the past 20 odd years.
Also theres been a decline in SP's in my area, too many EE's etc, then theres has been increased rates & my own Pet hate the "extras" where the £60 HH punt turns into a £100 HH so at one point was almost arriving at a Punt with an inevitability of impending disappointment
So yes I'm saving money on dodgy Punts but now hardly punting at all.

Yes ironically that could be true. The more information you get the more you are aware of the crap and the more likley it is to put you off. When I was at my punting peak in the 90's there was fuck all infor until the very end of decade, then for the next 10 years of so we had to put up with biased lies and dishonest fluffy crap of other punting boards.
Now we have honest information and plenty of it, it correspondingly makes some of us more wary and even puts us off. 

[jackdaw]

In my case I’m pretty sure my (relative) lack of interest is down to my physical decline.

In that dreadful phrase “I’m fit for my age”..but I’ve got to point where sitting at home reading a book often seems more pleasurable than anything else.

Yes..I go through periods when all my minor aches and niggles clear up and that cold I’ve had for three months clears....then I may “get the urge”. But it’s almost a diary event.

I suppose the other factor is that organising a punt means going to nearest big city (or further afield still)...if there was a good “spur of the moment option” nearby, sure would still punt fairly often.

[NIK]

In my case I’m pretty sure my (relative) lack of interest is down to my physical decline.

In that dreadful phrase “I’m fit for my age”..but I’ve got to point where sitting at home reading a book often seems more pleasurable than anything else.

Yes..I go through periods when all my minor aches and niggles clear up and that cold I’ve had for three months clears....then I may “get the urge”. But it’s almost a diary event.

I suppose the other factor is that organising a punt means going to nearest big city (or further afield still)...if there was a good “spur of the moment option” nearby, sure would still punt fairly often.

I so often relate to your posts, mate.

This could be me speaking! 

[cerealpunter]

I'm not sure what is going on with me, much less interest in punting, but for various reasons I think, Been there and done that, got bored, maybe a big part of it. Getting older, health issues, cold weather lack of motivation also part of it. I've spent most of my life single with just a few short relationships, but maybe I'm at an age where I would like someone to share what is left of life with, (not always nice to be old and alone, seen some family members like this over recent years) but I know women don't come without complications and apart from the sex aspect of "will they wont they" it seems a constant effort to keep them happy (and to be honest I don't know if I can be arsed with it all) something else which crosses my mind (maybe shouldn't think like this but seen it recently with a family friend) is that it's all too easy to become someone's carer.
My punting was often with wg's of similar age to me or even slightly older, the young "look at me" type never really did it for me, the ones older than me are now not doing as much for me these days, although there are a few about who have looked after themselves. The younger ones still don't do it for me, in fact if I'm old enough to be their dad it just doesn't work for me.
Add to all this how punting seems to have changed (certainly in my local area) for £40 or £50 parlours it's about a 45 min drive on a good day, the more local alternatives are local indies but starting at about £120 an hour it's a big gamble for a what could well be a bad punt, as I've also mentioned in another thread, I can waste a lot of time trying to sort a punt and then lose interest, or run out of time.
I've still got the sexual urges, although the delay between looking for action has increased, but just don't feel it's worth all the effort. (I have even wondered if I might be suffering with some sort of depression, motivation in other areas is certainly lacking at the moment)