The OH gave up completely on sex over 3-years ago, I've been involved in this 'Hobby' for the last 2, punting about once or twice a month.
OH also turned into a complete bitch at the same time as sowing her legs together, so I did the decent thing for over a year, tried really to work things out, acted like a pussy whipped fool, but to no avail. She has basically acted like a single person living in a house I pay for, driving a car I pay for and getting an allowance from me each month, she even ignores the kids if she can (mind you they are 18 & 20).
So in the process of divorcing her and buying her out of the house, gonna get messy, but what the fuck, one kid off to Uni and the other gonna stay with me, and I can live with the deal on the table financially, so she's had her marching orders.
Whether I'm playing away has never come up over this period, in fact it has been some of the guys I work with, and both my kids, who have suggested that I get out and start shagging again. One of the guys I work with even sent me a link to AW last month.....little do they know.