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Offline NightKid

Been waiting for someone to start this thread as the closed one on the main board still seems a lost cause. But no one has yet to do it, so thought I might as well get the ball rolling myself.

Anyway, I'll open with a question ... got another meet with a potential through SA, and she's Romanian. Now, obviously we know through reports on here that many a Romanian WG have shady reputations - but having seen a couple through this site instead, from my experience the ones I've had on there were certainly better than those doing it professionally. Which I suppose is generally the case for an SA girl vs AW, hence the lure.

As such, my question is: if you're on Seeking, have you happened to have met many a Romanian chica and what has been your experiences with them?

Offline NightKid

Also, reposting from one of the posts I made in the closed thread. Hope it works.

External Link/Members Only AphroditeG (London)

Quite businesslike (which she's fine with as she admits it herself) and perhaps a little too chunky for some as well, but decent boat race though IMO and she accepted a reasonable London PPM figure for a few hours plus she's okay to do anal too.

And no, for better or worse she's not Romanian.  :D

Offline londonhunter008

I have used Seeking for long time...and actually prefer it over usual punting with escorts.
Seeking is a better options if you can afford some extra money and want to meet non professional girl and know how to filter them out. Usually over 300 per meet plus taking them to nice luxury places...overall each meet cost over 500 plus. But the experiences has been out of world. and have had some contacts to meet regularly.
Punting is better if you want to meet as many as possible and spend less money.

If you are looking for an escort on Seeking.com, then its not the right place. Adultwork and reviews over here are better. But if you are looking for NSA fun with someone who has normal life and looking for a man to take care of her on regular basis...and give you undivided attention(atleast on the day you are meeting...without meeting 10 men before or after you)...Seeking is your place.

I like to mix Seeking with occasional punting or visit to massage parlour or strip club...and has been working good for me.

Offline NightKid

Usually over 300 per meet plus taking them to nice luxury places...overall each meet cost over 500 plus.

I don't think you have to spend that much though as I'd usually get away with between half to just over of what you spend in total per meet on average, so there are budget or better value options to be found.

That being said, those sort of figures may still be eye-watering to some so yes I understand how it could be considered more expensive in general - it all depends on our own individual subjective perception of value I suppose.

Offline massagepuntingfan

I don't think you have to spend that much though as I'd usually get away with between half to just over of what you spend in total per meet on average, so there are budget or better value options to be found.

That being said, those sort of figures may still be eye-watering to some so yes I understand how it could be considered more expensive in general - it all depends on our own individual subjective perception of value I suppose.

I've had few problems getting the better standard of SBs to agree to £250 for an evenings fun. I host at home and the outlays generally cover a drink or two beforehand or champagne at mine. I'm meeting a stunning SB this weekend who with no prompting agreed to my £250 limit having previously received between £500-£1000 per PPM. I asked why she was prepared to meet my value, she said she thinks I am handsome, she likes the respectful way I communicate with her and she has an extremely high sex drive. I have mentioned in another Seeking thread that I play the long game, avoid the young, vacuous, overly manicured types.

Online LLPunting

I've had few problems getting the better standard of SBs to agree to £250 for an evenings fun. I host at home and the outlays generally cover a drink or two beforehand or champagne at mine. I'm meeting a stunning SB this weekend who with no prompting agreed to my £250 limit having previously received between £500-£1000 per PPM. I asked why she was prepared to meet my value, she said she thinks I am handsome, she likes the respectful way I communicate with her and she has an extremely high sex drive. I have mentioned in another Seeking thread that I play the long game, avoid the young, vacuous, overly manicured types.

Just so we understand your standards please post a representative photo to exemplify what she looks like.  How old is she?   :drinks:

Offline Londonpunter30

Not used it for a few years.. how much a month is it now ?

Offline finn5555

Usually over 300 per meet plus taking them to nice luxury places...overall each meet cost over 500 plus.


There is quality to be found under £300  :hi:
You need patience and the ability to weed out the whores from AW

Offline DeanoDeano

Not used it for a few years.. how much a month is it now ?

£70 a month or £180 for three.

Offline NightKid

Whereabouts in London do you live, if I may ask? If it's outside of zone 1 or 2 then do you find you have trouble getting SBs to travel to you sometimes or are they usually happy to if you sort out the Uber? Also, what's the % of those who would be comfortable coming over to yours on the first meet vs those who aren't?

I host at home and the outlays generally cover a drink or two beforehand or champagne at mine.

Anyway, just got back from seeing the Romanian I mentioned in my OP as well, and I'll be sharing as I'm not sure if she's my cup of tea exactly, cause apparently she takes cocaine in order to get in the mood. So bit of a party girl really (but not in a bad way) and there were times she was going quite wild with drinks and stuff, I was quite tempted to drop and ghost halfway into the night after meeting her.

However, on the positive side, I do believe she is indeed a good girl though as there were moments after the sex where we had some real talk and she showed her tender/vulnerable side ... though obviously being slightly coked up could count against that a little. Fit as too and is submissive by nature although her general demeanour may not seem as such so those who know how to take charge, be firm and direct well yet still being nice at the same time would likely find her a good match. Can be had for a reasonable London PPM allowance, by my standards of reasonable.

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Offline massagepuntingfan

Whereabouts in London do you live, if I may ask? If it's outside of zone 1 or 2 then do you find you have trouble getting SBs to travel to you sometimes or are they usually happy to if you sort out the Uber? Also, what's the % of those who would be comfortable coming over to yours on the first meet vs those who aren't?


I live in West London on the border of Zone 1 and 2. As for the percentage of women happy to come to mine on a first meet it's very high tbh, I generally have a fair amount of build up, texts, share photos/videos, chat on the phone to break the ice. Some are happy to come straight to mine, others I have met for a coffee/drink nearby and then go back to mine for drinks and sex.
In reply to LLPunting, sorry I'd rather not post photos of the girl I'm due to meet later. She's 25, English, and from her photos/videos sent very attractive. I share the information to give an idea of my experience on seeking which might help others.
« Last Edit: August 24, 2019, 02:05:40 pm by massagepuntingfan »

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In reply to LLPunting, sorry I'd rather not post photos of the girl I'm due to meet later. She's 25, English, and from her photos/videos sent very attractive. I share the information to give an idea of my experience on seeking which might help others.

I understand that's why I asked for a representative photo which could've been of anyone else with the same body type or a similar face.

Offline Tomi91

Is there any girl on Seeking who can meet at her location?  I dont want them to come to my home and I dont want to pay 100 pounds for hotel   if I already pay 3-400 pounds to the girl to meet.

Online LLPunting

Is there any girl on Seeking who can meet at her location?  I dont want them to come to my home and I dont want to pay 100 pounds for hotel   if I already pay 3-400 pounds to the girl to meet.

Just think that through again... how prudent do you think it would be to invite a random bloke to a woman's own private home?  IF she did do it, I'd think she has a screw loose and would swerve.

Seeking is about business with someone you can't trust implicitly.  Sure there may be exceptions but anyone forgetting that is risking safety and security.

Offline NightKid

Is there any girl on Seeking who can meet at her location?  I dont want them to come to my home and I dont want to pay 100 pounds for hotel   if I already pay 3-400 pounds to the girl to meet.

Ask if they host? Though as LL said, it's rare that you find one who does - especially so if you're meeting for the first time as there's the obvious trust issue on both sides.

Offline shagbambi

It’s very rare to find one that can host, in my experience a 1 in 50 event.  I consider it a discount as I don’t have to fork 75-100 for a hotel.

Offline Hobbit

Agree. You will struggle to find a girl that hosts on SA. if you seek incalls then stick to Adultwork or buy a caravan. :hi:

Offline Steve2

Been waiting for someone to start this thread as the closed one on the main board still seems a lost cause. But no one has yet to do it, so thought I might as well get the ball rolling myself.

Anyway, I'll open with a question ... got another meet with a potential through SA, and she's Romanian. Now, obviously we know through reports on here that many a Romanian WG have shady reputations - but having seen a couple through this site instead, from my experience the ones I've had on there were certainly better than those doing it professionally. Which I suppose is generally the case for an SA girl vs AW, hence the lure.

As such, my question is: if you're on Seeking, have you happened to have met many a Romanian chica and what has been your experiences with them?

My 1st SA meet was with a Romanian and it was pretty damned good

Offline T0pgun

AliceP7 or Alice Porter, Surrey

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Asking for money upfront  :dash:

Sugar Babes need to read the terms and conditions. Plenty of information about scams people play to con guys into giving them money   :timeout:
« Last Edit: August 26, 2019, 06:22:35 pm by T0pgun »

Offline NightKid

My 1st SA meet was with a Romanian and it was pretty damned good

Cheers Stevie, yeah I ended up seeing her (mini review in a post above) and ... while I'm not sure if I'll be returning in future just yet, I did have fun plus she said she might be up for giving me a freebie if I pay her in other ways so we'll see.

Offline The888

£70 a month or £180 for three.

Usually they have a deal on for new members.....

New email Addy, sign up, 25quid trial for a month....raid it as hard as possible and build up some numbers....

That usually what I do, keep me ticking a few months before rinse and repeating.

May have got luck with the trial offer but it's been there everytime I've tried.

Offline Sparta Prada

Usually they have a deal on for new members.....

New email Addy, sign up, 25quid trial for a month....raid it as hard as possible and build up some numbers....

That usually what I do, keep me ticking a few months before rinse and repeating.

May have got luck with the trial offer but it's been there everytime I've tried.

When was the last time you got the discounted price for the first month's membership with a new email/profile? I always created a new profile knowing if I waited a month I would receive the discount offer, but last year when I created my last profile I didn't receive the email.

Offline The888

Last did it about 2-3 months ago.

Got the offer straight off, didn't need to wait any period of time.

Sometimes I needed to wait a month with the 'new' account before they enticed me with a cheap deal.


Offline NightKid

May have got luck with the trial offer but it's been there everytime I've tried.

How many times in total have you got it then, if I may ask?

Offline The888

I reckon 4 or 5 over a couple of years.


Offline monstar

I reckon 4 or 5 over a couple of years.

You must be lucky, don't think anyone else has received the offer for a couple of years now  :unknown:

Offline Sparta Prada

You must be lucky, don't think anyone else has received the offer for a couple of years now  :unknown:

The last time I had the offer was last summer. Created 2-3 new profiles with new photos/email addresses since, and not had the discounted first month offer come through.

I’m going to pick holes with 888’s statement. I’m not aware of the discount offer being immediately available. And the offer is normally 30-40% off; to get membership at £25 from £70 does not sound right to me based on the discounts I have seen and know others have received.
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The last time I had the offer was last summer. Created 2-3 new profiles with new photos/email addresses since, and not had the discounted first month offer come through.

I’m going to pick holes with 888’s statement. I’m not aware of the discount offer being immediately available. And the offer is normally 30-40% off; to get membership at £25 from £70 does not sound right to me based on the discounts I have seen and know others have received.

No doesn’t tie in with any offers I’ve had in the past. Not sure why 888 would be getting the offer and no one else..

Seems a bit strange to me..

Offline Sparta Prada

No doesn’t tie in with any offers I’ve had in the past. Not sure why 888 would be getting the offer and no one else..

Seems a bit strange to me..

I know you can get a week’s membership via the app which I think I heard was around £25? I don’t use the app so I can’t check, but maybe he’s mixed them up?

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I know you can get a week’s membership via the app which I think I heard was around £25? I don’t use the app so I can’t check, but maybe he’s mixed them up?

He made it quite clear in his post it was for a month and had done it regularly..

Not sure you could mix that up..,

Not sure what I think, but something doesn’t ring true in his post..

Maybe someone else has had a similar offer..

Offline johnsheppard99

Just had a look and joined myself, no offers and 70 a month just to message people?? Ouch maybe not then! Shame as some pretty girls near me.

Offline The888

Yes - I thought i would make it up just for a shits and giggles.

Above is the offer I've had. If you haven't had it, I don't know why.

If I do it again in a month or two, I'll screen shot it here.

Pick holes if you want.

This forum at times....

Offline doublehappiness

I'm curious, how many Asians/Thais are on Seeking? Do you see a lot of girls?

Offline The888

In my experience the mix is:

50pc Caucasian
30pc black
30pc Indian, Asian, thai etc

As your subscription comes to end its amazing how all the fit ones suddenly start messaging.

Main down side for me is the quality has gone down a bit and the girls on there generally haven't logged in for months. There are some real gems for sure, but the work rate, message rate and weeding out the fakes, scammers, awol takes some doing.

Offline bukowski

Yes - I thought i would make it up just for a shits and giggles.

Above is the offer I've had. If you haven't had it, I don't know why.

If I do it again in a month or two, I'll screen shot it here.

Pick holes if you want.

This forum at times....


speaking as a digital marketer i think i can explain

they are probably testing different offers with different types of customer all the time
and there will be lots of folks who get offers that others don't get for this reason

it might also be that different entities/departments get different databases to play with
and they aren't all on the same page in terms of scope or strategy





Banned reason: No reviews in 5 years, refuses to explain when asked, fair enough
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Offline DeanoDeano

In my experience the mix is:

50pc Caucasian
30pc black
30pc Indian, Asian, thai etc
Using London as a sample area, and girl 18 to 24.

White - 8000
Black / mixed - 6000
Asian / Indian - 1200
Other - 1600


Offline Steve2

In my experience the mix is:


50pc Caucasian
30pc black
30pc Indian, Asian, thai etc


As your subscription comes to end its amazing how all the fit ones suddenly start messaging.

Main down side for me is the quality has gone down a bit and the girls on there generally haven't logged in for months. There are some real gems for sure, but the work rate, message rate and weeding out the fakes, scammers, awol takes some doing.

Welcome Diane Abbot  :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline muffdiver1959

Using London as a sample area, and girl 18 to 24.

White - 8000
Black / mixed - 6000
Asian / Indian - 1200
Other - 1600

Are these figures their expected ppm allowance?  :dash: :dash:

 :lol: :lol:

Offline DeanoDeano

 :lol:

Obviously well aware that you’re kidding. London does have a much higher per meet expectation than the rest of the country and once you've factored in hotels (never cheap) and bars that can get away with £15 for a glass of bubbly or a G&T this is not a hobby for the frugal or faint hearted...


Offline NightKid

Using London as a sample area, and girl 18 to 24.

White - 8000
Black / mixed - 6000
Asian / Indian - 1200
Other - 1600

Matches with my 'eye test' browsing experience so that's about right I suppose ... but what's interesting is how did you managed to sort that data out exactly?

Offline Lovewomen

Just had a look and joined myself, no offers and 70 a month just to message people?? Ouch maybe not then! Shame as some pretty girls near me.

If you sign up using their app on an android device there is a  seven day trial membership for £24.99 and it does not auto renew. I`ve joined a couple of times using different a couple of different email addresses.


In my experience there a thousands of scammers,  hundreds of whores and only a few genuine non pro girls/ladies. My profile is written similar to a dating profile expect with the emphasis on being upfront with any arrangement before meeting, that I`m a normal guy and not a millionaire but with disposable income and there are absolutely no sexual references anywhere.After sifting through the bullshit which comes at you at the speed of a tornado I have met with two normal, cute girls and spent two days with one for 200 plus hotel/restaurants and spent an evening with an Indian hot 20 something for drinks and sex for 150.
Currently I`m speaking to an 20 year only who I initially thought was a scammer but am finally convinced otherwise and I`m meeting up later next week. My test was that I offered to send her an Amazon gift Card before meeting and she declined stating that she doesn`t want me to feel taken advantage of and to just stick to our very humble arrangement.  I also have one mid 20`s Asian girl who is super cautious and wants to meet up soon for a meet and greet and if all is good no time limit for 250.

A point to note is 2/4 girls could host.

On the negative side I was scammed once by a clever bitch and she tried to get me to pay for pics she whatsapped and was a borderline stalker.
Also during my first SA venture a couple of years ago I spoke to a girl over text for a week constantly and that I thought was real and right before meeting her she asked for money to be sent to her for a new dress for our meet and the red flags went up and I said that I never send money and I will buy the dress after we meet. Then she blocked me and deleted her profile and poor...gone is an instant. Now I`m very very cautious.


Apologies if I`ve randomnly commented but if you`re willing to put in the time SA could be a great experience.

Ps. to answers OP`s original question. I`ve not met with an Rom`s although have spoke with a couple but they were all obviously working girls.
« Last Edit: August 31, 2019, 11:31:03 am by Lovewomen »

Offline DeanoDeano

Matches with my 'eye test' browsing experience so that's about right I suppose ... but what's interesting is how did you managed to sort that data out exactly?

Just did a member search with some filters. Obviously it doesn’t take into account dead profiles, idiots and scammers just a high level view.


Offline NightKid

Just did a member search with some filters. Obviously it doesn’t take into account dead profiles, idiots and scammers just a high level view.

Oh yes, can't believe I completely forgot about those ... d'oh!  :blush:

Offline DeanoDeano

Genuinely not sure if you are being sarcastic or...  :lol:

Offline NightKid

Never thought I'd see the day where I somehow managed to transcend my usual levels of sarcasm if so ...  :D

(Just kidding, I was genuinely having a blonde before actually.  :P)

Offline Coverdad

Re: Romanians, my only really bad Seeking experience was with a Romanian. Very escort like and mechanical. Told me she was submissive over text, then admitted she was more of a domme.

Best experiences have been Americans, Aussies and Brits. I now make sure that they’re at least partly into it for the sex and not just money.

Offline NightKid

Re: Romanians, my only really bad Seeking experience was with a Romanian. Very escort like and mechanical. Told me she was submissive over text, then admitted she was more of a domme.

Best experiences have been Americans, Aussies and Brits. I now make sure that they’re at least partly into it for the sex and not just money.

Cool, thanks. Haven't managed to meet a North American or an Aussie just yet I think, but I would concur that the native English speakers are more likely to be in it for the experience than money and the escort-like arrangements do tend to be with more foreign girls - either Europeans (both East and West) or further abroad.

Offline londonhunter008

Seeking is an over all experience...and its fun to be able to meet different kind of girls...escorts(i try to avoid meeting professional girls through SA, more expensive...but these are the ones who are too quick to share private pics and talk about allowance), normal working girls, single mothers, visiting girls, students and rare successful women (here to meet a man to go on luxury dates...i did dated a woman who wanted arrangement without allowance...just NSA ).


It does take time but fun if you can enjoy it...
- chat/call after a drink at night at home and fun to talk over chat or call
- Find right girl(or even wrong when you know that you will never meet but just want to know what she is upto).
-when you find the right one(non-professional in my case)...flirt, build up the chemistry, go on a date after few days in a beautiful bar lounge(have had my share of funny experiences and bad dates...but success rate has improved with time). Its a beautiful experience when you know that the girl has tried to look her best to impress you(and try to look best yourself...wear a nice suit and take care of fitness(not a bad motivation to workout...has worked for me well). Money cant buy everything...eventually a girl will give good time in bed if she is actually enjoying it ;).
- And then have an arrangement( I have few regulars...and meet them in random rotation and slowly add new one and get rid of ones you loose chemistry over time


Offline mattmatt

Nightkid

Thank you for starting up this thread, I've found it quite informative.

SA has always piqued my interest and the responses are quite interesting to note.

 :hi:

Offline Sparta Prada

Yes - I thought i would make it up just for a shits and giggles.

Above is the offer I've had. If you haven't had it, I don't know why.

If I do it again in a month or two, I'll screen shot it here.

Pick holes if you want.

This forum at times....

The888, I am happy to say you are right if you can prove you have had the offer, or receive it again in future. I think you replied to NightKid to advise you have received this offer for a couple of years:

I reckon 4 or 5 over a couple of years.

In January 2018 you wrote this:

is it me or has the price gone up!?
Been off it a few months, went to renew for the week at $30 or whatever it was - nearly £60/month only thing available (or longer).


No-one else has vouched for the same offer of £25.00 for a month's membership on Seeking. But $30 for the week membership would roughly be around £25 depending on exchange rates.

As I said before, I am happy for you to prove you have received this offer whether now or in the future but forgive me for my current skepticism on your claim.