How did you get started and find the escort world?

[Dwayne_Hicks]

Just before COVID I was at the end of a sexless marriage (divorced for a couple of years now) and heard from a mate about AdultWork. I think one SP had referred to this website which (naturally  ) was way more useful although wasn't able to post on here or register for a while. Picked out a couple of well reviewed SP's on here as options A and B and off I went

Now 4 years and over £15k spent later never looked back   

[alabama1]

I'm not sure they all went home (the Poles). But maybe less coming over. Maybe they all got married? Still a few about Manchester way. I saw three in one week last November.

What a guy 

[Georgedaviesok]

1991, used to write for a magazine and used to deliver my work to their office near Totenham Court Road, i was intrigued by the telephone box cards and used to ring them with no intention of going for a visit. But one day, i rang one, got the address and jumped in a black cab and went. Saw a slim scottish girl, hand job for £30. I left in a daze on cloud 9. Then i immediately started on Soho walk ups at £20/£30. Did this for a few months then worked dried up and a proposed visit to London was cancelled at the last minute and i was horny as hell so thought the next best thing would be a massage so I called a number in my local paper for a lady to come to my house. I genuinely thought it was just massage. The agency i used got the lady to ring me and i didnt understand the term 'Full personal service' as i thought this sex thing only happened in London. Very soon learnt the ropes that day, and after realising all the ads in the free papers were sex workers, on that very same day visited another lady 5 minutes from my house.
32 years later, no regrets, health has reduced my visits to once a month if that now but i was regularly doing three parlours in a day. I dont think you can ever walk away from it.

[webpunter]

32 years later, no regrets, health has reduced my visits to once a month if that now but i was regularly doing three parlours in a day. I dont think you can ever walk away from it.

 
Best of luck
I'm would be surprised that anyone could walk away after the third parlour in a day 
I'd have to space em out, early doors mid afternoon & then the evening
The 3rd massage burd could suffer from RSI to get me over the line

[Georgedaviesok]

Best of luck
I'm would be surprised that anyone could walk away after the third parlour in a day 
I'd have to space em out, early doors mid afternoon & then the evening
The 3rd massage burd could suffer from RSI to get me over the line

In my twenties i was a mega randy bastard with a massive sex drive, three soho walks in the one afternoon was easy for me often driven on with booze.
In my thirties i was still as bad but had to pace myself so on a regular journey from where i used to be based i would do Stoke, then Crewe and often Wrexham but Wrexham was a very hit and miss place that you entered via a dark yard. Wasnt keen so used to do some of the open late parlours in Stoke. Cant remember parlour names but could drive to them now but doubt they are still there.
I was still doing 2 a day in my forties but hitting my 50s my health has caused me to slow right down and more importantly my attitude towards escorts has severly changed plus i think i now have a concience!
Still dont regret it, even the bad ones and would happily write a book about my escapades if i could get away with it.

[standardpostage]

In my twenties i was a mega randy bastard with a massive sex drive, three soho walks in the one afternoon was easy for me often driven on with booze.
In my thirties i was still as bad but had to pace myself so on a regular journey from where i used to be based i would do Stoke, then Crewe and often Wrexham but Wrexham was a very hit and miss place that you entered via a dark yard. Wasnt keen so used to do some of the open late parlours in Stoke. Cant remember parlour names but could drive to them now but doubt they are still there.
I was still doing 2 a day in my forties but hitting my 50s my health has caused me to slow right down and more importantly my attitude towards escorts has severly changed plus i think i now have a concience!
Still dont regret it, even the bad ones and would happily write a book about my escapades if i could get away with it.

Writing a book sounds good 

Title = 3 Walks A Day or 3 Shades Of Red 

[Lucky Luciano]

The good old days of the Daily Sport in the 90s. You would find a telephone kiosk and ring the number of the classified ad. Certainly all change now!

[VladtheImpaleHer]

In my twenties i was a mega randy bastard with a massive sex drive, three soho walks in the one afternoon was easy for me often driven on with booze.
In my thirties i was still as bad but had to pace myself so on a regular journey from where i used to be based i would do Stoke, then Crewe and often Wrexham but Wrexham was a very hit and miss place that you entered via a dark yard. Wasnt keen so used to do some of the open late parlours in Stoke. Cant remember parlour names but could drive to them now but doubt they are still there.
I was still doing 2 a day in my forties but hitting my 50s my health has caused me to slow right down and more importantly my attitude towards escorts has severly changed plus i think i now have a concience!
Still dont regret it, even the bad ones and would happily write a book about my escapades if i could get away with it.

My sexcapades!

[webpunter]

In my twenties i was a mega randy bastard with a massive sex drive, three soho walks in the one afternoon was easy for me often driven on with booze.
In my thirties i was still as bad but had to pace myself so on a regular journey from where i used to be based i would do Stoke, then Crewe and often Wrexham but Wrexham was a very hit and miss place that you entered via a dark yard. Wasnt keen so used to do some of the open late parlours in Stoke. Cant remember parlour names but could drive to them now but doubt they are still there.
I was still doing 2 a day in my forties but hitting my 50s my health has caused me to slow right down and more importantly my attitude towards escorts has severly changed plus i think i now have a concience!
Still dont regret it, even the bad ones and would happily write a book about my escapades if i could get away with it.

There's me thinking that i'm reasonably accomplished in our fave sport
Time to think again
I am but a novice 

[webpunter]

My sexcapades!

Aided by a vivid imagination 

[PD11]

My curiosity was piqued when I saw advertisements in the newspaper. I gave one a call and asked if she did anal just to see if it was actually real - it was! I was about 17 at this point. I didn’t actually take the plunge until I was about 22 and was ridiculously bored / horny whilst writing up my university dissertation. I’d previously used AW as a wanking aid, but now I jumped in the deep end. The girl in question didn’t have the best profile and I was slightly apprehensive on arrival, thinking I was just settling for anything because my cock was twitching. Anyway, turned out that the girl was stunning. Her pussy and arse are still there with the best I’ve seen and that was over 15 years ago. I was that impressed, I went back a few hours later and had another half an hour with her.

I do agree with the OP, I wouldn’t recommend 20 somethings get involved, it can become quite consuming if you start enjoying yourself. However, I must admit, some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with a WG who took a shine to me during a breakup and those are very fond memories.

[Charlie Chalk]

Mid 90’s, desperate to pop my cherry, somehow found out about the Edinburgh sauna scene. Got some addresses from the classifieds and travelled some considerable distance to the city (I wasn’t local). Spent a good few hours wandering from establishment to establishment, trying to find the one that didn’t look too seedy. I eventually decided on Blair Street and then spent ages walking up and down the hill past the entrance, trying to get up enough courage to go in (plus trying to coincide with no-one else being about - paranoia central).

Well, I eventually made the long walk to the door and, after being give a quick lesson in how it all works by the friendly receptionist, found myself in the lounge with a couple of nice but not really my type girls. Then a young blonde girl walked in, dressed in beautiful white lingerie and I knew she was the one! Off to the room, started with a reverse massage so I could fondle her and then asked for a condom and somehow managed to last for about 15 mins before the inevitable!

Went back about half a dozen times over the next few years before marriage intervened and I thought that would be that. But FF to 2016 and a sexless marriage and I found myself searching the interweb; found AW & (thankfully) UKP. Have punted on and off since then, guilt and difficulty in being AWOL keeps my opportunities to a minimum but getting the urge again recently so will likely have to arrange something soon.

Still look back on my sauna adventures with a warm glow and have met some lovely ladies since then thanks to this site.

[Razor Boy]

Had been married for 15 years, 8 of them great sex and then bingo, sex tap was turned off..No reason given, no explanation, no discussion, just end of.
I was quite a caring guy (at that point*) and tried all sorts of things to bring it back into the marriage but it was like 

Read an article in the Evening Standard (London) about PunterN*t , an online review site of escorts.
At that point in time I only saw the tired trope that Escorts were drug addled, thieving women who gave you the clap (Trademarked by all newspaper rags at the time)
I got online and read about a new world that I had previously had zero knowledge about and found an agency near me that provided pictures of the ladies available...a veritable sweetshop for sex!

I phoned and made a booking but was so nervous in the hour that I couldn't actually feel my body let alone my cock!I had no idea if the SP was going to give me a BJ , kiss me or anything. I was just excited and frightened at the same time.
I told the SP it was my first time and she couldn't have sorted me out any better...that was me hook , line and sinker.

That was year 2000 and I have seen a good few hundred escorts , in a good few countries, been to orgies, lots of duos and met many lovely people along the way.
The golden age of SP's is behind us now (in my opinion) but I'm still checking here and AW for new gems regularly.

* I got divorced, had a few serious relationships and have got married again but...since being hurt by the first Mrs, I have always had this hobby for me. l leave a decent percentage of what I give to people there for me , nobody gets 100% of me now as a kind of protection. But I guess if the first Mrs hadn't fucked me over I wouldn't have shagged hundreds of beautiful women at the drop of a hat with booking on AW or with an agency, so happy days!

[GreyDave]

1991, used to write for a magazine and used to deliver my work to their office near Totenham Court Road, i was intrigued by the telephone box cards and used to ring them with no intention of going for a visit. But one day, i rang one, got the address and jumped in a black cab and went. Saw a slim scottish girl, hand job for £30. I left in a daze on cloud 9. Then i immediately started on Soho walk ups at £20/£30. Did this for a few months then worked dried up and a proposed visit to London was cancelled at the last minute and i was horny as hell so thought the next best thing would be a massage so I called a number in my local paper for a lady to come to my house. I genuinely thought it was just massage. The agency i used got the lady to ring me and i didnt understand the term 'Full personal service' as i thought this sex thing only happened in London. Very soon learnt the ropes that day, and after realising all the ads in the free papers were sex workers, on that very same day visited another lady 5 minutes from my house.
32 years later, no regrets, health has reduced my visits to once a month if that now but i was regularly doing three parlours in a day. I dont think you can ever walk away from it.

  The late 70`s and early 80`s pre Aids we Great in Soho and for a young guy if you could afford it and able to be up again the number of Walk ups was just unbeliveable to what it is now prices were 10quid and 50p tip then 15 quid and a pound tip to maid if you were regular the maids and the WGs were great value . I found as a young lad the WG`s in their 40`s were all ways better to me than the younger ones having said that the younger ones just did not have the curvy busty shape that I was after as a young lad Bareback was rife and really it was the Aids scare that caused a sharp turn around in the way they functioned and the fun sort of went out of Soho until around the mid 90s just after the Berlin Wall fell and we strarted to get more Euro Gals here ,Those were good times to then it tapered off till Tony Blair allowed in the Poles and Checz and Hungarians prices started to rise 20 quid and now were are at 30 ...It was possible to find doorways with 2 or 3 flats in and maybe 2 each side as you walked out. I remember doing day trips and walking around Soho shagging and drinking weak beer until my cash and energy which used to run out 1st... On the down side there were aquite a few Junkies about as the Dilly was place to score drugs and there were a few clip joints and nasty bastard cinema places I got caught Once in a clip joint but luckily I was there when a very hard business man was haveing none of it and knocked the shite out of a heavy demaning payment for beer at 10 quid a pint (in 78 )

[daviemac]

Still dont regret it, even the bad ones and would happily write a book about my escapades if i could get away with it.

NIK, the founder of this site, did write a book about his exploits, can't remember the name but I don't think it did very well.

[Steely Dan]

NIK, the founder of this site, did write a book about his exploits, can't remember the name but I don't think it did very well.

Here is his avatar.

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[Doc Holliday]

NIK, the founder of this site, did write a book about his exploits, can't remember the name but I don't think it did very well.

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Edit Beaten to it by Steely Dan 

[webpunter]

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Edit Beaten to it by Steely Dan 

"Since his first punt in 1981, Nik, the founder of UKPunting"

Well i never
Respec Nik  , i trust all good with you
WTF he was on one like, now on two & you can guess by who
Not so much 'gone in 60 seconds' as 'a hundred likes in 60 seconds '
Bang em in
We all need to be very very grateful
Here's his last post a year or so ago & last on here earlier this month
www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=365440.msg3758263#msg3758263
Fellow UKPers you all know what to do & i've made it easy for you with the link, chop chop !

[yesbby]

I am now 87, waiting for a prostate operation so nothing doing for two months but I have three women lined up for April.

This is impressive stuff, Colston. Can I ask what age range of girls you go in for these days, whether it’s a factor that impacts on your choice of escort and if you ever get knocked back by SPs due to your age?

[VladtheImpaleHer]

My first experience with an escort was in 2000. I was 20. And my mate had a thing for escorts. I think because he was well endowed, he liked showing off his ridiculous sized penis to everyone. So probably thought if you got it, flaunt it!

Back then I was going out a lot. As you do as a 20 year old. So I was meeting civvy girls regularly in bars. And not really needing to pay for sex.

But as a 20 year old, it was more the novelty of having the experience of paying for sex with a "prostitute".

My first experience was with my mate for a MMFF experience. I remember I paid £250 for one hour for my first experience. And I was drunk and nervous!

The girls that came weren't great either. There was one blonde and one mixed race girl. I chose to be with the mixed race girl. Who actually came across quite stuck up.

Because I was nervous, I couldn't get hard. The girl basically just gave me a hand job on my struggling to get erect penis while I heard my mate proper pounding the blonde girl next to me!

Anyway, my first experience cost me £250 for an hour for just a handjob and no sex!

A couple of weeks later me and my mate chose one maturer lady. She was probably in her 30s. Patricia, I think her name was. A friendly lady. We both had a go on her and this time I did have sex. And she gave me a nice DFK after. So I really felt I could tick off my first escort experience.

It was in 2015 when what I call my 'Adultwork Adventure' started. Between then and when I was 20 I visited escorts on different occasions. Usually abroad. I did one one walk up with a busty Russian lady in Soho. Sydney in the King's Cross area. Thailand and Mumbai.

But in 2015, I was looking at the back of newspapers for local brothels. I always wanted to get into seeing escorts. Maybe its always been the excitement of meeting gorgeous girls.

I called one brothel but never had the courage to go.

It was a chance meeting with a guy I worked with. I showed him a photo of an escort I shagged in Mumbai (she let me take a photo of her). We were working together when he told me he saw escorts and told me about Adultwork. As soon as he told me I could choose and see photos of the escorts on there, I was hooked!

Anyway, a week later I signed up to Adultwork and saw my first escort on the website. And the rest as they say is history.

I've been seeing escorts regularly now for nearly nine years. And I've had the best experiences.

I always say to myself, if I was on my deathbed I'd die a happy man with the sexcapades I've had!

[standardpostage]

VladtheImpaleHer = Good reply / Interesting 

[N17]

For me it was when I had got to the age of 18, I had previously passed by Spangles, when it was on Derby Road, near the QMC, and I decided why not go and have sex, after all I was horny, and I just loved the experience that I had, sex and watersports and I dare say that it made me even more hornier and wanting to get into sex even more. Since then I have loved everything about the escort world, had some memeorable punts with the likes of Morgan in Nottingham who used to work from Albert Grove, and Megan, who used to work from near Castle Marina, I think Megan and the girl she used to work with, Jess has retired now, shame as they were fantastic!

[Marsh Mitch]

I got married and stayed faithful for 10 years. Put up with hardly any sex for a couple years. Decided to take the plunge and book an escort. Didn’t feel guilty at all. Now I have had several affairs and fulfilled most of my fetishes. Still love my wife and wouldn’t leave her, but I’m not giving up escorts or affair partners.

Curious .. how do you get into affairs ? Are they civvies ? Where do you find them … isn’t lot of drama to get laid with affairs ?

[CigarSmoke]

Back in 2005, a college arranged a weekend trip to Amsterdam. I lost my virginity to a prostitute in the Red Light District. It was a Thai woman. Ain't had a shag again until 2006.

That year I browsed through the back of newspapers for massage parlours, from Birmingham Mail to Coventry Telegraph and punted through that. Half an hour for a massage and a shag with Asian women.

Just before the end of 2007 I was still using massage parlours. I discovered escort websites on the internet. First escort website I ever found was called London Bunnies. At the time escorts were charging like £150 an hour for a shag. I can't wrap my head around paying that much money. So expensive. Took me some time to get over it.

In January 2008 it was my first time using an escort website. I used London Bunnies and and shagged a Eastern European woman. I can't remember was she located in Notting Hill or somewhere else. From that point onwards I stopped using massage parlours advertised in newspapers and used escort websites as a main staple to find escorts.

In 2010 I found Adult Work randomly via Google searches or clicking some links at the bottom of some escort sites and used that instead and still using AW today. Fourteen years of using AW. Yay. And relied on escort websites less since I found AW. And recent years I used escort sites more again, especially Lush Escorts in Birmingham.

[snaitram99]

Around 2000 found myself with some spare money and time on my hands. Long time married, no straying despite the occasional possible opportunity. Wondered about the adverts for massage parlour under Health and Beauty in the Western Mail - somehow had an inkling something sexual might be involved. Called into Ambassadors in Cardiff, which I believe is still going, not sure what would happen, said I'd never been there before and was told so and so was available now and was "good in the room", which fortunately turned out to be true. Stuck with oral with condom at that point.
 Progressed to Owo and sex (covered, obviously) at most of Cardiff's euphemistic massage parlours - A1, Angels, Studio, No.19, Oasis/Retreat - and occasionally elsewhere. Cleo's in Somerset was unique among those I visited for its communal waiting room and actual line up.

Dabbled in street girls for a while, mostly Cardiff again, but stopped as seemed too risky in several ways. Did meet some surprisingly nice girls though.

Got into Chinese massage with happy ending in Chinatown while on work visit to London, then on return found Healing Hands in Penarth and later others. Also Thai in Cardiff, there seemed to be an increase in the number of shops about 2015. Generally needed a couple of legit visits before being offered anything at that time. Now do mainly massage with extras, like the massage if done well, as well as other things.