Techniques to Last Longer?

[firth]

My biggest weakness is when I'm receiving a BJ at the start and I feel like exploding too soon. The dilemma; I don't want her to stop because it feels fantastic but at the same time I want her stop because it'll all be over. So here are some strategies I have read about to prolong:

1. When I'm on my back and receiving a BJ, if I feel like I will cum too soon I immediately look at the ceiling. What I'm doing here is cutting off the vision of the girl with my weapon in her face and this helps a great deal so I don't need to switch positions or tell her to stop.

2. If you're close to exploding, apparently there's a technique where you cause pain to yourself. You don't have to be theatrical in inflicting the pain, just as little as biting your tongue is sufficient. What happens is the pain 'distracts' the brain and blood rushes to the region where there's pain. Will this affect erection? I don't know, I've yet to try this one.

3. When all else fails there's the conventional mental defence mechanisms; imagining dead kittens and old wrinkly grandmas. Glenn Quadmire does this.

[IAMBATMAN]

the oldest trick in the book is apparently doing math in your head, nothing too hard something like the 7x table that you dont need to think so much you'll lose your boner but enough to distract you from whats happening below your belt

[fredpunter]

Just think of Margaret thatcher .... though for some on here that would have the opposite to the desired result.

[OakTree]

Doing all that stuff is surely distracting from the enjoyment. You're there to be pleasured not to impress her with your staying power. Instead why not focus on the sensations and if you're going to pop let it build up and let it go full force. Have a break and then go for round two.

[justfornow]

Ask her to lick your balls or the shaft without stroking the cock and when you're ready tell her to go back. If she's good you won't have to say shit to her.

[smiths]

My biggest weakness is when I'm receiving a BJ at the start and I feel like exploding too soon. The dilemma; I don't want her to stop because it feels fantastic but at the same time I want her stop because it'll all be over. So here are some strategies I have read about to prolong:

1. When I'm on my back and receiving a BJ, if I feel like I will cum too soon I immediately look at the ceiling. What I'm doing here is cutting off the vision of the girl with my weapon in her face and this helps a great deal so I don't need to switch positions or tell her to stop.

2. If you're close to exploding, apparently there's a technique where you cause pain to yourself. You don't have to be theatrical in inflicting the pain, just as little as biting your tongue is sufficient. What happens is the pain 'distracts' the brain and blood rushes to the region where there's pain. Will this affect erection? I don't know, I've yet to try this one.

3. When all else fails there's the conventional mental defence mechanisms; imagining dead kittens and old wrinkly grandmas. Glenn Quadmire does this.

I have control over my own body so decide when to pop or not, works perfectly for me.

[DG]

Having tried two pops during a 2 hour punt once I found it very difficult. She was working like crazy to get me to cum a second time, with her mouth and not her hands. To her credit she did succeed, but I thought it was too much like hard work for me and her. So if I feel like cumming early in a punt I have to stop myself. I keep it simple and ask her to stop. I will usually then give her a bit of RO or, depending on the punt, engage in a bit of spanking or kissing to allow me to recover before handing back to her. I time myself to cum 5 or 10 minutes before the end of the punt.

[Two tone]

I have control over my own body so decide when to pop or not, works perfectly for me.

Hi Smiths,

Have you always had control over your body in deciding when to pop? If not how did you get it?

I've always been too fast although I have got better as I've got older & cialis has also helped me last a bit longer...still too soon though   

I've tried the distraction techniques but didn't enjoy them as it took my mind away from the pleasure but I'm now trying to relax my pc muscle as I've read that tension there primes the pump so to speak. Apparently it's all about how much sensation you can take before your overwhelmed & pass the point of no return.

I've also tried two pops in a session but have only managed it on a couple of occasions as my age is catching up with me.

[Happylad]

As the Victorian mother used to advise their daughters (although for different reasons) LIE BACK AND THINK OF ENGLAND, or failing that you could always try counting sheep.

However, I`ve also noticed that a number of Viagra users have complained that after taking one it takes them a long time to cum - perhaps this is the answer.

[threechilliman]

Hi Smiths,

Have you always had control over your body in deciding when to pop? If not how did you get it?

I've always been too fast although I have got better as I've got older & cialis has also helped me last a bit longer...still too soon though   

I've tried the distraction techniques but didn't enjoy them as it took my mind away from the pleasure but I'm now trying to relax my pc muscle as I've read that tension there primes the pump so to speak. Apparently it's all about how much sensation you can take before your overwhelmed & pass the point of no return.

I've also tried two pops in a session but have only managed it on a couple of occasions as my age is catching up with me.

I don't think there's any great art to it. I decide when I'm going to pop, usually at the end, and not before. I have to 'go for it' so to speak and it's unlikely a girl will make it happen on her own. If she tries to go for it, I stop her, but I've usually made it clear when I'll be popping.

tcm

[raylondoner]

Just think of Margaret thatcher .... though for some on here that would have the opposite to the desired result.

Thinking of tossers that mention Dame Maggie? 

[cueball]

I just tell her to slow down if I'm getting near to popping with oral, podging is quite easy to control, I just request a switch of positions if I'm getting near the vinegar stroke, that usually sees me back nicely

[webpunter]

However, I`ve also noticed that a number of Viagra users have complained that after taking one it takes them a long time to cum - perhaps this is the answer.

+ 1 on viagra.  The same for Kamagra.  It seems like whilst the bell-end is harder [also feeling a little bigger] then also harder to actually come
For lasting longer i find that massage / HJ's & edging a perfect combo.  Easy to say stop.  Whereas if they are bouncing up & down in cowgirl then much harder to achieve.  When shagging civvies in my dim & distant past then i'd for example say stop and they'd take this to stop bouncing up and down but still sitting on little WP.  This just makes things go deeper and doesn't always have the desired effect.  Especially when they start laughing or giggling which means they contract their stomach muscles & also their minge it seems.  With no condoms most times then it was often difficult not to come

Two other options:

- alcohol.  Easier when not driving to the punt.  Although turning up pissed isn't well received
- think of one / more of the munter type big old units that HP has shagged 

[tantric talents]

Until you learn to get better control with kegelling etc you might want to try Generic Viagra w/ Dapoxetine to give you both a hard-on and prevent premature ejaculation.

[Cuntminion]

I think about the war on terror

It helps

[spkmstr48]

My biggest weakness is when I'm receiving a BJ at the start and I feel like exploding too soon. The dilemma; I don't want her to stop because it feels fantastic but at the same time I want her stop because it'll all be over. So here are some strategies I have read about to prolong:

1. When I'm on my back and receiving a BJ, if I feel like I will cum too soon I immediately look at the ceiling. What I'm doing here is cutting off the vision of the girl with my weapon in her face and this helps a great deal so I don't need to switch positions or tell her to stop.

2. If you're close to exploding, apparently there's a technique where you cause pain to yourself. You don't have to be theatrical in inflicting the pain, just as little as biting your tongue is sufficient. What happens is the pain 'distracts' the brain and blood rushes to the region where there's pain. Will this affect erection? I don't know, I've yet to try this one.

3. When all else fails there's the conventional mental defence mechanisms; imagining dead kittens and old wrinkly grandmas. Glenn Quadmire does this.

1) you're paying to be able to see her, change position or activity instead.

2) too much of that and you'll just train your brain to confuse pleasure and pain, might not be an issue but you'll find you need to see a different kind of WG.

3) again pleasure is why you are there why do something that dilutes it. Take control of your body. If I tell a girl she hasn't got permission to cum I expect her to find a way to hold it but still stay in the moment.

 

[Kingy28]

I normally go for two pops in an hour so I have no reason to hold back.

[smiths]

Hi Smiths,

Have you always had control over your body in deciding when to pop? If not how did you get it?

I've always been too fast although I have got better as I've got older & cialis has also helped me last a bit longer...still too soon though   

I've tried the distraction techniques but didn't enjoy them as it took my mind away from the pleasure but I'm now trying to relax my pc muscle as I've read that tension there primes the pump so to speak. Apparently it's all about how much sensation you can take before your overwhelmed & pass the point of no return.

I've also tried two pops in a session but have only managed it on a couple of occasions as my age is catching up with me.

Yes since my early 20s, also fortunately I can multi-pop which helps though its a case of diminishing returns as I have got older.

[Malvolio]

I normally go for two pops in an hour so I have no reason to hold back.

This one works for me - I let the first pop happen naturally, get hard again after ten minutes but it'll take at least another 15 minutes of solid shagging before the second pop.

[ArtVandalay]

In the past couple of months I've moved away from trying to get 2 pops in an hour and instead gone for one big one.
Generally the first pop would be embarrassingly quick and the second would be a struggle to attain.

Try some or all of these to delay the eventual:
1. Don't abstain for 3 days before. If you normally wank daily then have a wank the day before as usual. Probably better to still abstain on the day itself though!
2. Foreplay and lots of it. If you feel yourself getting too excited then go down on her for an extended period, leave your cock alone until it starts going soft.
3. When you do eventually get in, know which positions and angle of attack give you least stimulation.
4. If required, stop and change position. Try and delay re-entry if you need to cool down
5. Find a rhythm, just banging away is guaranteed to get you to pop
6. DO NOT picture your cock nestled comfortably in that hot, pink, juicy, delicious pussy.
7. Experiment - find what works for you
8. Relax and enjoy all of it. You're on a journey not a race

Personally, I find that after 15-20 minutes my cock goes almost numb and I can then shag away and cum only when I decide to let the desire and feeling overcome me.