Just a bit of a general question here. I’ve been on SA before, and will probably be back on it soon.
For those of you who see/have seen someone regularly, how do you keep yourself anonymous? What I mean by this is how much do you reveal about your private life, where you work etc?
I’m single, so I don’t have to think of a wife/girlfriend finding out. It’s just some people can be a bit nosey. Also, if they tell me about their life, I feel obligated to respond.
p.s. I suspect that some of you probably know really simple stuff to say in this area!
Apologies for answering this rather old post but I've been on SA since 2017 so here's my experience. BTW, I hate the terms Suger Baby and Sugar Daddy but I suppose we're stuck with them for now.
The likelihood of being identified on SA is pretty slim when you think about it. If you are registered as a SD you can only be seen by SB's so your mates are never going to stumble across your profile. If you're spotted by a SB who knows you then who's she going to tell? She can only find you if she's registered a profile so will be exposing herself if she brags about it.
From a personal point of view, I wouldn't care if it came out that I was on there. I was single at the time I was on it so wasn't going behind anyone's back. And, besides, so what? Most mates of most blokes won't care in the least - any distaste they express will be for the benefit of their OH, most likely. I think it's far more of a risk for the girls on it as they'll be seen as one step down from a prossie if their families found out.
I was never bothered one bit about the girls I met knowing who I was. Actually, I made the specific point of telling them who I was and sending them a link to my FB profile and suchlike so they knew who they were meeting. Similarly, I've always known their names - perhaps not straight away but certainly after a first meeting.
Almost all other dating webites are shite by comparison. I've met some absolutely wonderful girls on SA, some I still chat to and have on FB and I met my current GF on there. Most of the girls are realists and know they aren't going to make a ton of money off it, especially in this part of the world. The recurring theme I hear from girls on SA is that most of the guys on it are just seedy fantasists who are probably skint and ultimately back out of meeting when it starts to get close to it. That's what makes it so bloody great for guys who are actually using it for its intended purpose. I'm an average guy in my middle 40's, not skint but far from wealthy, and I can't think of any other method by which a guy like me could get to go out with a collection of stunning women 25 years or more younger than me. What I've also found is that it's not true that all these girls want paying, or at least not loads of money. Lots are on there because guys their age are seedy fuck-boys who want porn movie type sex, are usually skint and generally treat women like shit. They are simply looking for a decent guy to do nice things for them, take them nice places and treat with with a bit of respect.