It's also worth making sure that you are fulfilling your end of the bargain, by turning up looking presentable, freshly showered if possible, and ideally with key areas trimmed / shaved for hygiene / accessibility / aesthetic reasons.
He's right is Sylvester, trimmed, sparkling tackle and bell end, clean and fresh, nice clean teeth and no bad breath, if you smoke don't have a tab for an hour before, clean shaven, nice short fingernails and Smell of deodorant and more times than not you'll get all her like list.
Turn up smelling like a builders armpit with enough cheese to get a part on wallace and grommit, fingernails that could cut cardboard and stubble that you could strike a match on, don't be surprised when she won't go near you and sticks a rubber on your cock just to walk past it.
Not saying the op wasn't spick as span, just agreeing with Sylvester.