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Author Topic: Do you cum in the bag or not??  (Read 2140 times)

Punter115

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If any of you read my reviews you will notice that a great failing of mine is that I seem to be unable to cum in the bag when having sex with the Escort ... I obviously cum other ways with her .
Therefore it got me thinking am I just unlucky,past it  or is this a more common failing throughout the community and if so why?

I put my problem down to age ...65 years old and Life style i.e. lack stamina due to being unfit.

Offline NervousJ

Surely a double incentive to get fit...

Or fitter than you currently are...

mrhappypants

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There is certainly some effect of age and possibly for fitness.  I trained long and hard for a sporting event last year but i still rarely come in a condom. I have always found this a problem but it has become more pronounced as I have got older.  I seldom if ever experienced this for unprotected sex (which I enjoyed with girlfriends - not with WG's).   

If you have the self discipline the two things that I have found that help are
i) a partner who knows how to press your buttons.  I have found a few WG's who can bring me to orgasm through protected sex; the magic seems to be in both the way they look (I have a "type") and their attitude - playfulness works for me.
ii) prolonged abstinence before the act.

From a psychological perspective ejaculatory impotence is probably about finding it difficult to "let go" both literally and figuratively, so it might be worth thinking about what you and a WG can do to make it easier or more likely that you will "let go." 
« Last Edit: February 10, 2017, 09:31:30 am by mrhappypants »

Offline NIK

If any of you read my reviews you will notice that a great failing of mine is that I seem to be unable to cum in the bag when having sex with the Escort ... I obviously cum other ways with her .
Therefore it got me thinking am I just unlucky,past it  or is this a more common failing throughout the community and if so why?

I put my problem down to age ...65 years old and Life style i.e. lack stamina due to being unfit.

I can't remember the last time I climaxed through intercourse. The 'bag' negates any feeling for me. In fact I can't recall the last time I had intercourse!
Certainly it will be many years and punts ago since I climaxed the 'natural way.' I suppose having your cock covered by a condom isn't exactly natural in the first place.

Punter115

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Yes...On reflection that is exactly how I feel with the bag on "I get no feeling when having intercourse"...thank you.
Will try and get fitter and maybe then if you can push it ( not tire so quick) that may help to ejaculate in the bag.....worth a try.

Offline Feeling Hopefull

This has been the problem for me too in the last few years, I finish off either by wanking over her face/tits or her finishing me by hand or in the mouth, come to think of it I actually prefer that now  ;)

Monsieur69

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I am older than 65 and find the following have helped me.
If you have a regular ask her if you can supply your own condom.
Skyns and Mates make a very thin but strong type which are more expensive, but you feel a lot more.
I have regularly cum in these types.
Try Zinc tablets and pomegranate seeds for a few weeks, they increase the amount of sperm produced and also help with stronger boners.
General fitness and gym are good but don't work out same day or even the day before a punt as a heavy work out drains the energy levels of we old fuckers.

Offline Littlefoot

I'm knocking on a bit. Although I usually last a long time, I always pop in the sack, eventually! Having said that I am very fit for my age. Sounds as though fitness is the key!

 :hi:

Punter115

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Thanks lads ( or old fuckers).....great info and advice!
Keep it coming!!!

Offline snowbum

I think it is a common problem, especially if the woman is a bit loose  :(

Sensitivity decreases with age and recovery time increases  :(

I get put off by common WG attitudes and have found much easier with fresher SB's from SA :D

Offline cueball

I have no bother popping in my bag. Condoms make me last much much longer and give me vfm as a one pop merchant these days.

Offline Tricky Dickie

I seldom come with a condom on unless the girl is very tight. I guess it's down to a lack of sensation.

That said, I don't care. I much prefer to CIM anyway. It's a much more intense sensation for me. So not coming in the condom is a bonus for me.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

I tried coming out of my arse not long ago, by which I mean the lady stuck two fingers up me and massaged my prostate, Now I have an idea. Is it possible to have that done at the same time as podging or would you need a second lady to do that?

mrhappypants

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I tried coming out of my arse not long ago, by which I mean the lady stuck two fingers up me and massaged my prostate, Now I have an idea. Is it possible to have that done at the same time as podging or would you need a second lady to do that?

Sounds like a reverse reach-around; if there is such a thing.

Standing?

Offline twwb

I tried coming out of my arse not long ago, by which I mean the lady stuck two fingers up me and massaged my prostate, Now I have an idea. Is it possible to have that done at the same time as podging or would you need a second lady to do that?

possibly in reverse cg? you could sort of prop your arse up off the bed with pillows so she can lean over and reach under you easily

or like this External Link/Members Only if you can get legs up like him. it looks like a recipe for leg cramp to me!

Offline Horizontal pleasures

possibly in reverse cg? you could sort of prop your arse up off the bed with pillows so she can lean over and reach under you easily

or like this External Link/Members Only if you can get legs up like him. it looks like a recipe for leg cramp to me!

the clip is named 'couple prostate' but I think it would soon become prostrate. Thanks anyway.

Jay-Jay

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I'm of the opinion that fitness and age do play a part but with the right sp just putting the rubber on can get me excited whereas the majority of today's girls just want the cash with no effort. Plus I suppose , having been at this for yonks, I'm a bit jaded by it all. Don't think the rubber has much to do with it in reality, it's just what you have to do if you want a casual fuck nowadays.

Jay

Neal69

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Answer to OP Yes.

Others like to do other things but to me I am not truly happy with a meet unless I have cum in a vagina ergo Its in the bag with a WG.

Yes I have had one or two failings but most of these have been when I am really very tiered and should not have punted at all. Opportunity is the main factor in my punting frequency.

I rarely cum with Oral only although I have been surprised a few times when they really know how to get me going. I wish I could describe it like others do but it just seems to happen if they use the right , for me , technique and that can even be OW  :scare:

If I have seen a WG and I have cum during Oral but have not fucked her then its unfinished business for me and I want to return and fuck her. I am mostly a one popper so pop in the bag in the fanny is then job done in my perverted mind.

Its a bad day for me if I have to finish myself by hand even when I am wanking her her tits.

Yes I am sure it would be a lot better if I did not have to use a condom but it is what it is these days as nothing beats the felling of au natural. There is no way apart from contraception ( and that is a very dodgy way of doing it) that I would want to pull out and shoot my load anywhere else but inside a nice warm wet vagina with a Civvie.

I am mid 50's For the record.

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Offline welshman

I have never come in a condom and I have to finish by hand.

Offline howrude

I've no problem coming in the bag but I usually prefer to finish by wanking me off - usually, over her tits. Over the years there would be the occasional punt where I'd get wanked off at the end. Either she preffered it or I was having difficulty coming. And I found that I got much more powerful orgasms. So I now ask for it all the time.

Offline mrdiamond77

I have no problem coming in the bag with my regular.  My problem is if I have another punt a day or two later, I may have to be finished off by hand.  Also a problem if the girl I am seeing is a bit loose.

Offline Steve57

I prefer to cum inside the woman herself, not in a bag. For obvious reasons I can't cum in her pussy or arse, therefore it is CIM almost every time for me. Even better if she swallows, but that isn't essential. Occasionally I might cum over her face or tits, just depends on how the mood takes me and what she likes/allows.

Offline myothernameis

If any of you read my reviews you will notice that a great failing of mine is that I seem to be unable to cum in the bag when having sex with the Escort ... I obviously cum other ways with her .
Therefore it got me thinking am I just unlucky,past it  or is this a more common failing throughout the community and if so why?

I put my problem down to age ...65 years old and Life style i.e. lack stamina due to being unfit.

I'm 52 years old, and found out in Jan had put on weight, which was affecting my heart, and was getting out of breath, my advice start slowly and eventually you will feel a lot fitter

Straight away started going to the gym, and did 30 min's cardio on the treadmill; following week increased the time of cardio to 45 min's, and now I can do 90 min's, and in the last 6 weeks I have lost around 11 lbs in weight, and feel a lot healthier

Offline stewpid

So far in all of my punts I have come in the condom while fucking the girl, it just feels natural for me to pop during penetration and love the moment of ejaculation as it's usually accompanied by some deep thrusts that makes the girl gasp/scream  :D

While I like a good BJ, it's rare than it gets me there more than actual fucking and I'm not a great fan of the girl wanking me off as they usually do it wrong and can hurt rather than pleasure.

Offline Gordon Bennett

I'm early 50s and fit and healthy. But, an accident and subsequent op has left me with reduced and intermittent sensation in my cock so it's hard for me to cum at all. On the occasions I do cum I can't feel it coming until literally a second or two beforehand. Because of this I avoid CIM, COB or any preplanned cumming to order. I aim to just cum in the condom whilst pounding away and manage that about 20% of time I reckon. I think my lack of sensation means I have to be the active one, ie me doing the work and thrusting in order to feel anything - if I let her do the bouncing, wanking or sucking I just don't get much stimulation or feeling, certainly not enough to get me to climax.
Above possibly sounds a bit crap, like I'm getting half a punt only. Thing is, it is what it is and it motivates me to keep myself otherwise fit and trim enough to perform. If I got too big, fat or unfit to fuck under my own steam I'd have to just pack it in.