Elizabeth - threats of violence from crazy bf

[Outcallguy]

Hi. I know i have gotten into trouble before by being a stupid white knight.
Had an outcall with a girl with no aw profile, who told me after the event she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive got loads of missed calls from an unknown number. I answered one just now
And a guy asked for me by my punting name. And when i responded he had the wrong number he said “youre dead”

Theoretically he knows where i live as it was an outcall.
Do you think i need to ask the police for advice?
The girl was from essex so it would be a good hour and above drive for him to get to my flat.
But its obviously scary for me.

[lewisjones23]

Hi. I know i have gotten into trouble before by being a stupid white knight.
Had an outcall with a girl with no aw profile, who told me after the event she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive got loads of missed calls from an unknown number. I answered one just now
And a guy asked for me by my punting name. And when i responded he had the wrong number he said “youre dead”

Theoretically he knows where i live as it was an outcall.
Do you think i need to ask the police for advice?
The girl was from essex so it would be a good hour and above drive for him to get to my flat.
But its obviously scary for me.

change punting sim and forget about it

if he was going to do anything then he wouldnt warn you ahead of it would he

[sensualencounter]

Hi. I know i have gotten into trouble before by being a stupid white knight.
Had an outcall with a girl with no aw profile, who told me after the event she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive got loads of missed calls from an unknown number. I answered one just now
And a guy asked for me by my punting name. And when i responded he had the wrong number he said “youre dead”

Theoretically he knows where i live as it was an outcall.
Do you think i need to ask the police for advice?
The girl was from essex so it would be a good hour and above drive for him to get to my flat.
But its obviously scary for me.

If you’re that worried about it then I’d advise to talk to the police and tell them the truth. Not sure what they will do about it as it’s from a withheld number and, although it’s theoretically possible to go through phone records etc snd trace it, they won’t for this as their resources are so limited and, at the moment, it’s not serious enough.

I would think they’d take the details down and maybe even turn it into a crime with a reference but tell you there’s nothing they can do right now and, should Mr Angry turn up on your doorstep then to call 999. It is possible they may offer to call the escort and try to talk to her / give her some words of advice if you’ve got her number.

[finn5555]

Name and shame on here to so as to warn others 

[southcoastpunter]

I know some guys on here will say "well i have never had a problem with outcalls to my place" - but that is one reason why I will never have an outcall to my place"

Not very helpful I know - the chances are its a one off call and will come to nothing but yes, I think should report it to the police, for what good it will do, At least she and he will be questioned if anything should happen to you!!

Perhaps you should post a review here to warn others about her or rather her BF.

[anyfucker]

Link on here as a warning so others can blacklist.

[earlgreyman]

That's awful to hear man, and is a warning to those who use their homes to punt, even if you are single, it's still high risk.

First off, if you're scared for your safety, call the Police and explain the situation. As punting is not illegal in the UK, you're safe from the law in that respect. Screenshot any texts that come through, if withheld, note the call times and what was said. Also, if you have some kind of recording device, next time that guy calls, record it.

Also please provide the forum with info for the WG in question so we can avoid.

Unless it's an agency with a decent reputation, never give indie WGs your home address. In the past when i did prefer outcalls, I'd offer to pick them up from the station instead of giving them my full address. Worst case, a post code should be ok, because it covers 4-5 houses.

[unclepokey]

Name and shame on here to so as to warn others 

You simply must do this now.

Uncle Pokey

[GingerNuts]

In the past when i did prefer outcalls, I'd offer to pick them up from the station instead of giving them my full address. Worst case, a post code should be ok, because it covers 4-5 houses.

You're still taking them back to your house so the WG would know exactly where you lived.

[Jonestown]

Have you spoken to the girl since you had the bf on the line, maybe ask her wtf is going on and does she really want her details passed to the police ?

[Oldishgit]

PLEASE tell us which girl it was! That’s what this site is for!!

[Outcallguy]

I saw this girl months ago.
She was the friend of a wg called amy whos profile is now gone.
She came to my place and told me after the booking she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive had loads of threatening texts and phonecalls from a guy saying i am a sick bastard for paying teenage girls.
I have reported these events. (See main page post)

The girl was 19 had long brunette hair. Slim with big boobs. I didnt review her as she has no official profile. I dont have her number anymore. But know that she is from essex.

Im not comfortable giving out the guys number as its going to the police.
But maybe after i have given them a statement i can give more details.

[winkywanky]

I should imagine Outcallguy is shitting himself. You have my sympathies  .

This all sounds like a scam to me. She tells you she has a bf after she's fucked you...and then a withheld number calls you with a death threat?

Easy for me to say, but as others have alluded to, it would be really good to know:

Where did you find her?

Who is she? (link)

And as others have said, if there really was a cuckolded bf bent on harming you, he wouldn't give you a heads-up...really, would he?

But yes, save all threatening correspondence, and at the first sign of any actual trouble, phone the old bill.

Don't worry Outcallguy, I don't believe for one minute this is a real threat.

[Outcallguy]

Have added a warning. And contacted the police.
Will add more details depending on what the police say.

[winkywanky]

Was she foreign (ie probably EE)?

Perhaps the best form of defence is attack.

Phone her up and tell her if you hear any more of this fucking shit, you'll contact the authorities and they'll both be sent back to whatever fucking shithole they came from (probably Romania)  .

[Puntard]

Sorry to hear

[winkywanky]

Have added a warning. And contacted the police.
Will add more details depending on what the police say.

Good lad! 

[Fuzzyduck]

The girl was 19 had long brunette hair. Slim with big boobs. I didnt review her as she has no official profile. I dont have her number anymore. But know that she is from essex.

Sorry to hear. I saw your other thread. Not sure why you posted a review though. You yourself said she's got no contact information. To that end, t isn't a review so should be moved to the regional thread. Don't see the point of that if you've already got another thread going.

[winkywanky]

I saw this girl months ago.
She was the friend of a wg called amy whos profile is now gone.
She came to my place and told me after the booking she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive had loads of threatening texts and phonecalls from a guy saying i am a sick bastard for paying teenage girls.
I have reported these events. (See main page post)

The girl was 19 had long brunette hair. Slim with big boobs. I didnt review her as she has no official profile. I dont have her number anymore. But know that she is from essex.

Im not comfortable giving out the guys number as its going to the police.
But maybe after i have given them a statement i can give more details.

Was she English?

Did the guy sound young, or a bit older? ie, did you get the impression it was her bf or her dad? A few years ago I got a nasty text from a guy, basically telling me how I had fucked his daughter and I should know better. Well perhaps his daughter should know better, because she was a bloody good fuck actually, and perhaps he should have brought her up better? 

If it's her bf, perhaps he ought to be going out with a girl who isn't on the game (if the thought offends him)? Duh!

*Edit: you say she's from Essex, so I guess 'indigenous'? So, Essex boy is upset that his Essex gf is sucking strangers' cocks for money? Should he really be that surprised? 

[winkywanky]

Just seen your other thread about this.

Sounds like she's an Essex girl who was doing what she knows best to make an extra bit of dosh (perhaps to pay for her ludicrous breast implants or to clear a large credit card bill). And her bf is really surprised she's been sucking cock for cash. Reality check needed on his part  .

Don't worry chap, it'll blow over.

[thickandlongguy]

I saw this girl months ago.
She was the friend of a wg called amy whos profile is now gone.
She came to my place and told me after the booking she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive had loads of threatening texts and phonecalls from a guy saying i am a sick bastard for paying teenage girls.
I have reported these events. (See main page post)

The girl was 19 had long brunette hair. Slim with big boobs. I didnt review her as she has no official profile. I dont have her number anymore. But know that she is from essex.

Im not comfortable giving out the guys number as its going to the police.
But maybe after i have given them a statement i can give more details.

Scary and sad, where is the main page post

[Fuzzyduck]

Scary and sad, where is the main page post

Errr.... on the main UK board. Either look for it there, or just click on OP's posts.

[Kev40ish]

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=251320.0;topicseen

[Moby Dick]

Another example to others: why not to invite pro$$ies to your home (or give them any info that can locate you)

OP best of luck

[winkywanky]

I think Outcalls are OK. But only use a well-reviewed and generally trusted WG.

[ImDaveMate]

She was a friend of Amy
You dont say how you got her number did Amy give it to you
Where did Amy advertise
That site may have isp address or other details for Amy if she gave the other ones number to you

Sounds like a real scam bf threatens you
Did he ask for any money or is that coming later, terrible
She might be under pressure from him is how I read this -pimped and in trouble - ask him.

[hawkzville]

Hi. I know i have gotten into trouble before by being a stupid white knight.
Had an outcall with a girl with no aw profile, who told me after the event she had a bf.
Yesterday and today ive got loads of missed calls from an unknown number. I answered one just now
And a guy asked for me by my punting name. And when i responded he had the wrong number he said “youre dead”

Theoretically he knows where i live as it was an outcall.
Do you think i need to ask the police for advice?
The girl was from essex so it would be a good hour and above drive for him to get to my flat.
But its obviously scary for me.

Chances are you aren't the only bloke she's sold herself to, the dippy bird probably spent it all on clothes/make-up/drugs/week in Magaluf...whatever......(you choose which you think fits); so when shit-for-brains BF suddenly notices she's minted and he asks her why he isn't going to be too impressed by the response, so his poor little ego will be severely dented as clearly he isn't quite the alpha male he thought he was.....

But in reality, what is he going to do other than bend your ear? If he phoned me I'd laugh at him down the phone and call his bluff - invite him around for a "chat" (just to see if he does know where I live, then hang up if he doesn't - you can thank Daniel Craig from a scene in Layer Cake for that nugget) on the other hand if he does well the police would more likely be more interested if you were able to draw a threat out of him and record it.

The thing is though, assume that she has sold herself to 10 blokes; what's he going to do? Turn into a serial killer?

I'd leave it to the law now if you have reported it, ignore any texts/phone calls etc and if you are smart enough that its your punting phone get a new SIM/number and move on.

On a serious note here, it is a reminder that it's easy to get blase over our own safety/security - always use a punting phone, email from non-identifiable email address, never carry any form of ID to a punt etc....... I'm reminded of an old drinking buddy who many moons ago warned me that even back in the 60's and 70's when he punted, he'd never take a brass back to his house as it was fairly common practice for her to case the joint, then for pimp and mates to rob it a couple of weeks later..... I've no reason to expect that not to still be the case, perhaps worse given the higher prevalence of drugs and don't-give-a-shit-sergi muscle....

Stay safe folk!

[Metalgear2018]

Contact the police,  I would advise buy a baseball bat and have it next to your bed. Defend yourself at all cost but give verbal warnings of not wanting to have a physical confrontation. Record every interaction as evidence.

Practice throwing punches at range but also learn choke holds if you start cliches. Aim for the chin and eyes when you throw the first punch.

I'm sure you will be fine. As others have said call the police.

[niftyfiftydave]

She was a friend of Amy
You dont say how you got her number did Amy give it to you
Where did Amy advertise
That site may have isp address or other details for Amy if she gave the other ones number to you

Sounds like a real scam bf threatens you
Did he ask for any money or is that coming later, terrible
She might be under pressure from him is how I read this -pimped and in trouble - ask him.

I read it quite differently, a friend helping a friend earn a few quid without the boyfriends knowledge with a punter she can trust. The boyfriend has got hold of her phone sometime later because the silly girl did not delete the evidence.
You can be sure she is getting a hard time but i doubt this is a case of a pimp or anyone demanding money, he asked your punting name because that was what he found on the phone.
I think it is unlikely he will get your address or she will remember it unless you sent a text with it, then he probably has it and is properly pissed so keep your wits about you.

[Hobbit]

 For someone so experienced, you seem to have made a rookie mistake of inviting her to your home. You should never invite strangers into your house, especially hookers.

[Justanotheruser]

For someone so experienced, you seem to have made a rookie mistake of inviting her to your home. You should never invite strangers into your house, especially hookers.

Your rule isn't the rule for everyone. I've done this with no second thought when I lived alone.

[daviemac]

For someone so experienced, you seem to have made a rookie mistake of inviting her to your home. You should never invite strangers into your house, especially hookers.

As long as you do the correct research and due diligence there's nothing wrong with having outcalls to your house. It's when you invite the wrong prossie you can get problems.

[ImDaveMate]

I read it quite differently, a friend helping a friend earn a few quid without the boyfriends knowledge with a punter she can trust. The boyfriend has got hold of her phone sometime later because the silly girl did not delete the evidence.
You can be sure she is getting a hard time but i doubt this is a case of a pimp or anyone demanding money, he asked your punting name because that was what he found on the phone.
I think it is unlikely he will get your address or she will remember it unless you sent a text with it, then he probably has it and is properly pissed so keep your wits about you.

Could be
Moral of the story go to escorts with real accounts and experience

Was she cheaper then an experienced one

[Outcallguy]

Yes, it was a good pint. I just wish it didnt have such nasty consequences

[niftyfiftydave]

As long as you do the correct research and due diligence there's nothing wrong with having outcalls to your house. It's when you invite the wrong prossie you can get problems.

Agree totally, Don,t think this guy picked the wrong one, a 19 year old novice eager to please and a friend of someone he has seen before and trusted him with the friend sounds like a great deal.

The novice not deleting things on her phone and the boyfriend finding it all by being nosy is the rookie mistake, One reason i have never looked at a wives or girlfriends phone, ignorance is bliss lol.

Only if there is a text with the address the op needs to be aware, otherwise after the time period mentioned i doubt the girl will remember the address or with any sense will claim she does not. He must be one pissed off young man, teach him to be nosy. Phones and the internet do for major criminals and often the only way plod catch them.
My son bought a car from travelers recently, had about 40 empty phone boxes in the boot, another rookie mistake lol, leave the evidence in the boot.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

Did you pass on the WG's number to the police too?

We don't know how the boyfriend got access to her phone.  If he's enough of a psycho to make death threats to her clients, she could be in danger herself.

But if you've given the police her details, that's their responsibility.

[niftyfiftydave]

Did you pass on the WG's number to the police too?

We don't know how the boyfriend got access to her phone.  If he's enough of a psycho to make death threats to her clients, she could be in danger herself.

But if you've given the police her details, that's their responsibility.

Good point.

[Outcallguy]

Im speaking to the police tomorrow. So will just have to wait and see what they advise. They didnt take the bfs number when i called them. He texted me. I assume its him anyway. So i do have one contact number.

[niftyfiftydave]

Yes, it was a good pint. I just wish it didnt have such nasty consequences

 

Point made by other OP on main post, if you have her number give it to plod in case the nutter hurts her, a very good point actually and plod can trace her and him.

[cueball]

As long as you do the correct research and due diligence there's nothing wrong with having outcalls to your house. It's when you invite the wrong prossie you can get problems.

Indeed. But, the due diligence i would be doing would be very thorough.

For a start, she'd not be a new face to me... I'd have podged her already in an incall scenario.

I've never had a prossie come to my gaff in truth but it's not impossible in the right circumstances.... But, I'd have podged her already outside my gaff.

We mix in shady circles and should tread carefully.

[finn5555]

Your rule isn't the rule for everyone. I've done this with no second thought when I lived alone.

I would never invite a pro$$ie back to my gaff, I always meet them in a hotel I don't want the fuckers stealing the family silver 

Three golden rules of punting

1) Never trust a pro$$ie
2) Never trust a pro$$ie
3) Read the top two over and over until it sinks in

 

[niftyfiftydave]

Im speaking to the police tomorrow. So will just have to wait and see what they advise. They didnt take the bfs number when i called them. He texted me. I assume its him anyway. So i do have one contact number.

Well that means he ain,t too bright or angry as fuck, probably both but means he should think twice about going any further giving his id away through the phone, does not seem bright enough to use a basher.

[earlgreyman]

You're still taking them back to your house so the WG would know exactly where you lived.

This is why i don't do outcalls now, too risky - it's been years in fact since...but back then I felt the risk was lower: her remembering the exact place was far less being driven to, than having it written down. + reduces the risk a bf/pimp getting hold of the info later. How many exact addresses do you remember on punts?

Hope the OP is doing ok?

[houseboot]

Sorry to hear. I saw your other thread. Not sure why you posted a review though. You yourself said she's got no contact information. To that end, t isn't a review so should be moved to the regional thread. Don't see the point of that if you've already got another thread going.

It seems a reasonable thing to do in the circumstances even if some of the traditional information is missing.

A meeting did take place and there are some, potentially, serious consequences.

[Global_Punter]

For someone so experienced, you seem to have made a rookie mistake of inviting her to your home. You should never invite strangers into your house, especially hookers.

+ 1 @Hobbit I learnt the hard way myself after I invited a stripper to my gaff, after a few hours and £300 in the purse she started an argument and threatened to call the police if I stopped her leaving.

On a second thought it may have been a tactics she used to get away just in time before I tried to seal the deal.

Fast forward to recent sessions or time spent at hotels I've had no issues.



   

[Adoniron]

Even when I was single I never had a prossie to my home. I stick to incalls or hotels (if work is paying 😂).

[Global_Punter]

Even when I was single I never had a prossie to my home. I stick to incalls or hotels (if work is paying 😂).

Did you expensive the Outcall as customer entertainment ?   

[Global_Punter]

No need for the duplicate, you should have stuck to the initial post / thread.

[GingerNuts]

How many exact addresses do you remember on punts?

I don't remember many but they're all recorded as they have to provide an address for me to get there. I never have, and never will have, a WG in my home.

If you've given a WG your postcode it wouldn't be hard for her to pick out your house even if she can't remember the number. She could probably do it from Google Street View.

[Hobbit]

I would never invite a pro$$ie back to my gaff, I always meet them in a hotel I don't want the fuckers stealing the family silver 

Three golden rules of punting

1) Never trust a pro$$ie
2) Never trust a pro$$ie
3) Read the top two over and over until it sinks in

 

 I fully agree with you mate.  No matter how much due diligence you can do, I would never invite them to my home. There may be exceptions and you may trust them, but you never know when the shit will hit the fan. Always use hotel for out calls.