Has Anyone gone from Client to Lover of a Working Girl

[Cellular40]

This had been an unusually nice thread - folk like Pyria, Nightbot, Winky Wanky etc were doing a nice job politely posting alternative views to the negative over generalisations many seem to believe about WGs & sex work.

And then someone has to dismiss a cynical but  largely correct post as "crap".  The thread predictably turns into a brawl,  which the cynics always win.

Cellular40 - I don't think  you're boring, you clearly have a lot more sexual experience  than someone like me,  I've learnt interesting things from you.  I don't think you're a troll either.   But you sure are doing a trolls work!

PS I guess there only about a 1% chance you'll take this post in the spirit its meant.  But not meaning this to be nasty.  I've made similar points about how it's often self defeating to insult those with different views to folk high up in the Labour party.  Probably one of the reasons Im hardly ever asked to interesting meetings anymore. 

Haha! Cheers.

I’m not easily offended and nothing in your post is offensive to me. I agree with the posters you’ve mentioned having good points. 

[king tarzan]

I won’t need it you’re  sure to be banned, for just being just fucking annoying..

Great Kev your still with us!!!
Obviously everything went well!!!

[Cellular40]

I have been away so missed things. So could be talking out of my backside here from missing the relevant topics. But I thought it was only the $$ version of the word that was offensive to the sisterhood and thus would be banned

So if someone didn't post that, thus the autocensor didn't kick in, then they did not post the banned word?

I have just tried it without the $$ and hit “preview” and it still auto censors, so it’s more so the word rather than the $$ signs I would assume.

[Kev40ish]

Great Kev your still with us!!!
Obviously everything went well!!!

Not really felt like posting much, but do like to see what is happening in the world of punting...
I am still alive!!! Although struggling with getting back on my feet and some muscular control. Not sure what the future holds, just taking a day at a time.

[king tarzan]

Not really felt like posting much, but do like to see what is happening in the world of punting...
I am still alive!!! Although struggling with getting back on my feet and some muscular control. Not sure what the future holds, just taking a day at a time.

Good luck... at least your still breathing and able to function..

[tynetunnel]

From a WG’s perspective, I’m in the situation now where I met someone some time ago as a client.
Instant connection, slammed us both in the face like a baseball bat, a once in a lifetime chemistry. Totally undeniable, soulmate type thing.
We’ve been through a lot together,  and we’ll be getting married next year. I’ve given up the escorting and the profile is shut down. (I agreed to shut the profile down if we ever made a permanent commitment.)
I certainly didn’t expect to meet someone under these circumstances, not in a million years. It’s the most unlikely scenario. Usually a WG has a business brain on during a punt; there is usually an invisible emotional line which you don’t cross.
Not sure exactly what happened, but I’m ridiculously happy, so is he, and we’ve now settled into domestic bliss and a lifetime together. It’s also the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in; we are a team.

I know there is a lot of skepticism about “relationships” born from meeting in this situation, but I can promise you, it’s possible to meet your other half anywhere. God knows it’s still a shock to me.

At the risk of sounding fluffy, I for one wish you both all the best, thanks for sharing your story 🤗

[James999]

Not really felt like posting much, but do like to see what is happening in the world of punting...
I am still alive!!! Although struggling with getting back on my feet and some muscular control. Not sure what the future holds, just taking a day at a time.

Hey Kev, what you have done?

[Kev40ish]

Hey Kev, what you have done?

operation for a tumour

[daviemac]

operation for a tumour

Best of luck with the recovery.   

[James999]

operation for a tumour

Soz to hear that, hope it went well and a speedy recovery 

[king tarzan]

operation for a tumour

as it's in boxing, you got knocked down, you beat the count, know fight ON

[freeze44]

I can comment as I see fit.

Not now 

Reminded me of someone...good riddance!

[finn5555]

operation for a tumour

Speedy recovery Kev 

[finn5555]

Not now 

Reminded me of someone...good riddance!

There was something familiar and quite odd about him ... didn’t think he would last long

[king tarzan]

There was something familiar and quite odd about him ... didn’t think he would last long

Senses of a 🦊🥊🥊🥊

[LLPunting]

Not really felt like posting much, but do like to see what is happening in the world of punting...
I am still alive!!! Although struggling with getting back on my feet and some muscular control. Not sure what the future holds, just taking a day at a time.

Good to get an update on your progress.   

Do you mean literally back on your feet (balance, coordination problem) or just feeling low on energy?

All kinds of muscle therapy from shagging so time to call in a few of your past lovelies to help with some bed, floor and sofa calisthenics.   

[Kev40ish]

Good to get an update on your progress.   

Do you mean literally back on your feet (balance, coordination problem) or just feeling low on energy?

All kinds of muscle therapy from shagging so time to call in a few of your past lovelies to help with some bed, floor and sofa calisthenics.   

I have difficulty walking, balance and coordination and weakness in my left arm, so literally struggling to get back on my feet.

I have just had my Gen 5 test results back and fortunately am all clear. I personally wouldn’t recommend doing what I did for my last punts, as it certainly adds another worry if you survive..

I’m not really feeling the urge to punt at the moment, although a massage would certainly be welcome, although I don’t fancy my Physiotherapists unfortunately 

[freeze44]

I have difficulty walking, balance and coordination and weakness in my left arm, so literally struggling to get back on my feet.

I have just had my Gen 5 test results back and fortunately am all clear. I personally wouldn’t recommend doing what I did for my last punts, as it certainly adds another worry if you survive..

I’m not really feeling the urge to punt at the moment, although a massage would certainly be welcome, although I don’t fancy my Physiotherapists unfortunately 

Hope the recovery goes well....often found your posts interesting 

[Strawberry]

I have difficulty walking, balance and coordination and weakness in my left arm, so literally struggling to get back on my feet.

I have just had my Gen 5 test results back and fortunately am all clear. I personally wouldn’t recommend doing what I did for my last punts, as it certainly adds another worry if you survive..

I’m not really feeling the urge to punt at the moment, although a massage would certainly be welcome, although I don’t fancy my Physiotherapists unfortunately 

I Googled 'Gen 5 test results' without any joy, unless you are wielding a gun?

[Payyourwaymate]

Smh that cell40 guy got banned. Just could not help but try and win every argument whilst punching in the dark...

[Kev40ish]

I Googled 'Gen 5 test results' without any joy, unless you are wielding a gun?

HIV generation 5 test, the most accurate as far as I know, but to be honest I’m hardly an expert..

Not proud, but nevertheless relieved..

[winkywanky]

unfortunatelly i do like to have a connection (loves a bit strong but maybe) for a girl if i am having sex with her . Personally i find the whole experience better ..  but im me any you lot are you lot ... we are all different .

That can come under 'desires'. My point was (and is) that we all have slightly differing reasons for seeing a WG.

[winkywanky]

I don't think anybody is saying that escorts aren't decent women. What some people are trying to say when they mean "damaged goods" can apply to men and women but because we are talking about escorts let's stick to that.

I have seen several escorts over the course of time and a lot of them have either expressed directly or indirectly through conversations of some kind of trauma in their lives. You just have to see how many escorts have cut marks on their body which clearly points to some kind of past trauma. I have also heard escorts refer to punters as "fuckers" through conversations which clearly shows what they think of us, this can be compounded by what is written about us on SAAFE. Escorts that come on here to defend their lifestyles are just perpetuating the illusion.

Also, you can't really say that an escort that lets punters piss in their mouths or swallows cum all day are marriage material. The fact is that nobody likes doing that but due to past difficulties and trauma they choose to.

No, that's exactly what King Tarzan said. That's why I quoted him.

I agree about a lot of WGs being 'damaged goods', but then that also applies to a lot of punters.

Yes, some WGs refer to punters as fuckers, but equally plenty of punters refer to WGs as cunts and use generally derogatory terms when referring to them on here. There is frequently blatantly misogynistic attitude exhibited here. It's often 'let go' because this is a site for punters.

Why does swallowing cum or even receiving watersports stop a person being decent? What is decent? I would say having regard for fellow human beings, and being nice to animals and caring for the environment are prime examples. There's plenty wh0res with a heart of gold. And there's plenty nasty fuckers who are strait-laced.

[samreece]

Old thread I know, but just chiming in for the OP. It has happened to me twice, once with a girl I used to meet up with from Craigslist who started off getting paid and then used to meet me for the fun of it. A second girl from Brazil who got deported, to be precise this one External Link/Members Only both were lovely girls and I actually regret not being able to call either up anymore 😢

[dreamwrx]

My first-ever punt, back in the mid-80s, was with a Swedish masseuse (no, really, it's true) who gave me an actual back massage after a footy injury one Sunday afternoon.

I realised she was up for more, and off we went.

Over a few weeks we became more than punter + WG, but fuck me she destroyed my cock (every time we met it was Olympian ultra-hardcore sex) and in the end I gave up on her ... she was way, way, way too much for little old me to handle lol when all I wanted was a little tenderness ...

But fuck me did she like it up the arse.

[winkywanky]

Old thread I know, but just chiming in for the OP. It has happened to me twice, once with a girl I used to meet up with from Craigslist who started off getting paid and then used to meet me for the fun of it. A second girl from Brazil who got deported, to be precise this one External Link/Members Only both were lovely girls and I actually regret not being able to call either up anymore 😢

Blimey, the girl from Brazil (Ipanema?) logged on 10 days ago, she must have been deported very recently! I hope you didn't dob her in  .

You must have liked her a lot, I see you didn't review her  .

 

[Doc Holliday]

Old thread I know ...

You just cannot keep this 'old favourite' topic down though 

[samreece]

You just cannot keep this 'old favourite' topic down though 

Indeed I couldn’t  ‘tis always nice to share ones experiences and listen to other people’s!

[samreece]

Blimey, the girl from Brazil (Ipanema?) logged on 10 days ago, she must have been deported very recently! I hope you didn't dob her in  .

You must have liked her a lot, I see you didn't review her  .

 

She was deported a while back but I guess whoever is renting the addresses is still using her photos, I didn’t do a review as it would have been biased and I would probably be getting treated a bit different to the rest of you. Who knows maybe she just wanted documents or maybe she genuinely liked me 🤷‍♂️

[winkywanky]

She was deported a while back but I guess whoever is renting the addresses is still using her photos, I didn’t do a review as it would have been biased and I would probably be getting treated a bit different to the rest of you. Who knows maybe she just wanted documents or maybe she genuinely liked me 🤷‍♂️

Bit of a shame you can't even contact her, did you ever have her 'real' personal number?

[Rick2468]

Years ago I was on a site called Collarme which is a fetish dating site. It was mainly a waste of time but I got in contact with a woman in Kent and was going to arrange a paid meeting with her. Before we met she messaged me saying she couldn't stop thinking about me and kept asking me for more photos. We eventually met up at her flat. No pre-date drinks she does invited me into her flat which was an absolute shithole. We watched the film Seven and about 30 mins in she started rubbing my dick and we ended up shagging all evening. She was really good lucking apart from she had manky teeth. She gave me an absolute amazing blowjob one of the best I've had. She then ghosted my texts afterwards. I remember feeling really heartbroken but not because I liked her I just remember thinking I'd never get a blowjob so good again haha. About a year later I found her on Facebook and messaged her and she said she had no clue who I was! Charming!

[samreece]

Bit of a shame you can't even contact her, did you ever have her 'real' personal number?

I did have it but got black out drunk one night and lost my phone and with it all my contacts! I know her real name d.o.b etc but had no luck on Facebook so I’ve just left it, maybe if I ever go back to Brazil one day I’ll bump into her but that is highly unlikely with it being such a big place. She was a lovely girl though and used to phone me periodically whilst I was overseas working, real shame I lost contact but just one of those things!

[king tarzan]

Old thread I know, but just chiming in for the OP. It has happened to me twice, once with a girl I used to meet up with from Craigslist who started off getting paid and then used to meet me for the fun of it. A second girl from Brazil who got deported, to be precise this one External Link/Members Only both were lovely girls and I actually regret not being able to call either up anymore 😢

trust a whore then trust a poisonous snake..SIMPLETTO

[winkywanky]

I did have it but got black out drunk one night and lost my phone and with it all my contacts! I know her real name d.o.b etc but had no luck on Facebook so I’ve just left it, maybe if I ever go back to Brazil one day I’ll bump into her but that is highly unlikely with it being such a big place. She was a lovely girl though and used to phone me periodically whilst I was overseas working, real shame I lost contact but just one of those things!

Oh dear, surely there's a way to get your Contacts back these days? Via Google account, or similar with Apple?

Although if it was purely a punting phone, perhaps it wasn't linked to anything?

[user1437]

This had been an unusually nice thread - folk like Pyria, Nightbot, Winky Wanky etc were doing a nice job politely posting alternative views to the negative over generalisations many seem to believe about WGs & sex work.

Seconded, just had a pretty interesting time reading it and since I'm bored in these non punting times might as well share my experience

I've dated an escort for about fiveish months a couple years ago. She was a Romanian student escorting to make some money on the side, and also one of the absolute minority group that is "Romanian SP doing a great job". It's a bit weird to describe, but I felt like there was instant chemistry with this girl. The first time I saw her was a great punt with a lot of chatting, and the second time I saw her we agreed for a 1 hour punt and ended up staying cuddling in bed for about two hours afterwards, just chatting, sharing experiences, laughing. Never had that happen with any SP, and it was unusual to have such a genuine friendly moment with one, so we exchanged numbers to just chat a bit and were texting each other on a daily basis.

It felt pretty nice to actually have someone to talk punting to. For a few months she'd randomly text me on evenings asking if she could stop by home, her punting flat wasn't far from my place, so she'd stop by late bringing takeaway food and we'd spend the evening chilling at home. The more it went, the more it actually felt like an actual relationship. We decided to full on date after a while and that was honestly a great time.

Five excellent months later, classic dating decay happened, realizing that although we were quite comfortable together - in and outside of the bed - we had a lot of differences in life. We ended up on a friendly breakup, remained good friends afterwards even with the very rare occasional booty call. Nowadays we still randomly talk to catch up, but the fond memories this relationship left me with were so worth it.

The emotional barrier between escort and client is normal and understandable, but I genuinely appreciate the few girls I was able to share a bit more than just sex with. Always cool to meet more people, if the meet happened through sex it's just another starting point I guess

[winkywanky]

trust a whore then trust a poisonous snake..SIMPLETTO

Worth noting that they probably say the same about you behind your back 

[samreece]

Oh dear, surely there's a way to get your Contacts back these days? Via Google account, or similar with Apple?

Although if it was purely a punting phone, perhaps it wasn't linked to anything?

No way I’ll get the numbers back unfortunately I guess some things are better left in the past anyway, right?! To what the previous poster wrote, I guess it all just depends on circumstances and perspective I’ve met a lot of escorts out and about in normal life and  some of them are lazy, some of them are gold diggers and enjoy a certain lifestyle, some of them don’t really have a choice and some of them are clever and use as a stepping stone. By no means can you tar all of them with the same brush like in any walk of life!

[king tarzan]

Worth noting that they probably say the same about you behind your back 

what can they possibly say when the encounter has ended on good terms?

[winkywanky]

what can they possibly say when the encounter has ended on good terms?

trust a punter then trust a poisonous snake..SIMPLETTO

 

[king tarzan]