An alternative strategy to the blue pill?

[mrhappypants]

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[Snow leopard]

Interesting link and study

Problem is most on here won’t want to put it away for 8 days

I thought I was legendarily horny for new women and experiences till I found UKP

Lots of testosterone here

[WKD123]

Very interesting and close to my heart at the moment - I am not having a major problem with the old erection, but it can soften quite a lot between some RO and OWO and getting the mac on. To be honest, I have always had a mental block on the first couple of times with a new woman in civvie life, back in the pre-marriage days of course so I think it is more nerves related.

I've also looked at the advice on wanking and abstinence to make the most of each punt - a real challenge as I have been addicted to porn most of my life whether I was getting any sex from the OH or not - obviously more so when I'm getting nothing.

As for leaving it 7 days or more - easy due to a lack of funds and finding a spot in the day when I won't arouse suspicions!   Mind you, the last two punts were quite close together just because the first left me not quite as satisfied and the second happened to have a green light, was fairly local and a good price. Didn't have a problem there, apart from premature ejac.  I'm determined to change my punting style, so after a short rest, I get the girl back into action and see if I can manage a second.

[mrhappypants]

I have never taken the blue pill but if I understand what you say have exactly the same reaction which in my case is primarily an aversion to condoms.  I have had this ever since I was in my 20's.  In the times in my life where I have had the luxury of unprotected sex I have been able to enjoy frequently and fulsomely.

I linked the article following some recent personal experience.

My reaction to condoms has been a consistent issue during the last four years since I started punting, but the risks associated with BB are just too great.  So, over the past two months since doing some reading I have been following a regime of zero masturbation and porn. Waiting 7 days between punts pushes me to the limit of my self control but following this discipline over the past two months has had a significant impact on my performance.  I am increasingly able to achieve intercourse including orgasm while using a condom more often than not.  I think complete abstinence from wanking and watching porn is key, as is an SP who is sympathetic and supportive (and can get the johnny on with out too much faffing around  ).

Previously, a very rough emotional and relationship life had led me to a point where I was pretty much addicted to porn and masturbating every day.  While my libido is markedly reduced from its peak in my early 20s I now look forward to a better punting experience for the foreseeable future.