has anybody ever been rejected by a escort?

[HoneyJar]

im extremely self conscious, not very good looking and overweight (16/half stone) 5"10. Has anybody been rejected by an escort due to being unappealing to her, or heard of this happening to anyone? or at least, could tell that she finds you repulsive but soldiered on anyway?

ive never done an escort (or anyone for that matter, still a virgin) largely due to my insecurities, if i was to get rejected that would be a huge blow to my all ready fragile confidence. For this reason, im generally interested in the plain janes or much older woman who are "past their prime" so we are at least somewhat in the same league, if that makes sense.

[regular_guy]

welcome to the board,  most of them couldn't care less,  as long as you have the dough,  they'll be happy.  A lot of us have been that large (at some point in my life anyway) and have never been rejected.  Admittedly i don't tend to go for the young nubile 20 year old,  normally do go for the more mature,  or curvy woman and most of the time have always been treated extremely well.

Find a few you like on AW,  then have a good look at the real reviews on here and you will soon suss out who would be worth seeing.

[Celticstu]

I'd recommend a pornstar then
1. It will be memorable. You can also say I lost my virginity to ...
2. Pornstars are less of a risk IMO ( You don't want your punt to have a bad attitude etc)

I'd recommend Chessie Kay. Great attitude, fit as fuck and she's a dirtbag 

[AnthG]

If the girl finds you ugly as sin she will not tell you to go away. You just run the risk of getting barely any services from her.

Kissing is out of the window as a number 1.
OWO is also a nada.

She will also probably start telling you doggy style is her favorite position and try to convince you to do this.

I have had a few punts where the expression of the girl was clear she thought I was a minger. But on the flipside I have had a few punts where the girl clearly enjoyed my time with her.

Don't let a girl finding you repulsive turn you off, as likely the next girl will find you appealing.

Just make sure you are clean, and also get some veet for men and cover yourself with it as girls hate giving oral inside a wad of hair.

[greychap]

If the girl finds you ugly as sin she will not tell you to go away. You just run the risk of getting barely any services from her.

Kissing is out of the window as a number 1.
OWO is also a nada.

She will also probably start telling you doggy style is her favorite position and try to convince you to do this.

I have had a few punts where the expression of the girl was clear she thought I was a minger. But on the flipside I have had a few punts where the girl clearly enjoyed my time with her.

Don't let a girl finding you repulsive turn you off, as likely the next girl will find you appealing.

Just make sure you are clean, and also get some veet for men and cover yourself with it as girls hate giving oral inside a wad of hair.

Actually I have heard off some girls that if the punter is ugly they find it easier getting on with the job but some might avoid kissing him but are comfortable doing dirty talk etc  and acting like a nymth and they feel more embarrassed acting like a whore with a good looking guy near there same age.

[vw]

Bigger than you mate and never been rejected, you have no fear there, your money is as good as anyone else's. 

As for civvy stuff imagine you will over compensate an be to nice in life and be told that you are to nice, end up with loads of female friends and end up in the friend zone lots.  By all means be nice but keep a cheeky or mysterious side.

[Jimmyredcab]

Never had a knockback from a pro$$ie in this country but one or two in Thailand have shown no interest in me, that could be because many Thai girls have "sponsors" who send them money on a regular basis. (idiots).   

[vw]

If the girl finds you ugly as sin she will not tell you to go away. You just run the risk of getting barely any services from her.

Kissing is out of the window as a number 1.
OWO is also a nada.

Bollocks, In Anth dreamland where all escorts are angels to be worshipped maybe.  OWO saves them looking at an ugly face, girls kiss with their eyes closed.  Never in my life have I heard such fairy dust !

[AnthG]

Actually I have heard off some girls that if the punter is ugly they find it easier getting on with the job

I think that is just one of those statements the girls say thinking this is what guys want to hear.

Like the "I don't do this for the money, I do it as I love the company and meeting men".

And "I only see three punters per day guaranteed"

If Brad Pitt and me were standing in the doorway, each with a hundred pound in our hands wanting a punt at the same time but the girl had double booked. I would be walking home with a hundred pounds guaranteed.

[fredpunter]

im extremely self conscious, not very good looking and overweight (16/half stone) 5"10. Has anybody been rejected by an escort due to being unappealing to her, or heard of this happening to anyone? or at least, could tell that she finds you repulsive but soldiered on anyway?

ive never done an escort (or anyone for that matter, still a virgin) largely due to my insecurities, if i was to get rejected that would be a huge blow to my all ready fragile confidence. For this reason, im generally interested in the plain janes or much older woman who are "past their prime" so we are at least somewhat in the same league, if that makes sense.

No matter how unattractive you think you are, if you are clean and polite you will be preferable to some of the blokes an experienced prossie will have met, so stop worrying, find someone you fancy then ask on here if anyone knows about her.

There are many reasons blokes may visit prossies, and one of them is not having to worry about whether she fancies you.

[AnthG]

Bollocks, In Anth dreamland where all escorts are angels to be worshipped maybe.  OWO saves them looking at an ugly face, girls kiss with their eyes closed.  Never in my life have I heard such fairy dust !

What, are you calling bollocks my saying, if a girl finds you ugly she wont want to kiss you?

Why do they have DFK at discretion then inside their AW likes list? And then when you ask for it, you get told they don't do it and its just a mistake that being in their enjoys list? And then you see other reviews of guys getting it from that girl.

This has never happened to you?

When a girl finds you repulsive on the OWO side of things. She will still give you oral. Its just oral with.

[vw]

No matter how unattractive you think you are, if you are clean and polite you will be preferable to some of the blokes an experienced prossie will have met, so stop worrying, find someone you fancy then ask on here if anyone knows about her.

Yes, English guys are allegedly a lot cleaner according to some recent Polish exploits, even when they are moaning I don't dry myself properly, these polish towels not good enough for the pile drivers !

[vw]

What, are you calling bollocks my saying, if a girl finds you ugly she wont want to kiss you?

Why do they have DFK at discretion then inside their AW likes list? And then when you ask for it, you get told they don't do it and its just a mistake that being in their enjoys list? And then you see other reviews of guys getting it from that girl.

This has never happened to you?

When a girl finds you repulsive on the OWO side of things. She will still give you oral. Its just oral with.

I calling is bollocks because it is, never been refused I'm a fat lump of lard who is no oil paining and never had at discretion thrown at me ! I call it as i see it !

[AnthG]

I calling is bollocks because it is, never been refused I'm a fat lump of lard who is no oil paining and never had at discretion thrown at me ! I call it as i see it !

Well that then makes me feel great, as this happened to me quite often.

I remember one punt for example, one of my worst ever punts, the girl literally wanted £30 more for anything and everything.

I asked for kissing, that's a £30 extra.
OWO, thats another £30 extra
A couple of other stuff I forgot. They're also £30 extra.

I left the punt after no kissing, and just oral with taking place. And left her a negative. Everyone else then posted saying "I get OWO and kissing from her and never paid any extra". This is just one example.

[vw]

I left the punt after no kissing, and just oral with taking place. And left her a negative. Everyone else then posted saying "I get OWO and kissing from her and never paid any extra". This is just one example.

Sorry that happened to you, most WG's I have spoken to the shower and the purposely left out mouth wash are more concern for them than looks.

Never happened to me, shame it happened to you

[akauya]

HoneyJar

Don't worry about your looks. A professional prostitute (let's say one that has consistently good reviews here) will not care one iota what you look like. She is selling a service and it's more likely that she will have seen a lot "uglier" people than you.

The most important thing is that you turn up freshly showered, do not go overboard with aftershave or antiperspirant, do not and I repeat do not try to mask body odour with antiperspirant. Do go clean and shaved. Trim or shave your pubes. Wear clean and smart clothes (this also shouldn't matter but it will help you with your confidence).

Make sure you have the right amount of money. If it makes it easier for you tell the prossie you are a big lad and would she mind seeing you.

What is clear to me here is that you need to work on is yourself. Try and sort out the self confidence problem, if you are too anxious or worried about your performance or your looks you may not enjoy the punt. Prossies can only do so much if you can't perform.

Read these two wiki guides:

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only

I will add your question to the New to Punting wiki (I missed that type of question when I wrote it).

Also before read review of prossies in your area and choose a well reviewed one. Do not take a chance with an unknown prossie.

[threechilliman]

I've been declined once due to my reputation. My first approach.wasn't the cleverest, which had a lot to do with it I think.

tcm

[vw]

I've been declined once due to my reputation. My first approach.wasn't the cleverest, which had a lot to do with it I think.

tcm

Funny, what's your reputation, do you mean here !

Someone was asked if they were me on a punt once, found that funny !

[smiths]

im extremely self conscious, not very good looking and overweight (16/half stone) 5"10. Has anybody been rejected by an escort due to being unappealing to her, or heard of this happening to anyone? or at least, could tell that she finds you repulsive but soldiered on anyway?

ive never done an escort (or anyone for that matter, still a virgin) largely due to my insecurities, if i was to get rejected that would be a huge blow to my all ready fragile confidence. For this reason, im generally interested in the plain janes or much older woman who are "past their prime" so we are at least somewhat in the same league, if that makes sense.

A good WG will punt with any polite punter as long as they are clean and have the agreed money, its punting NOT dating so what you look like should be neither here nor there.

I imagine many WGs have found me repulsive over the years looks wise compared to the type of guys who interest them but always remember your paying them and that obviously completely changes the scenario. I haven't found any services I required to not be on offer off good WGs including kissing and OWO which are both essential to me on a 121 punt.

[lostandfound]

Well that then makes me feel great, as this happened to me quite often.

I remember one punt for example, one of my worst ever punts, the girl literally wanted £30 more for anything and everything.

I asked for kissing, that's a £30 extra.
OWO, thats another £30 extra
A couple of other stuff I forgot. They're also £30 extra.

I left the punt after no kissing, and just oral with taking place. And left her a negative. Everyone else then posted saying "I get OWO and kissing from her and never paid any extra". This is just one example.

I hesitate to post this, but it is meant to be helpful. To me it seems on the balance of probabilities you aren't so bad looking as to provoke such a reaction from a provider. Is it possible that you lack self confidence when punting and this results in you appearing so nervous or terrified or apprehensive or even resentful because you half expect to be rejected, that it worries the girl in question, and maybe sometimes makes her think you're a bit weird? 

If that is the case, it's not so bad IMO, many of us will have suffered from nerves on occasion, and it should ease over time as you grow older and mature.

[regular_guy]

Agree with the comments about tidying up down below,  since i've started doing that it has made a difference to the amount of enthusiasm they have for doing OWO,  never had what I thought was a problem,  but nowadays they really go to town on the old chap.

With regards to the telling them in advance you are a bit overweight,  i did do that once,  when i was about 15 and a half stone,  i turned up and she laughed as she thought i was fine and would be well over 20 stone,  having said that she still accepted the booking,  hope it works out well for the guy, and with the right woman it will.

[greychap]

I think that is just one of those statements the girls say thinking this is what guys want to hear.

Like the "I don't do this for the money, I do it as I love the company and meeting men".

And "I only see three punters per day guaranteed"

If Brad Pitt and me were standing in the doorway, each with a hundred pound in our hands wanting a punt at the same time but the girl had double booked. I would be walking home with a hundred pounds guaranteed.

No I think in some cases it makes sense think about it if you really find a girl attractive a lot of guys can be nervous around her and have more confidence with someone not as attractive.

I remember a girl that I knew for a long time but no longer escorts she was quite popular she did not kiss though as she felt uncomfortable with that but could put on a good performance with everything else and she said to me off the record if there ugly and fat etc but still clean she had no embarrassment acting like a whore and giving them what she needed because she was never nervous around those punters and could shine in her job but if she had punters that came in similar in her age and was good looking she felt embarrassed about seeing them in this environment so struggled to do the whore act so that is why she had so many punters come back that she could perform with but the good looking ones would not usually return as she could not put on her whore act as much because she felt stupid!!!!

[lostandfound]

No I think in some cases it makes sense think about it if you really find a girl attractive a lot of guys can be nervous around her and have more confidence with someone not as attractive.

I remember a girl that I knew for a long time but no longer escorts she was quite popular she did not kiss though as she felt uncomfortable with that but could put on a good performance with everything else and she said to me off the record if there ugly and fat etc but still clean she had no embarrassment acting like a whore and giving them what she needed because she was never nervous around those punters and could shine in her job but if she had punters that came in similar in her age and was good looking she felt embarrassed about seeing them in this environment so struggled to do the whore act so that is why she had so many punters come back that she could perform with but the good looking ones would not usually return as she could not put on her whore act as much because she felt stupid!!!!

That makes sense to me - and is actually a far more charitable response to AnthG's post than mine! 

[vw]

A Romanian told me once she prefers the fat customers because they are cleaner her logic was that no body else will shag them so less chance of catching STI's. 

She was a right bitch but, holds a warm part in my heart for harsh advice on a separate life changing matter.

[Bangers and Gash]

im extremely self conscious....

We rarely see ourselves as others perceive us. So don't worry about - which is easier said than done.

You're more likely to get short changed because you smell or have an afro between your legs.

[smiths]

If the girl finds you ugly as sin she will not tell you to go away. You just run the risk of getting barely any services from her.

Kissing is out of the window as a number 1.
OWO is also a nada.

She will also probably start telling you doggy style is her favorite position and try to convince you to do this.

I have had a few punts where the expression of the girl was clear she thought I was a minger. But on the flipside I have had a few punts where the girl clearly enjoyed my time with her.

Don't let a girl finding you repulsive turn you off, as likely the next girl will find you appealing.

Just make sure you are clean, and also get some veet for men and cover yourself with it as girls hate giving oral inside a wad of hair.

Good WGs can act and offer kissing and OWO whether they found me ugly or not, and many will find me ugly as that's what I am.

[Deviant]

Yes I have had rejections. Women who know me from online forums now refuse to take bookings from me  They told me it is because I am totally indiscreet and brag too much.

[jimmytick]

Some women advertise they take bookings from all ages and are happy to accomodate wheelchair / disabled people.

Without wanting to come accross as a complete c@nt...... but if they are happy getting podged by a 90 year guy or a disabled person then they are definately not going to say not to a larger fella

Lets be honest, if prossies only took bookings off good looking fellas with a six pack they would be out of work pretty fast!

[akauya]

Good WGs can act and offer kissing and OWO whether they found me ugly or not, and many will find me ugly as that's what I am.

Same here, I know I'm an ugly fuck but if OWO was on offer and I wanted it I always got it.

[threechilliman]

Funny, what's your reputation, do you mean here !

Someone was asked if they were me on a punt once, found that funny !

On here. She did her homework (might have been assisted) and had a problem with my posts but not my reviews.

Water under the bridge now.

tcm

[Dani]

Speaking from the other side of the fence It does not matter if you are fat or skinny, short or tall, handsome or ugly as long as you are clean and smell fresh especially down there and your breath is fresh with no obvious signs of gum disease. If you are all of those you won't get turned away and if she makes it obvious straight away she isn't into you then keep your money and walk. If clean fresh and polite she should be making you feel like the most handsome man on the planet from the moment you walk in the door. No we can't fancy everyone but it should never be shown. We get paid a rather handsome amount to act as if you are the best looking man we have met and to treat you as such and any girl that doesn't is either in the wrong job or has seen you as a soft touch she can take the piss out of so its better for you to leave with your money in your pocket.

Don't think you have to book someone who you feel is in your league as you don't. Just book who you fancy.  However unless she states she specialises in seeing inexperienced or nervous guys don't tell her it is your first time (unless recommended on here by known punters) as she could well take the piss.  For your first time perhaps look on here in your area for a well reviewed girl so you are pretty well ensured a good time and can be honest about being a virgin. It's probably your safest bet

[Horizontal pleasures]

Smile.
Bring some nice fruit like cherries or strawberries to break the ice (not chocs in case they are trying to not gain weight).
Have the dosh ready.
Be well showered and teeth brushed, (no pongs or garlic breath).
Lie back and think of England.

[SirFrank]

It's par for the course really that some WGs won't find at least some punters physically attractive. However, back in the day I often used to parlour punt with a friend who had a face a mother would struggle with and he was never turned down. He was however very polite, respectful and clean. That goes a long way

[vw]

Trim or shave your pubes.

Great advice for the guys with a OH, that won't raise suspicion with wives and GF's if you haven't done it before, you would be an idiot to start.  And don;t get me going on emasculating and feminising men, Harman's mission is nearly complete !

[G.Raff]

HoneyJar

Don't worry about your looks. A professional prostitute (let's say one that has consistently good reviews here) will not care one iota what you look like. She is selling a service and it's more likely that she will have seen a lot "uglier" people than you.

The most important thing is that you turn up freshly showered, do not go overboard with aftershave or antiperspirant, do not and I repeat do not try to mask body odour with antiperspirant. Do go clean and shaved. Trim or shave your pubes. Wear clean and smart clothes (this also shouldn't matter but it will help you with your confidence).

Make sure you have the right amount of money. If it makes it easier for you tell the prossie you are a big lad and would she mind seeing you.

What is clear to me here is that you need to work on is yourself. Try and sort out the self confidence problem, if you are too anxious or worried about your performance or your looks you may not enjoy the punt. Prossies can only do so much if you can't perform.

Read these two wiki guides:

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only

I will add your question to the New to Punting wiki (I missed that type of question when I wrote it).

Also before read review of prossies in your area and choose a well reviewed one. Do not take a chance with an unknown prossie.

Excellent post 

Just to add, you can always state your worries in a pre booking email and see her reaction. Not only will this remove the doubt whether she will/won't see you but also diffuse the tension within you and boost your confidence.

One last point - HUMOUR goes a looooong way with girls.   

[Belisknor]

Guys who aren't very attractive or think this way about themselves are usually very nice around girls to over compensate for there short comings as VW mentioned earlier( lots of female friends ) I have lots of female friends as I used to suffer with low self esteem but have found this hobby has helped me know end with confidence. You get used to being around gorgeous women, talking to them etc that after time you carry that over into your personal life. Plus don't put yourself down as most escorts will enjoy the company of a nice person who treats them like a lady and shows respect towards them than see a player who treats them like shit !!! Just go for it mate and enjoy yourself.

[akauya]

Great advice for the guys with a OH, that won't raise suspicion with wives and GF's if you haven't done it before, you would be an idiot to start.  And don;t get me going on emasculating and feminising men, Harman's mission is nearly complete !

Try to read the OP properly - you will notice that the guy said is virgin. My advice is to him not to married men.

[vw]

Try to read the OP properly - you will notice that the guy said is virgin. My advice is to him not to married men.

My advice is to guys in relationships, and its bullshit anyhow !

[akauya]

My advice is to guys in relationships, and its bullshit anyhow !

In that case if you want to give your pearls of wisdom to "guys in relationships" don't quote me and say "Great advice for the guys with a OH". Because that's not what I was doing.

[vw]

In that case if you want to give your pearls of wisdom to "guys in relationships" don't quote me and say "Great advice for the guys with a OH". Because that's not what I was doing.

Its not really great advice for anyone, just another layer of unnecessary confusion for a new guy to concern himself with.  Never once heard of a case of anyone being refused anything because he wasn't shaved down below.    Personal choice if you want to look like a prepubescent boy. 

[akauya]

Its not really great advice for anyone, just another layer of unnecessary confusion for a new guy to concern himself with.  Never once heard of a case of anyone being refused anything because he wasn't shaved down below.    Personal choice if you want to look like a prepubescent boy.

That's your opinion. I beg to differ.

Incidentally, you remind me of Vorian, who used to have an opinion on everything and posted in nearly every thread. Are you related by any chance?

[vw]

That's your opinion. I beg to differ.

Incidentally, you remind me of Vorian, who used to have an opinion on everything and posted in nearly every thread. Are you related by any chance?

No afraid not related.

Interested to read about these rejections though due to not being prepubescent !

[G.Raff]

akauya makes a VERY valid point, countless WGs have told me that they prefer when guys are shaven down below, probably because of the perception of better hygiene and maybe the fact that they can see better if there are any skin issues etc. so in this case less likely to be rejected for OWO etc.

The real point here is that the OP feels insecure and the advice given is meant to help him make the first step.

As for people in relationships.. C'mon..! 
If we have to even debate that their OH will get suspicious if they start shaving.. then....  I'm lost for words!  

[vw]

The real point here is that the OP feels insecure and the advice given is meant to help him make the first step.

He was never insecure about this, now he is worried about a non issue !

[Placebo88]

I have not read the entire thread so apologies if this has already been said.

Firstly , make sure to read the girl's profile very carefully including the FAQs section.Quite a lot will not see clients from certain races , some have age restrictions ( often not wanting youngsters ) and a very small number have size restrictions.

If no restriction is written in the profile then everything should be fine.However , if you are worried it would be a good idea to either message or phone the girl before making the booking to explain your concerns and ask if they will be happy to see you ; that way there will be absolutely no risk of being turned away at the door and you can enjoy the anticipation of your booking.

From SAAFE many escort actually dislike seeing very good looking clients as it makes them nervous and their service suffers as a result.

The advice already given about perfect hygiene , being polite and respectful are the key things for most WGs - plus don't forget the money !

[GreyDave]

 
Yup many times couple of months ago  one who I`d shagged sensless the week before when booked by maid I turned up and she said Sorry I am unable to help you today...WTF  I looked at the maid and asked she replied you took to long (bollocks I just wanted a bit of movement from her not a dead fish)  Many years ago Miss Whiplash told me she did not "help young men" this was in a shitty basement in Earls Court...Maybe cause I am using Bluey`s for better value they dont like it upem with that stuff

[Belisknor]

I agree re shaven or trimming the downstairs department. A regular started paying much more attention to the sack once she wasn't confronted with a mountain of hair and lets face it how many of us will go down on a girl with a hairy pussy 

[hendrix]

No afraid not related.

Interested to read about these rejections though due to not being prepubescent !

My experience was that keeping my balls and arse hair trimmed/fully shaved ensured very enthusiastic ball licking and deep rimming, with more than a few prossies saying that they'd have been less enthusiastic if I turned up looking like chewbacca. YMMV as with all things punting of course.

[brungle]

Many years ago I was refused a booking by a girl because when I spoke to her on the phone she could hear that I have a very deep and resonant voice. She assumed that I was black! In fact I am white, blue eyed and blond! She would not change her mind so I moved to another girl who told me when we met that my voice sounded sexy and turned her on. So there!

[Andyisonfire]

I'm in a similar position to OP, but my body type is of the extreme skinny mode, it is not attractive in my opinion. It's not easy to talk about my body type as there isn't many of us about. But I also haven't taken the plunge because of the body image reason, and afraid what the WG may think.

Anyway, best of luck OP.