Need to take a test urgently!

[Tallboy2]

Been punting for nearly a year. Never any Bareback. OWO both ways. Other half started with a urine tract infection last night at 6pm by the early hours she was in so much pain she could not sit down. I'm panicing like Hell as I'm thinking the worst. Ordered a test kit from the GUM clinic.
Never known the OH get a urine infection so severe and so quickly. Hope i'm wrong but if not a divorce may be on the horizon😟😟😟😟😟

[Complete Novice]

If you can, get to a walk in clinic asap, saves waiting for the kit to arrive.

Really hope this passes with as little incident as possible and both you and the misses get back to good health asap.

Take care.

[claretandblue]

UTI is normally classed as a "non specific " infection and isn't automatically attributed to sexual activity.

I would urge you to hold your nerve here and try not to panic,while of course getting tested ASAP 

[Zeusthedoc]

Been punting for nearly a year. Never any Bareback. OWO both ways. Other half started with a urine tract infection last night at 6pm by the early hours she was in so much pain she could not sit down. I'm panicing like Hell as I'm thinking the worst. Ordered a test kit from the GUM clinic.
Never known the OH get a urine infection so severe and so quickly. Hope i'm wrong but if not a divorce may be on the horizon😟😟😟😟😟

That's horrible. I hope youre both ok.

It is possible that there is some other cause for things such as UTIs etc. I had an ex who had cystitis a lot- granted it's not the same, we both got checked as a precaution and both clean. Nurse said it can be any number of things.

Play it cool, but be sure to make sure that youre both given the all clear by the doc

[Sureshot]

Get her to the docs asap for her own health and then worry about yours.

As said it could be anything but a sure fire reminder to always play safe and get regular testing

[Victoria Kavanagh]

Yes seriously don't panic yet. It could be a kidney infection as they are quite painful and certainly not std/sti related. You might shoot yourself in the foot for no reason so try remain calm for now.

[Blackpool Rock]

Why assume that it's an STI that you have passed on, it could equally be something minor like cystitis that can occur naturally.
On the other hand perhaps your OH has been playing away from home 

[Bangers and Gash]

On the other hand perhaps your OH has been playing away from home 

My thoughts exactly. Get in there early and accuse her of shagging around. Attack is the best form of defence. 

[Tallboy2]

I shall keep you updated.  Thanks for your reasuring posts

[DannyJames]

Could easily be some back to front wiping going on.

Don't panic!

[Tallboy2]

If you can, get to a walk in clinic asap, saves waiting for the kit to arrive.

Really hope this passes with as little incident as possible and both you and the misses get back to good health asap.

Take care.

Check this.
Went to 'Yorsexualhealth' ordered a ghoneria/clamydia test in the early hours of Tuesday. Got the package wednesday. Posted it wednesday. Got my result Friday tea time. What a service. Much faster than going to the clinic and reduces the risk of people seeing me at the clinic. And for the Brucie bonus. I'm all clear!!!
Who wants to fuck me? 😆😆😆

[claretandblue]

Good news  glad you followed the sensible advice on this thread

[Tallboy2]

Yes i did and thank you all very much
My marriage is still safe for now.........

[escortman]

Tallboy how is the wife ?

[Tallboy2]

On antibiotics and getting better all the time. Making it quite clear that i am not welcome any where near her ag ge moment.

[Taggart]

Deny everything. Always.

[threechilliman]

Deny everything. Always.

 

tcm

[GolfNut]

A close call indeed and one that we all dread. 

Glad it appears to have sorted itself out. 

[johnthomas69]

glad it all turned out ok

This happened to me several years ago, in the days when sex with the OH was also available

Never forget, I started pissing razor blades and went to the local clinic who confirmed a dose of something or other, after shoving an earbud right down my jappy 

She then started complaining of stomach cramps and I put two and two together and started to panic

Thankfully, everything sorted itself out but it put me right off getting OWO, although RO is still a must for me and I know that carries risks. These days, sadly, passing anything onto my OH isn't a concern  (not dead or divorced, just lost all interest in me)

[mrdiamond77]

Glad you got the all clear Tallboy2.  Always a bit of a worry if you think you may have caught something.  Only happened to me once (got the all clear, false alarm thankfully) but it was unsettling and not nice .

[claretandblue]

Deny everything. Always.

I've even read people blaming sti's on using someone else's towel at the gym!

I would never admit anything if the worse ever did happen

[escortman]

Glad your in the clear tallboy.. Will you slow down for a bit because reading your reviews you love RO.

Reason i love going to parties at swinging clubs love girls that squirt / gush.

How did the wife get her bug ?

[johnthomas69]

Glad your in the clear tallboy.. Will you slow down for a bit because reading your reviews you love RO.

Reason i love going to parties at swinging clubs love girls that squirt / gush.

How did the wife get her bug ?

I used the "hot tub" excuse

[Tallboy2]

Glad your in the clear tallboy.. Will you slow down for a bit because reading your reviews you love RO.

Reason i love going to parties at swinging clubs love girls that squirt / gush.

How did the wife get her bug ?

No chance of slowing down
I will change nothing.
My wife just got an infection in her urethra.  It happens. Bad design these women.
Where are these parties may i have an invite?

[Tallboy2]

I used the "hot tub" excuse

Did you pick something up from OWO?

[johnthomas69]

Yes, I presume so. As previously said, don't do OWO now, takes some self control to stop them as they're about to wrap their lips around it and ask them to rubber it up I can tell you.  Still do RO but now take a mouth wash with me to rinse out back at the car, not sure if this would stop anything but no harm in trying to minimise the risks 

[jawill]

I stopped OWO some years back now after catching a STI. I prefer to be able to go home afterwards with no worry the next few days as to if my nob is stinging from the friction of the sex or if I've caught something. Peace of mind is worth it!

[Titi]

Check this.
Went to 'Yorsexualhealth' ordered a ghoneria/clamydia test in the early hours of Tuesday. Got the package wednesday. Posted it wednesday. Got my result Friday tea time. What a service. Much faster than going to the clinic and reduces the risk of people seeing me at the clinic. And for the Brucie bonus. I'm all clear!!!
Who wants to fuck me? 😆😆😆