Dating a WG

[Roodboy867]

I don't know if this has been discussed before but here goes.

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Me personally I am undecided. A part of me would not mind but there is the other side that may have green eyes a little.

Interested to hear your points.

[cornbeefinspector]

Dating a WG is no fun, dont  do it, its bad enough they are shagging others, but the fact is they won't want to shag you.

been there done that got the t shirt

[Sienna_Bronze]

I was whoring while I was with my husband. We are separated now because of separate issues. He knew totally what I was doing and was fine with it, he would even be in the house at the time. We used to go swinging so maybe that's why he was ok with me working. Oh and we still had a good sex life. 

[Roodboy867]

Yeah I suppose if you are swingers also then that would ease the situation. Sounds like you had the best of both worlds Sienna 

[Hellraiser]

I don't know if this has been discussed before but here goes.

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Me personally I am undecided. A part of me would not mind but there is the other side that may have green eyes a little.

Interested to hear your points.

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

[vorian]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

HR you do have a, how can I say it a certain style with your posts   

Anyway I always think when an OP asks this question or one of the many similar ones I have seen. What they are really asking can it work out between me and a particular prossy they have in mind. Imho what the OP is looking for is confirmation and reassurance that it will be  for them. When punters and prossies say fuck no that's a terrible idea they will latch on to the one or two posters who will always say who knows maybe.

Please stop deluding yourself as the only chance you have with a long term exclusive relationship is scooping the Euro millions jackpot.

[akauya]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

Have you been swinging? Some guys get off on that

[vorian]

Have you been swinging? Some guys get off on that

If UKP every needs an official spokesman,  my vote goes to Hellraiser. 

[Roodboy867]

Don't get me wrong, I am not looking. I was just curious what others opinions are.

[vorian]

Don't get me wrong, I am not looking. I was just curious what others opinions are.

On fair enough my apologies but this question does come up a lot. It is nearly impossible for a punter and a wg to have a real relationship and even if they do it nearly always ends badly and thus it is a very, very bad idea.

[Hellraiser]

If UKP every needs an official spokesman,  my vote goes to Hellraiser. 

Haha, thank you 

But there is a lot of truth to what I wrote. If a guy is fine with that, with your girlfriend being treated like a slab of mutton, used and abused by men, day after day, then go for it. She might be happy with someone who 'understands' her profession and you can have a fairytale romance.

Personally, I wouldn't go near a prostitute for a relationship. I go to prostitutes because I love fucking chicks up the arse and having my own butthole licked  Most civilian girls don't do such kinky sexual acts, and I would never, ever push a girl into doing sexual stuff that she doesn't like, but some whores will. A relationship is something I would never consider with a prostitute. It's an hour, sometimes 2 hours, of sexual fantasy coming to life and that's it.

[smiths]

I don't know if this has been discussed before but here goes.

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Me personally I am undecided. A part of me would not mind but there is the other side that may have green eyes a little.

Interested to hear your points.

Yes it has been discussed on here before. Its unlikely though not impossible to work, a WG did want a relationship with me a while back but i said not for me. I do know of a punter who got together with a WG through initially punting with her and they are still together so thats why i know its not impossible.

Main issues obviously her fucking and sucking any Tom, Dick and Abdul, worrying about her getting an STI and her safety will put some if not many guys off in my view. It might well attract some though who get off at least for a while on the fact she is a WG. Also a ponce could well view it as a good number for him.

[vorian]

Haha, thank you 

But there is a lot of truth to what I wrote. If a guy is fine with that, with your girlfriend being treated like a slab of mutton, used and abused by men, day after day, then go for it. She might be happy with someone who 'understands' her profession and you can have a fairytale romance.

Personally, I wouldn't go near a prostitute for a relationship. I go to prostitutes because I love fucking chicks up the arse and having my own butthole licked  Most civilian girls don't do such kinky sexual acts, and I would never, ever push a girl into doing sexual stuff that she doesn't like, but some whores will. A relationship is something I would never consider with a prostitute. It's an hour, sometimes 2 hours, of sexual fantasy coming to life and that's it.

Yep that's a fair and honest point of view which many can agree with

[smiths]

Have you been swinging? Some guys get off on that

Indeed they do. Some guys also cant service the wife so agree she can go swinging as a couple rather than having an affair behind the guys back. I have met a few guys like this over the years.

[Hellraiser]

Main issues obviously her fucking and sucking any Tom, Dick and Abdul, worrying about her getting an STI and her safety will put some if not many guys off in my view. It might well attract some though who get off at least for a while on the fact she is a WG. Also a ponce could well view it as a good number for him.

The other worry is, of course, that she could meet a richer, younger, more charming punter and want to be with him.

After all, if she met her current boyfriend through punting, she could just as easily meet someone else through her job and upgrade her fella.

[akauya]

Indeed they do. Some guys also cant service the wife so agree she can go swinging as a couple rather than having an affair behind the guys back. I have met a few guys like this over the years.

Absolutely, that's why Hellraiser's post made me laugh as it reminded me of the many swinging couples actively seeking guys to gangbang their women. I've been to many swinger gangbangs and they are really fun

[smiths]

Absolutely, that's why Hellraiser's post made me laugh as it reminded me of the many swinging couples actively seeking guys to gangbang their women. I've been to many swinger gangbangs and they are really fun

Yes, they can be a good laugh, especially when a guys wife is being fucked and he is high fiving the guy fucking her.

[smiths]

The other worry is, of course, that she could meet a richer, younger, more charming punter and want to be with him.

After all, if she met her current boyfriend through punting, she could just as easily meet someone else through her job and upgrade her fella.

Yes that could certainly happen. She would be taking the risk of leaving the devil she knows for the devil she doesnt though, but plenty take that risk of course.

[finn5555]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

You make it sound so romantic 

[circusbizarre]

Hellraiser hit the nail on the head

[vorian]

You make it sound so romantic 

His words make me feel all, hmmmm I don't know, fluffy inside. I can now believe in true love

[cjkanye02]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

We've had this discussion recently.

As a punter sex and love are completely 100% separate to me.

I would rather not think of it in quite such colourful language, but it wouldn't bother me that much if this was my Mrs and she wanted to earn a living that way.

Most of the objections come back to the guys own insecurities. I know she wouldnt meet anyone better than me so wouldn't beat myself up over it.

[GreyDave]

Well about 4 years ago an ex work mates son was dating a hottie he was always going on about the great office job she had which was 3 days a week and very well paid    flash car 20`s etc..I saw her on a site 20 miles away photo a little blured but her as I'd seen her from a distance but not met her I booked her Kamagra powered up for an hr outside MK excellent service saw here couple more times then month or so later met her socally at the work mates home  slightly red faced....following week learnt they'd split as "she did'nt like his mates"  :..so me thinks its abit more difficult than we think and we are often closer to us than we would both like 

[Hazmat Suit]

Interesting thread. I'm new here so for my debut post, here's my 2penneth worth:

About 10 years ago I got friendly with an escort/WG in Germany (where I was living at the time) who I'd been visiting roughly once a month so I suppose I was a "regular".

She was a native German (not East European or anything like that), held down a regular day job and whored only part time. Sometimes it was escorting via an agency, but she also did the occasional weekend in one of the large bordellos that you find in most German cities (which is where I first came across her, so to speak).

In any case, over the course of a few punts we struck up a real rapport and it got to the stage where we would visit each other's place (I was single at the time, obviously), go out on the town together and I didn't even have to pay to shag her any more.

This went on for about 6 months and as far as I was concerned we were kind of in a "relationship" (albeit I could never see us moving in together or anything like that). She'd even introduced me to a few of her friends (all perfectly "respectable" civilians, no WGs).

I knew she was still working for an agency occasionally but if I'm honest it didn't really bother me, and she was quite open about it. Then one day I fancied a change of scenery, visited another WG and so under the circs I (with hindsight perhaps foolishly) mentioned it to her thinking it would be no big deal, given that she was a WG herself, that I'd first met her "professionally" and so she obviously knew the score - or so you'd have thought.

Next day I got a text from her saying that she didn't want to see me again, wanted no further contact - and I never saw or heard from her again. I can only assume that it was because she was pissed off that I'd fucked another WG. In which case, oh the fucking irony!!! Sometimes female "logic" just defies belief.

About a year later I was dating a Turkish bird (fit as fuck, gorgeous body, looked like Selma Hayek in her prime) and that was a different situation. I thought my Christmases had all come at once. Then about 9 months in I found out completely by chance that she was escorting behind my back. I challenged her on it, she lied through her teeth ("how could you accuse me of such a thing!!" etc. etc.) so I fucked her off. Took myself off down the clap clinic to get a full panel, as I'd been fucking her BB (anal as well) and was worried she might have been doing the same with punters for all I knew. Fortunately everything came back negative.

So in my experience dating a WG/escort or whatever you want to call her is a recipe for disaster, even when you think your relationship with them is "somehow different".

[Dani]

I have a way of looking at it that may very well be the best test
Imagine a works xmas do and you take your GF and she then tells you that half the men inn to place are her punters, How will you feel?  Its not just if you can cope with knowing what she does, it is can you cope with all your friends/family knowing your GF shags men for money?  Can you take the constant "I done your missus last night shes a right goer aint she" type comments from your mates?  After all once they know even if they haven't seen her this will be the type of comments some will make thinking they are being amusing.

Also yes you may still have a good sex life but how will you feel when she has a busy day and doesn't want you near her as she is too tired/sore/sick to death of cock, you will know she happily shagged loads of men that day but cant be arsed to make extra effort for you.  It happens.  We get tired or sore after a busy day and just want a cold bath and sleep.  It is similar to anyone who has a manual job that when they come home don't want to start doing the same thing at home when they are worn out. 
Carpenters wives can wait months to get a cupboard fixed, mechanics wives can wait forever to get her car looked at as you don't always feel like doing the same thing you have done all day when you get home as you just want to relax

It is a very big deal and not many men can actually cope with it.  The ones who do tend to mostly be couples that were together before she started work and had an open relationship where all boundaries were discussed and who then went on to do this work again with boundaries being set before hand

[HarryRoss]

Well, I've to ask a question before providing my thoughts: what's your aim of dating a wg?

Free sex in the long run? or
Getting serious relationship?

If for free sex, grab a girl in the club or bar and build up a 'partner' relationship will be enough. If you wanna get free sex with wgs, simply booking her more times, and bring some small gifts (flowers, perfumes etc.), perhaps it will work, but mainly depends on what kind of girl she is (if she is young, highly value the money, then you may only get free sex sometimes depends on her mood). The free sex situation does happened, but vary from wgs.

If for personally interest, then I would recommend you to STOP now. There are loads of obvious and intangible obstacles for both you and the wg. You have your aim and she gets her plan. So even you're a very open minded person and showing with enough respect, you may not get a result eventually. I will not say this won't happen, but it's very rare.

Anyway, interesting topic, good luck.

[AnthG]

Anyway I always think when an OP asks this question. What they are really asking can it work out between me and a particular prossy they have in mind.

Agree, and all I will say @the OP is if you have started the question then for you its fine.

The problem is the chances of the girl in question being interested in you back is unfortunately close to zero.

The other problem is if you try it on and fail, depending on how badly it goes it may mean you cannot book with her no more.

[bilbobaggins]

Don't ever date a WG, it will end in tears.
I did it years ago and she stole thousands off me.
She acted nice, but deep down she was just a lying, cheating and cold hearted bitch.

If I ever saw again I would tell her to fuck off!

Some WGs think we really have to give them hundreds of pounds, well after my recent experience I have realised I can spend the money on myself!  I will never be so daft to give a WG more than a £130 in future.  Even then I might decide to not bother, and keep the cash in mywallet!

[mightymunce]

Methinks that this is a very bad idea. Why would you want to date a WG? They have to be if a certain disposition to sell sex. They are not the sort of girl you would introduce they parents to

[latecomer]

Methinks that this is a very bad idea. Why would you want to date a WG? They have to be if a certain disposition to sell sex. They are not the sort of girl you would introduce they parents to

quite so, and another thing - do you think she would want to date you?

[vorian]

quite so, and another thing - do you think she would want to date you?

All the WG's I have spoken to have alway said they would never date a punter, they often give different reasons why but none think it is a good idea.

[AnthG]

All the WG's I have spoken to have alway said they would never date a punter, they often give different reasons why but none think it is a good idea.

I think it is summed up in that prostitutes think they are somehow better than punters. They will give you some tosh about moral codes, or ethics, but this will be the real reason.

[mattylondon]

I was whoring while I was with my husband. We are separated now because of separate issues. He knew totally what I was doing and was fine with it, he would even be in the house at the time. We used to go swinging so maybe that's why he was ok with me working. Oh and we still had a good sex life. 

I'm not surprised he left you!? Clearly wasn't 'fine with it', was he!? 

It may be fun for a while, but no man worth their salt respects or loves any woman of theirs whose a whore. And most honest prossies recognise that fact. Only cuckolds and pussy whipped men tolerate that sort of shit. 

However 'liberal' you pretend to be, I'll bet if the shoe was on the other foot and he was getting all the fucking and you were receiving very little in the way of it, you'd be jealous as hell and sing a different tune. I read this a lot from women like you but I've spoken with several personally. When pressed how they'd react the other way, to a woman, they've said it would never be tolerated! 

That also goes for every prossie I've spoken with who said they'd never date an active punter.

[Roth]

I don't know if this has been discussed before but here goes.

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Me personally I am undecided. A part of me would not mind but there is the other side that may have green eyes a little.

Interested to hear your points.

Cheaper in long run just to pay for the sex as a punter in a business arrangement.   A WG as a date can be expensive and NO guarantee of sex but with all the emotional hassle.

[vorian]

I not surprised he left you!? It may be fun for a while, but no man worth their salt respects or loves any woman of theirs whose a whore. And most honest prossies recognise that fact. Only cuckolds and pussy whipped men tolerate that sort of shit. 

However 'liberal' you pretend to be, I'll bet if the shoe was on the other foot and he was getting all the fucking and you were receiving very little in the way of it, you'd be jealous as he'll and sing a different tune. I read this a lot from women like you but I've spoken with several personally. When pressed how they'd react the other way, to a woman, they've said it would never be tolerated! 

And that also goes for every prossie Ive spoken with who said they'd never date an active punter. 

Does seem the only guys who cope with it long term are the cuckolds. I know of a few couples like this married with kids, the wife whores and it works for them. The blokes thing must be he gets off on his missus fucking other men or I can't see how it could ever work.

[Sienna_Bronze]

I'm not surprised he left you!? 

It may be fun for a while, but no man worth their salt respects or loves any woman of theirs whose a whore. And most honest prossies recognise that fact. Only cuckolds and pussy whipped men tolerate that sort of shit. 

However 'liberal' you pretend to be, I'll bet if the shoe was on the other foot and he was getting all the fucking and you were receiving very little in the way of it, you'd be jealous as he'll and sing a different tune. I read this a lot from women like you but I've spoken with several personally. When pressed how they'd react the other way, to a woman, they've said it would never be tolerated! 


That also goes for every prossie I've spoken with who said they'd never date an active punter.

When it comes to sex I am very liberal. I wasn't arsed who he was fucking. And no I'd never date a punter, it would never work

[Wiltsboy01]

How can you date a girl that will fuck anyone who has the right money in their hand?

I know its a bit of a piss take morals wise but WGs aren't my sort of girl

[vorian]

How can you date a girl that will fuck anyone who has the right money in their hand?

I know its a bit of a piss take morals wise but WGs aren't my sort of girl

You can if the thought of them doing that turns you on but you can't fake it. That has to be your true kink.

[CoolTiger]

Would you really be ok with your whore girlfriend fucking dozens of men a week, of all ages, from those in their 20's all the way to their 60's or 70's, kissing them, sucking their dicks, taking their cum in her mouth or all over her body, and those same guys fucking her in the pussy, maybe even up the arse, pounding and slamming her cunt, day after day after day....

And then maybe one of those guys then gives a critical review either praising her or slating every aspect of their booking,  resulting in either her bookings dropping or soaring,  resulting in your whore getting fucked and cummed on by even more men?

The above sums it up.

All I would add is would you also then allow her to BB her "favourite" customers???

[mattylondon]

I don't know if this has been discussed before but here goes.

Could you date a WG knowing full well what she does? Would it turn you on? or are you the jealous type and a big fuck no?

Me personally I am undecided. A part of me would not mind but there is the other side that may have green eyes a little.

Interested to hear your points.

It's been discussed more times than I care to mention. Why the desire to date a prostitute? Is it because you think the sex will be naturally fantastic or that you get turned on by the thought of her being fucked by other men? If the later, you could as easily hook up with the local slapper!  :

If you're assuming much better sex, you may be in for quite a shock. Consider this, if you're servicing cars all day and into the evening, smothered in oil, would you be enthusiastic about servicing your partners car very late at night or would you enjoy a good rest?! Would you be happy to go beyond the servicing and do additional things to the car, which you only do for money, knowing that the same won't be apply with your partners? Just a thought....

[Wiltsboy01]

You can if the thought of them doing that turns you on but you can't fake it. That has to be your true kink.

Interesting point, as I love it if a girl has a partner or is married. 

That's more a power trip for the fucker not the poor son-of-a-bitch who's g/f is getting drilled by randomers for cash

[sarahjayneleeds]

When it comes to sex I am very liberal. I wasn't arsed who he was fucking. And no I'd never date a punter, it would never work

If you weren't arsed who he was fucking as in one night stands and affairs why is it a definite no to a punter? I don't understand the difference both are fucking other woman or is the the payment issue? 

[mattylondon]

When it comes to sex I am very liberal. I wasn't arsed who he was fucking. And no I'd never date a punter, it would never work

What you mean by that is that you cannot stand the thought of him comparing you to other prostitutes on your level or who may potentially fuck and please him better than you can? This is where your self doubt and natural human jealousy as a woman would kick in. 

Whereas, if he was fucking civvies, you can take a crumb of comfort in that they may not be on your level and he isn't fucking another whore who he could turn his attention to. Curious how you feel it can work if it's only you who are calling the shots? Not so liberal as you pretend to be, me thinks and a bit of a hypocrite too. 

Happy to see that you also confirm you'd put your foot down if he continued punting.

[vorian]

Interesting point, as I love it if a girl has a partner or is married. 

That's more a power trip for the fucker not the poor son-of-a-bitch who's g/f is getting drilled by randomers for cash

True but I know guys whole only real sexual thrill is to see and know their partner is getting fucked for money as a whore. They might have to sleep in the same bed that their partner gets fucked in, they don't even need what you would call sex as they are fully satisfied by knowing this is happening. They don't feel any bad feeling towards it as it is the only thing that gets them off.

[Roth]

Interesting point, as I love it if a girl has a partner or is married. 

That's more a power trip for the fucker not the poor son-of-a-bitch who's g/f is getting drilled by randomers for cash

Good point, well said.

[Sienna_Bronze]

If you weren't arsed who he was fucking as in one night stands and affairs why is it a definite no to a punter? I don't understand the difference both are fucking other woman or is the the payment issue? 

To me it's the payment issue, once they've paid me there are boundaries. To really get to know someone well enough to date/have a relationship with you, you cross those boundaries. It's just not for me.

[mattylondon]

Does seem the only guys who cope with it long term are the cuckolds. I know of a few couples like this married with kids, the wife whores and it works for them. The blokes thing must be he gets off on his missus fucking other men or I can't see how it could ever work.

The blokes thing is that he often has no choice as the woman is the bread earner, so she calls the shots. If he doesn't like it, he can fuck off! Also he may have initially met her when he was a punter, so can hardly complain. He either puts up with it or will be sent packing

[Roth]

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If you weren't arsed who he was fucking as in one night stands and affairs why is it a definite no to a punter? I don't understand the difference both are fucking other woman or is the the payment issue? 

To me it's the payment issue, once they've paid me there are boundaries. To really get to know someone well enough to date/have a relationship with you, you cross those boundaries. It's just not for me.
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SSo basically never date or marry anyone you have paid money to.  The checkout assistant, the bird in the bank, the hairdresser etc etc.     

[vorian]

The blokes thing is that he often has no choice as the woman is the bread earner, so she calls the shots. If he doesn't like it, he can fuck off! Also he may have initially met her when he was a punter, so can hardly complain. He either puts up with it.

True for most, but there are a few and I do mean a few guys that really get off on it, imho most blokes are stuck like you said and have to put up with it but a tiny amount real do get off on it on every level.

[Wiltsboy01]

The blokes thing is that he often has no choice as the woman is the bread earner, so she calls the shots. If he doesn't like it, he can fuck off! Also he may have initially met her when he was a punter, so can hardly complain. He either puts up with it or will be sent packing

Seems to me there are issues of latent homosexuality here - these cuckold guys must secretly want that cock for themselves.