Owl, I had an encounter with a Thai masseuse (masseur?) two weeks ago.
Utterly gorgeous and very feminine, good English speaker and clearly bright. Did I become aroused? Yes.
Some things were not normal physically, and ultimately her vagina was very, very tight. She was paranoid about not allowing fingering.
I'm fairly sure she's post op, but that wouldn't stop me returning. No, the reason I won't be back is that oral was covered, which, for me is a red line. No OWO. No go back.
Interesting experience overall. Transgressive for me as I'm hetero.