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Offline bundaskwilz

I know all the tips suggest not punting near home but ive always wondered does there come a point when it actually becomes a benefit?

There's a girl i have always suspected was an escort living 2 floors below me. i have always suspected as when i did see her it would always be 2 or 3 times a day in different skimpy outfits at very suspect times 7AM, 4PM, 2AM and she always looked off her face. but ive just confirmed it as i have stumbled across her AW profile and it says shes touring here so im guessing this is a regular touring location for her. it would also explain why i would see her so much in a short space of time and then nothing for a while.

The main cons are being outed and being seen right? but with her being this close being seen isnt an issue as i live here (LOL) but does this now give me enough leverage to not have to worry about being outed as i can do the same to her to the police and with the neighbours do you think WGs think like that ?

im about 80/20 that im not going to book her

would be nice to know what you guys think though

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I've got absolutely nothing to loose by you booking her so I say you should go for it, can't do me any harm.   :hi:

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Not sure what you could shop her to the police for, being a prostitute isn't illegal.   :unknown:
« Last Edit: July 23, 2022, 12:09:09 am by daviemac »

Offline bundaskwilz

I've got absolutely nothing to loose by you booking her so I say you should go for it, can't do me any harm.   :hi:

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Not sure what you could shop her to the police for, being a prostitute isn't illegal.   :unknown:

lol i wasnt asking if i should book her or not tbh for me its to risky was just wondering if being close to home ever has it benefits. sorry i wasnt clear shopping her to police wasnt necessarily about being a prostitute but more about feeling safer that shes not going to knock me or set me up etc

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lol i wasnt asking if i should book her or not tbh for me its to risky was just wondering if being close to home ever has it benefits. sorry i wasnt clear shopping her to police wasnt necessarily about being a prostitute but more about feeling safer that shes not going to knock me or set me up etc
Obviously it has benefits, you don't have to travel.  :unknown:  It's the next best thing to having an outcall, though neither are suitable for some but would be ok for others.

How can you not feel safe? you aren't going to book her so she's never going to be in a position to set you up for anything.

If you are talking about the general safety aspect of it then due diligence would be needed and a decision made based on the level of risk acceptable to the individual.

Offline bundaskwilz

Obviously it has benefits, you don't have to travel.  :unknown:  It's the next best thing to having an outcall, though neither are suitable for some but would be ok for others.

How can you not feel safe? you aren't going to book her so she's never going to be in a position to set you up for anything.

If you are talking about the general safety aspect of it then due diligence would be needed and a decision made based on the level of risk acceptable to the individual.

yh i was talking more on a general level. im not going to book her because of my own personal reasons but was just wondering if people who would normally stick to punting away(for the reasons mentioned above) would make an exception because of how close it actually is

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yh i was talking more on a general level. im not going to book her because of my own personal reasons but was just wondering if people who would normally stick to punting away(for the reasons mentioned above) would make an exception because of how close it actually is
Your post comes across as you asking about one specific escort, if you mean in general terms then there's 3 pages of it here and that is where you should have posted it. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=341023.0  last posted on -  June 22nd

Offline bundaskwilz

Your post comes across as you asking about one specific escort, if you mean in general terms then there's 3 pages of it here and that is where you should have posted it. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=341023.0  last posted on -  June 22nd

oh my bad, i did see that thread but felt it was more about the proximity then anything else. should i delete this thread and post my question there?

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Go, eat her ass out.
Otherwise you’ll alway be thinking about what it would have been like.

Offline The0neAnd0nly

There's a girl i have always suspected was an escort living 2 floors below me. i have always suspected as when i did see her it would always be 2 or 3 times a day in different skimpy outfits at very suspect times 7AM, 4PM, 2AM and she always looked off her face.

I think its possible that although you've noticed and recognised her and figured out where she lives she wouldnt have the slightest clue who you are if you did go and see her.

Obviously there is no way to be certain but if shes been off her face, what makes you think if you did see her she'd go "Oh this is the guy who lives 2 floors above me?"

Think you're over thinking it - either see her if you've got nothing to lose or if youre worried about her potentially banging on your door or you live with your GF/wife dont.

Offline The0neAnd0nly

but does this now give me enough leverage to not have to worry about being outed as i can do the same to her to the police and with the neighbours do you think WGs think like that ?

Who the hell knows as depends entirely on the SP and if you did anything to piss her off or even not.

It all comes down to the risk you are willing to take and the worse case scenario being something you could live with or not. I'm not sure what absolute answer you are searching for that will help you decide whether to see her or not  :unknown:

Offline lillythesavage

Go, eat her ass out.
Otherwise you’ll alway be thinking about what it would have been like.


I would agree, but the " always off her face " comment is enough not to.

View before you buy is one advantage and did wonder why the Police bit came into it  :unknown:, until re reading that bit.

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oh my bad, i did see that thread but felt it was more about the proximity then anything else. should i delete this thread and post my question there?
Is an escort living 2 floors down from you not about proximity?  You can't delete this thread, I'll merge it.

Offline bundaskwilz

Is an escort living 2 floors down from you not about proximity?  You can't delete this thread, I'll merge it.

right but i thought it was exclusively about proximity my question was to find out if people who avoid punting near their homes (for what ever reason) have OR would consider it if they were a neighbour or something

thanks for merging though bro

Offline bundaskwilz

Who the hell knows as depends entirely on the SP and if you did anything to piss her off or even not.

It all comes down to the risk you are willing to take and the worse case scenario being something you could live with or not. I'm not sure what absolute answer you are searching for that will help you decide whether to see her or not  :unknown:

i have my answer already and my reasons but was just asking for other peoples opinions...thought it could be a good discussion

Offline JontyR

I think  its important to have your own punting rules. These will be individual and they come with your own situation in mind. These give you a grounding which has come from big brain when little brain may take over our better judgement.

Here consider if proximity may lead to a change in your punting habits and the impact that may have (financially, emotionally, socially etc etc) on your well being.

The reason why rules are personal as well is because everyone has different profiles, particularly when it comes to risk of addiction and its punting partner in crime, EAS.

Good luck.

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right but i thought it was exclusively about proximity my question was to find out if people who avoid punting near their homes (for what ever reason) have OR would consider it if they were a neighbour or something

thanks for merging though bro
You have me confused now, this thread is about how close to home punters are willing to punt, is people avoiding punting too close to home not the same thing just put over differently.

I'm happy to be educated if anyone can explain the difference.   :unknown:

Offline bundaskwilz

You have me confused now, this thread is about how close to home punters are willing to punt, is people avoiding punting too close to home not the same thing just put over differently.

I'm happy to be educated if anyone can explain the difference.   :unknown:

so my question isnt really aimed at these people as they are already comfortable about punting close to home. the people who aren't usually say its down to being recognised or being outed.

So i was wondering if those people who avoid it would change their minds if the proximity was so close that those concerns(being recognised and being outed) were no longer an issue

sorry if im not making sense

Offline bundaskwilz

I think  its important to have your own punting rules. These will be individual and they come with your own situation in mind. These give you a grounding which has come from big brain when little brain may take over our better judgement.

Here consider if proximity may lead to a change in your punting habits and the impact that may have (financially, emotionally, socially etc etc) on your well being.

The reason why rules are personal as well is because everyone has different profiles, particularly when it comes to risk of addiction and its punting partner in crime, EAS.

Good luck.

see i never thought of this.. this is why i thought id ask for other peoples POV.

thanks for the insight

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so my question isnt really aimed at these people as they are already comfortable about punting close to home. the people who aren't usually say its down to being recognised or being outed.

So i was wondering if those people who avoid it would change their minds if the proximity was so close that those concerns(being recognised and being outed) were no longer an issue

sorry if im not making sense
One of us just isn't getting it, there's replies on this thread from people saying they know local escorts but wouldn't punt with them.   :unknown:
Less than five minute walk from well reviewed massage place.

Have been tempted more than once, but like others here I live by the rule: don’t shit where you eat.

If I asked you "would you punt with an escort next door to you" or Would you avoid punting with an escort next door to you" they are different questions but the  answers would give the same result.   :unknown:

Offline bundaskwilz

One of us just isn't getting it, there's replies on this thread from people saying they know local escorts but wouldn't punt with them.   :unknown:
If I asked you "would you punt with an escort next door to you" or Would you avoid punting with an escort next door to you" they are different questions but the  answers would give the same result.   :unknown:

im not sure how else to explain it lol..other people have understood it (i think). the people who have replied having said they would or wouldnt punt the ones they know next door arent who i am asking. They have their reasons similar to myself i know i wouldnt. but are there people out there who wouldnt punt someone say 10/20 mins down the road but WOULD punt the girl they know whos an escort next door and if there are what are the reasons why you would.

those two questions are the same but worded differently that isnt what im asking lol. let me try word it like this.

for those people who avoid punting in areas close to home would you make an exception to that rule if the girl was your neighbour if so why ?

« Last Edit: July 23, 2022, 12:39:06 pm by bundaskwilz »

Offline lillythesavage



for those people who avoid punting in areas close to home would you make an exception to that rule if the girl was your neighbour if so why ?

I very much doubt they would, if home town punting is a no go the paranoia would not allow it  :unknown:.

Offline Thephoenix



for those people who avoid punting in areas close to home would you make an exception to that rule if the girl was your neighbour if so why ?
Sorry chum, I just don't get the logic to your question.
If you don't punt locally particularly for reasons of discretion, logically you're likely to punt the SP next door even less so????
Or maybe I've missed something. :unknown:

Offline bundaskwilz

I very much doubt they would, if home town punting is a no go the paranoia would not allow it  :unknown:.

Thats what im trying to find out for example if you are simply paranoid about being seen waiting around in the area, in the building or your car being spotted does that go away knowing that you have the perfect excuse for all of the examples mentioned

Offline bundaskwilz

Sorry chum, I just don't get the logic to your question.
If you don't punt locally particularly for reasons of discretion, logically you're likely to punt the SP next door even less so????
Or maybe I've missed something. :unknown:

il give you an example.

lets say you dont want to do an outcall because you dont want them to know where you live exactly
you dont want to do it local because of friends and family seeing you and asking questions like why are you here at 8pm at night

if she lives in the same block of flats as you dont those reasons become a non issue now?
« Last Edit: July 23, 2022, 01:43:01 pm by bundaskwilz »

Offline lillythesavage

il give you an example.

lets say you dont want to do an outcall because you dont want them to know where you live exactly
you dont want to do it local because of friends and family seeing you and asking questions like why are you here at 8pm at night

if she lives in the same block of flats as you dont those reasons become a non issue now?


The same paranoia applies for different reasons  :unknown:, if they will not punt in home town why would they punt on the doorstep, risking the SP knowing where they live, bumping into her in company or others in the block noticing where they are going.  :unknown:

Offline bundaskwilz


The same paranoia applies for different reasons  :unknown:, if they will not punt in home town why would they punt on the doorstep, risking the SP knowing where they live, bumping into her in company or others in the block noticing where they are going.  :unknown:

Is this how you feel personally?

let me see if this helps....

Me personally when i was living at my old place i wouldnt punt in surrounding areas not because im worried about the WG noticing me at a later date but because i didnt want to be seen by someone i knew hanging around or entering a flat i have no business being in... now if a WG started working in the same block of flats as me i think that paranoia goes away because...my car is there for a reason, im not hanging about outside waiting for texts and instructions. I could get up jump in the lift to the their floor straight in their door with no one seeing me and if someone did happen to see me in the lift theres no weird questions because im going home

Offline bundaskwilz

Another example based around different reasons.

lets say you have no issue with discretion and are happy to punt anywhere but you fear being setup or robbed by a new WG with 0 feedback or ratings. if a new girl popped up and was in the same block of flats as yourself does that fear still exist?

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Sorry chum, I just don't get the logic to your question.
If you don't punt locally particularly for reasons of discretion, logically you're likely to punt the SP next door even less so????
Or maybe I've missed something. :unknown:

The same paranoia applies for different reasons  :unknown:, if they will not punt in home town why would they punt on the doorstep, risking the SP knowing where they live, bumping into her in company or others in the block noticing where they are going.  :unknown:
Thank fuck I'm not the only one who doesn't understand what he means.

Another example based around different reasons.

lets say you have no issue with discretion and are happy to punt anywhere but you fear being setup or robbed by a new WG with 0 feedback or ratings. if a new girl popped up and was in the same block of flats as yourself does that fear still exist?
if you are that worried about being setup or robbed away from home any sensible punter would be even less likely to punt on their doorstep as then not only have they been robbed but have given the robbers their address.




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I have outcalls but am very selective about who with, I certainly wouldn’t invite an escort with no feedback to my house, a lot of due diligence is done before it happens.

That said I would not punt with an escort who lives next door, there’s no discretion. Nobody would be any the wiser if they saw a casually dressed woman coning into my house but there would be no doubt what I was doing if seen going into an escort’s house.

Offline bundaskwilz

Thank fuck I'm not the only one who doesn't understand what he means.
if you are that worried about being setup or robbed away from home any sensible punter would be even less likely to punt on their doorstep as then not only have they been robbed but have given the robbers their address.

i think its because you are taking the example of the girl downstairs from me to literal.

how would they have given away their address exactly when all you have done is leave the house with keys and cash and gone upstairs/downstairs they have no idea you live in the flat you dont need any ID or cards on you etc... im not an expert but id of guessed setups didnt happen in the house of the WG probably outside the flat or a car park she has told you to park in also you can proper due diligence without appearing suspicious   

Offline bundaskwilz

I have outcalls but am very selective about who with, I certainly wouldn’t invite an escort with no feedback to my house, a lot of due diligence is done before it happens.

That said I would not punt with an escort who lives next door, there’s no discretion. Nobody would be any the wiser if they saw a casually dressed woman coning into my house but there would be no doubt what I was doing if seen going into an escort’s house.

thats fair... may i ask where you're from? i think this maybe why its confusing because im setting these scenarios in tower blocks in London with London crime ethics etc lol

of course its easy to be spotted going into a known escorts house if its on the street but if its a block of flats no one will see this

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i think its because you are taking the example of the girl downstairs from me to literal.

how would they have given away their address exactly when all you have done is leave the house with keys and cash and gone upstairs/downstairs they have no idea you live in the flat you dont need any ID or cards on you etc... im not an expert but id of guessed setups didnt happen in the house of the WG probably outside the flat or a car park she has told you to park in also you can proper due diligence without appearing suspicious

FFS you are too much hard work to bother with so this will be my last time trying to explain to you.

I took the example of the girl living downstairs literally because you liberally said "There's a girl i have always suspected was an escort living 2 floors below me".  Now if you live in the same block there is a reasonable chance she will have seen you just as you have seen her, she therefore will know you live in the block as a result of that, if she was that way inclined, it wouldn't take much to find out which flat.

Read the reviews and you will see that most ripoffs, with exception of deposit scams, happen in the SPs premises.

I can't explain it any more that I already have, if you don't understand you don't understand you just carry on with your paranoia.

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thats fair... may i ask where you're from? i think this maybe why its confusing because im setting these scenarios in tower blocks in London with London crime ethics etc lol

of course its easy to be spotted going into a known escorts house if its on the street but if its a block of flats no one will see this
I'm from the NE where this happens when you upset the wrong people.

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Offline bundaskwilz

FFS you are too much hard work to bother with so this will be my last time trying to explain to you.

I took the example of the girl living downstairs literally because you liberally said "There's a girl i have always suspected was an escort living 2 floors below me".  Now if you live in the same block there is a reasonable chance she will have seen you just as you have seen her, she therefore will know you live in the block as a result of that, if she was that way inclined, it wouldn't take much to find out which flat.

Read the reviews and you will see that most ripoffs, with exception of deposit scams, happen in the SPs premises.

I can't explain it any more that I already have, if you don't understand you don't understand you just carry on with your paranoia.

why are you talking about my paranoia and telling me to read the reviews?? this is what i mean about you taking my example to literal i wasnt asking for advice or tips about me or what i should do i gave a scenario that was relavent to me you are supposed to take that apply it to yourself with your own personal setup and rules and come back with an answer

For you thats a NO.
For the people in the thread that said they would punt a girl next to them its a YES
For me now its a NO
For me living at my old place it possibly would have been a YES

and we all have different reasons for that

Mate its confusing because your reading my post to respond and not to understand so im trying to help by explaining it to you... if it doesnt apply thats fine. the point was simply "are there any benefits to them living next to you"  i gave scenarios and examples that i could relate with as thats all i know but that was the main reason i wanted to open up a discussion about it.
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I'm from the NE where this happens when you upset the wrong people.

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This wasnt some sort of flex or a "my dad is harder then your dad" comparison lol i was just asking because the dynamics of NE to London are different more tower blocks heres and public transport so the way you get setup or spotted (2 of the reasons i mentioned earlier) etc is slightly different thats all.

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i think its because you are taking the example of the girl downstairs from me to literal.

how would they have given away their address exactly when all you have done is leave the house with keys and cash and gone upstairs/downstairs they have no idea you live in the flat you dont need any ID or cards on you etc... im not an expert but id of guessed setups didnt happen in the house of the WG probably outside the flat or a car park she has told you to park in also you can proper due diligence without appearing suspicious

Most apartment blocks and flat complexes that I have worked from when touring have buzz entry systems,  some have video entry systems
How do you explain how you got in? One of my screening tools and many girls screening tools is following address and direction details and for me how they are on entry to the building is important.

I'm with Davie, lily and phoenix  :wackogirl:

Is school out?

Offline lillythesavage

Another example based around different reasons.

lets say you have no issue with discretion and are happy to punt anywhere but you fear being setup or robbed by a new WG with 0 feedback or ratings. if a new girl popped up and was in the same block of flats as yourself does that fear still exist?


Give it a rest, now you are changing the goalposts  :lol:.

If you will not punt near home, that will not change, if you do not give a fuck why would you fear being set up and robbed? Anyone sensible only has punt money to be robbed of  :unknown:


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I'm from the NE where this happens when you upset the wrong people.

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Quite normal in this part of the world too  :D. Usually with some fire too.

Offline bundaskwilz

Most apartment blocks and flat complexes that I have worked from when touring have buzz entry systems,  some have video entry systems
How do you explain how you got in? One of my screening tools and many girls screening tools is following address and direction details and for me how they are on entry to the building is important.

I'm with Davie, lily and phoenix  :wackogirl:

Is school out?

You literally said MOST you have worked from so you have worked from some that didnt have it? and MANY girls isnt ALL girls but these points are actually irrelevant as i said in my example "someone who doesn't care about discretion" so the girl can know the punter lives in the same flat she just doesnt know where exactly but lets apply it to your situation when you are touring you expect the person to buzz right?

would this same punter feel safer to setup a meet with someone with 0 feedback as they are in their own environment and they can do more due diligence as they leave the flat to ring the buzzer as you expect them to.

i feel like you are being deliberately obtuse now

Offline myothernameis

see i never thought of this.. this is why i thought id ask for other peoples POV.

thanks for the insight

I found 3 escorts who all stayed in the same town, but I emailed them, and asked them, if its ok for me to book her, as I stay locally, and you may know me from my work

2 said no, dont want booking, but the escort agreed to my booking in Glasgow.  The other two eventually we became good friends, as they were always going through my checkout


Offline bundaskwilz


Give it a rest, now you are changing the goalposts  :lol:.

If you will not punt near home, that will not change, if you do not give a fuck why would you fear being set up and robbed? Anyone sensible only has punt money to be robbed of  :unknown:

its not changing the goalpost because im not trying to prove a point... im giving different scenarios because you lot are struggling to understand the discussion i was trying to start. you dont speak for everyone mate which is why i was opening the discussion to see if there were people out there whos minds could be changed

do people not drive to meets?

this isnt rocket science when i orignally opened the thread it was to invite a discussion about if proximity could affect the hard rules you set before you first start punting but because people didnt understand that i tried to give scenarios and you have all got hung up on the particular scenarios and telling me why it doesnt make sense or work for YOU which is fine but there is a bigger point trying to be made here
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I found 3 escorts who all stayed in the same town, but I emailed them, and asked them, if its ok for me to book her, as I stay locally, and you may know me from my work

2 said no, dont want booking, but the escort agreed to my booking in Glasgow.  The other two eventually we became good friends, as they were always going through my checkout

See this was the kinda things i was hoping to get from the discussion lol.

are you from a small town? did they say no due to their own discretion ?

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See this was the kinda things i was hoping to get from the discussion lol.

are you from a small town? did they say no due to their own discretion ?
There you go, changing the goalposts again, you started off wanting a punters point of view, now you are expecting a punter to answer on behalf of an escort.   :wacko:

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this isnt rocket science when i orignally opened the thread it was to invite a discussion about if proximity could affect the hard rules you set before you first start punting but because people didnt understand that i tried to give scenarios and you have all got hung up on the particular scenarios and telling me why it doesnt make sense or work for YOU which is fine but there is a bigger point trying to be made here

Unfortunatley, you seem to be the only person that understands what this bigger point is that you are trying to enlighten us all about, and now you are getting defensive/argumentative because  :unknown:. And you keep making a meal of explaining it, of course if you give a scenario, that is what you are going to get replies about.

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See this was the kinda things i was hoping to get from the discussion lol.

are you from a small town? did they say no due to their own discretion ?

Why dont you work it out for your self, read my post there enough info in it to explain

Offline bundaskwilz

There you go, changing the goalposts again, you started off wanting a punters point of view, now you are expecting a punter to answer on behalf of an escort.   :wacko:

Mate he's talking about HIS experience and thats all i was ever after. im literally asking him HIS POV on why the 2 said no.

were getting off track and trying to point score now so let me try and get this discussion back on track by replying to the reasoning you gave earlier

you know how you said you wouldnt go to one near your house in case you are seen going in but are happy to have an outcall. if that is the only reason why you wouldnt do you think you would feel the same way about visiting the WG if you both lived in a block of flats where its virtually impossible to be seen entering or exiting the house" ?

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You literally said MOST you have worked from so you have worked from some that didnt have it? and MANY girls isnt ALL girls but these points are actually irrelevant as i said in my example "someone who doesn't care about discretion" so the girl can know the punter lives in the same flat she just doesnt know where exactly but lets apply it to your situation when you are touring you expect the person to buzz right?

would this same punter feel safer to setup a meet with someone with 0 feedback as they are in their own environment and they can do more due diligence as they leave the flat to ring the buzzer as you expect them to.

i feel like you are being deliberately obtuse now

Now then sweetie do not call me obtuse as I am far from that.

I only used most because I worked from 1 without a buzz entry,  FYI I got caught out by the cleaner and thrown out with threats, I never work without one now, I cannot vouch for others but I would suggest of those that tour a buzz entry is a requirement if hiring an apartment.

I expect my clients to call when they are OUTSIDE OF THE BUILDING  I then give them an apartment number and they need to buzz that for me to let them in, that in your scenarios would require you or whoever to go outside of your/their own building for me to buzz them back in.

I'm not sure why you are now adding twaddle like 0 feedback etc it has nothing to do with your OP, but then most of what came after doesn't either so go figure  :unknown:

You are the one who is being obtuse and is moving the goal posts with everything you type because you know what your asking is the same as this thread, you just don't have big enough balls to admit that.


Offline bundaskwilz

Unfortunatley, you seem to be the only person that understands what this bigger point is that you are trying to enlighten us all about, and now you are getting defensive/argumentative because  :unknown:. And you keep making a meal of explaining it, of course if you give a scenario, that is what you are going to get replies about.

im not sure how im getting defensive or argumentative ive been pretty straight foreword thought out... there is nothing to enlighten you about im not sitting on some holy grail of information.. you replied quote the most basic explanation of what i was trying to discuss if you cant get that i cant really do anything else without getting dragged into making up scenarios and thats when everyone gets confused.

everyone has their own set of personal rules for choosing girls to punt with and where. i just wanted to know if the proximity of a girl could make you bend or alter these rules, one person understood the assignment and gave a view i hadnt thought of... the ease of access to a girl you like could cause you to bend a rule you might have of only seeing one girl a month to possibly 2 or 3 times a month which could be considered a benefit at first but if it starts effecting you financially and socially then its not a benefit

Offline MissWolf

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its not changing the goalpost because im not trying to prove a point... im giving different scenarios because you lot are struggling to understand the discussion i was trying to start. you dont speak for everyone mate which is why i was opening the discussion to see if there were people out there whos minds could be changed

do people not drive to meets?

this isnt rocket science when i orignally opened the thread it was to invite a discussion about if proximity could affect the hard rules you set before you first start punting but because people didnt understand that i tried to give scenarios and you have all got hung up on the particular scenarios and telling me why it doesnt make sense or work for YOU which is fine but there is a bigger point trying to be made here

Your original post is below, the only bits even bordering on an attempt to open a discussion are the first and last line, poorly done btw.

The bold is the bit you keep trying to wriggle out of, you probably won't book her, not because of discretion cos that clearly doesn't matter to you and anyway your able to threaten her into some discretion with the police  :dash:

I'm a bloody working girl and I'm telling you IMO I wouldn't want anything to do with a guy living in the same building as it breaks my screening process ffs  :dash: :dash:

I know all the tips suggest not punting near home but ive always wondered does there come a point when it actually becomes a benefit?

There's a girl i have always suspected was an escort living 2 floors below me. i have always suspected as when i did see her it would always be 2 or 3 times a day in different skimpy outfits at very suspect times 7AM, 4PM, 2AM and she always looked off her face. but ive just confirmed it as i have stumbled across her AW profile and it says shes touring here so im guessing this is a regular touring location for her. it would also explain why i would see her so much in a short space of time and then nothing for a while.

The main cons are being outed and being seen right? but with her being this close being seen isnt an issue as i live here (LOL) but does this now give me enough leverage to not have to worry about being outed as i can do the same to her to the police and with the neighbours do you think WGs think like that ?

im about 80/20 that im not going to book her

would be nice to know what you guys think though

Offline bundaskwilz

Now then sweetie do not call me obtuse as I am far from that.

I only used most because I worked from 1 without a buzz entry,  FYI I got caught out by the cleaner and thrown out with threats, I never work without one now, I cannot vouch for others but I would suggest of those that tour a buzz entry is a requirement if hiring an apartment.

I expect my clients to call when they are OUTSIDE OF THE BUILDING  I then give them an apartment number and they need to buzz that for me to let them in, that in your scenarios would require you or whoever to go outside of your/their own building for me to buzz them back in.

I'm not sure why you are now adding twaddle like 0 feedback etc it has nothing to do with your OP, but then most of what came after doesn't either so go figure  :unknown:

You are the one who is being obtuse and is moving the goal posts with everything you type because you know what your asking is the same as this thread, you just don't have big enough balls to admit that.

for starters you lowered the level of this interaction with your shady comment "is school out" if you cant take it dont dish it out.
secondly you have just told me you worked from 1 that had NO buzzer so why you would use this as an argument to speak on behalf of everyone is beyond me.

if you follow the quotes back you will see it leads you to the post where is said

"Another example based around different reasons.

lets say you have no issue with discretion and are happy to punt anywhere but you fear being setup or robbed by a new WG with 0 feedback or ratings. if a new girl popped up and was in the same block of flats as yourself does that fear still exist?"


i didnt just add this it was the main part of the scenario albeit its the 2nd scenario i used to try and explain my point.

and lastly what the hell are you on about ? i said to the moderator that merged it that i didnt realise this thread existed and i thought it was just thread of people talking about how close they live to WG im not arguing about it being in the wrong place or me placing it the wrong place. you are being confrontational for no reason.

MY OP was simply asking if proximity could make you change the personal rules you set for punting and that can be any rule change. i used discretion and safety as examples i believe those are the main reasons why people set these personal rules im sure i even said "these are the main reasons rights ?"

i dont want to get caught up in petty arguments. so il try and get this back on track by asking the question in its simplest form no examples or scenarios.

"Could a WG living in the same tower block OR street as you make you change your own personal punting rules"