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https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=325935.0I agree with Moby Dick (MD) that it's strange that this girl is not owning up to doing this party on her profile.
This greedy girls' party can in no way be described as a gentle come back.
Whilst in a previous post I suggested I might be interested in attending this party, on reflection my overriding attitude to parties like this hasn't changed.
MD has asked me on several occasions why I think parties like this are dodgy so I will attempt to answer his question.
Firstly, why it is dodgy for the girls:
First and foremost - the guys are not checked or vetted in any way whatsoever.
All you need to do to get an invite is provide an email address, which of course can be entirely anonymous and that's it.
This operation, whilst advertised on aw, is carried out completely separately to aw, so, in effect, the guys' feedback is hidden.
They could be stalkers, abusers, not particularly clean, pretty much anything really.
The point is they are not invited guests, if you provide a £50 deposit if you're new or just an email address if you've been before, you can go. No ifs, no buts, no maybes, anyone can go.
That is clearly risky for the girls.
The hygiene for the girls in a multi guy situation is clearly more of an issue than with one to ones. With so many guys, I'm pretty sure it's harder for the girls to control the hygiene side of things and to say otherwise is disingenuous.
This is why I don't like to see girls who do parties as in my view they have an unfortunate attitude to risk.
This thread is a discussion about how this girl and her associates were said to have an unfortunate attitude to due diligence, which pretty much proves my point.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=260655.msg2672019#msg2672019Clearly this girl's attitude to risk has not improved.
Why it is dodgy for the guys:
You are exposed to other unvetted/unchecked guys in the most direct way - exchange of bodily fluids via the girl for one.
And for me, this a private hobby and discretion is paramount. Being seen and potentially recognised in a compromising situation where there might be 20 guys or more is a non starter for me.
But of course I get it, some guys like it, some guys clearly have a more blasé attitude to risk than me.
And, honestly, I would much rather fuck women than watch other guys fuck women.
But again I acknowledge that is a matter of personal taste.
MD is on record as saying these parties attract dirty grandpas and frankly that is absolutely not my scene but evidently it is his and others who have commented on my posts. Maybe that's what he and the others are - who knows. We are all just words on a page on this forum.
Again, it's a matter of personal choice I get that but I've never been one for this kind of vicarious enjoyment.
Why pay to watch other guys enjoying themselves? It seems singularly pointless and somewhat sad to me.
But, each to their own. It's just not for me.
I hope that adequately explains my position.
Do me a favour and don't engage in mindless abuse if you disagree with me, let's have a rational discourse if you wish.
I have been abusive in some of my posts I admit but that has invariably been in direct response to abusive, often bigoted and quite often moronic comments by guys hiding behind their keyboards.
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