Dakota goes down- Theft and Knife - Havant

[ooerrmissus]

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 Dakota goes down - Havant


I feel I have to warn my fellow punters of Theft and the sinister side involving a Knife and Pimps.
I am not a big time punter, more into the massage with a few extras from the Oriental Lady’s. Occasionally I’ll punt for a quick Pump and Dump to get it out of my System.
I have had a couple of BJ’s off Dakota and thought I would give it a suck and Fuck £50.
Location :
Tower Blocks off New Lane Havant. Scabby Flat, clothes everywhere and the stench of drugs in the air. Front door looked like it had been kicked a few times and always kept you waiting before buzzing you in.

Comms:
She constantly calls at silly hours and offers deals. My punting phone is well hidden and constantly on silent. She moans she cannot text and using her personal phone.

What’s she like:
 English-chav.Her pictures are very vague but she is probably lost half her body weight and tits that are empty sacks. Always seemed to have bruises claiming a punter did this, hasn’t eaten because her child is in hospital or she fell over on the way to the social. To be fair I saw no needle tracks and assumed she liked to smoke wacky Backy.
She always wanted a drink before we started, complained it was too hot and constantly slurped from a bottle. Still a good gobble.

This Time.
Bit of texting to confirm price and my requirements. I wanted her to confirm she had condoms as I didn’t want a skanky bird making excuses. All good.
Parked around the corner and called, made me wait 10 minutes. I was just going to text to say ‘Too long, I’ve left’ and she buzzed me in. Got outside her Flat and called to say I was there. Another five minutes looking like a dick in the corridor.
You walk past a child’s pushchair and I know she has a dog on your way to the bedroom,
handed over Lizzies as normal and she said she was going for a drink. 20 minutes later! I called out her name and her small yappy dog went mad from, what I assume was a front room. She then came out calling me out of order and she’s doesn’t want more complaints from her neighbours about the dog and then returned to the front room- door shut.
She then text me! Says she feels uncomfortable and wanted me to leave. I replied no problem, just give me back my money. Obviously I realised this wasn’t going to happen. She just kept texting to leave and how dare I ask for the money back. Then she text saying  ‘He’ wouldn’t give the money back as he needs to be paid. I figured out she had a Pimp (no sign on previous occasions). I went to the front room, knocked and asked for my money and stop being silly as I was a local and not to treat me like a fool. The door opened and a mixed race guy was there and another chap sitting down in a cloud of smoke and semi darkness. He said you better leave and she was on the phone trying to call for back up. Normally I might have kicked off but I did notice a what I would describe as large Bowie knife on the left side of the table next to the guy sitting down and figured It ‘aint worth it.
I made my way, escorted by the mixed race Guy, to the door.
Sorry if that’s a bit Boring but I had to share.
The lesson learnt: WG are quirky and occasionally have bad habits but this felt very uneasy and I’m sure this could have escalated in a non positive way.
Yes- I feel a little silly that a few warning signs should have made me do a Linford Christie but pleased I didn’t try to be a superhero.
The tips I’ve picked up here like a burner phone, no identifying clothing, false name and parking well away from the address has been a Godsend.
Revenge? No point in harming her but that’s not to say I won’t make her life uncomfortable in a non violent manner. Excuse the Liam Neeson comment, but I have a particular set of skills.

[timsussex]

very useful as I WAS thinking of visiting - perhaps against my better judgement

I saw Dakota about 3 or 4 years ago - she was difficult to contact and when I eventually got to see her around noon she had just come out of the shower - her hair was still wet and she made no effort to dry it. I felt she had probably rolled out of bed 15 minutes before and into the shower.

She was quite open about her weed use - at least she didn't light up her joint until after the deed (she was a decent shag) but I rapidly got the feeling that she was involved in or had friends involved in the murkier side of life. At the time she was spending time in Bournemouth and she made it clear that she could obtain most things if I was interested.

Then she disappeared for a couple of years (at her Majesty's pleasure perhaps??  I did wonder) then she reappeared for a coupe of weekends and now she's back - but I won't be visiting

 

[Waterhouse]

If you already knew she was a skank and possible druggie from your first meet with her, why on God's Earth would you consider ever going back?   Was it because she was cheap?  Did she even remember you from the previous sessions/blowies? 

Suspect you've learnt a painful lesson now. Hope you have better luck next time.

[timsussex]

If you already knew she was a skank and possible druggie from your first meet with her, why on God's Earth would you consider ever going back?   Was it because she was cheap?  Did she even remember you from the previous sessions/blowies? 

Suspect you've learnt a painful lesson now. Hope you have better luck next time.

I can understand the OP
1) she was a decent shag
2) she is cheap
3) there were no signs of anyone else when I was there
4) Quite a few WGs have a less than perfect homes/friends/habits

but it sounds like she has gone downhill a LONG way since I saw her

[Waterhouse]

but it sounds like she has gone downhill a LONG way since I saw her

Does seem to be.  Main thing OP was not hurt.

For me both the lady and the place has to be spotless and clean with decent facilities or I'd never return for a second meet.

[Fuzzyduck]

I can understand the OP
1) she was a decent shag
2) she is cheap
3) there were no signs of anyone else when I was there
4) Quite a few WGs have a less than perfect homes/friends/habits

but it sounds like she has gone downhill a LONG way since I saw her

I can understand that too, but all the signs are there that she's a high risk punt. Calling at silly hours with deals = a desperate user. Desperate users attract shady characters. You can work out the rest. Luckily for me I absolutely detest the smell of weed so wouldn't have even contemplated in the first place after a quick glance of the reviews.

Thanks for the review OP. You talk about some form of payback, which I totally get, but what would you really gain from it? Leaving this review is the best course of action IMO. You sound pretty level headed so perhaps just chalk it down to experience and move on. If her life is made uncomfortable somehow, might she get more desperate and take far more risks herself? She plays a risky game and one day she might rip off the wrong guy. The kind who would demand their pound of flesh.

[Vice Admiral]

The girl you saw three or four years ago, timsussex, was a different Dakota, who retired from escorting several years ago.  (In her time the profile name was South Dakota.)

[winkywanky]

What a nightmare. As others have said, the desperate late night texts offering discounts, the bottle-swigging, the signs of drug use, the obvious signs of a completely chaotic life should be enough to put anyone off. I'm well aware that some guys like the seedier side of punting but this was way off the scale IMO.

And as Fuzzyduck has said, revenge, although 'sweet' is probably inadvisable. It may have serious consequences for her (a lot more serious than you losing your punt money) bearing in mind the lowlife scum she's embroiled with. Could you live with that? Don't give a shit about the scum who were in her flat when you were there, but they wouldn't be affected, she would.

Put your ego back in its box, write off the money and put it behind you.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

What a nightmare. As others have said, the desperate late night texts offering discounts, the bottle-swigging, the signs of drug use, the obvious signs of a completely chaotic life should be enough to put anyone off. I'm well aware that some guys like the seedier side of punting but this was way off the scale IMO.

And as Fuzzyduck has said, revenge, although 'sweet' is probably inadvisable. It may have serious consequences for her (a lot more serious than you losing your punt money) bearing in mind the lowlife scum she's embroiled with. Could you live with that? Don't give a shit about the scum who were in her flat when you were there, but they wouldn't be affected, she would.

Put your ego back in its box, write off the money and put it behind you.

Wise words. Sounds horrific. But chalk it up to experience and move on

[Listerlad2011]

Just goes to show you never know what's going on behind closed doors.

Lucky escape for you op. You live to punt another day!

Shame as she has pretty decent feedback on her AW profile

[whydoidothis]

It really shows just how stupid us men are. We see the signs, we know we should leave but we stay and waste £50.
I will always research in furure.

[Raven]

Shame as she has pretty decent feedback on her AW profile
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  AW feedback is as useful as a Penis at a feminist convention!!!

[timsussex]

The girl you saw three or four years ago, timsussex, was a different Dakota, who retired from escorting several years ago.  (In her time the profile name was South Dakota.)

She had several variations on the Dakota name, the AW feed back goes back 5 years however I did wonder if the profile has been 'passed on' but the pics look similar and as I said I had the feeling then that she was just at the top of a slippery slope.

[MrMatrix]

What a nightmare. As others have said, the desperate late night texts offering discounts, the bottle-swigging, the signs of drug use, the obvious signs of a completely chaotic life should be enough to put anyone off. I'm well aware that some guys like the seedier side of punting but this was way off the scale IMO.

And as Fuzzyduck has said, revenge, although 'sweet' is probably inadvisable. It may have serious consequences for her (a lot more serious than you losing your punt money) bearing in mind the lowlife scum she's embroiled with. Could you live with that? Don't give a shit about the scum who were in her flat when you were there, but they wouldn't be affected, she would.

Put your ego back in its box, write off the money and put it behind you.

Thanks for the review and heads up OP. I was in a similar situation long time ago and decided to walk and keep my self in tact so to speak, I was seriously pissed of for a couple of weeks. But eventually I moved on.
Have you updated the punting Wiki as a dangerous escort. Lets be honest it could have been a lot worse.
Put it down to experience and move on and thaks for letting us all know

[ooerrmissus]

Thanks Guys,
Yep, one for the scrapbook. Thought I would share and lets me remember if things are a little out of place.......move on. Guess my little fella clouded my judgement.
Keep safe out there.
 

[Vice Admiral]

She had several variations on the Dakota name, the AW feed back goes back 5 years however I did wonder if the profile has been 'passed on' but the pics look similar and as I said I had the feeling then that she was just at the top of a slippery slope.

Before she was South Dakota, Dakota No. 1 had various other profiles, notably Fleur de Nuit. In her prime (the early years of this decade) Fleur / Dakota was – in the opinion of the Vice Admiral, and indeed of quite a few of his crew – pretty well as good as it gets in the escorting game. But drugs were always a problem, and she gradually became less organised and less committed, until finally she retired.

Dakota No. 2 is seven or eight years younger. Again drugs are a problem, and my guess is that the man “who wouldn’t give the money back as he needed to be paid” during Ooerrmissus's memorable visit to the badlands of Leigh Park was not a pimp but a drug dealer.

[timsussex]

Yes Dakota was Fleur at one time, the various profiles all share similar styles and this one has now disappeared from AW.

It may not be the same girl I saw (the pics aren't very good ) but it was the profile I contacted; perhaps the Pimp has yet another girl - but regardless of that this is clearly one to avoid

[scutty brown]

I've been in similar situations in Blackpool, but always managed to avoid the risk of violence.
I think you'll find the two guys were drug dealers who'd been called as soon as she knew you were coming.
They were waiting for you to hand over the cash: as soon as she got it from you, she passed it to them and scored. That's why she couldn't give you the money back, she'd spent it.
You say she's often bruised - I'd suggest that's due to intramuscular injections of cocaine, some people inject that way rather than into a vein. Leaves bruises, and often ulcers.
The odd-hours calls are another indication she's a druggie after quick cash.

The clues are all there, you knew the girl was bad news, you're a fucking idiot taking a risk with your life. Just remember that sharing needles for drugs is a higher risk factor in contracting HIV and the various hepatitis forms than bareback sex. There's a high risk with her, get yourself to the clinic for checks - including hep and HIV


































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[Vice Admiral]

I see that Dakota Goes Down's profile has, erm, gone down.

Is this the curse of Ooerrmissus?

[NotATrumpFan]

Before she was South Dakota, Dakota No. 1 had various other profiles, notably Fleur de Nuit.

Well thats good to know.  She was on my hotlist but i will move her into my blacklist/caution folder now.

[Vice Admiral]

These pictures are not of the Dakota in question, but of an earlier Dakota!  (See my post a little higher up this thread.)

Dakota No.1 (aka Fleur de Nuit) – the girl in these photos – retired from escorting long ago.

In the interests of fair play, NotATrumpFan, you might therefore perhaps consider asking for them to be removed?

But up to you, obviously!

[NotATrumpFan]

These pictures are not of the Dakota in question, but of an earlier Dakota!  (See my post a little higher up this thread.)

Dakota No.1 (aka Fleur de Nuit) – the girl in these photos – retired from escorting long ago.

In the interests of fair play, NotATrumpFan, you might therefore perhaps consider asking for them to be removed?

But up to you, obviously!

Ah fair enough, a mis-understanding.  If an admin wants to bin them feel free.  But i think your post clarifies the point well enough.  (Thats one frustration I have with this place.. the lack of ability to edit posts).

[Fuzzyduck]

Ah fair enough, a mis-understanding.  If an admin wants to bin them feel free.  But i think your post clarifies the point well enough.  (Thats one frustration I have with this place.. the lack of ability to edit posts).

I hope you see the irony of what you have said and your username. You have 15 minutes to correct any errors but I think it's very dangerous to allow people to edit their posts after that.

[timsussex]

Would be nice if the OP could look at the pics and confirm that he saw a different lady

Regardless of that the original profile and the latest one seemed to be written by the same hand (=pimp)

[scutty brown]

These pictures are not of the Dakota in question, but of an earlier Dakota!  (See my post a little higher up this thread.)

Dakota No.1 (aka Fleur de Nuit) – the girl in these photos – retired from escorting long ago.

In the interests of fair play, NotATrumpFan, you might therefore perhaps consider asking for them to be removed?

But up to you, obviously!

they've been removed now

[Vice Admiral]

That's good – I didn't feel it was right that Dakota No. 1 (who was known as South Dakota) should be arraigned for the crimes of Dakota No. 2 (Dakota Goes Down)!

[mattylondon]

I can understand that too, but all the signs are there that she's a high risk punt. Calling at silly hours with deals = a desperate user. Desperate users attract shady characters. You can work out the rest. Luckily for me I absolutely detest the smell of weed so wouldn't have even contemplated in the first place after a quick glance of the reviews.

I agree with what's been posted above.

And I say this as somebody who enjoys a deal and punts as cheaply as is possible. And with some occasional dodgy characters. When you do that, especially with a cheap, desperate skank or somebody who's inevitably going to attract dodgy company through their lifestyle, you pays your money and you takes your choice... and all the risks.

All the warning signs were there... shit hole of a place, extremely disorganized and unreliable, indiscreet and desperate texts at random times for business, bruises clearly from drug use.

They're the type of people who you meet on neutral ground, IMO. Preferably as a car/outdoor meet, place of your own choosing, not hers. Certainly not in your own place and probably not in a hotel either.

Good that the SP warned others though...