Escort wasted my time and asked me not to write a bad review

[Cee92]

I went to see an escort today with a glowing reputation on here. I agreed a time and arrived promptly however she asked me to wait 1 min when i told her i had arrived. 1 min turned into almost 20 with no response to my messages asking how long she would be.

Eventually she said come up, i got to her flat and saw she wasn't even worth it. On top of that she had a towel wrapped around her and had just come out of the shower. Putting two and two together i realised she had me wait in my car for over 20 mins whilst she serviced another punter and quickly rinsed the jizz stains off in the shower ready to start over again with me before the previous punter could even make it back to his car.

Understandably, this has peed me off to no end so i told her i wasn't staying and left. I then messaged her to let her know that i wasn't happy with the way she treated me and i would be making others in the community aware to avoid wasting their time. (note, i didn't mention UKPunting) She then messages me back the attached pic.

So on to my reasoning for creating this post. Based on what you have read detailing my experience and the service providers sob story response, do you think she should be outed? Let me know your thoughts...

I am not one for purposely ruining someones hustle, especially if they are really trying to earn money to support their family but at the same time, i feel that it's important to highlight any bad experiences we have with an SP regardless of their personal circumstances. Thanks for taking the time to read/respond 

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[Billy no mates]

Review, 1 million percent.


Also her text is disrespectful and flippant.

[finn5555]

Bullshit sob story I would write a review 

[Adoniron]

Difficult one.

It was obvious she was stringing you along because she was with another punter and you would have been well within your rights not to wait for her.

In those circumstances having decided to go through with the meeting I would have been more bothered if she hadn't just had a shower.

Having got up into the flat I would have gone through with the meeting but I respect your right not to

I agree you should do a full review.

[lillythesavage]

I went to see an escort today with a glowing reputation on here. I agreed a time and arrived promptly however she asked me to wait 1 min when i told her i had arrived. 1 min turned into almost 20 with no response to my messages asking how long she would be.

Eventually she said come up, i got to her flat and saw she wasn't even worth it. On top of that she had a towel wrapped around her and had just come out of the shower. Putting two and two together i realised she had me wait in my car for over 20 mins whilst she serviced another punter and quickly rinsed the jizz stains off in the shower ready to start over again with me before the previous punter could even make it back to his car.

Understandably, this has peed me off to no end so i told her i wasn't staying and left. I then messaged her to let her know that i wasn't happy with the way she treated me and i would be making others in the community aware to avoid wasting their time. (note, i didn't mention UKPunting) She then messages me back the attached pic.

So on to my reasoning for creating this post. Based on what you have read detailing my experience and the service providers sob story response, do you think she should be outed? Let me know your thoughts...

I am not one for purposely ruining someones hustle, especially if they are really trying to earn money to support their family but at the same time, i feel that it's important to highlight any bad experiences we have with an SP regardless of their personal circumstances. Thanks for taking the time to read/respond 

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Maybe things over ran a little and she needed time to shower, would you have moaned more if she had not?, and your constant messaging made her open the door in a towel to stop it and keep you happy.

Shit happens, they have other punters before you, not everyone turns up or leaves on time, there is not a timetable 

Seems to me there was no pleasing you, you chose to wait while chasing her, got out of the shower and let you in  Yet you do not mention seeing another punter leave?

Leave a review as you see fit, you brought the subject up, a bit of time in this game happens, you chose to wait or move on, choosing to wait and winding yourself up is pointless 

[Cee92]

Review, 1 million percent.


Also her text is disrespectful and flippant.

Agreed. Calling me an asshole is defo uncalled for considering the way she treated me. Just adds insult to injury and make it more likely that i will make others aware.

[FiveKnuckles]

Will you be going back another day?

If the answer is maybe/yes, then you're a twat and attention seeking. 

The answer is always 100% review the bad experiences to save the 🐯 cubs that follow.

[Cee92]

Bullshit sob story I would write a review 

More than likely BS agreed, the point of this website is to warn others about crappy service as well as highlight the excellent so either way she's getting exposed.

[Cee92]

Difficult one.

It was obvious she was stringing you along because she was with another punter and you would have been well within your rights not to wait for her.

In those circumstances having decided to go through with the meeting I would have been more bothered if she hadn't just had a shower.

Having got up into the flat I would have gone through with the meeting but I respect your right not to

I agree you should do a full review.

Of course, her deciding to shower is probably the only positive i can give her. However, it also indicates that she just got done with someone minutes before i walked in the door which is unacceptable imo.

[Cee92]

Maybe things over ran a little and she needed time to shower, would you have moaned more if she had not?, and your constant messaging made her open the door in a towel to stop it and keep you happy.

Shit happens, they have other punters before you, not everyone turns up or leaves on time, there is not a timetable 

Seems to me there was no pleasing you, you chose to wait while chasing her, got out of the shower and let you in  Yet you do not mention seeing another punter leave?

Leave a review as you see fit, you brought the subject up, a bit of time in this game happens, you chose to wait or move on, choosing to wait and winding yourself up is pointless 

In my defense, she has great reviews on here and based on the the prices of current sps and their endless extras, she was well worth the price she was asking. That is solely what motivated me waiting. As for her "finishing up with someone", if we have agreed a time should that even be the case? I think not. Also i messaged twice in the 20 min period i waited, she wasn't badgered with messages as you have wrongly assumed.

[versace]

Write a review mate, that’s a made up sob story.

[PLeisure]

I think you need to ask yourself - what if you agree and she then thinks, 'it's OK to treat other punters that way'.
Another UKP member comes along and has the same experience.

The strength of this site is that we can pre-warn punters of this sort of nonsense 

Best case scenario - she realises this is not good business practice. Her message to you part acknowledges this.

Your call, OP 

[Cee92]

Will you be going back another day?

If the answer is maybe/yes, then you're a twat and attention seeking. 

The answer is always 100% review the bad experiences to save the 🐯 cubs that follow.

Will i be going back? Hell no, fool me once and all that. She wasn't even that attractive irl which annoyed me even more. Agreed, she needs to be exposed for her poor service providing or lack there of.

[Cee92]

I think you need to ask yourself - what if you agree and she then thinks, 'it's OK to treat other punters that way'.
Another UKP member comes along and has the same experience.

The strength of this site is that we can pre-warn punters of this sort of nonsense 

Best case scenario - she realises this is not good business practice. Her message to you part acknowledges this.

Your call, OP 

My thoughts exactly, at the end of the day my loyalty lies with the UKpunting community and the information shared on here that helps us all. Not the Sp who couldn't even be bothered to let me know she was busy.

[alabama1]

Will i be going back? Hell no, fool me once and all that. She wasn't even that attractive irl which annoyed me even more. Agreed, she needs to be exposed for her poor service providing or lack there of.

Who is she then 

[Poopster]

I'd have just written a review and never contacted her again.  But playing devil's advocate, you did behave a bit like an asshole by threatening to "tell the community".  If you leave a negative, just do it and leave it at that instead of creating bad feeling between the two of you.

[MissWolf]

I went to see an escort today with a glowing reputation on here. I agreed a time and arrived promptly however she asked me to wait 1 min when i told her i had arrived. 1 min turned into almost 20 with no response to my messages asking how long she would be.

Eventually she said come up, i got to her flat and saw she wasn't even worth it. On top of that she had a towel wrapped around her and had just come out of the shower. Putting two and two together i realised she had me wait in my car for over 20 mins whilst she serviced another punter and quickly rinsed the jizz stains off in the shower ready to start over again with me before the previous punter could even make it back to his car.

Understandably, this has peed me off to no end so i told her i wasn't staying and left. I then messaged her to let her know that i wasn't happy with the way she treated me and i would be making others in the community aware to avoid wasting their time. (note, i didn't mention UKPunting) She then messages me back the attached pic.

So on to my reasoning for creating this post. Based on what you have read detailing my experience and the service providers sob story response, do you think she should be outed? Let me know your thoughts...

I am not one for purposely ruining someones hustle, especially if they are really trying to earn money to support their family but at the same time, i feel that it's important to highlight any bad experiences we have with an SP regardless of their personal circumstances. Thanks for taking the time to read/respond 

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I'm not disagreeing that the wg was at fault here for making the op wait,  although she may just have overrun with a difficult client,  we don't know but at least she had a shower.

So the highlighted bit in bold bothers me, he didn't like her so didn't stay, his absolute right to do that, his next move should have been to come here and review her.

However he didn't he decided to message her, unprompted because he was angry and told her he was going to 'make the community aware' he didn't name ukp but he knows full well he didn't need to, just the threat and that was a direct threat was enough, she would have known exactly where he was talking about.

It's funny we only have her replies not the I'm going to give you a bad review texts as that may change the whole context

[Cee92]

Write a review mate, that’s a made up sob story.

Trust me, a bad review is imminent my friend 

[pbrown355]

Write a review. If you include all the info you have already given people can make up their own minds what they think.
If you don't write one, what are we (especially you) all doing here.

[FiveKnuckles]

@Cee92 the issue with asking that type of question is you'll lose credibility on here.
#1 you shouldn't message her to say you'll leave a review of any type.   It comes across like you're seeking favours.

If she said "come back and I let you fuck my bare pussy",. Do drop everything and go back?

Don't let SP influence your reviews.

[MissWolf]

Agreed. Calling me an asshole is defo uncalled for considering the way she treated me. Just adds insult to injury and make it more likely that i will make others aware.

She didn't call you an asshole  she asked you not to be one, there's a difference

[Cee92]

I'd have just written a review and never contacted her again.  But playing devil's advocate, you did behave a bit like an asshole by threatening to "tell the community".  If you leave a negative, just do it and leave it at that instead of creating bad feeling between the two of you.

Agreed, i didn't really need to let her know that i would be reporting her to others but at the time i was very annoyed with the way she treated me.

[finn5555]

She didn't call you an asshole  she asked you not to be one, there's a difference

Semantics, meant the same thing in her text

[Cee92]

I'm not disagreeing that the wg was at fault here for making the op wait,  although she may just have overrun with a difficult client,  we don't know but at least she had a shower.

So the highlighted bit in bold bothers me, he didn't like her so didn't stay, his absolute right to do that, his next move should have been to come here and review her.

However he didn't he decided to message her, unprompted because he was angry and told her he was going to 'make the community aware' he didn't name ukp but he knows full well he didn't need to, just the threat and that was a direct threat was enough, she would have known exactly where he was talking about.

It's funny we only have her replies not the I'm going to give you a bad review texts as that may change the whole context

But should she not managed her bookings accordingly in order to ensure that doesn't happen in the first place or am i at fault for being annoyed at her obvious conveyor belt operation after agreeing a time with her?

Of course i didn't need to mention that i would be badly reviewing her, i don't just go around saying that to every sp that gives me a bad time or fucks me over. In this instance it was a multitude of negatives that cause me to get that worked up. Granted i completely agree i let me emotions get the better of me on this occasion, i am human and don't enjoy my time/money being wasted. Please don't be biased due to your position. Call it out for what it is, mistreatment of a client.

[Cee92]

@Cee92 the issue with asking that type of question is you'll lose credibility on here.
#1 you shouldn't message her to say you'll leave a review of any type.   It comes across like you're seeking favours.

If she said "come back and I let you fuck my bare pussy",. Do drop everything and go back?

Don't let SP influence your reviews.

Honestly, if she proposed that i would have included a BB warning in my upcoming review lol. Agreed the threat of a bad report was unneccesary but motivated.

[Poopster]

Agreed, i didn't really need to let her know that i would be reporting her to others but at the time i was very annoyed with the way she treated me.

It's refreshing to see a bit of humility here. 

You should be annoyed, absolutely, and a negative review should follow for the timewasting, although I wouldn't haul her over the coals for calling you an asshole, she was reacting to what she saw, for right or wrong.  And I wouldn't jump to conclusions about her lateness, there are any number of reasonable excuses although on balance of probability it was because she was cleaning up after a previous punt over-ran; she'd have offered up an explanation otherwise. 

Negative review for timewasting, leave it at that.

[Lou2019]

With the threat of exposing her to the community was you hoping for a freebie or something? It almost reads like blackmail? From what I’ve seen on other similar ish threads this type of behaviour doesn’t necessarily go down well with your fellow SS, just an observation from the otherside.
Surely just a negative review would have sufficed 

[Cee92]

Who is she then 

Alexandra Black, A hungarian based in Wimbledon Park, South London. Review is otw.

[big-al93]

Personally I'd review, however I wouldn't have told her I was going to, this is probably the most likely place for you to let the community know.

I'd also like to point out that she has not yet called you an asshole, just requested that you not become one by leaving a review. This would not sway me not to review, in fact it would probably push me towards it.

I hope there was more reason to walk than the timekeeping (since you decided to wait, even if you later thought that you shouldn't have) and just being out of the shower, her intention may have been, since she was late, was to let you in and allow you to chose her outfit.

Either way, the sob story and text asking not to review are enough reason to write it up imho. If she is that worried about her income, for any reason, she shouldn't be messing her customers around.

It's important to review well reviewed girls as service standards can slip. plenty of reviews will show if it's a one off or a steady decline.

[MissWolf]

But should she not managed her bookings accordingly in order to ensure that doesn't happen in the first place or am i at fault for being annoyed at her obvious conveyor belt operation after agreeing a time with her?

Of course i didn't need to mention that i would be badly reviewing her, i don't just go around saying that to every sp that gives me a bad time or fucks me over. In this instance it was a multitude of negatives that cause me to get that worked up. Granted i completely agree i let me emotions get the better of me on this occasion, i am human and don't enjoy my time/money being wasted. Please don't be biased due to your position. Call it out for what it is, mistreatment of a client.

I'm not saying she wasn't at fault,  I'm agreeing with you it's bad time management,  how that came about we don't and can't know.

I'm glad you get that your actions and emotions led to you making unnecessary and unfortunate decisions in regards to the message you sent.

We can all learn from stuff like this

[Poopster]

It's refreshing to see a bit of humility here. 

You should be annoyed, absolutely, and a negative review should follow for the timewasting, although I wouldn't haul her over the coals for calling you an asshole, she was reacting to what she saw, for right or wrong.  And I wouldn't jump to conclusions about her lateness, there are any number of reasonable excuses although on balance of probability it was because she was cleaning up after a previous punt over-ran; she'd have offered up an explanation otherwise. 

Negative review for timewasting, leave it at that.

Actually, having read MissWolf's post, I'm changing my mind.  You waited and went still went to the booking, I don't think it is fair game to leave a neg for a booking you walked from. 

[Cee92]

With the threat of exposing her to the community was you hoping for a freebie or something? From what I’ve seen on other similar ish threads this type of behaviour doesn’t necessarily go down well with your fellow SS, just an observation.

Of course, i just love going around threatening service providers in to having sex with me. Its a fetish of mine.

Ask yourself, would i be on here asking others for aid in deciding wether or not to negatively impact her business if i was the type of guy to go around threatening sps in exchange for sexual favours? Shows what you think of most punters imo.

[tynetunnel]

You should simply have walked, and written your review on here. Absolutely no need to message her about “making the community aware” - you risk outing yourself, and losing credibility imho

[mr.bluesky]

Chances are she saw another punter before you because she tried to squeeze in another booking before yours or her previous booking turned up late and over ran . Maybe she should have been honest and upfront with you in the first place. Your not the first person this will happen to and you won't be the last. If you want to post a negative review then go ahead but if she has your number and she reads it on here you maybe letting yourself into a world of grief from her. Devil if you do, Devil if you don't  At least you could wait in your car, I would be really pissed of if I travelled by public transport and you had to wait outside in the rain or cold.

[JD1]

News flash - cheap EE providers do back to back bookings.

I think you’re being a bit dramatic but just leave your review and get it over with.

[Lou2019]

Of course, i just love going around threatening service providers in to having sex with me. Its a fetish of mine.

Ask yourself, would i be on here asking others for aid in deciding wether or not to negatively impact her business if i was the type of guy to go around threatening sps in exchange for sexual favours? Shows what you think of most punters imo.

We’ve seen all sorts of behaviours here so you never can tell 

Your last sentence, don’t see what you’re getting at there. I’m taking, it was just a bit of a dig at you didn’t like my comment.

[finn5555]

Not sure what the fuss is about
She fucked you around
Leave a review
Job done

Plenty of other punters out there so she isn’t going to go skint 

[AffAlchemist]

8 of your 11 reviews are negative
You didn’t have an issue leaving those reviews so why now?
I’d suggest changing your punting strategy

[daviemac]

I would be making others in the community aware to avoid wasting their time. (note, i didn't mention UKPunting) She then messages me back the attached pic.

So on to my reasoning for creating this post. Based on what you have read detailing my experience and the service providers sob story response, do you think she should be outed? Let me know your thoughts...

I think you've got the wrong idea about this site, it is not the done thing to threaten SPs with bad reviews, UKP is the biggest review site in the country so I don't think you would need to mention it by name for her to know what 'community' you were referring to.

Her's or our thoughts have nothing to do with it, as a member of a site that puts the interest of punters first and one where posting reviews is a requirement of being a member, you should have posted a review to help others instead of starting this pointless thread.

Remember those who use UKP as any kind of tool against SP get banned it is not what we are here for.

[luv2kiss54]

This shit happens all the time in punting. A booking is often only honoured by luck ie if no one else turns up to take your slot especially the cheap EE girls, unfortunately it comes with the territory. A review needs to be done to record it for others considering making a booking, thats what this site is about. You should also say why you didnt like her look when she was before you. You were also in the wrong for sending her that threatening text but we all get frustrated and do things we regret in the spur of the moment.

[scutty brown]

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So you went to see a  cheap Hungarian girl with unrepresentative photos and an AW profile obviously written by a pimp. What did you expect?
She's probably trafficked in some form or other so back-to-back bookings will be par for the course: they'll grab the first money thrown at them. Delays are inherent in the deal. If you can't accept that then change the kind of women you see.
The big question is who wrote the text? Was it her lover-boy pimp, or was it herself trying to avoid a kicking from him??

Having said that, I see she has two positives already

[cunningman]

Of course, her deciding to shower is probably the only positive i can give her. However, it also indicates that she just got done with someone minutes before i walked in the door which is unacceptable imo.

I had the same today but was less understanding given that I had purposefully tried to give her time between punters.

But I did not engage beyond the below, I'm not getting the image upload.
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I wanted to make a point.  Threatening reviews is a bad thing, I tried to warn an SP once that she was going to get one for being flaky (and that another punter was going to do it - I'd had good service and liked her) and it went to shit in a way I had not expected and regret.  Best just to walk off.  She's not completed my AW booking and I'll probably leave it, I've warned on here and that's enough for me.





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[Billy no mates]

Semantics, meant the same thing in her text

Agree with this, she passively, indirectly called him an arsehole.

[Blackcat25]

I really wouldn’t have bothered to start this thread or text/tell her about informing the community.

Cut the drama and just write an honest review with link so punters can make their own mind up, if they are looking to book this lady.

[stevesucks69]

FFS just do it and be done with all this drama!

[Coriniumstud]

Write a review
Anyone who says mom instead of mum needs to be called out
Unless they’re American 

[Atrueyorkie]

I don’t think it’s blackmail. He didn’t negotiate or try and obtain something in return for not “outing” said WG. He wouldn’t have consulted here first if that was his intention.

If you take it from a purely outside view. This site is for reviewing experiences/punts. So you’re within your right to review that punt.

It was a bit silly to not expect her to put two and two together when you said the “community”. It definitely wouldn’t be the “scary almighty AW community”    who compliments a WG that looks like the hunchback of notre dame as a goddess. You didn’t need to explicitly say the site she knew from what you said where you meant.

Does go to show how much weighting ukp has.

The wording wasn’t great. You got in your emotions evidently with what we can see from you and transcript. Ideally you should have just said you’re leaving when you noted that she was running extremely late. There’s be numerous threads that the average is like 15 minutes and then they go. You seemed to be keen enough to stick around.

In short, review. You shouldn’t have said anything apart from I’m leaving it’s gonna be evident it’s you who leaves that negative though

[petermisc]

Agree with this, she passively, indirectly called him an arsehole.

But only after he had outed himself as an arsehole, by threatening her with a negative review.

As Scutty and others have said, he went to see a cheap Hungarian girl with unrepresentative photos and an AW profile obviously written by a pimp.
A conveyor-belt operation and the resultant delays are inherent in the deal.  You get what you pay for.

If he didn't like it, he should have posted a negative review to warn others.  However, by starting this thread, and by posting the screenshot of her message, she and her pimp will now know exactly who it is that has trashed her here.  A really stupid move - Hungarian pimps have a bad reputation.  It is quite possible that he will now find himself blacklisted or worse by other SPs and pimps in the same group.  Time to change his punting number, methinks, and perhaps wait awhile before he tries booking another Hungarian.

[akauya]

OP, you didn't have any trouble writing a negative review of Isabella Naughty or Mia Moroccan for messing you about.

So I don't understand why you didn't do the same with this WG and write a review straight away. What were you hoping to get by threatening her with a bad review in the "community"?

All you need to do come here and leave a negative review, no need to threaten anyone or ask other punters whether you should leave a negative review or not.

[Charlie Chalk]

It’s all a bit confused, isn’t it?

OP is kept waiting for 20 mins. Justifiability, he’s annoyed but is still prepared to go ahead when she finally gives the ok. It all seems to turn to shit when he sees her and isn’t attracted to her, that’s when he decides he doesn’t want to go ahead and thus the deciding factor is apparently her attractiveness (or lack of) and not the fact he was kept waiting. He then complains about the fact that he thinks she is doing back to back bookings despite obviously showering in between? Does it matter if she finished with the last punter 10 mins ago or 100 mins ago as long as she maintains her hygiene? Then there’s the threat of a bad review & the bs sob story.

She should have been ready on time but unfortunately delays happen. It might only take a couple of boundary-pushers to stay 5-10 mins over time to throw her timings out. That’s when she needs to look at ensuring she gets them out on time and/or spaces her bookings out more to allow for such delays.

Simple answer is post a review regardless of the WG’s wishes. Keep to the facts and in future don’t mention reviews or anything relating to the online punting community to the WG, at least you’ve admitted that you shouldn’t have done that.