Punting a working girl who is married. Does it make any difference?

[Horizontal pleasures]

of course that she has kids may not mean that she is married ....

[SJ772]

put that into reverse, married punters keeping our hobby discreetly from our wives, what is the difference? Double standards?

Yes I knew that point would come out, but in my head there are a few differences:
 1) I know a lot of guys on here are using "prossies" because they are not getting it at home, that's a little different to actually becoming a prossie yourself.
 2) You choose who you are lying to and for what reason, i don't ever want to be a third wheel to some unsuspecting poor bugger
 3) My wife knows what I do, we have an arrangement as it were.  god forbid my extended family or work colleagues ever found out I would be done for.

Each to our but if it ever transpired that my wife was not getting enough at home I'd be much happier to find out she paid some male escort to fuck her than either have an affair or become a "prossie" to get more cock.   Anyway, it takes allsorts.

[Roth]

Yes I knew that point would come out, but in my head there are a few differences:
 1) I know a lot of guys on here are using "prossies" because they are not getting it at home, that's a little different to actually becoming a prossie yourself.
 2) You choose who you are lying to and for what reason, i don't ever want to be a third wheel to some unsuspecting poor bugger
 3) My wife knows what I do, we have an arrangement as it were.  god forbid my extended family or work colleagues ever found out I would be done for.

Each to our but if it ever transpired that my wife was not getting enough at home I'd be much happier to find out she paid some male escort to fuck her than either have an affair or become a "prossie" to get more cock.   Anyway, it takes allsorts.

Usually prossie bullshit to make you think she's doing it just for sex so the punter will respect her more. Largely she's doing it for the cash not the cock. 

[Topgun]

I find it a turn on knowing she is married, or has a boyfriend. I'd just never go down on her knowing she for sure has spunk up her.
Kissing is one thing, but... oral, not for me, urgggg....
thats coming from someone who absolutely loves licking pussy.

[Marmalade]

I'm probably of a similar school of thought. Not many people respect a doormat.

For other reasons unlrelated I do not want to know about a prossies fucking kids, for example, during a punt. If she mentions it after the punt, fair enough but before or during is a huge turn off.

Fucking somebody's prossie wife, knowing that he probably doesn't like it but can do nothing about it, does have a certain appeal.

I agree. Not my kids. If she wants to talk shite after the paid time fair enough. The cuckokding thing... I'm not so intellectually unaware as to not know any woman will shag many guys. But as far as my cockpiece goes it's whether and how she's fucking when my cock is inside her that matters. Have fucked a few married women in my time and got caught once. Not my favourite role play!

But if it's all in the open and I'm getting mine for instance at an LMP then i don't get all woosy about other guys' cocks. We're all having fun together and there's plenty to go round. As long as the guys are clean and polite they're just other lumps of flesh taking up bed space. Occasionally it's possible to learn sonething new in an orgy.

[smiths]

Yes I knew that point would come out, but in my head there are a few differences:
 1) I know a lot of guys on here are using "prossies" because they are not getting it at home, that's a little different to actually becoming a prossie yourself.
 2) You choose who you are lying to and for what reason, i don't ever want to be a third wheel to some unsuspecting poor bugger
 3) My wife knows what I do, we have an arrangement as it were.  god forbid my extended family or work colleagues ever found out I would be done for.

Each to our but if it ever transpired that my wife was not getting enough at home I'd be much happier to find out she paid some male escort to fuck her than either have an affair or become a "prossie" to get more cock.   Anyway, it takes allsorts.

Personally I don't believe many if any WGs become WGs because they want more cock, they could easily get more cock without becoming WGs. Money is of course the main motivation and nothing wrong with that.

[Roth]

Personally I don't believe many if any WGs become WGs because they want more cock, they could easily get more cock without becoming WGs. Money is of course the main motivation and nothing wrong with that.

+1. 

[Marmalade]

I have zero respect for any man who condones his wife working as a prostitute ------------- for that reason I would rather not know.   

I'd rather not know, simply as 99 times out of a hundred he'll be a pimp or a lowlife cunt.

But unless you hold the institution of marriage in some hallowed respect, all it means is another guy expects to fuck her (whether he does or not). Which is pretty well the same as most punters on here that act on a good review or recommendation. Do I disrespect them? No of course not. If anything, it's a compliment to the reviewer's good taste. Or the husband's.

On the other hand, if you are thinking of the wife as his property (conscioysly or unconscioysly), which he has left so unprotected that you can violate it, then one sincerely hopes you do not "marry"!

Not picking on you in particular btw but I think it is a common British attitude, the idea of ownership of one's spouse. Would you disrespect a man who allowed his wife the freedom to fuck who she wants? If not, is it just that he is paying for her through the nose whereas you get to shaft her for a mere £60??

We are restrained by law from putting prejudice into action. Sharia enjoys the prejudice without the legal restraint.

[Roth]

I'd rather not know, simply as 99 times out of a hundred he'll be a pimp or a lowlife cunt.

But unless you hold the institution of marriage in some hallowed respect, all it means is another guy expects to fuck her (whether he does or not). Which is pretty well the same as most punters on here that act on a good review or recommendation. Do I disrespect them? No of course not. If anything, it's a compliment to the reviewer's good taste. Or the husband's.

On the other hand, if you are thinking of the wife as his property (conscioysly or unconscioysly), which he has left so unprotected that you can violate it, then one sincerely hopes you do not "marry"!

Not picking on you in particular btw but I think it is a common British attitude, the idea of ownership of one's spouse. Would you disrespect a man who allowed his wife the freedom to fuck who she wants? If not, is it just that he is paying for her through the nose whereas you get to shaft her for a mere £60??

We are restrained by law from putting prejudice into action. Sharia enjoys the prejudice without the legal restraint.

Very true. 

[howrude]

I've only had one girl tell me she was married and I've had a few telll me they've got boyfriends. The married girl was a regular and it made absolutely no difference once I found out she was married. It wasn't more of a turn-on or made me jealous or anything. It's a business transaction after all and as long as she is willing to take my dick and turn me on, then it doesn't matter. She also hinted that she was into swinging and she eventuaslly emigrated. Leading me to think that her husband was aware of what she did.

[charger70]

A couple of my regs are married or have partners.

In both cases they know what is going on, one in particular gets off over his lady being fucked by others, well what ever rocks his boat. The other also knows, and seems comfortable/ like it, although its not a conversation I've discussed with the WG concerned.

For me, I quite like the married / committed ladies, they have their lives, I have mine, and no concerns about any crossovers.

Yes, we discuss  kids etc, just like anyone in any other walk of life, everyone seems happy ! + I do get great service from these ladies.

[mattylondon]

Personally I don't believe many if any WGs become WGs because they want more cock, they could easily get more cock without becoming WGs. Money is of course the main motivation and nothing wrong with that.

It stands to reason that if they're being paid to fuck, then money is the prime motivation. Otherwise, they would fuck for free.

I have met more than a few who enjoy swinging and so enjoy both aspects. However, if it was exclusively about the sex then they'd swing like other women or simply fuck different men, without the cash element.

[chris2010]

About four years ago had several sessions with a woman from Indonesia while I was living in Lincoln. She was married and the husband took some of the money. It was some of the best sex that I ever had.

They divorced and she moved away and I think I was more upset about the divorce than he was ... probably my favourite escort lost to history.

[willmo1]

Would rather no know but its just a punt. Im more concerned about where his cock has been than where mine is going so not knowing suits me better.

[johnburton1993]

Not to me, I'm there to shag them, not propose! 

[Sparta Prada]

I have seen one wg as a semi-regular for the past couple of years. She was single for the first 18 months AFAIK and gave the raunchiest GFE I can recall.

6 months ago she told me she now had a boyfriend (I appreciate it's not the same as being married) but was still working. However the subsequent meetings - and more to the point her performance - were not so wild and willing as before, probably as she no longer felt inclined to offer the GFE to anyone but her real boyfriend! So I have made a point not to see her anymore as her performance - while still decent - is not as good as what I know it could be.

I daresay if she became single again then I'd see her again.

[Gordon Bennett]

During the hour I've paid for I don't want to hear about their OH, partner, lovers, ex's or clients in any way, shape or form. It's all about me and my escapism and I don't want my enjoyment/fantasy diluted or hampered by any titbits from their real world. I'm not thick and I realise they have outside lives aside from Escorting but I'm there to forget about the real world and thus have zero desire to hear about it.
It's only an hour so its not hard to stick to chatting about stuff like weather, telly, holidays, price of fish and there's no need to get too deep at all.

[vinnyadms]

One of my worst punts was an incall with a girl from Stoke - she used the fucking marital bedroom, his shoes were next to the bed, the book he was reading was open etc etc Should have walked, she was a shit shag as well

[Kassanova]

My most memorable sex last year was easily Luiza of Phoenix fame. I went along to a party not having met her before & was very pleasantly surprised by her. In the pre-party chit chat it transpired she was in the process of getting a divorce, a little light hearted bitching about her OH before going upstairs & giving the performance of a lifetime. I admit i got an extra kick out of fucking &being enthusiastically fucked back by this horny insatiable babe knowing that some tool of a man was losing out on such a cracker.
  The whole party she craved cock & was rarely an occasion she wasn't being teamed up on & seemingly loving every minute of it.
  Afterwards i noticed the wedding ring on her profile picture!!

[Mij]

For me it isn't an issue.......9 times out of 10 I won't even know if they are married or not.

The only time it DOES become a problem is if they then talk on and on about their home life / marriage / kids during the time I've paid for! 

[the_exile]

No, not bothered one way or the other.