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Offline Roth

Yeah, agree maybe a MMF in mind with more focus in the MM for these guys.

vorian

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Seems to me there are issues of latent homosexuality here - these cuckold guys must secretly want that cock for themselves.

I don't know maybe I suppose, never seen or heard anything to suggest that is the case. Why do you think that out of interest.

Offline mattylondon

If you weren't arsed who he was fucking as in one night stands and affairs why is it a definite no to a punter? I don't understand the difference both are fucking other woman or is the the payment issue?  :unknown:
Payment issue my arse. She's talking a load of bollocks!

Tell me then, in your case and let's be hypothetical here. What's a worst case scenario for you?

Your guy, who continues to fuck your piers, that is other prostitutes. Would you be happy with that or would it introduce an element of self doubt for you?

Or what if your man has full blown affairs? I'd personally argue that this is more damaging than punting prossies because NO PAYMENT is involved at all. It may not be just about a quick fuck, but also dinner dates, shows, cinema or long weekends away. Would any woman worth their salt tolerate that? A business transaction is bad enough but the other?

What's more damaging?
« Last Edit: February 25, 2014, 11:51:16 pm by mattylondon »

Offline mattylondon

True for most, but there are a few and I do mean a few guys that really get off on it, imho most blokes are stuck like you said and have to put up with it but a tiny amount real do get off on it on every level.
Of course. I watch them on xhamster all the time, filming their wives being drilled by BBC!! They're known as cuckolds who do enjoy it!  :D

Wiltsboy01

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I don't know maybe I suppose, never seen or heard anything to suggest that is the case. Why do you think that out of interest.

Sorry I don't have a proper answer - it just seems to me the last thing a straight guy would want is to see their woman getting banged by another guy.

Offline akauya

Seems to me there are issues of latent homosexuality here - these cuckold guys must secretly want that cock for themselves.

Maybe but I don't think so... from what I gathered during the many swinger gangbang sessions I've been to what got the men off was seeing their partner as a "dirty slut" the dirtier the better. It's a bit like those guys who watch too much porn they can't get aroused when in front of woman so they need a "porn scene" e.g. lots of guys fucking a woman to get turned on.

There are various scenarios, I've met couples where the woman was totally submissive and would do everything her man told her to, in other cases where the woman was in control and described how much she was enjoying getting fucked and sucking cocks to her husband/partner whilst the guy was jacking one off... it all varies.

More often than not though the women are very much in control. I posted somewhere before when I went to a major gangbang and two women got to fuck with dozens of men. Their husbands didn't join in at all but were there just to make sure the women were safe. One woman was totally insatiable demanded cock after cock and to top it all I think she was multi orgasmic too as she kept cumming.

So basically I think it's very difficult to say there's one reason why some men get off on seeing their women fuck lots of men. There could be a number of reasons.


Offline mattylondon

Maybe but I don't think so... from what I gathered during the many swinger gangbang sessions I've been to what got the men off was seeing their partner as a "dirty slut" the dirtier the better. It's a bit like those guys who watch too much porn they can't get aroused when in front of woman so they need a "porn scene" e.g. lots of guys fucking a woman to get turned on.

There are various scenarios, I've met couples where the woman was totally submissive and would do everything her man told her to, in other cases where the woman was in control and described how much she was enjoying getting fucked and sucking cocks to her husband/partner whilst the guy was jacking one off... it all varies.

More often than not though the women are very much in control. I posted somewhere before when I went to a major gangbang and two women got to fuck with dozens of men. Their husbands didn't join in at all but were there just to make sure the women were safe. One woman was totally insatiable demanded cock after cock and to top it all I think she was multi orgasmic too as she kept cumming.

So basically I think it's very difficult to say there's one reason why some men get off on seeing their women fuck lots of men. There could be a number of reasons.
You see. This is the critical point. Regardless of the scenario, it's the woman who's always the centre of the attention. It's the woman who, by and large, is in control. How often, at a swinger party, does the man get all the action but his woman very little?  Almost never.


vorian

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Whilst not as experienced in the group scene as some, :hi: I to have seen similar situations but not once have I witnessed or felt any homosexual undertones from the partners of the prossies who were getting fucked as said in some extremely hardcore ways. The focus and enjoyment is based on the woman and what is happening to her, not what a man is doing to her. That does not read very well and is hard to explain unless you have experienced it for yourself.
« Last Edit: February 26, 2014, 12:04:49 am by vorian »

Sienna_Bronze

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Payment issue my arse. She's talking a load of bollocks!

Tell me then, in your case and let's be hypothetical here. What's a worst case scenario for you?

Your guy, who continues to fuck your piers, that is other prostitutes. Would you be happy with that or would it introduce an element of self doubt for you?

Or what if your man has full blown affairs? I'd personally argue that this is more damaging than punting prossies because NO PAYMENT is involved at all. It may not be just about a quick fuck, but also dinner dates, shows, cinema or long weekends away. Would any woman worth their salt tolerate that? A business transaction is bad enough but the other?

What's more damaging?

Everyone has self doubt but if he was screwing other prossies, ok fine by me. I wouldn't be getting jealous.

An affair is different because it involves emotion (I assume). So no I wouldn't tolerate full blown affairs.

Anyway since he fucked off I intend to stay single because like others have said, no man who really loves a woman will tolerate her fucking loads of guys a week for money.

vorian

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You see. This is the critical point. Regardless of the scenario, it's the woman who's always the centre of the attention. It's the woman who, by and large, is in control. How often, at a swinger party, does the man get all the action but his woman very little?  Almost never.

Oh without doubt it is the woman who has all the power,  even if she is tied up and getting fucked by ten blokes. As you said all the focus is on her.

vorian

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Everyone has self doubt but if he was screwing other prossies, ok fine by me. I wouldn't be getting jealous.

An affair is different because it involves emotion (I assume). So no I wouldn't tolerate full blown affairs.

Anyway since he fucked off I intend to stay single because like others have said, no man who really loves a woman will tolerate her fucking loads of guys a week for money.

He will if it is the only thing that gets him sexual excited.

Offline akauya

You see. This is the critical point. Regardless of the scenario, it's the woman who's always the centre of the attention. It's the woman who, by and large, is in control. How often, at a swinger party, does the man get all the action but his woman very little?  Almost never.

You're right. Sadly it's one of the facts of life. A woman can have as many cocks as she wants and pick and choose which cocks she will fuck out of all those standing to attention. There will always be eager cocks ready to satisfy the woman - any woman. In swingers parties even the munters get a following.

Sadly, us blokes, we have to resort to paying prossies to get some sort of attention. Unless you happen to be Rocco of course :D
 

Jvosta

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I am playing the Devil's Advocate here,

But what of the notion that love is not ownership - A guy can love a girl regardless of what she does. There probably are guys out there that could handle it no? and I don't mean swingers/pimps

vorian

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I am playing the Devil's Advocate here,

But what of the notion that love is not ownership - A guy can love a girl regardless of what she does. There probably are guys out there that could handle it no? and I don't mean swingers/pimps

There will always be exceptions to any rule of course. However just because someone "loves" someone else that does not mean it is a healthy relationship that can stay the distance. Any relationship is a minefield and has many factors that can cause a breakdown. When you add the extra "Extreme" nature of loving a WG then it is extremely unlikely to work out.

 The problem is as well if you meet your prossy girlfriend through punting then to a degree you relationship is based on an act, WG are actresses or at least the best ones are. As the sex is guaranteed without the man putting any real effort in that in itself makes the woman more attractive than she would be in normal circumstances. If this was not the case we wouldn't punt after all.

Even if the man "Loves" the prossy it would become bitter and twisted over time, even if she stopped working the history and resentment would be there forever. I really think the only men who could cope are the hardcore cuckolds who really are fully sexualy satified by the thought of their partners being fucked by other men. Those men a few and far between imho.

JB1969

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I once asked a prossie whether she would ever date clients and her response was "the last thing she wants to do when she gets home is have to suck his cock and fuck him when she has just finished fucking 4 -  5 guys that day. :wackogirl:

i could not or would not date a prossie, you just do not cross that line, it is a business transaction and how do you get past the fact that your gf loves to fuck other men for money? 

jcdmj12

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Would dating a WG work out?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

No.

Rochdull lad

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I am playing the Devil's Advocate here,

But what of the notion that love is not ownership - A guy can love a girl regardless of what she does. There probably are guys out there that could handle it no? and I don't mean swingers/pimps

Time was when I thought that, jonumrin; no longer. 

I know of one client who married a WG; and she "retired" as soon as they became an item.  They're the exception that proves the rule, imo.

Offline Roodboy867

Agree, and all I will say @the OP is if you have started the question then for you its fine.

The problem is the chances of the girl in question being interested in you back is unfortunately close to zero.

The other problem is if you try it on and fail, depending on how badly it goes it may mean you cannot book with her no more.

As I have stated, I am not interested in a relationship with a WG, it's just a curiosity and a way of engaging with fellow members and to see different opinions. I repeat, I am not, not now or in the future looking at a relationship with a WG.

hornylad

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It can work but is very difficult.
I am in a relationship with a former WG I met as a client. I was very unsure about getting involved and it was discussed in the EAS thread back in September. 

The key is that she is a former WG - she stopped working and deleted her aw profile as soon as we decided to make a go of it. If she had wanted to continue I would never have taken things further with her.
I suppose it is still early days for us but we now live together and so far it is all good.


vorian

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It can work but is very difficult.
I am in a relationship with a former WG I met as a client. I was very unsure about getting involved and it was discussed in the EAS thread back in September. 

The key is that she is a former WG - she stopped working and deleted her aw profile as soon as we decided to make a go of it. If she had wanted to continue I would never have taken things further with her.
I suppose it is still early days for us but we now live together and so far it is all good.

Very interesting do you still punt then or have you given up as well.

Riot Doll

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Sadly, us blokes, we have to resort to paying prossies to get some sort of attention. Unless you happen to be Rocco of course :D

I'd pay Rocco to stay away from me, that man's a beast  :lol: But I'm safe anyway, he's already "invaded" Poland!
« Last Edit: February 27, 2014, 12:14:43 pm by Riot Doll »

hornylad

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I have given up punting.
That was her condition on us getting together. Seems fair.

She is bi and we have shared a few fun times with other ladies but not escorts.

vorian

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I have given up punting.
That was her condition on us getting together. Seems fair.

She is bi and we have shared a few fun times with other ladies but not escorts.

Fair enough, good luck to you both  :hi:

Offline akauya

I'd pay Rocco to stay away from me, that man's a beast  :lol: But I'm safe anyway, he's already "invaded" Poland!

You're exaggerating, he can be a real sweetie too :)

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Riot Doll

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You're exaggerating, he can be a real sweetie too :)

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Awww... Still wouldn't let him anywhere near me  :sarcastic:

vorian

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You're exaggerating, he can be a real sweetie too :)

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Arhhh that nearly brought tears to my eyes (and hers it seems) but he was sweet with her.

"You speak Rocco, Rocco stop"

I guess she did'nt really like it "Very Strong" after all.

Cool video very funny.  :D

Offline mh

It can work but is very difficult.
I am in a relationship with a former WG I met as a client. I was very unsure about getting involved and it was discussed in the EAS thread back in September. 

The key is that she is a former WG - she stopped working and deleted her aw profile as soon as we decided to make a go of it. If she had wanted to continue I would never have taken things further with her.
I suppose it is still early days for us but we now live together and so far it is all good.

Well good luck to you! Two questions come to my mind:
1) How is she now managing on a shelf-stackers wages?
2) Is there anything from her career she has brought into your bedroom (I mean techniques, not STIs)  :D

Hellraiser

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Well good luck to you! Two questions come to my mind:
1) How is she now managing on a shelf-stackers wages?
2) Is there anything from her career she has brought into your bedroom (I mean techniques, not STIs)  :D

The true answer to question 1 is that she obviously has a few regulars that she secretly sees and, no doubt, a bank account hornylad doesn't know about.

Never forget: once a whore, always a whore. Even if they retire, they always come back a few years later when the money has been pissed away. hornylad is a very silly sausage if he believes his former prostitute girlfriends whore lies.

Offline Dani

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Never forget: once a whore, always a whore. Even if they retire, they always come back a few years later when the money has been pissed away. hornylad is a very silly sausage if he believes his former prostitute girlfriends whore lies.

I will have to agree with the first part of this statement as it is just too easy when things get a bit tight to stick a profile back up and earn some money.  I know some who come back just before summer holidays and again just before Xmas so they can go away for the summer and buy the kids xmas presents.

If you see one client a day even at only £100 an hour that's £700 a week so who wouldn't if they know they can.  They managed to lie to everyone all day everyday for years about what they were doing so I doubt a new partner would ever know anything about it as long as she was home before him he wouldn't have a clue

Jvosta

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Never forget: once a whore, always a whore. Even if they retire, they always come back a few years later when the money has been pissed away. hornylad is a very silly sausage if he believes his former prostitute girlfriends whore lies.


Lol, I really cannot decide whether hellraiser is a cynic or a realist. But he sure does have a way with words.

Respect, and I hope it works out for hornylad though, it can't be easy

vorian

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I do love HR posting style, only he could get away with using the phrases "Very Silly Sausage" and "Once a whore, always a whore" in the same sentence, pure genius  :D  :hi:

hornylad

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Maybe I am a silly sausage,  maybe not. Time will tell .....

You do what you can to protect yourself. Her WG sim went straight in the bin, her aw profile deleted.
I insisted she move to where I live - I never punted near to home. So any old regulars would have to travel some distance to see her now.

She only ever whored part time and always had a day time job. She has now changed jobs to nearer where we live.

She gave up being near family and friends to be with me. She knows if she goes back to whoring I will leave so fast my feet wont touch the ground.

I have taken all of the obvious precautions and am happy. Sometimes you have to take a risk, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If it all goes tits up then so be it but I will know I tried. If I hadn't I would have always been wondering .. what if ....

Offline mh

So you're not going to answer question 2 then?

2) Is there anything from her career she has brought into your bedroom (I mean techniques, not STIs)  :D

Offline Tailpipe

So you're not going to answer question 2 then?


Having dated a few WGs I can confirm the performance in this respect follows that of any woman. Slow Decline  :dash:

hornylad

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So you're not going to answer question 2 then?

Well she knows what I like and I know what she likes. I have never been in a relationship with such an active and imaginative sex life.

We have been together 6 months and of course it has slowed down but not by much.
I was asked if I still punted - I dont as that was what we agreed PLUS - I couldn't cope with anymore sex and she has yet to say no to anything I have suggested in the bed room. So far its all good .

Jvosta

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I was asked if I still punted

why did she ask? could be a red flag - she was hoping you'd say yes so she wouldn't feel guilty about working still

or not, just a thought

vorian

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why did she ask? could be a red flag - she was hoping you'd say yes so she wouldn't feel guilty about working still

or not, just a thought

I think he might mean I asked him if he still punted.  :unknown:

hornylad

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She didn't ask. I was referring to being asked on this thread a few posts up.
It was agreed before we got together - she would stop whoring and I would stop punting.

Hellraiser

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Maybe I am a silly sausage,  maybe not. Time will tell .....

You do what you can to protect yourself. Her WG sim went straight in the bin, her aw profile deleted.
I insisted she move to where I live - I never punted near to home. So any old regulars would have to travel some distance to see her now.

She only ever whored part time and always had a day time job. She has now changed jobs to nearer where we live.

She gave up being near family and friends to be with me. She knows if she goes back to whoring I will leave so fast my feet wont touch the ground.

I have taken all of the obvious precautions and am happy. Sometimes you have to take a risk, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If it all goes tits up then so be it but I will know I tried. If I hadn't I would have always been wondering .. what if ....

1: She may have tricked you by throwing away a different SIM, or has transferred her number to a new SIM.

2: She may have only hidden her Adultwork profile, not deleted it in case she makes a triumphant comeback.

3: She may have already had 1 or 2 regulars in your current town, or maybe has some rich, flush with cash regulars that travel down to still stick their pork in her fanny  :hi:

Offline mh

I have never been in a relationship with such an active and imaginative sex life.

Well come on, don't leave us to have to imagine it!  :sarcastic:

hornylad

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1: She may have tricked you by throwing away a different SIM, or has transferred her number to a new SIM.

2: She may have only hidden her Adultwork profile, not deleted it in case she makes a triumphant comeback.

3: She may have already had 1 or 2 regulars in your current town, or maybe has some rich, flush with cash regulars that travel down to still stick their pork in her fanny  :hi:

1. I threw away her sim. Maybe she transferred the numbers but I doubt it. She had the best intentions - that is why she was happy to leave her home town and her family behind.

2. I deleted her aw profile with her there. It kind of signified the beginning of something new.

3. Maybe she had regulars in my area - who knows but is unlikey as it is quite some distance from her home town.

I have done what I can to be careful and sensible but who knows.
Just like any relationship cheating can happen - no different to your wife or gf.

Offline akauya

I would just like to say good luck to you hornylad - hope you manage to make it last a long, long time. Imagine the stories both of you could tell your grandchildren!  :)

Good luck mate  :thumbsup:


bilbobaggins

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I have found out that all pro$$ies are liars.  You can't totally trust any.
How can you date someone who lies without realising it?

When I dated a pro$$ie she just lied all the time.  She had other blokes on the go!
Never again.

Hellraiser

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I will echo Akauya and say that it seems like you have put as much effort as you can into making it work out, so good luck  :)

But do update us if it all ends in tears, yeah?

Rochdull lad

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And, from the fluffier end of the spectrum, keep us posted in general on how you're both going! ;)

Offline Daffodil

1. I threw away her sim. Maybe she transferred the numbers but I doubt it. She had the best intentions - that is why she was happy to leave her home town and her family behind.

2. I deleted her aw profile with her there. It kind of signified the beginning of something new.

3. Maybe she had regulars in my area - who knows but is unlikey as it is quite some distance from her home town.

I have done what I can to be careful and sensible but who knows.
Just like any relationship cheating can happen - no different to your wife or gf.

I'd say it's a damn sight more likely if you're dating a prossie.

Only certain women become prossies, those who are easy in the first place.

Secondly, once they have crossed that line it will be too easy to get back on the game if money is tight/she wants a new bag. She'll still have contact with some regulars, even just email, but she also knows if she pops a new profile up on AW with face and the such obscured she'll get a dozen enquiries  :cool:

Offline Daffodil

The other difference with a wife or girlfriend is that for them to cheat it will often be affair-based, so loads of clues and evidence.

For a prossie it's totally discreet, just like it is for us punters, with minimal evidence. You'd need to be Sherlock if she does the odd 30-60 minute booking every now and then.

To get into a relationship with a prossie you need to accept that she is likely to cheat and that you will have no idea.

Panda Power

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The true answer to question 1 is that she obviously has a few regulars that she secretly sees and, no doubt, a bank account hornylad doesn't know about.

Never forget: once a whore, always a whore. Even if they retire, they always come back a few years later when the money has been pissed away. hornylad is a very silly sausage if he believes his former prostitute girlfriends whore lies.

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I know another one who made good investments in property and who now runs an extremely profitable company, founded on the profits from her investments, I detect some bitterness in a lot of your posts.

Hellraiser

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They always come back to it? External Link/Members Only

I know another one who made good investments in property and who now runs an extremely profitable company, founded on the profits from her investments, I detect some bitterness in a lot of your posts.

Well, dickhead, with the example you just cited, the reason Belle de Jour didn't go back to being an escort is because the whole fucking planet knows who she is.

And nice little anecdote. Whoop de doo, your whore friend founded a supposedly profitable company. Do you know her every single movement and what she does every single hour, of every single day, of every single week, of every single month, of every single year of her life? Do you?

Because if the answer is 'no Mr Hellraiser, I don't' then go be a fluffy somewhere else. Prostitutes come from every single walk of life, from the common, council estate, disease ridden, unshaven fatty, to daughters of aristocratic toffs who have their pussy hair trimmed in a 5 star Knightsbridge salon. Some whores whore for the thrill of whoring.

Eat my fucking dick if you think I am 'bitter'. I ain't. I'm just not a dumb fuck fluffy who thinks a whore stops whoring just because she runs a supposedly profitable business.

Once a whore, always a whore. That's my philosophy.

vorian

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Well, dickhead, with the example you just cited, the reason Belle de Jour didn't go back to being an escort is because the whole fucking planet knows who she is.

And nice little anecdote. Whoop de doo, your whore friend founded a supposedly profitable company. Do you know her every single movement and what she does every single hour, of every single day, of every single week, of every single month, of every single year of her life? Do you?

Because if the answer is 'no Mr Hellraiser, I don't' then go be a fluffy somewhere else. Prostitutes come from every single walk of life, from the common, council estate, disease ridden, unshaven fatty, to daughters of aristocratic toffs who have their pussy hair trimmed in a 5 star Knightsbridge salon. Some whores whore for the thrill of whoring.

Eat my fucking dick if you think I am 'bitter'. I ain't. I'm just not a dumb fuck fluffy who thinks a whore stops whoring just because she runs a supposedly profitable business.

Once a whore, always a whore. That's my philosophy.

Yep I definitely have, Steven Berkoff at his best in mind when reading HR's posts. As always to the point HR  :hi: