"If Women want to stop giving out the wrong signals Then maybe they should keep their Knickers on"
I have to say, I do think that's a pretty ridiculous thing to say. On the radio, or anywhere to be honest. And then the guy runs for Parliament?
If it's an arranged date, there's presumably already a degree of familiarity. So if the evening goes 'well' and there's intimacy later on, foreplay, even the knickers coming off, the woman for whatever reason should always, at whatever point, be able to say 'stop', and things do stop. There is no 'point of no return' for the man. I guess if penetration had actually already occurred and she then said stop, then it might be a debatable point whether he pulled out quick enough or decided he was going to finish off in any case.
There's all sorts of grey areas now though, and society's view has definitely shifted. You see so many groups of young girls going out together in pornstar stilettoes, tiny little cocktail dresses with no underwear on, squealing and screaming and getting completely out of it in pubs and clubs, and then going home with a stranger, being able to barely stand up.
The inevitable happens, they have sex, the girl wakes up next to some bloke who she doesn't remember much about, and it's obvious sex has taken place. She doesn't remember consenting and she now very much wishes sex hadn't taken place. Pick the bones out of that one! If it can be proven beyond reasonable doubt that she technically didn't consent, then that is rape. But is it morally? Or just 'technically'?
