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[latenightsnacks]

Is anyone else struggling to make the search function work on seeking this morning? Everytime I try and search I just get an ‘Oh No! We had an unexpected error and aren’t sure what to do’ message block the screen. Have contacted support but not expecting a reply anytime soon, the rest of my profile is all working fine. Tried a different browser and connection to no avail.

[AffAlchemist]

Is anyone else struggling to make the search function work on seeking this morning? Everytime I try and search I just get an ‘Oh No! We had an unexpected error and aren’t sure what to do’ message block the screen. Have contacted support but not expecting a reply anytime soon, the rest of my profile is all working fine. Tried a different browser and connection to no avail.

no probs here

[90125]

Is anyone else struggling to make the search function work on seeking this morning? Everytime I try and search I just get an ‘Oh No! We had an unexpected error and aren’t sure what to do’ message block the screen. Have contacted support but not expecting a reply anytime soon, the rest of my profile is all working fine. Tried a different browser and connection to no avail.

Are you serious. Over 10 years a member and not a single Review.

[Bru1901]

Has rhe search changed for all to big pics? No choice of the 2 columns any more?

[YorkshireLad]

The search is broke for me too, I'm getting the 'Oh No! We had an unexpected error and aren’t sure what to do’ message as well.
I guess it's a bug with the site.

[southcoastpunter]

Seems to be working fine for me!!

[Bigindian69]

The search is broke for me too, I'm getting the 'Oh No! We had an unexpected error and aren’t sure what to do’ message as well.
I guess it's a bug with the site.

Happened to me i found that logging onto a desktop and using the search then going back to mobile works

[YorkshireLad]

Happened to me i found that logging onto a desktop and using the search then going back to mobile works

I getting the same error message when using desktop too

[Bru1901]

Clear cookies. Log out and back in

Works

[NuruGuru]

Are you serious. Over 10 years a member and not a single Review.

Reading through his posts, it looks like he's also been previously banned from Seeking too. I'm loving the countdown timer for his ban too.

[wirehair]

What do people make of this? Below is a message sent from a guy off there to a girl I'm seeing off Seeking:

I would love to offer you a very huge monthly allowance of £4000 a month paid every 10th of the month cash or transfer for 4 meetings a month. In addition to monthly shopping trips, spa days and holidays once summer arrives. I am free today if you would like to begin. Can you also send some pictures of you. I recently came back from holiday in Kenya I'll send you a picture Best wishes,

She said she has never met him, and she offered a meet as ppm first but he turned it down and sent that. He wanted her to meet him the same day at the Wembley Hilton and would not pay her travel as she lives outside London. She - and I - think its a scam. She blocked and deleted him so can't now report it.

Why would you offer such a crazy sum to a girl you've not met? Also why the 10th of each month?

Think we are right in smelling a rat? I wondered if it was a pimp as I can't for the life of me understand what he was after other than a free shag with no money forthcoming on th 10th of anything!

[ik8133]

What do people make of this? Below is a message sent from a guy off there to a girl I'm seeing off Seeking:

I would love to offer you a very huge monthly allowance of £4000 a month paid every 10th of the month cash or transfer for 4 meetings a month. In addition to monthly shopping trips, spa days and holidays once summer arrives. I am free today if you would like to begin. Can you also send some pictures of you. I recently came back from holiday in Kenya I'll send you a picture Best wishes,

She said she has never met him, and she offered a meet as ppm first but he turned it down and sent that. He wanted her to meet him the same day at the Wembley Hilton and would not pay her travel as she lives outside London. She - and I - think its a scam. She blocked and deleted him so can't now report it.

Why would you offer such a crazy sum to a girl you've not met? Also why the 10th of each month?

Think we are right in smelling a rat? I wondered if it was a pimp as I can't for the life of me understand what he was after other than a free shag with no money forthcoming on th 10th of anything!

Offer sounds far too good to be true, I would smell a rat as well, especially as he was pressurising her to meet the same day, not pay her travel even though he was offering big money.

[Bru1901]

If it didnt say kenya ita believable.

A girl i was banging got a 20k allowance from suit

She was a 10 / 10 and in the sapce of a year went from.non designer to full designer etc

Now left for pastures new but she had almost 250k p/a allowance

4k is low but believeable

Anyone in Africa sounds dodgy. Secondly if you can afford 4k you can afford a house.

Same day hotel meets shows desperation which a personnproviding 4k wouldnt do

[wirehair]

My thoughts exactly plus if you can flash £4K a month on someone you don’t go to the Wembley Hilton!

[TPreston]

My thoughts exactly plus if you can flash £4K a month on someone you don’t go to the Wembley Hilton!

My experience is different

[Bru1901]

If your struggling or let down and a plan B is desperation

However asking someone fromma different city to come in is stupid

[southcoastpunter]

Think we are right in smelling a rat? I wondered if it was a pimp as I can't for the life of me understand what he was after other than a free shag with no money forthcoming on th 10th of anything!

100% that ( well not the pump bit) - I have heard that this or something similar, is not unusual! We guys are not the only ones to get scammed!!

[Jumping Jack Flash]

My thoughts exactly plus if you can flash £4K a month on someone you don’t go to the Wembley Hilton!

The Wembley Hilton is just a mid market chain hotel, it’s nothing special. If you can afford to chuck £48k PA at a SB that you have never met then you’re going to be stopping in a better class of hotel. It’s a scam, particularly as he refused to meet her on a PPM basis.

Why anyone would go straight to an allowance is beyond me, how do you even know if you like each other and are compatible?

[wirehair]

The Wembley Hilton is just a mid market chain hotel, it’s nothing special. If you can afford to chuck £48k PA at a SB that you have never met then you’re going to be stopping in a better class of hotel. It’s a scam, particularly as he refused to meet her on a PPM basis.

Why anyone would go straight to an allowance is beyond me, how do you even know if you like each other and are compatible?

My thoughts exactly!

[bigden40]

Offer sounds far too good to be true, I would smell a rat as well, especially as he was pressurising her to meet the same day, not pay her travel even though he was offering big money.

Absolutely.  IMO his play is to reel her in with the promise of a big allowance, get the first shag or two free, disappear before the 10th.

[Cheshuk]

What do people make of this? Below is a message sent from a guy off there to a girl I'm seeing off Seeking:

I would love to offer you a very huge monthly allowance of £4000 a month paid every 10th of the month cash or transfer for 4 meetings a month. In addition to monthly shopping trips, spa days and holidays once summer arrives. I am free today if you would like to begin. Can you also send some pictures of you. I recently came back from holiday in Kenya I'll send you a picture Best wishes,

She said she has never met him, and she offered a meet as ppm first but he turned it down and sent that. He wanted her to meet him the same day at the Wembley Hilton and would not pay her travel as she lives outside London. She - and I - think its a scam. She blocked and deleted him so can't now report it.

Why would you offer such a crazy sum to a girl you've not met? Also why the 10th of each month?

Think we are right in smelling a rat? I wondered if it was a pimp as I can't for the life of me understand what he was after other than a free shag with no money forthcoming on th 10th of anything!

Everything already said by other members, but these two scream almost definite scam:
-Refusal to do ppm in this case
-If I've understand correctly, he wanted sex on the promise he would pay on a different future date (10th), no money on the day of the meet. If so he sounds like he's looking for a freebie and would fuck her & ghost her. No girls should accept that from a stranger, the fact he couldn't see that makes him seem a weirdo

Other:
Moneys not excessive in general, depends if she's average or got something about her, even the former, if someone likes something about her, then whats's reasonable is down to affordability
Country & Hotel are slight red flags imo, whats an extra few hundred for a 5 star when your already at 4k a month
Assuming he wanted weekly meets he's a possible dumbass asking for 4 meets a month, he'll end up with a random 4 weeks with no meets a year (theres not exactly 4 weeks in a month)

She certainly did the right thing, even if it was true, the only way she could find out, was to put herself in a position where she sleeps with a man for money and may not get paid for it

[wirehair]

Absolutely.  IMO his play is to reel her in with the promise of a big allowance, get the first shag or two free, disappear before the 10th.

She thought exactly the same scenario!

[wirehair]

Luckily she is no newcomer to the Seeking world and at 28 a bit more experienced generally. I get concerned that younger, less experienced newbie girls could be taken in by this with the promise of 4K a month. It’s c**ts like this guy that ruin it for the rest of us!

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Fark me! if anyone would pay me 4 grand a month i'd have a bloody sex change for that!...

[Bikerboy]

What do people make of this? Below is a message sent from a guy off there to a girl I'm seeing off Seeking:

I would love to offer you a very huge monthly allowance of £4000 a month paid every 10th of the month cash or transfer for 4 meetings a month. In addition to monthly shopping trips, spa days and holidays once summer arrives. I am free today if you would like to begin. Can you also send some pictures of you. I recently came back from holiday in Kenya I'll send you a picture Best wishes,

She said she has never met him, and she offered a meet as ppm first but he turned it down and sent that. He wanted her to meet him the same day at the Wembley Hilton and would not pay her travel as she lives outside London. She - and I - think its a scam. She blocked and deleted him so can't now report it.

Why would you offer such a crazy sum to a girl you've not met? Also why the 10th of each month?

Think we are right in smelling a rat? I wondered if it was a pimp as I can't for the life of me understand what he was after other than a free shag with no money forthcoming on th 10th of anything!

A scam, too many things don’t add up.
Risk of kidnap or worse, avoid.

[magnetico]

A girl i was banging got a 20k allowance from suit

She was a 10 / 10 and in the sapce of a year went from.non designer to full designer etc

Now left for pastures new but she had almost 250k p/a allowance

Insane, who are these megarich sugar daddies?

[southcoastpunter]

Insane, who are these megarich sugar daddies?

Well, there are not the type who can hardly afford the £100pm monthly subscription- like (it would seem) many of the guys on here!!

That type of mega rich SD’s will be few and far between but, as I have said before, there are more rich guys on Seeking than many guys seem to appreciate!

[Bru1901]

Well, there are not the type who can hardly afford the £100pm monthly subscription- like (it would seem) many of the guys on here!!

That type of mega rich SD’s will be few and far between but, as I have said before, there are more rich guys on Seeking than many guys seem to appreciate!

Plenty dealers or crypto guys i guess

[tazz]

Had a weird experience with a very hot women off the site lives in my area. She's 28 actually works in a school round the corner from me and used to go to a gym in an area i work in, seemed very familiar. At first i thought she maybe a scammer as keept hiding her pictures on her profile mentioned discreet meets. Shes mixed Norwegian Indian messaged me from a Norwegian number despite living here for past 4 years.

Shes been on the site for 2 months told me not been very active and not met any guys off it, asked how come said many just send sexualised messages to begin with, some just request her pics with no message. She doesnt want people in the area who know her to see her with SD's. I have no idea how such a beautiful women who isn't asking for a high allowance hasn't got a rich SD.

Only downside is she seemed a bit sexually inexperienced, came twice during our session and she was suprised, told me previous boyfriend could only come once. Seems to not know much as sugar baby stuff, domination and adult industry.

Either way i felt like a child in a sweetshop, hottest women ive met off the site been using is on an off since 2016.

[Maximi]

I don’t consider myself an old pro by any stretch, this isn’t a flex or brag - Just sharing my journey and info so far.

Joined Seeking December 2019;
- Met 81 girls in total
- Had sex with 61 (29 on first date)
- 15 I went on to see socially (unpaid)

1399 contacts almost exclusively from seeking + some (pre seeking) cam girls I have met, which I’ll do another post about.

Location; London but sometimes Manchester when up there for work.

Oldest 38
Youngest 19


Observations/ Tips
- I used to go way too high £500+ for a meet, now I start low and build up.
- There are communities/ forums and WhatsApp groups these girls use to discuss people. Some friendship group chats others for business. Be careful what you share.
- I have never sent money up front but have paid for a train fare or two
- PayPal is rarely refused
- My pitch is to start as ppms then move to allowance based.
- 90% of girls are happy with bareback, I’ve had a few clinic visits post some questionable choices.
- I never use telegram most of the girls that suggest it are just trying to sell content. If they are serious they will give you their WhatsApp
- I don’t have or use Instagram
- Record a video of yourself saying hi this is “name or profile Id” that can be used several time as proof
- I always use view once for sending pics and videos
- Manchester is 3x better than London for mid-high standard of girls trying sugar dating


Not sure if I’ve posted in the right place but pls move if so

[Southernbloke]

So do you punt escorts at all? Or just bareback girls on Seeking? Not sure the relevance of the post if you are not bragging!

[Maximi]

Rarely punt in the classic sense. I didn’t say I bareback all girls, that would be mental. My observation is that 90% are happy with bareback, that was a surprise to me .

[southcoastpunter]

there is a dedicated Seeking thread:  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=244630.5500

[daviemac]

Rarely punt in the classic sense. I didn’t say I bareback all girls, that would be mental. My observation is that 90% are happy with bareback, that was a surprise to me .

What are you doing on an escort and massage review site if you don't book escorts or masseuses, you do know posting reviews of such bookings is a requirement of membership don't you?

[Maximi]

I do know that. I wasn’t aware that every post had to be a review. I do book/ meet girls through seeking, via ppm which is clear in my post.

[daviemac]

I do know that. I wasn’t aware that every post had to be a review. I do book/ meet girls through seeking, via ppm which is clear in my post.

Not every post has to be a review but it's in the rules that you agreed to when you joined that reviews have to be posted. So I'll ask you again what are you doing on an escort and massage review site if you don't book them so can't review them.

1 Site ethos/mission
This Forum puts the interests of Punters first through the sharing of Reviews. The Forum does not endorse or promote any service provider or any other site. This site is totally independent. No favouritism, no special treatment, no vested interests and no pandering to service providers. Members are expected to post Reviews, although there is no formal quota (see rule 27). General chat relating to Punting is allowed on the appropriate Board.

27 Lurking / Dormant Accounts
Members that do not contribute Reviews or where their accounts become dormant may have their membership revoked.

There's a link to the rules at the bottom of every page.

[Maximi]

So not every post has to be a review… thanks for clearing that’s up. Good to see the community spirit here so far. I do book and will review… hence the pretty obvious detail in my post.

[daviemac]

So not every post has to be a review… thanks for clearing that’s up. Good to see the community spirit here so far. I do book and will review… hence the pretty obvious detail in my post.

I'm just trying to understand what you are doping here as I think you have the wrong idea about the site. You have said you don't book escorts so how can you review them? Your post is all about meetings through Seeking and all of your post relate to Seeking, though you do mention cam girls but camming can't be discussed on here.

BTW there's a great community spirit on here though it is very much a sharing one.

[penisilin]

I don’t consider myself an old pro by any stretch, this isn’t a flex or brag - Just sharing my journey and info so far.

Joined Seeking December 2019;
- Met 81 girls in total
- Had sex with 61 (29 on first date)
- 15 I went on to see socially (unpaid)

1399 contacts almost exclusively from seeking + some (pre seeking) cam girls I have met, which I’ll do another post about.

Location; London but sometimes Manchester when up there for work.

Oldest 38
Youngest 19


Observations/ Tips
- I used to go way too high £500+ for a meet, now I start low and build up.
- There are communities/ forums and WhatsApp groups these girls use to discuss people. Some friendship group chats others for business. Be careful what you share.
- I have never sent money up front but have paid for a train fare or two
- PayPal is rarely refused
- My pitch is to start as ppms then move to allowance based.
- 90% of girls are happy with bareback, I’ve had a few clinic visits post some questionable choices.
- I never use telegram most of the girls that suggest it are just trying to sell content. If they are serious they will give you their WhatsApp
- I don’t have or use Instagram
- Record a video of yourself saying hi this is “name or profile Id” that can be used several time as proof
- I always use view once for sending pics and videos
- Manchester is 3x better than London for mid-high standard of girls trying sugar dating


Not sure if I’ve posted in the right place but pls move if so

I actually find this info useful, many thanks. What would you say is a typical PPM for an SB these days?
I'm a bit worried about the barebacking but I guess if you choose to go protected they won't say no.

[Maximi]

I actually find this info useful, many thanks. What would you say is a typical PPM for an SB these days?
I'm a bit worried about the barebacking but I guess if you choose to go protected they won't say no.

Welcome mate, that was actually the intent. Share experiences, answer questions etc.

Re typical ppm; I’ve never gone higher than £500 and that is usually for overnight, and never had lower than £150. IMO 3 main factors I’ve found that drives price is -

1. How experienced the girl is - the newer they are the less bullshit big money talk they have heard
2. Intent - girls that do it as their primary income source tend to be higher. Girls that are trying it because they saw an ad or tv show or mates do it and they want to try it, way more reasonable.
3. Location -  Manchester wayyyy cheaper than London. You could find a 7/10 at £200 reasonably comfortably

1&2 connected tbh.

Typical 7-8/10 London; drinks and fun £250-350
Typical 7-8/10 Manchester; drinks and fun £200-250
 

[penisilin]

Welcome mate, that was actually the intent. Share experiences, answer questions etc.

Re typical ppm; I’ve never gone higher than £500 and that is usually for overnight, and never had lower than £150. IMO 3 main factors I’ve found that drives price is -

1. How experienced the girl is - the newer they are the less bullshit big money talk they have heard
2. Intent - girls that do it as their primary income source tend to be higher. Girls that are trying it because they saw an ad or tv show or mates do it and they want to try it, way more reasonable.
3. Location -  Manchester wayyyy cheaper than London. You could find a 7/10 at £200 reasonably comfortably

1&2 connected tbh.

Typical 7-8/10 London; drinks and fun £250-350
Typical 7-8/10 Manchester; drinks and fun £200-250
 

Very much appreciated mate, you're a star! I like the sound of £500 overnight. Hopefully I catch one for that price in London area.

[tazz]

Rarely punt in the classic sense. I didn’t say I bareback all girls, that would be mental. My observation is that 90% are happy with bareback, that was a surprise to me .

I find that 90% aren't happy with it, maybe its different in London to north-west.

[PepeMAGA]

I was curious, so signed up and has a look at the members in my area. Quite a few attractive girls, though not straight forward from their profile what they're after a lot of the time.
One girl it said she was after a platonic friendship and mentoring... To me that kind of translates to a very one sided deal where she gets money etc, possibly financial advice... But I'm exchange for what, the pleasure of helping her?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I was curious, so signed up and has a look at the members in my area. Quite a few attractive girls, though not straight forward from their profile what they're after a lot of the time.
One girl it said she was after a platonic friendship and mentoring... To me that kind of translates to a very one sided deal where she gets money etc, possibly financial advice... But I'm exchange for what, the pleasure of helping her?

Whilst some girls on SA have that on their profile and when you chat to them you discover that platonic/mentorship is actually what they want, I find many girls use that kind of thing to filter out the guys who are just after a shag, the SA version of pump and dump.

Half of them don’t remember what they write on their profile and when you question them about it they just say something totally different. That’s the Insta generation for you!

If you’re new to the world of SA and are going to stick with it, take time out to read this thread. It’s full of little nuggets of advice from those of who have been on there for a while!

[PepeMAGA]

Whilst some girls on SA have that on their profile and when you chat to them you discover that platonic/mentorship is actually what they want, I find many girls use that kind of thing to filter out the guys who are just after a shag, the SA version of pump and dump.

Half of them don’t remember what they write on their profile and when you question them about it they just say something totally different. That’s the Insta generation for you!

If you’re new to the world of SA and are going to stick with it, take time out to read this thread. It’s full of little nuggets of advice from those of who have been on there for a while!

Cheers will do

[NuruGuru]

But I'm exchange for what, the pleasure of helping her?

Yes lol - that's the entitled generation for you. They see social media influencers and feel that they are owed that lifestyle too without having to give anything in return or to work for it. I find the attitude baffling but of course I'm of a much older and wiser generation.

Any profile with a whiff of entitled behaviour is worth avoiding - it just ins't worth the hassle.

There are some great girls who use SA, just hard to find them, but they do exist.

[southcoastpunter]

One girl it said she was after a platonic friendship and mentoring... To me that kind of translates to a very one sided deal where she gets money etc, possibly financial advice... But I'm exchange for what, the pleasure of helping her?

Whilst some girls on SA have that on their profile and when you chat to them you discover that platonic/mentorship is actually what they want, I find many girls use that kind of thing to filter out the guys who are just after a shag, the SA version of pump and dump.

i agree with JJF - i would still approach them with what i am interested in and what i can offer them (which includes sex as part of it rather than it being almost just about sex and most are interested in at least exploring things together. Very few say no sex at all!

PepeMAGA - you are making the mistake of thinking that all guys think like you. There are all sorts of guys on Seeking including some guys who for whatever reason don't ask for sex.

For the last 4 years, i usually have had two Seeking ladies on the go and on monthly allowance. Currently i am 7 months in with one and recently started with the second - she has just finished a 9 month arrangement with a guy in his 60's with a number of medical issues, one was that he could not get an erection-  so in 9 months they never had sex and therefore when he met her,  it wasn't for sex - and he paid her £1500 per month and bought her gifts from time to time (eg an iphone 15).

My other lady also told me that whilst she did get some who approached her who just wanted sex, most were interested in something like i do - i see her 3 times a month, each time for 2 days and one overnight in between, so we do lots of social / active / fun stuff in the 2 days. I was surprised how many other guys did as much social stuff as i do. (This is not London or any major city so maybe they might be a bit different? ) Anyway , my point is - there are so many different ladies wanting / offering different things and so many different guys wanting and offering different things on Seeking. But as said, finding the gems is harder these days.

[PepeMAGA]

i agree with JJF - i would still approach them with what i am interested in and what i can offer them (which includes sex as part of it rather than it being almost just about sex and most are interested in at least exploring things together. Very few say no sex at all!

PepeMAGA - you are making the mistake of thinking that all guys think like you. There are all sorts of guys on Seeking including some guys who for whatever reason don't ask for sex.

For the last 4 years, i usually have had two Seeking ladies on the go and on monthly allowance. Currently i am 7 months in with one and recently started with the second - she has just finished a 9 month arrangement with a guy in his 60's with a number of medical issues, one was that he could not get an erection-  so in 9 months they never had sex and therefore when he met her,  it wasn't for sex - and he paid her £1500 per month and bought her gifts from time to time (eg an iphone 15).

My other lady also told me that whilst she did get some who approached her who just wanted sex, most were interested in something like i do - i see her 3 times a month, each time for 2 days and one overnight in between, so we do lots of social / active / fun stuff in the 2 days. I was surprised how many other guys did as much social stuff as i do. (This is not London or any major city so maybe they might be a bit different? ) Anyway , my point is - there are so many different ladies wanting / offering different things and so many different guys wanting and offering different things on Seeking. But as said, finding the gems is harder these days.

Yeah I can see there would be some circumstances where companionship would be worth paying for tbf.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I think that another consideration is to not approach SA with a punting mindset. I’ve been seeing my 23 year old regular for 26 months now and I trust her implicitly. Obviously that trust has built up over time but ultimately I don’t treat her like an escort and it’s almost like we escape to our own private world whenever we meet.

Treat them as people and you will reap the benefits.

[hungrypunt]

As regards the 48k payment guy no chance. Scam all over it or worse.

I've had long term and paid very handsomely in the past for years with same girls.. but not on those levels. Anyone who has that money does not stay with the same SB for too long...cos that money would drop princess kates knickers if needs be.

Regards the girls putting out...sure lots have platonic on there, and I've found without exception the ones I've chatted to have done the required after a while.


Acting like a punter / WG  transaction on SA will see you very little reward ..even though we all know


No girls don't have to pay if they can use a validated uni address to be premium, and last time I checked they could message for free.

There are far far far more female members than men , 10 times or there abouts.