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Offline Punterperson1971

So today I saw a regular of mine(no link provided)and I was offered anal,I was also offered it in past but never took her up on it till today,she was that turned on she was saying to fill all her holes (covered of course) and eventually got her on all fours as she pulled her cheeks apart and I pushed myself all way in and pumped for all Was worth,grabbing her arms and pulling her into me and eventually filled the bag.
Now it was on my bucket list so that’s crossed off but I don’t think I’m too fussed In trying it again tbh I don’t know I feel at minute it’s just another hole to fuck.
What’s other people’s thoughts on it
« Last Edit: December 04, 2020, 11:35:34 am by Punterperson1971 »

Offline sharpshoes78

It turns me right on because of how dirty it is (no pun intended)

Offline Punterperson1971

It turns me right on because of how dirty it is (no pun intended)
I can see why in one way she was very tight and very vocal and didnt stop me from pounding her,took me a while to cum too which I suppose was nice and a change.
« Last Edit: December 04, 2020, 11:39:50 am by Punterperson1971 »

Offline The Owl

So today I saw a regular of mine(no link provided)and I was offered anal,I was also offered it in past but never took her up on it till today,she was that turned on she was saying to fill all her holes (covered of course) and eventually got her on all fours as she pulled her cheeks apart and I pushed myself all way in and pumped for all Was worth,grabbing her arms and pulling her into me and eventually filled the bag.
Now it was on my bucket list so that’s crossed off but I don’t think I’m too fussed In trying it again tbh I don’t know I feel at minute it’s just another hole to fuck.
What’s other people’s thoughts on it

I've had anal with an ex-girlfriend and a prostitute. It was an experiment with the ex which was doggy anal to completion in a night were she wanted me to cum in all three holes. It was more fun cumming in all three holes but anal wasn't as exciting as I thought it would be. The opening of her arse was nice and tight but after that it wasn't much in the way of sensation. The prostitute was better as she seems to really get off on it or puts on a great performance, that seems to apply across all her reviews where anal was offered. For me it was getting the prostitute off or the fantasy of getting her off through anal that was a turn on, but with a condom on it was less sensual feeling than the  anal sex session with my ex.

I've never been a big fan of anal in porn, that's just wasting a perfectly good pussy in my opinion. Perhaps those who enjoy fucking a woman in the arse are wired differently to me or maybe there's something else that makes it work for them. For me it's just a bit of a kink rather than an actual physical pleasure, although I'm annoyed to have missed out on having anal with a few escorts who took it off their likes lists before I got to shag them (Welsh Elise and Lady Dita).
« Last Edit: December 04, 2020, 12:15:31 pm by The Owl »

Offline Hobbit

I have never been a fan of Anal but the idea of a dick going in a hole where it shouldn't is quite a turn-on. The act itself isn't that amazing. Pussies are much more wet and comfortable to be inside where an ass is quite tight and not so comfortable.

I guess it's horses for courses but for me a wet tight pussy wins hands down.  :hi:

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Cant say i'm that fond of it either the anal canal is way smooth in order to make the passage of the poop Out easier, unlike the designed for incoming receptable:)

The mouth - a differnt matter:)
« Last Edit: December 04, 2020, 12:56:53 pm by Watts.E.Dunn »

Online RandomGuy99

I've tried it a few times mostly because I saw it in porn.  I didn't find it any different really and I spent most of my time worrying about not doing any damage. I'll do it if it's on offer but it's not something I particularly enjoy.

Offline Punterperson1971

Thanks for the replies guys I may try it again but it was offered at no extra charge so couldn’t turn it down really

Offline Yorkshirefatrascal

Only done it twice, both times with a condom and both times unimpressed. Didn't feel any different. Myabe bareback with a trusted OH may feel better but for me I'll stick it in fanny, mouth and tits- in that order.

Offline threechilliman

The thought of it turns me on but the actual act does little for me. So if I want anal I'll stick to porn.

Offline Kelgon85

I did it with Devon Breeze. First and only time (so far). Lasted for about 15 seconds. It was good, but it’s not a must for me. Wouldn't be fussed if I never did it again.

Offline Punterperson1971

Luckily She’d cleaned herself throughly as she loves a good rimming first and lots of anal play

Offline Simon_9000

Yeah, same here. It was too of my "to do" list for ages and when it came to the day, started in the girls pussy and switched to anal ... thought meh, went back to her pussy. Off the tick list, can't be arsed again.  :D  :lol:

Offline JonasG

I can't stand the thought of it even to the point if it occurs in porn, I'll skip or switch to another vid.

Offline The sperminator

I can't stand the thought of it even to the point if it occurs in porn, I'll skip or switch to another vid.

Glad its not just me !  :thumbsup:

Online RandomGuy99

It's not all it's cracked up to be.  (Sorry, someone had to say it.  I'll get me coat)

Offline davidgood

Anal is like Marmite, some love it, some don't.

I don't like Marmite, but I love anal.

Regards,

davidgood

Offline Juankerr

Done it a few times and it was ok but I think the actual thought of doing it is more exciting than the act itself for me.

Offline B4bcock

My favourite escort's a right sexy dish
Who loves to do doggy, cowgirl then mish
And when in the mood
For something more rude
She'll grease up her velvet starfish.

Online RandomGuy99

My favourite escort's a right sexy dish
Who loves to do doggy, cowgirl then mish
And when in the mood
For something more rude
She'll grease up her velvet starfish.
  :drinks:

Online RandomGuy99

Done it a few times and it was ok but I think the actual thought of doing it is more exciting than the act itself for me.
I think it depends to a great extent on dick size.

It just looks painful to me and I'm not into giving or receiving pain.

Offline Comicman

I have done it loads of times with civilians and  escorts mainly because of porn i could easily and happily live the rest of my life without doing it again the hole is too tight and i worry too much about getting shit on my dick  :scare:  pussy is 100 % better

Offline billybobsmith

I've done it the once.  Woman asked me if I fancied it, so gave it a shot.
Yes it's tighter, but as with others here, as nice as it is, I much prefer to be in a nice, warm, wet pussy that was designed for a cock.

Suppose I worry a little about coming out covered in shit - sure that would put me off 100%, and no intention of rimming or being rimmed.
Do worry about hurting her as well be thrusting too hard.

Not to say I wouldn't try it again, but it's not something I would go out of my looking for.  Each to their own.

Offline willie loman

did it twice with hookers, didnt come either time, and after a minute or 2 switched back to normal sex, dont imagine that i will ever do it again,.though i enjoy giving and receiving anal play, Christopher hitchens  once observed that 2 things in life are over-rated, picnics and anal sex, i would add, champagne.

Offline pbrown355

Done it qhite a bit, nearly always with WGs. The thought is often better than the act itself although occasionally I find it way better than other times.
Some years ago was offered it by a young inexperienced WG who I had seen for a very vanilla service many times. I think she liked me and wanted to try or practise it. Who knows but was offered out of the blue for free. The reason I believe her inexperience is because the result was the need for opening the window and most of a can of air freshener. Shame as I was having a great time. Unsurprisingly she didn't want to try again.

Offline sub_marine

Did it loads with my first GF, she even told me before we first had sex that she liked anal, first few times was covered and a smear of KY, but soon got into the hang of spitting on her bumhole and transferring some pussy juice to get in.  Even after we split she would come round occasionally as I think she was too shy to ask her new BF for anal, or maybe he was too big for her.  She could manage to have anal orgasms so always kept me interested, as if it was just up to me I wasn't bothered which hole.

I find the best anal is when the girl suggests it, as she probably knows she likes it, nothing worse than with a reluctant recipient that is just giving in for cash. 

Offline The Owl

Did it loads with my first GF, she even told me before we first had sex that she liked anal, first few times was covered and a smear of KY, but soon got into the hang of spitting on her bumhole and transferring some pussy juice to get in.  Even after we split she would come round occasionally as I think she was too shy to ask her new BF for anal, or maybe he was too big for her.  She could manage to have anal orgasms so always kept me interested, as if it was just up to me I wasn't bothered which hole.

I find the best anal is when the girl suggests it, as she probably knows she likes it, nothing worse than with a reluctant recipient that is just giving in for cash.

When I first heard about anal orgasms for women I was dubious, but after some research I realised that the clitoris is huge, looking like something from a sci-fi horror movie (sorry ladies), and in some cases can be stimulated through anal sex, resulting in orgasms for the woman. And this is why an escort that claimed to have anal orgasms ended up being a kinky mental turn on for me. The physical sensations where nothing special but the way she writhed and moaned to orgasm with my cock up her arse with a thing of beauty, worth the price. I know some punters on here will think she might have been a TS but if that was the case then the surgeon who formed her pussy was so far ahead of medical science he must have been a variation of Dr. Frankenstein.

Offline Bond

I'm a huge porn fan but I avoid anal porn like the plague. Needless to say I've never tried nor do I have any inclination to do so.

Not judging anyone, but the hygiene aspect of it turns me off, condom or no condom.


Offline JontyR

Never really engage in anal with escorts. For me the extra turn on in civvy land is to see if she'll let you.

That's sort of negated in punterworld where everything is a commercial transaction. The extra turn on then is as erotic as getting an extra topping on your pizza and paying accordingly.

Offline pythondan

I've done it a few times with girlfriends and WGs.

With one of the former we did it bareback and it was a real turn-on as if felt very different from a pussy.

I have done it a few times with WGs and the only really memorable session was with a (sadly retired) regular. She had agreed to anal at the start of the session. We had gone through the normal oral and moved onto pussy sex and she was riding me cowgirl style, asked me if I was ready for anal then lubed up her bum and transferred my cock to it and sank down then rode me like a Derby winner.

I had been expecting to do it doggy style as I had done with previous WGs so this was a real treat as she seemed to be enjoying it greatly. £50 extra well spent  :D
« Last Edit: December 04, 2020, 10:47:19 pm by pythondan »

Offline scutty brown

I did it with Devon Breeze. First and only time (so far). Lasted for about 15 seconds. It was good, but it’s not a must for me. Wouldn't be fussed if I never did it again.

Devon Breeze? I thought that was a racehorse...

But back on topic....the only reason anal 'feels' good is due to the mental  satisfaction of dominating / degrading another person.
Some get off on it, some don't.

Offline Home Alone

Thanks for the replies guys I may try it again but it was offered at no extra charge so couldn’t turn it down really

No; I can see that; as my ex-mother-in-law would have said - not on this topic😉 - "You'd have been foolish not to!!"

Me; I'd have said, "Gerrin there lad!!"

Offline winkywanky

My favourite escort's a right sexy dish
Who loves to do doggy, cowgirl then mish
And when in the mood
For something more rude
She'll grease up her velvet starfish.


 :lol:

Go to the top of the class B4bcock!

Offline Kerosene

"It's better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't."

I first heard that on a Butthole Surfers LP.

Online sadolddeejay

Personally I love it, not only for the taboo aspect but also love the tightness. The taboo aspect turns me on because I find, at my age, I'm becoming increasingly ”meh" about vanilla sex which I've done for fifty years.

I've done anal (giving not receiving!) a few times with WG's, and enjoyed it. No worries about off-putting smells as they've all been well prepared. However, I find that WG's always use water-based lube and during a long anal session it keeps drying out and needs reapplication, which can interrupt the fun too much. I could use saliva to refresh it but can't always produce enough. I guess there's the concern about anything that's not water-based compromising the condom too. Infinitely preferable is anal with my wife (which she only recently offered) with a silicone-based lube , which pretty much stays slippery until the next morning.

Offline Moby Dick

As long as she ain’t a granny.
I prefer to fuck her Fanny.

Whilst a simultaneous finger or thumb
up her delightful little bum.
Is just enough to make me cum.

Offline winkywanky

A finger of fudge is just enough.

Offline davey.edwards1969

Without wishing to repeat what has been said already and as a lover of anal I would just like to add the following
For both males (giving ) and and females (receiving ) there is both a physical and mental dimension - and some like it and others don't
For me it is probably split 50/50 but it will be different for others
Mentally,both with girls I have seen both SP's and civvys there is a certain excitement that she is prepared to give such an intimate act to me - and as an ex told me she got really turned on by being "such a  dirty girl" as she put it
Physically it is different but for me I like the tightness as I enter and always pull my cock almost completely out on each thrust so that we both get the benefit - certainly if you stay buried inside you miss out on that - its even better if in doggy and the girl  is pushing back and fore like she is fucking you
Even when buried if the girl wriggles around a bit it's a great feeling
without being too fluffy and having been in a shit relationship for some time now I  like to think that I do have a "normal" relationship with an SP - even if it's only for an hour and I am paying for it - to make up for what I am used to at home - my "happy time"

Therefore if I'm with an SP who I know really enjoys anal - and some genuinely absolutely love it -I like to think that I am making her happy as well

I was with a girl some time ago who advertised anal - during the deed it was quickly obvious that she was very uncomfortable so I stopped and after the punt she explained that she hated anal and only did it for the extra money - I gave her the extra money anyway, she was very grateful and thanked me for being a gentleman even though she had offered not to charge me for the anal
She went on to explain that she had  sometimes had been in tears after a booking and very often she was sore for days afterwards especially if the guys had been a bit rough which meant she couldn't work
I advised her to stop doing anal as she obviously didn't enjoy it and it was costing her money long term if she couldn't work -  as well as the physical and mental damage it was causing - luckily she took my advice

I guess it is like Marmite for blokes and girls too !
« Last Edit: December 05, 2020, 08:46:00 am by davey.edwards1969 »

Offline Simon_9000

I was with a girl some time ago who advertised anal - during the deed it was quickly obvious that she was very uncomfortable so I stopped and after the punt she explained that she hated anal and only did it for the extra money - I gave her the extra money anyway, she was very grateful and thanked me for being a gentleman even though she had offered not to charge me for the anal
She went on to explain that she had  sometimes had been in tears after a booking and very often she was sore for days afterwards especially if the guys had been a bit rough which meant she couldn't work
I advised her to stop doing anal as she obviously didn't enjoy it and it was costing her money long term if she couldn't work -  as well as the physical and mental damage it was causing - luckily she took my advice

Good work there.  :hi:

I had something similar with a WG once, anal was advertised and she said yes but when I enquired further, she didn't enjoy it so straight away it was off the list as far as I was concerned. It set a great tone to start with and we really got into each other afterwards!  :yahoo: .... even though she was at least half my age.

Offline Doc Holliday


I've done anal (giving not receiving!) a few times with WG's, and enjoyed it. No worries about off-putting smells as they've all been well prepared. However, I find that WG's always use water-based lube and during a long anal session it keeps drying out and needs reapplication, which can interrupt the fun too much. I could use saliva to refresh it but can't always produce enough. I guess there's the concern about anything that's not water-based compromising the condom too. Infinitely preferable is anal with my wife (which she only recently offered) with a silicone-based lube , which pretty much stays slippery until the next morning.

Yes lubrication is the issue, as obviously there is no natural lube. Condoms require compatible water based lubes which do dry out quickly and can lead to condom breakages. Saliva, whilst convenient, should not be used as it is actually a poor lubricant and also dries out quicker as well as possible risk of infection transmission? So to quote the anal cliché .. lube, lube and more lube.

The exception to that is, as you have said, a silicone lube with no condom with a partner who really enjoys it, as against tolerating it ( many SPs) This feels by far the best, but probably few reading are in a position to be able to do this safely.

Personally I also think it is overrated, but if the OH says otherwise then I do as I am told. :blush:


Offline scutty brown


..................I guess it is like Marmite for blokes and girls too !

Marmite ass lubricant............I bet that would work

Offline B4bcock

Marmite ass lubricant............I bet that would work

Your cock would come out looking and tasting like a Twiglet.   Good for arse to mouth, though. 

Offline exhippy

The only time I really enjoyed anal was with a very submissive middle aged Asian lady who was not particularly attractive but seemed to really get off on anal. That really had me going, it felt so naughty

Offline petermisc

I was occasionally offered anal as a free extra by a WG I had got to know well.  The experience was pretty meh for me, but it obviously turned her on (which was the bonus for me).  However, the phaff in preparing (lubricating etc) and having to change condom and clean up after were drawbacks, breaking the flow in proceedings.  Not something I would initiate, let alone pay extra for.  It was one ticked off the bucket list.  As others have said, the idea is more exciting than the reality.

Online myothernameis

Have tried anal a few times, but the first time, nearly put me of, as I withdrew the condom, had a chocolate cream coating  :vomit: :vomit:

Offline winkywanky

Have tried anal a few times, but the first time, nearly put me of, as I withdrew the condom, had a chocolate cream coating  :vomit: :vomit:


Chocolate eclair  :scare:  :vomit:

Offline Shortandsensible

I personally enjoy anal, not over pussy, but sometimes I feel like I need to make a booking which will also include anal. I’ve never done anal in my own personal life/relationships, only ever with Wg’s. But it is only enjoyable for me if the girl also likes it. The last anal booking was with a girl I’ve seen a few times. I hadn’t mentioned anal this time or anything, she was riding me reverse cowgirl, pussy not anal, she then said “let me know when you’re getting quite close, you can finish in my arse” very hot. And I did. She seems to really enjoy it. I’ve done it with other girls who I’ve had to go back to pussy as I could tell they didn’t like it.

What’s the best position for anal? Doggy is my popular I guess?
I fucked a wg (who is now retired/disappeared who I slightly miss actually) who laid on her front like a star, and I laid on top of her. Straight into her arse. Mixture of slow and gentle and fast and hard. It was one of the most powerful orgasms I’ve ever had!! She tensed her arse tight as I came (deliberately or not I don’t know but felt amazing) that was my best ever anal session, and only the second time ever.

Offline sparkus

"It's better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't."

I first heard that on a Butthole Surfers LP.

And by the way son... :music:

Offline sparkus

I'm something of an anal fiend with OHs and FBs and a barebacker to boot but rubbered up it's just not the same with a WG.

Offline sparkus

I personally enjoy anal, not over pussy, but sometimes I feel like I need to make a booking which will also include anal. I’ve never done anal in my own personal life/relationships, only ever with Wg’s. But it is only enjoyable for me if the girl also likes it. The last anal booking was with a girl I’ve seen a few times. I hadn’t mentioned anal this time or anything, she was riding me reverse cowgirl, pussy not anal, she then said “let me know when you’re getting quite close, you can finish in my arse” very hot. And I did. She seems to really enjoy it. I’ve done it with other girls who I’ve had to go back to pussy as I could tell they didn’t like it.

What’s the best position for anal? Doggy is my popular I guess?
I fucked a wg (who is now retired/disappeared who I slightly miss actually) who laid on her front like a star, and I laid on top of her. Straight into her arse. Mixture of slow and gentle and fast and hard. It was one of the most powerful orgasms I’ve ever had!! She tensed her arse tight as I came (deliberately or not I don’t know but felt amazing) that was my best ever anal session, and only the second time ever.

Anal in doggy isn't for me, it's always best spooned or as you've written above in prone.  With most I've done it with they've not really done it much before (apart from one FB who wouldn't let me in her snatch as that was for her well-endowed husband who himself wasn't allowed in round the back) and need guiding in gentle and with your hands to grip against (which doesn't work in doggy).  Paradoxically it would probably enter more comfortably in doggy but it just seems less 'natural'.