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Offline HeavyRepeater25

I'll be moving house soon and considering getting a lodger. I had a look on that 'Spareroom' site and there's some reasonably attractive women on it. Obviously my intentions are purely honourable 🙈, but just wondered if anyone had any experience of female lodgers? I lived in flatshares (of multiple occupants) before and there is a lot of truth to the law of propinquity as my ex was 21 (I was 35) and it only came about because we lived together, but I've never been the 'Land Baron' 😅. It's either a genius idea or a terrible one, I can't work out which 🤔 as worst case scenario she has a boyfriend and all I get is to hear them shagging 🙄
« Last Edit: June 10, 2021, 08:49:27 am by HeavyRepeater25 »
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Offline GingerNuts

How is this related to punting?

Offline HeavyRepeater25

General discussion, would save money on punting. As my sex life literally consists of paying for it (and has done for years - and I imagine as have others) I think it's a legit topic to get some without having to punt given the times we live in. Not hugely different to the seeking.com or Fabswingers topics
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Offline stevedave

Would save money on punting? How? Can you guarantee she will fuck you? No.

Comes across as more than a little creepy to be honest.

Offline joe diddley

The fact that you're even thinking about this as a scenario suggests to me that you should probably do at least one young woman a favour and get a maie lodger.

Offline GingerNuts

General discussion, would save money on punting. As my sex life literally consists of paying for it (and has done for years - and I imagine as have others) I think it's a legit topic to get some without having to punt given the times we live in. Not hugely different to the seeking.com or Fabswingers topics

So is the plan for your lodger to pay for her rent with sex?

Offline HeavyRepeater25

Would save money on punting? How? Can you guarantee she will fuck you? No.

Comes across as more than a little creepy to be honest.

No guarantees but I'm not creepy or ugly, actually very sociable. Just the general landscape in general makes it so hard to get any legitimate sex these days. Subversive tactic I know but it would at least be a way in, if not her possibly her friends 🤷
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Offline HeavyRepeater25

The fact that you're even thinking about this as a scenario suggests to me that you should probably do at least one young woman a favour and get a maie lodger.

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Offline HeavyRepeater25

So is the plan for your lodger to pay for her rent with sex?

Regular lodger, all legit, above board. Ater a while she does the maths and thinks maybe a STR is cheaper than paying £500 a month rent 🤷. I wouldn't plant any seeds/make any moves, just wondering if anyone experienced such a scenario.
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Offline GingerNuts

Regular lodger, after a while she does the maths and thinks maybe a STR is cheaper than paying rent 🤷

Congratulations, you may be on your way to criminal convictions for inciting prostitution for gain and controlling prostitution.

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Regular lodger, all legit, above board. Ater a while she does the maths and thinks maybe a STR is cheaper than paying £500 a month rent 🤷. I wouldn't plant any seeds/make any moves, just wondering if anyone experienced such a scenario.

100% creepy  :scare:

Offline HeavyRepeater25

Congratulations, you may be on your way to criminal convictions for inciting prostitution for gain and controlling prostitution.

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Wow 🤯. Although do wonder how many only raised an issue when the arrangement came to an end.
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Offline Stevelondon

Well I’ve certainly had experience of flat/house sharing as a young man moving to London. Shared a flat with three girls at one point and yes I did have sex with one of them.
Part of life’s rich tapestry.

Moving on and being married we had Au Pairs…….. no never did.

So now as a single bloke I suppose I could think about having a young attractive woman living in my house.
Gosh……. Should have thought about this years ago. :D

What a load of bollocks.
If your wanting some fit bird to move into your spare room and for you to have sex with her every so often. At least be honest enough with her to tell her that before she comes to look at the room.
Otherwise be honest again and just take the rent and leave her alone. Satisfy yourself with just being able to enjoy her company maybe.
Creepy if you ask me.
« Last Edit: June 10, 2021, 09:12:26 am by Stevelondon »

Offline HeavyRepeater25

Well I’ve certainly had experience of flat/house sharing as a young man moving to London. Shared a flat with three girls at one point and yes I did have sex with one of them.
Part of life’s rich tapestry.

Moving on and being married we had Au Pairs…….. no never did.

So now as a single bloke I suppose I could think about having a young attractive woman living in my house.
Gosh……. Should have thought about this years ago. :D

What a load of bollocks.
If your wanting some fit bird to move into your spare room and for you to have sex with her every so often. At least be honest enough with her to tell her that before she comes to look at the room.
Otherwise be honest again and just take the rent and leave her alone. Satisfy yourself with just being able to enjoy her company maybe.
Creepy if you ask me.



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Offline fr0zen2

Having only read the initial message on the thread:

I have a female lodger in my flat. Attractive, but honestly its not a line worth considering or breaching I think. She keeps the place clean (tidies a lot more than I do so free cleaner I guess!), cooks for me*, and the rent helps the punting/seeking fund. Why ruin that setup.

*well, she makes too much food sometimes really so passes on the excess.
« Last Edit: June 10, 2021, 09:38:45 am by fr0zen2 »

Offline Payyourwaymate

I think this should be moved to the off-topic section. Does not have much to do with punting I'm afraid.

Offline Metalgear2018

If you get a female lodger just be respectful of her. If you try anything in a sexual way you will be hit with a "Me too" case years down the line. Also you don't know if she has a crazy boyfriend/ ex who will attack you. Plus she might have family members who will turn up at your address.

In my experience female lodgers have a boyfriend and they are clued up on dodgy male landlords trying to get some on the side.

At the end of the day. Just get a female lodger keep you distance, collect your rent, and stay focused on making money.

Online myothernameis

Wouldn't it be funny if your female lodger was a ts, and she didn't advertise this, and the landlord tried it on  :D :D

Offline Horseman

Why do I get the impression that if OP does get a female lodger he'd end up rummaging though her room and sniffing underwear?

Wow, the creepy vibes from this post are of the chart!

Offline mh

Sex for rent is illegal. It goes on, but is illegal and you could get caught in a honey trap if you offer a room on a basis other than paid rent.

Any girl who does pay you rent will know that as a male landlord you're likely to be wanting to perv on her, bump into her in the bathroom, rummage through her things. Unless you're a hunk or she's a desperate nympho I would put money on her being fully clothed in communal areas of the house with a frumpy dressing gown. And if savvy enough a (possibly disguised) webcam in her room to protect her personal area/things and screw you right over should you transgress!

Offline Ghost89

Hasn’t this been the basis of many a porno movie?

Offline dubhcarr

check with your lawyer OP as to the implications of a lodger (male or female) I suspect that not to infringe a female lodgers human rights that you may have to contemplate her having a partner over for the night. It is a business letting a room and the law offers lodgers (paying guests) protections.

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I think this should be moved to the off-topic section. Does not have much to do with punting I'm afraid.

I wonder if it's an appropriate topic for here at all.

The question reinforces social stereotypes about men who punt being predatory / weird.

I think the idea is 100% creepy and the type of thing that any journos who lurk here would use as examples of the typical punter behaviour.

Online Punterperson1971

Very creepy I you would probly end up wearing her make up and clothes when she’s out,if I was her I’d have to put a lock on door too


Offline Metalgear2018

I wonder if it's an appropriate topic for here at all.

The question reinforces social stereotypes about men who punt being predatory / weird.

I think the idea is 100% creepy and the type of thing that any journos who lurk here would use as examples of the typical punter behaviour.

It's inappropriate for this site. I don't know the OP motivates behind the post.

Online as69

Get a lodger male or female - and use the rent money you receive for your punting fund. That way there are no complications or lines crossed!

Shagging your lodger will only lead to more complications:
- legality
- your expectations will be different to hers (frequency of sex, exclusivity of partners, money, bills, gifts etc...)
- emotional attachment

Offline hendrix

What a creep. Cheers Kev40!  :thumbsup:

Offline donnybob

My wife and I had a few lodgers in our previous house male and female

I never thought about any of them sexually, one lady asked me to give her a massage and she was topless, afterwards she asked me why I didn't massager her boobs.

Next massage which was also the last I gave her, I did massage her boobs, I was surprised that it did nothing for me sexually.

So I suppose unconsciously there is that line and you don't cross it, incidentally I don't think she was coming onto me at all, asking for a massage

Online Fuzzyduck

Good call, Kev. I struggle to understand why anyone would think this could be a good idea but the fact that he didn't seem to appreciate the weight of views against this is deeply disturbing.

Offline fisherofsouls

No guarantees but I'm not creepy or ugly, actually very sociable. Just the general landscape in general makes it so hard to get any legitimate sex these days. Subversive tactic I know but it would at least be a way in, if not her possibly her friends 🤷

Exactly this! Many years ago I shared a house with 3 girls. Didn't really fancy any of them but got along great so all was good. But the number of other single girls I met through living there was phenomenal. Plus I got the "seal of approval" from my housemates when a girl would ask "what's he like?". It was a very nice couple of years :)

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Good call, Kev. I struggle to understand why anyone would think this could be a good idea but the fact that he didn't seem to appreciate the weight of views against this is deeply disturbing.

I won’t delete this thread as it may highlight what is acceptable, and any other creepy fuckers  :hi:


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I won’t delete this thread as it may highlight what is acceptable, and any other creepy fuckers  :hi:
I thought it was another newbie who thought he could post anything he wanted but he's been here 5 years.   :wacko:

Offline notcalledchris

If your intentions are purely honourable then fine, but if they are truly honourable, then why post on a punting site?

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Offline Liverpool

use the rent money you receive for your punting fund.

With you lack of reviews in 6 years a member, your punting fund would leave you enough over for a 5 bedroom home!



Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Well i reckon you've been watching too much Pornhub mate!

Do as another poster says, get a lodger in and use that money for the punting habit. You can get a "rent a room tax concession of IIRC 70 to 80 quid a week or so.

But for frucks sakes don't look  on spareroms as a bloody dating or escort agency site on the cheap!!

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Well i reckon you've been watching too much Pornhub mate!

Do as another poster says, get a lodger in and use that money for the punting habit. You can get a "rent a room tax concession of IIRC 70 to 80 quid a week or so.

But for frucks sakes don't look  on spareroms as a bloody dating or escort agency site on the cheap!!

Shit! sparerooms not spareroms;!!!!

Online Thephoenix

I'd like to have about a dozen lodgers, all pretty young university students.
I wouldn't charge them any rent as long as they looked after my every need, including bringing me my cocoa at night, and sliding into bed for some rumpy pumpy......zzzzzzzzzz

MATRON......"Wake up Mr Phoenix, you've been having those funny dreams again and spilt your cocoa!"


Offline mh

Shit! sparerooms not spareroms;!!!!

That's an entirely different kind of website...  :lol:

Offline mh

I'd like to have about a dozen lodgers, all pretty young university students.
I wouldn't charge them any rent as long as they looked after my every need, including bringing me my cocoa at night, and sliding into bed for some rumpy pumpy......zzzzzzzzzz

MATRON......"Wake up Mr Phoenix, you've been having those funny dreams again and spilt your cocoa!"

Isn't this more likely...

MATRON......"Wake up Mr Phoenix, you've been having those funny dreams again and your yoghurt has gone everywhere!"

Offline cotton

id say doing that with a stranger is unwise and best avoided for a host of reasons. It might be more possible doing it with a girl you know but still id say be very cautious , people tend to just look at it like the only danger is from the guy being predatory but us guys should be aware its risky cos the girl could be a complete psycho and make your life hell.  I one time let a girl come live with me , at first it was strictly on a business rent room for money basis , then she suggested we get together and basically we carve her housing benefit 50/50 , which i was ok with as the whole reason was that i liked her.  Anyway she started telling me what to do and acting like she owned the place and zero sex which was half due to her being frosty and half me being cautious anyway that actually was a good thing in hindsight. Anyway i was left in a kind of unsatisfactory limbo , i even had her mum phoning me up saying her daughter needs more privacy , like wtf , it was like waklking on eggshells , but fortunately i managed to get rid of her.
In future id say if your gonna let a girl stay with you just do it with no strings , like just do it to help her out like let her stay for a couple of weeks and then the expectation is , unless somethings changes , that she will find somewhere else. Maybe something changes like she jumps into bed with you or maybe you just enjoy having her around and helping her out and you get on and you can let it go as long as it works , but from a guy pov id say be v cautious.

Offline Payyourwaymate

I think OP who is now banned just did not have the balls to say he wanted a live in sex provider/sex slave without having to pay. His roundabout predatory behaviour still amounts to the fukery he was too scared to say lol. How odd of OP  :timeout:.
« Last Edit: June 10, 2021, 05:17:13 pm by Payyourwaymate »

Offline golden bull

Creepy tosspot and good riddance. I had a friend years ago and her landlord was pestering her in exactly the same scenario. A couple of us were going to get together to duff him up but common sense prevailed and got her out of there ASAP and she had to sofa surf for a while amongst our friendship group until we found her another place.
This shit is creepy as fuck man.
Well done for kicking him out.

Offline Horseman

Creepy tosspot and good riddance. I had a friend years ago and her landlord was pestering her in exactly the same scenario. A couple of us were going to get together to duff him up but common sense prevailed and got her out of there ASAP and she had to sofa surf for a while amongst our friendship group until we found her another place.
This shit is creepy as fuck man.
Well done for kicking him out.

Its literally the behaviour of a predator. Good job by the mods removing him.

I've never felt the need to get a lodger in but I've had friends (of both sexes) crash at mine when they've been in a bind. Never once did it cross my mind that I might get some benefits out of it!

Offline jlike

Never had a lodger, don't want one but remember never mix business with pleasure, keep them separate.

Offline Urban_G

Some people must think that because we punt we must have sick or sinister tendencies with the intent to take advantage of unsuspecting females in normal everyday circumstances.

Good job with the ban :thumbsup:
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