Could you perform with a lady when the OH is very close by?

[Taggart]

Earlier in the year, I enquired after an escort for an hour of fun, but the deal was while I was with her having my wicked way in the hotel room, the husband/other half would 'hide' in the bathroom. There was no compromise and he would not wait outside the room in a car (it was a motel type scenario), so the booking was not progressed. Shame as lady had a delightful body.

Now I see from FR External Link/Members Only  the guy goes off with in the back of the car with the OH driving, and he's fingering her on the way to the fuck spot. Not sure what he did while the guy was on the job.

It made me wonder how many could have sex with another blokes partner/wife while he was in close proximity, able to listen to all what was happening?

[smiths]

Earlier in the year, I enquired after an escort for an hour of fun, but the deal was while I was with her having my wicked way in the hotel room, the husband/other half would 'hide' in the bathroom. There was no compromise and he would not wait outside the room in a car (it was a motel type scenario), so the booking was not progressed. Shame as lady had a delightful body.

Now I see from FR External Link/Members Only  the guy goes off with in the back of the car with the OH driving, and he's fingering her on the way to the fuck spot. Not sure what he did while the guy was on the job.

It made me wonder how many could have sex with another blokes partner/wife while he was in close proximity, able to listen to all what was happening?

Done it loads of times Swinging and at some Parties that allow couples in, had a good chat with the guys sometimes as well. Sometimes the case the guy cant satisfy his OH so they agree she can go and get fucked as long as he is present, rather than her sneaking off for an affair behind the guys back.

[SirFrank]

I've never had a punt where that has happened but I used to do a bit of swinging until a few years ago. I had a few couple meets, not cuckold as such, but it was clear they both got off on some bloke fucking the wife while the husband watched. I had no problem with this, in fact I found it a real turn on fucking another mans wife in front of him.

However the reason I stopped swinging was because a couple I met several times started acting a little odd. He wanted things to get more adventurous - eg 3somes and more somes and she started to become more distant. The night his was suggested she later admitted while we were getting dressed that she only swung to keep him happy. She didn't enjoy it etc. it made me feel sick. I said to her you must tell him how you feel. I never went back and I've never swung since

[Roland D Hay]

I've fucked a girl while her partner watched and filmed, I was surprisingly ok with it. It did nothing for me that we were being watched but I've no idea how I'd have felt had he got his cock out. I've always fancied attending a party but I have a slight psychological barrier that I may or may not overcome.

[ulander]

Some years ago, I spotted a woman on AW (no longer active, so there's no point in saying who) to whom I was really attracted.  Incredibly sexy, she seemed.  Only problem was, she worked with her husband as a couple.  You were welcome to just fuck her and have nothing to do with the husband.  But the husband was going to be in the room, come what may.

I had a long talk with her on the phone and explained that I was straight and just didn't feel I'd be able to perform with another man in the room, never mind her husband.  She was helpful and understanding but said that that was the deal - take it or leave it.  She said that her husband was well used to punters not wanting him in the room.  He would take no interest in us.  He would just get on with work on his laptop.  Once she and I got going, she said, I'd forget all about him.

Despite serious misgivings on my part, lust took over and I arranged a two hours meeting.  I found them both charming and very easy to get on with.  The meeting actually lasted for around five hours, though I only paid for two.  We talked and drank wine for a couple of hours, then she and I got down to it.  It was incredibly exciting having someone else in the room.  I just hadn't expected this, but it was a real adrenalin rush.  She clearly got off on it, too.  The sex was some of the best I'd ever enjoyed.  She was every bit as good as I'd hoped she'd be.  Before the end, and to my astonishment, I suggested her husband should join us on the bed.  That was when I began to realise the amazing possibilities afforded by a threesome.

I saw them a couple of dozen times again, over the next four years, until they split up and she moved away from the area.  But this experience gave me a taste for 3-somes and moresomes and I've probably seen another ten different couples since then.  I've enjoyed every couple I've met. 

So, Taggart, I really can understand your reluctance.  But if you give it a go, you might surprise yourself.  And now I think about it, I'd much rather have the other half in the room, rather than lurking in the bathroom.  There's something a bit creepy about that.

[akauya]

I have done this a lot in swingers parties. There are the couples who choose one of two blokes to fuck the woman and there are other couples who like a free for all gangbang fest. I've done both. I much prefer the 'intimate' couple with one or two extra men because they are not as hurried. I also like the fact that the husband sometimes encourages you or guides you as to what it is  his wife/partner likes and directs you accordingly. I've also met a couple where the husband filmed us fucking. I was a bit worried at first wondering whether our pics would end up on he internet. Some of them did, on their profile on the swingers site but my face was never shown so that was OK.

It's great fun, everyone should try it.

[vorian]

I've fucked a girl while her partner watched and filmed, I was surprisingly ok with it. It did nothing for me that we were being watched but I've no idea how I'd have felt had he got his cock out. I've always fancied attending a party but I have a slight psychological barrier that I may or may not overcome.

I thought the same about parties and however bad you are psychologically I guarantee I am worse. Now I love parties great fun and all the bad things you think of on the whole are rubbish. Find the right party and format. You will have a blast.

[spz1234]

I used to DJ a Rock night and once every month or two they would combine it with a fetish night. Somehow I ended up back at one of the couples houses that ran it. I ended up fucking the wife in the living room with the husband and their mates present. It was certainly an experience.

Punting wise, yeah, I've done it too but doing it in civvy street was much more of a turn on.

[Roland D Hay]

I thought the same about parties and however bad you are psychologically I guarantee I am worse. Now I love parties great fun and all the bad things you think of on the whole are rubbish. Find the right party and format. You will have a blast.

So how did you break through your initial psychological barrier?

[vorian]

So how did you break through your initial psychological barrier?

I did 121's with one of the WG at the party,  so I was comfortable with her.  Spoke to her in depth about any practical concerns I had. Asked for any advice on UKP had some good and some not so good. Arranged to arrive at the venue early so I was the first there. Engaged with the host and assistant and used humour to break the ice. Were just some of the things I did. I also expected to have a bad time and not come again. It also helps if you choose the right format and party of course.

[Roland D Hay]

I did 121's with one of the WG at the party,  so I was comfortable with her.  Spoke to her in depth about any practical concerns I had. Asked for any advice on UKP had some good and some not so good. Arranged to arrive at the venue early so I was the first there. Engaged with the host and assistant and used humour to break the ice. Were just some of the things I did. I also expected to have a bad time and not come again. It also helps if you choose the right format and party of course.

That's interesting, thank you 

[vorian]

That's interesting, thank you 

Most welcome,  anytime.

[circusbizarre]

yep have done it, doesnt bother me as more interested in what i am doing

[willbred]

I'm comfortable enjoying sex with a WG whilst my wife is in the next county - that's close enough!!

[the_exile]

I've done it - seemed odd having her husband in the house but it did add a bit more spice to the visit.

[jooldude]

Banging a woman with her hubby watching sounds weirdly exciting. I have been to LMP a few times and that was amazing but this is very different - not sure I have the balls for it but I never say never. Three years ago I never thought I would have my dick up a Thai lady's ass but three weeks ago I did exactly that. Who knows where my punting journey will take me next

[blackburnian]

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19645.msg300541#msg300541

Been there , done that , didn't put me off , in fact it was a good meet.

Blackburnian

[Neal69]

Had a strange experience recently.

Turned up at the right place on time for a 45 min booking and her hubby answered the door and showed me in.

I was not expecting this and was unsure how I would react.

Anyway he buggered off into the back of the house uttering something about jobs to do and the lady is in there.

As she was pretty hot she soon had my complete attention and yes it did give me a bit of a rush thinking I was giving it to his missus with him somewhere else in the house.

I think I surprised myself as had I known this was the case before booking I probably would not have booked.

Although I am not naïve enough to believe that WG's sometimes have "security" around or within easy reach I have never actually known for sure that they were in the same building.

All in all its given me a bit of a fancy for a threesome or a couple type booking.

[ciscoxxx69]

Erm....Slightly off topic but in the 'Sex whilst the OH is about' bracket
I wasn't particularly proud of this at the time, but......
Very early in my punting days (about 18 months ago and after about only 2/3 punts) my OH and I, were in the West End to see a show.
We had about 90mins to kill and decided to take a walk through Soho.
Wifey suddenly sees a place and decides to get her nails done....The place also offered massage services downstairs...(naive alert)
"okay" I said "you get your nails done and i'll have a massage".
I was being completely genuine.......and stunningly naive! I have learnt a lot since!
I was led downstairs by a moderately attractive, fit (Bulgarian as it turned out - Irina) young girl.
The first 20minutes were normal massage, but as I was lying on my front she began to just ever so slightly occasionally brush my balls with her hand. I didn't realise what was happening to begin with, but Fuck Me was it erotic knowing that wifey was upstairs only 10feet away......she asked me to turn over onto my back, and then became all coy and girlie when she could see my 'bulging' towel....needless to say, we negotiated a price and a super erotic HJ finished me off.....
I couldn't stop thinking about what had happened all night, whilst making small talk about the show and such like...mental.