Why do you punt guys?

[Aspen]

If you had a wife who always sucked you off when you got home from work & swallowed you'd not go seeing escorts would you?

No, but it's unrealistic to expect anything like that. Sounds like slavery to me.

There's a big difference between a reasonable sex life than none at all though.

If there wasn't such a gulf between the way men and women treat each other sexually in relationships, then prostitution would hardly exist. But it does and for so many people is an integral part of their lives, and I wonder how it is that we evolved into such a situation. It's ridiculous really.

[flybynightpm]

Started because sick of waiting for Xmas,Birthday or summer vacation sex! Been married 30yrs, still love the OH and still find her sexy but hell she is so bloody body conscious so sex is a big no no... well stop eating the haagen-dazs then !! Her size doesn't bother me... I have fucked bigger WGs many a time

[sxman]

For me, it would not matter if I was married to Rebecca More or Sara Jay, my brain is just wired to want variety, I love women its that simple, punting is addictive, why, because its to easy.

[Sonny Crockett]

For me it is for pure escapism where I can indulge into my porn-influenced fantasies and sample the beauty of a woman all to myself and have the sex that I truly want!!!!!!

Sex = Escapism = Pure Bliss 

[d00fer]

Combination of being a fan of variety and fantasy fulfillment for me. Ticking things off my now limited bucket list is a big motivator for me.

[Type_O_Negative]

I decided to punt because...i wasted the best years of my life - i lived like a monk in my twenties - no women at all. Can't give a clear answer to that, maybe low morale, maybe low self-esteem, maybe problems in my family.

Now i'm in mid thirties and i'm striking back. I must catch up with this time i totally lost. 

[webpunter]

For me its like "why does a dog lick its balls ?"

[barnstorm123]

Same old, same old for me. Wife seems to be happy not having sex and even if she does find the will (maybe once a year) its a joyless hurry up and get this over with event. Maybe she doesn't find me attractive anymore. After a few years of this I gave up trying. Punting is one of the best decisions I ever made. I had an affair previously and that was a disaster, and expensive - hotels, dates. Punting is no nonsense, the WGs I have seen have been discrete and it has been easy to keep the two parts of my life separate. I'm enjoying great sex with no guilt for suggesting something a bit different where the wife would make me feel like a pervert if I asked for doggy.

I don't feel guilty at all about this. I'm just loving the great sex with some gorgeous and exciting women.

[Bluefin]

When I was younger, cheated on a gf and felt bad about it for ages. Always thought when I got married I wouldn't do it again,  and was like that for 15 years after meeting my wife, but over time the sex became less and less until you could count on one hand the amount of times we did it per year!
The times we did do it, it was hurry up, don't do this, don't do that, I must add when we first met, she was a dirty slut  and did almost anything!
This got me thinking about my options one day, realising life was passing me by.
Divorce, with mortgage and kids? No thanks, have no intention of ever getting married again.
Affair? Too much hassle/stress.
Prossies seemed the perfect solution. So thanks to the Internet I have indulged a few times and while it's not been perfect so far I am looking forward to a bit of success in the future thanks to forums like this and of course AW.

[Marmalade]

A good reason in my opinion is just getting someone to empty the ball bag in a nice and pleasing manner. It seems to remove the "DESPERATE FOR A SHAG" tattoo on my forehead when I go out to a singles bar or otherwise on the hunt.

[Marsh777]

Great thread.

I'm like a lot of you - simply lack of sex in my relationship. I am quite new to punting and I also want to fulfil so many porn-fuelled fantasies that I could never admit to the missus!!!

[gary03]

why do i punt?variety is the spice of life
like to c mature girls who enjoy been licked & getting wet
but also when on business visiting younger girls to my room
also love to add new nationalitys.just a grest hobby

[King Nuts]

For me, it would not matter if I was married to Rebecca More or Sara Jay, my brain is just wired to want variety, I love women its that simple, punting is addictive, why, because its to easy.

This is very relevant to me too. Have been married three times, which I know is three times more than a great many people, and while I've loved all three wives, the need for variety and off-the-radar thrills is best served by tarts.

Have gone through phases of having affairs instead, and the cost/time excess over seeing a WG has to be considered. An evening out in London can easily surpass a one-hour outcall, and if you've paid for the hotel room anyway....

End of the day, if you've a busy life and you want to keep your domestic life together, tarts is the answer. Best thing you're paying for, in some ways, is being able to walk away afterwards.

[adindas]

If you had a wife who always sucked you off when you got home from work & swallowed you'd not go seeing escorts would you?

Many punters will do that irrrespectively ...
If you read the reply from the start until the last page, you will notice many punters are punting due to varieties they will get in punting. You will not get this from your OH alone.

Variety could be:
- Different types of shapes, ages, nationalities, look,  attractiveness, height, races & colour (eye, skin, hair)
- Experience in difference types activities /playing. Think about people who like or want to experience gangbang, dodging, glory hole,  or for few quite mental people - S&M.

All this kind of thing you will never get it from a single partner ....