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yobbra

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Its pretty obvious from my first post i am an experienced user of seeking and would add a lot to the main group.  I appreciate there must be a lot of timewasters wanting to join it but surely there is a way around it for a genuine seeking user with plenty of knowledge to share?  I didn't know this main thread existed until you mentioned it. 

Offline freeze44

how do i get transferred into that group?  It would be great to be added because i have a lot of experience of seeking to share and would love to 'swop notes' with other guys on here about time wasters/scammers etc and obviously the really good girls i meet and vice versa.  Could the mods put me in that group?

I have a whats app chat group purely with several friends as well who all use seeking and compare notes on girls there so i could also share that information on the main thread.  We have met several of them whilst the girls all claim to have only seen one of us and are exclusive then we expose them as total liars when we are done with them.

I am new here so no idea how to get into that main group you speak about.  Can you assist?

If you ever wonder why the quality of girls on AW/massage parlours has fallen rapidly in the last 5-10 years you will realise why when you join seeking as they are all on there now.  Shame it took me so long to discover it.

The SA group is closed so you cant get on there.

Shock horror that these girls are lying!!  :wackogirl: All wg's do!

And you reckon aw/massage parlours gone down hill due to all being on SA??! Do fine with these where I am so not sure how you make that assumption?

yobbra

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The quality of girls who work in massage parlours/AW is much lower than 10 years ago in my area and seeking must have played a big part in that.  Sure its not the only reason though but definitely a big factor.

course WG's lie but it is funny when 3 of you in your whats app chat group have all been told by them you are exclusive to them.  All three of you arrange to meet one of the three girls you have all been told this by.  Then we arrange to meet all three of them in a hotel bar at the same time and watch their faces as they turn up and realise they have been set up to expose their lies when they see all three of us together at the bar.

Offline Brumish

how do i get transferred into that group?  It would be great to be added because i have a lot of experience of seeking to share and would love to 'swop notes' with other guys on here about time wasters/scammers etc and obviously the really good girls i meet and vice versa.  Could the mods put me in that group?

I have a whats app chat group purely with several friends as well who all use seeking and compare notes on girls there so i could also share that information on the main thread.  We have met several of them whilst the girls all claim to have only seen one of us and are exclusive then we expose them as total liars when we are done with them.

I am new here so no idea how to get into that main group you speak about.  Can you assist?

If you ever wonder why the quality of girls on AW/massage parlours has fallen rapidly in the last 5-10 years you will realise why when you join seeking as they are all on there now.  Shame it took me so long to discover it.

Sounds like you’re way advanced than some of us. Unfortunately Admin has closed that group off as it was taking up too much of his time. I think he’s left it as it is to those that were verified SDs over the last few years. I’d say there is zero chance of that changing now.
Admin has suggested to those that don’t have access to the closed one to create ones similar to this to share experiences etc but the general consensus, on the main board, is that it’s a massive risk to discuss/flag up in detail due to being identified.

The whatsapp thing sounds good mate, however, I’d be cautious of going down that route as we have had moles/twats/white knights that have blurted out information on other SDs when their balls were clenched by their SBs  :)

I’m sure others will have a view on this.

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course WG's lie but it is funny when 3 of you in your whats app chat group have all been told by them you are exclusive to them.  All three of you arrange to meet one of the three girls you have all been told this by.  Then we arrange to meet all three of them in a hotel bar at the same time and watch their faces as they turn up and realise they have been set up to expose their lies when they see all three of us together at the bar.

Why would anyone do something as shitty as that?

yobbra

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I have no idea why girls would tell you that thhey are exclusive to you when they are not.  You would have to ask them why they do it and lie.  It's not like any of us would care if they were just honest.  It wouldn't change anything.

Offline freeze44

Why would anyone do something as shitty as that?

+1 cuntish thing to do   :thumbsdown:

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I have no idea why girls would tell you that thhey are exclusive to you when they are not.  You would have to ask them why they do it and lie.  It's not like any of us would care if they were just honest.  It wouldn't change anything.

I was talking about you not the girls...

yobbra

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Sounds like you’re way advanced than some of us. Unfortunately Admin has closed that group off as it was taking up too much of his time. I think he’s left it as it is to those that were verified SDs over the last few years. I’d say there is zero chance of that changing now.
Admin has suggested to those that don’t have access to the closed one to create ones similar to this to share experiences etc but the general consensus, on the main board, is that it’s a massive risk to discuss/flag up in detail due to being identified.

The whatsapp thing sounds good mate, however, I’d be cautious of going down that route as we have had moles/twats/white knights that have blurted out information on other SDs when their balls were clenched by their SBs  :)

I’m sure others will have a view on this.

I udnerstand the admin hassle that's no problem if i can't be added.  The whats app thing is fine and everyone knows each other tight for years as good friends.  Several are married/in relationships so its water tighht and everyone on there is ultra shrewd regarding not blurting stuff out. 

yobbra

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Why would anyone do something as shitty as that?

Glad we did do it though as what happened in the bar and after in the hotel suite was something else when we had all laughed it off and had a few drinks.  The girls saw the funny side of it in the end.

Offline TPreston

there are freebies. but the hard work would make then unobtainable in a relationship IMO due to the man hours you'd have to put in.

the numbers game to find a paid shag on there isn't always plain sailing so it becomes even more difficult if you make clear you won't be paying then. if girls want a shag  they know tinder is there.

serious work and spreading your net across multiple university towns and factors like looks come into play to blag them.

Offline TPreston

I have no idea why girls would tell you that thhey are exclusive to you when they are not.  You would have to ask them why they do it and lie.  It's not like any of us would care if they were just honest.  It wouldn't change anything.

the same reason you tell someone you're exclusive to a girl when you're seeing 3 other women yourself and chasing for more.

its a white lie to make others feel better. The nature of the site means you cannot expect exclusivity

Offline CheeseBoard

the same reason you tell someone you're exclusive to a girl when you're seeing 3 other women yourself and chasing for more.

its a white lie to make others feel better. The nature of the site means you cannot expect exclusivity

+1 bang on

Offline mdiver1

After putting it of for so long. This thread made me join SA....

yobbra

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there are freebies. but the hard work would make then unobtainable in a relationship IMO due to the man hours you'd have to put in.

the numbers game to find a paid shag on there isn't always plain sailing so it becomes even more difficult if you make clear you won't be paying then. if girls want a shag  they know tinder is there.

serious work and spreading your net across multiple university towns and factors like looks come into play to blag them.

I think the easiest 'freebie' route generally is when a girl is is a wg or hardened SB for money introduces her friends to it and seeing them as a first timer a lot of the time they want to keep up with their friend by being on the site but don't actually want to be a whore and sell themselves but still happy to meet for dinner/drinks and sex.  You can tell these nervous first timers very quickly usually.  the downside is they get cold feet about actually meeting a bigger % of the time but when they do meet up its usually very genuine and top class meet wise.

Offline Cambridgy

Hello from China,
If you have to do international trips away for work then SA can work beautifully.
It is time consuming - but when it delivers it can be a gift from the gods.
It’s a lot safer and easier than punting in USA and many of the more conservative countries in Asia.


Offline Niggledebits

how do i get transferred into that group?  It would be great to be added because i have a lot of experience of seeking to share and would love to 'swop notes' with other guys on here about time wasters/scammers etc and obviously the really good girls i meet and vice versa.  Could the mods put me in that group?

I have a whats app chat group purely with several friends as well who all use seeking and compare notes on girls there so i could also share that information on the main thread.  We have met several of them whilst the girls all claim to have only seen one of us and are exclusive then we expose them as total liars when we are done with them.

I am new here so no idea how to get into that main group you speak about.  Can you assist?

If you ever wonder why the quality of girls on AW/massage parlours has fallen rapidly in the last 5-10 years you will realise why when you join seeking as they are all on there now.  Shame it took me so long to discover it.

Yobbra

Your comments are enlightening and spot on. The Seeking forum would have benefitted greatly from your contributions especially since it helps identify scammers.

Unfortunately Admin has closed the group to any new members due to the effort & time expended on it which I completely understand.

Perhaps you can share the odd tit bits on here however this part of the forum is not as regulated as the Seeking group so open to all including women. Do be careful!

yobbra

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Happy to share bits and pieces and i understand the hassle admin must have had moderating the proper seeking thread.  I get their decision.  I would like to join the group but its no problem if i can't. 

Offline puntingpumping1920

while i agree with the jist of your post, i think money is often the most important factor.

Other things matter but if you're legit and offering a decent amount of money other factors can be forgotten.

A normal looking guy in his 30s offering 150 overnight would probably get left waiting at the bar if a 50 year old overweight guy offered the girl 400 for the same gig. IMO.

doesn't apply to all, but my experience has led me to believe that way. If they wanted a fuck they can find that easy enough on tinder.

 
Fully agree
 

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Offline king tarzan

It's all about money at the end of the day...
Whoring has many crossovers....
Many whores have difficulty admitting they are whores for cash..
It's a denial in there minds..
Seen many over the years..
Not mentally strong enough to admit it to themselves they are a escort/prostitute...

They feel more comfortable being on SA and hook up sites yet under the surface of SA / Hook up sites they are sniffing for cash...

I'm no fool I realise they have the eyes and nose for cash...

It's all various routes masquerading for CASH...
« Last Edit: April 11, 2019, 10:03:12 pm by king tarzan »
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Orion1953

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After a string of very disappointing punts I am considering signing up to SA despite the high subscriptions fee and the need to reveal credit card details.
There are lots of SA girls in my area but most pics appear photoshopped and I don’t quite trust they are genuine. Some seem genuine based on length of time they have been on there. One quite attractive girl joined the site 4 years ago and is online several times almost on a daily basis. So I am pretty sure she is genuine but I find the length of time and frequency of being online unattractive- certainly she has crossed the line into escorting?
How do guys recognise genuine profiles and how do you approach the girls?
Thanks!

Offline BigSaviour

Guys need some advice here please! I'm chatting to this bird and she agreed to meet me first time only for non sexual purpose. She knows I'm looking for sex ultimately. What should we actually do then for our first meet?

Offline Steve2

Guys need some advice here please! I'm chatting to this bird and she agreed to meet me first time only for non sexual purpose. She knows I'm looking for sex ultimately. What should we actually do then for our first meet?

Meet her for a coffee or a drink but explain that there will be no allowance without intimacy

Offline Moby Dick


The girls on Seeking will judge you by your looks. Not all  of them, but a good deal of them wont fuck you if they dont like your pictures.


Never been on SA or dating sites so please forgive my ignorance
Do you have to show face pics on SA?
Is it a public gallery or private?
I would be more concerned about being blackmailed than being turned down for being an ugly old bastard

Offline king tarzan

Never been on SA or dating sites so please forgive my ignorance
Do you have to show face pics on SA?
Is it a public gallery or private?
I would be more concerned about being blackmailed than being turned down for being an ugly old bastard

Keeping it simple...

It's self screening prostitution...
Here they have a choice who to fuck and who not to fuck...
Using modern day technology...

red Stop button

Or
Green keep going button.
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Offline Moby Dick

Thanks but If that’s simple then I would hate to think how confusing your answer to a complex question would be. Maybe you are answering a different question so I will ask again.
Do punters share face pics on SA?
Is it public for everyone to see?
Or done via pm?
 Or independently, ie is it expected to send face pics to possible “dates”


Keeping it simple...

It's self screening prostitution...
Here they have a choice who to fuck and who not to fuck...
Using modern day technology...

red Stop button

Or
Green keep going button.
« Last Edit: April 12, 2019, 12:35:19 pm by Moby Dick »

Offline king tarzan

Thanks but If that’s simple then I would hate to think how confusing your answer to a complex question would be.
Do punters share face pics on SA?
Is it public for everyone to see?
Or done via pm?
 Or independently, ie is it expected to send face pics to possible “dates”

Obviously when personal numbers are exchanged..
Anyway a lot of out and out whores are on SA...

It's no big deal a whore is a whore whether adultworks tinder seeking arrangement agencies.. cash is what it's about..


A while back my mate was showing me tinder...
I didn't want to say anything to him there was a lot of whom I have seen on adultworks...

These so called SA whores are not exclusively one man's..
Anyone who thinks so is very deluded..

Just another crossover masquerade disguise for prostitution..
« Last Edit: April 12, 2019, 12:39:03 pm by king tarzan »
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Offline Moby Dick

Nothing obvious.

Any one can have my punting phone number.
It can’t be traced back to reveal my ID, so not a personal number.

Putting my mugshot on a prostitution “dating” site or sending pics is a different ballgame that leaves me wide open.

Obviously when personal numbers are exchanged..
Anyway a lot of out and out whores are on SA...

It's no big deal a whore is a whore whether adultworks tinder seeking arrangement agencies.. cash is what it's about..


A while back my mate was showing me tinder...
I didn't want to say anything to him there was a lot of whom I have seen on adultworks...

These so called SA whores are not exclusively one man's..
Anyone who thinks so is very deluded..

Just another crossover masquerade disguise for prostitution..

Offline king tarzan

Nothing obvious.

Any one can have my punting phone number.
It can’t be traced back to reveal my ID, so not a personal number.

Putting my mugshot on a prostitution “dating” site or sending pics is a different ballgame that leaves me wide open.

Personal punting number I meant

Obviously not primary usage number..
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Offline Third Rock

Thanks but If that’s simple then I would hate to think how confusing your answer to a complex question would be. Maybe you are answering a different question so I will ask again.
Do punters share face pics on SA?
Is it public for everyone to see?
Or done via pm?
 Or independently, ie is it expected to send face pics to possible “dates”

As a paid/premium member you don’t have to show a face picture to exchange messages with girls, although I think the girls need to have them given their membership is often free. In reality you can have a picture which is kept private and you decide who has access to it, which keeps things relatively discreet for the guys. It’s unlikely that many girls will want to meet without seeing a pic first so it’s useful to have something there that can be shown to anyone you might be interested in.

It’s also worthwhile having a kik account which works much the same as WhatsApp except you don’t need to give your phone number, which is again useful if you need that discretion.

Offline Moby Dick

Thanks for explaining.
No wonder there are reports of scamming if sharing photos is the expectation.

Don’t think I would get away with my avatar, or famous lookalike.


As a paid/premium member you don’t have to show a face picture to exchange messages with girls, although I think the girls need to have them given their membership is often free. In reality you can have a picture which is kept private and you decide who has access to it, which keeps things relatively discreet for the guys. It’s unlikely that many girls will want to meet without seeing a pic first so it’s useful to have something there that can be shown to anyone you might be interested in.

It’s also worthwhile having a kik account which works much the same as WhatsApp except you don’t need to give your phone number, which is again useful if you need that discretion.

Offline king tarzan

I remember last year a attractive work colleague made me an offer to buy her the latest iPhone ( around £800 +) and we can spend a night together...


Negative for me was I will get bored after an hour...
So £800+ would be wasted...

I can rent a super honey for around £200+ for a very plentyful satisfactory 1 hour and then a few more different hotties after that over the next few weeks for that £800..


I told her a big fat NOPE... Buy it yourself!


SA would be totally useless for me as I would get bored with the same woman, plus socially interacting, not for me..


I prefer simple pay as you go on different women.
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Offline Brumish

I remember last year a attractive work colleague made me an offer to buy her the latest iPhone ( around £800 +) and we can spend a night together...


Negative for me was I will get bored after an hour...
So £800+ would be wasted...

I can rent a super honey for around £200+ for a very plentyful satisfactory 1 hour and then a few more different hotties after that over the next few weeks for that £800..


I told her a big fat NOPE... Buy it yourself!


SA would be totally useless for me as I would get bored with the same woman, plus socially interacting, not for me..


I prefer simple pay as you go on different women.

Applying that very Logic, you could’ve asked for an hours worth perhaps based on a 12 hour ‘night’? And perhaps suggested she does that with 11 more colleagues at the given rate of £66.66....and you’d have a very happy work colleague  :D

Or was the real reason you didn’t actually find her that attractive at £66.66 per hour?  :crazy:

Offline king tarzan

Applying that very Logic, you could’ve asked for an hours worth perhaps based on a 12 hour ‘night’? And perhaps suggested she does that with 11 more colleagues at the given rate of £66.66....and you’d have a very happy work colleague  :D

Or was the real reason you didn’t actually find her that attractive at £66.66 per hour?  :crazy:

Can't be eating chicken curry every other day for 1 hour near enough 2 weeks.


And yes she is very attractive... But not worth £800+ iPhone when I will get bored and irritated after an hour or maximum 90 mins.
« Last Edit: April 12, 2019, 02:21:31 pm by king tarzan »
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Offline Jpmcgee

A couple of observations from me. feel free to chime in gents and add.

I’ve seen the following categories on SA:
1.   Straight up hookers - pro/photoshopped pics, EEs - avoid
2.   Pro SBs – ridic allowances and as above
3.   Platonics – even more ridic and avoid
4.   Pic/vid/panty sellers and scammers - avoid
5.   Students – very flaky, some very disillusioned but some good gems
6.   Middle grounders – understand they need to provide sex for some sort of consideration whether that is ppm/monthly allowance or upmarket dinner and drinks.
7.   Daters – interesting category that want to rub shoulders with wealthy and/or successful men

This isn’t an exhaustive list and pretty generalised.

You should register as an SB and see the quality of what else is out there. Seriously, if you are a ‘normal’ guy, you’ll do pretty well. I’d say:
-   Don’t be overly sexualised in your prof
-   Put up some sort of picture, even if you blur your face
-   Don’t put your wealth is £10m or anything else ridic (youll be surprised at how many middle aged guys have taken a selfie in their parent’s dated bathroom and put they earn 1m a year!)
-   Avoid any horror selfies. I’d go as far as saying avoid any shirtless shots – even if youre ripped
-   Keep the text normal, show some personality and don’t try and be too ‘alpha’

Once you get talking to a SB, run game like you would do on tinder/bumble etc. Avoid transactional or sexualised chat as a lot of these girls don’t want to ‘feel’ like an escort – and some are quite easily startled. Being younger, cooler, fitter and having some game will help you get laid easier but not necessarily cheaper.

Some other tips from me:

- avoid any girl with a trout pout – they are invariably hookers, EEs, pro SDs with ridic demands and/or thick as sh*t
- avoid any profiles which have the words ‘spoilt’
- i'm wary of the girls who have been on there for over a year or less than 2 weeks
+ try and move the conversation the conversation over to whatsapp within 5 messages.
+ a quick phone call before a meet can sometimes wean out the flakers
+ non social media linked punting phone etc
- i personally avoid anyone giving me their kik. kik can be less personal than a phone number and hence there are a higher % of scammer/timewasters.
+ don’t pay upfront; includes train tickets and meets (be wary of girls who would take money and run out a bar)
+ carry plenty condoms, a lot of girls are pretty blasé about protection and there may be a line of thought that SBs could be riskier than hookers
- Don’t pre book any hotel rooms. Dayuse is great and you don’t get burned if you don’t use.
~ against my better judgement – ive brought girls back to my flat (I’ve got a decent place in central in a decent area) and the jurys still out for me on this – better to trust your judgement. My view is that the women on SA are more vindictive and crazier than on tinder/bumble etc
- students for me are the flakiest and never turn up on time. Probably because they haven’t matured yet but you can find good ‘value’ in this category.

As everyone else has mentioned, its hugely time consuming but can be extremely fun... enjoy

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Offline Payyourwaymate

In regards to seeking, I do not understand why someone would pay more money for an illusion. If one so strongly desires an emotional connection with someone who is trying to sell you an illusion; maybe that individual should take some time for introspection to question if they are really happy with themselves and their lives.

Surely the lies on both side must create some form of cognitive dissonance and cause problems down the line?

As long as you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself, why do you need to pay a woman to lie to you that she really cares for you whilst providing sex? 

If you want companionship I am sure a dog is a better choice. In my humble opinion, I think it would be better to separate lust from emotional bonding, for your wallets and well being.

Offline Niggledebits

In regards to seeking, I do not understand why someone would pay more money for an illusion. If one so strongly desires an emotional connection with someone who is trying to sell you an illusion; maybe that individual should take some time for introspection to question if they are really happy with themselves and their lives.

Surely the lies on both side must create some form of cognitive dissonance and cause problems down the line?

As long as you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself, why do you need to pay a woman to lie to you that she really cares for you whilst providing sex? 

If you want companionship I am sure a dog is a better choice. In my humble opinion, I think it would be better to separate lust from emotional bonding, for your wallets and well being.

Mr P

A very intelligent response.  I often debate AW v Seeking. I suppose it is the chase, bit like seeing a girl in a bikini v a bikini with a wrap. That naughty glimpse rather than full on.

The reason I currently prefer Seeking is that the girls I see haven’t been rogered 5 times that day. I have met some very well educated girls from several parts of the world and it isn’t as rushed.

Many on Seeking aren’t deluded enough to think that the girls love them, however it is like the first time you had sex with your other half, they aim to please.

Offline Brumish

Mr P

A very intelligent response.  I often debate AW v Seeking. I suppose it is the chase, bit like seeing a girl in a bikini v a bikini with a wrap. That naughty glimpse rather than full on.

The reason I currently prefer Seeking is that the girls I see haven’t been rogered 5 times that day. I have met some very well educated girls from several parts of the world and it isn’t as rushed.

Many on Seeking aren’t deluded enough to think that the girls love them, however it is like the first time you had sex with your other half, they aim to please.

Yep this.
I’d also add that not everyone actually lies on there. The spectrum is also there for whatever arrangement you’d want.

Offline xyfek

In regards to seeking, I do not understand why someone would pay more money for an illusion. If one so strongly desires an emotional connection with someone who is trying to sell you an illusion; maybe that individual should take some time for introspection to question if they are really happy with themselves and their lives.

Surely the lies on both side must create some form of cognitive dissonance and cause problems down the line?

As long as you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself, why do you need to pay a woman to lie to you that she really cares for you whilst providing sex? 

If you want companionship I am sure a dog is a better choice. In my humble opinion, I think it would be better to separate lust from emotional bonding, for your wallets and well being.

You raise some very interesting points. At the end of the day, everyone punts for different reasons. Some look for variety and kinky experiences that they can't get elsewhere. Others want a more intimate experience, someone to bond with, possibly without the hassle of a full on relationship.

Speaking for myself, and without giving too much away on a public forum, recent events have made me realise that I actually want more than what's typically on offer on AW, even by the best providers. I don't dispute that this is a dangerous path to take, but is it really an illusion if it's real to you? Is it so absurd to think (or hope, even) that it can be real for her too?

And what if it's all a lie? I've had girlfriends in the past for whom I felt nothing more than affection, and I stayed long after lust was gone. Wasn't that a lie too? Maybe I'm just deluded and making up reasons for joining SA, but I do believe that as long as two people get along well, there's plenty of chemistry, and honest communication it's possible to keep a healthy arrangement going.

Offline Colston36

I found it took a TREMENDOUS amount of time but I did end up with a couple of goodies. One I still see two years later. But I haven't the patience, and I like variety and kinkiness which are easier on AW.

Orion1953

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A couple of observations from me. feel free to chime in gents and add.

I’ve seen the following categories on SA:
1.   Straight up hookers - pro/photoshopped pics, EEs - avoid
2.   Pro SBs – ridic allowances and as above
3.   Platonics – even more ridic and avoid
4.   Pic/vid/panty sellers and scammers - avoid
5.   Students – very flaky, some very disillusioned but some good gems
6.   Middle grounders – understand they need to provide sex for some sort of consideration whether that is ppm/monthly allowance or upmarket dinner and drinks.
7.   Daters – interesting category that want to rub shoulders with wealthy and/or successful men

This isn’t an exhaustive list and pretty generalised.

You should register as an SB and see the quality of what else is out there. Seriously, if you are a ‘normal’ guy, you’ll do pretty well. I’d say:
-   Don’t be overly sexualised in your prof
-   Put up some sort of picture, even if you blur your face
-   Don’t put your wealth is £10m or anything else ridic (youll be surprised at how many middle aged guys have taken a selfie in their parent’s dated bathroom and put they earn 1m a year!)
-   Avoid any horror selfies. I’d go as far as saying avoid any shirtless shots – even if youre ripped
-   Keep the text normal, show some personality and don’t try and be too ‘alpha’

Once you get talking to a SB, run game like you would do on tinder/bumble etc. Avoid transactional or sexualised chat as a lot of these girls don’t want to ‘feel’ like an escort – and some are quite easily startled. Being younger, cooler, fitter and having some game will help you get laid easier but not necessarily cheaper.

Some other tips from me:

- avoid any girl with a trout pout – they are invariably hookers, EEs, pro SDs with ridic demands and/or thick as sh*t
- avoid any profiles which have the words ‘spoilt’
- i'm wary of the girls who have been on there for over a year or less than 2 weeks
+ try and move the conversation the conversation over to whatsapp within 5 messages.
+ a quick phone call before a meet can sometimes wean out the flakers
+ non social media linked punting phone etc
- i personally avoid anyone giving me their kik. kik can be less personal than a phone number and hence there are a higher % of scammer/timewasters.
+ don’t pay upfront; includes train tickets and meets (be wary of girls who would take money and run out a bar)
+ carry plenty condoms, a lot of girls are pretty blasé about protection and there may be a line of thought that SBs could be riskier than hookers
- Don’t pre book any hotel rooms. Dayuse is great and you don’t get burned if you don’t use.
~ against my better judgement – ive brought girls back to my flat (I’ve got a decent place in central in a decent area) and the jurys still out for me on this – better to trust your judgement. My view is that the women on SA are more vindictive and crazier than on tinder/bumble etc
- students for me are the flakiest and never turn up on time. Probably because they haven’t matured yet but you can find good ‘value’ in this category.

As everyone else has mentioned, its hugely time consuming but can be extremely fun... enjoy
Thank you, a very clear and helpful summary. I am just browsing at the moment but may become a member shortly. I will keep all this in the back of my mind.

Offline Niggledebits

You raise some very interesting points. At the end of the day, everyone punts for different reasons. Some look for variety and kinky experiences that they can't get elsewhere. Others want a more intimate experience, someone to bond with, possibly without the hassle of a full on relationship.

Speaking for myself, and without giving too much away on a public forum, recent events have made me realise that I actually want more than what's typically on offer on AW, even by the best providers. I don't dispute that this is a dangerous path to take, but is it really an illusion if it's real to you? Is it so absurd to think (or hope, even) that it can be real for her too?

And what if it's all a lie? I've had girlfriends in the past for whom I felt nothing more than affection, and I stayed long after lust was gone. Wasn't that a lie too? Maybe I'm just deluded and making up reasons for joining SA, but I do believe that as long as two people get along well, there's plenty of chemistry, and honest communication it's possible to keep a healthy arrangement going.

I absolutely agree.

yobbra

  • Guest
A couple of observations from me. feel free to chime in gents and add.

I’ve seen the following categories on SA:
1.   Straight up hookers - pro/photoshopped pics, EEs - avoid
2.   Pro SBs – ridic allowances and as above
3.   Platonics – even more ridic and avoid
4.   Pic/vid/panty sellers and scammers - avoid
5.   Students – very flaky, some very disillusioned but some good gems
6.   Middle grounders – understand they need to provide sex for some sort of consideration whether that is ppm/monthly allowance or upmarket dinner and drinks.
7.   Daters – interesting category that want to rub shoulders with wealthy and/or successful men

This isn’t an exhaustive list and pretty generalised.

You should register as an SB and see the quality of what else is out there. Seriously, if you are a ‘normal’ guy, you’ll do pretty well. I’d say:
-   Don’t be overly sexualised in your prof
-   Put up some sort of picture, even if you blur your face
-   Don’t put your wealth is £10m or anything else ridic (youll be surprised at how many middle aged guys have taken a selfie in their parent’s dated bathroom and put they earn 1m a year!)
-   Avoid any horror selfies. I’d go as far as saying avoid any shirtless shots – even if youre ripped
-   Keep the text normal, show some personality and don’t try and be too ‘alpha’

Once you get talking to a SB, run game like you would do on tinder/bumble etc. Avoid transactional or sexualised chat as a lot of these girls don’t want to ‘feel’ like an escort – and some are quite easily startled. Being younger, cooler, fitter and having some game will help you get laid easier but not necessarily cheaper.

Some other tips from me:

- avoid any girl with a trout pout – they are invariably hookers, EEs, pro SDs with ridic demands and/or thick as sh*t
- avoid any profiles which have the words ‘spoilt’
- i'm wary of the girls who have been on there for over a year or less than 2 weeks
+ try and move the conversation the conversation over to whatsapp within 5 messages.
+ a quick phone call before a meet can sometimes wean out the flakers
+ non social media linked punting phone etc
- i personally avoid anyone giving me their kik. kik can be less personal than a phone number and hence there are a higher % of scammer/timewasters.
+ don’t pay upfront; includes train tickets and meets (be wary of girls who would take money and run out a bar)
+ carry plenty condoms, a lot of girls are pretty blasé about protection and there may be a line of thought that SBs could be riskier than hookers
- Don’t pre book any hotel rooms. Dayuse is great and you don’t get burned if you don’t use.
~ against my better judgement – ive brought girls back to my flat (I’ve got a decent place in central in a decent area) and the jurys still out for me on this – better to trust your judgement. My view is that the women on SA are more vindictive and crazier than on tinder/bumble etc
- students for me are the flakiest and never turn up on time. Probably because they haven’t matured yet but you can find good ‘value’ in this category.

As everyone else has mentioned, its hugely time consuming but can be extremely fun... enjoy

This post sums up my 4 years on seeking.  Sensational post.  Hardly anything i disagree with. 

Offline smellychip

Nice thread. I like the concept of SA but the reality is that unless one is single it's not practical or realistic and there is a very high chance of getting busted. If you're in a relationship or just cant be arsed with wining and dining etc escorts win every time. The financial elements just add an extra layer but really this is the bottom line I think

yobbra

  • Guest
In regards to seeking, I do not understand why someone would pay more money for an illusion. If one so strongly desires an emotional connection with someone who is trying to sell you an illusion; maybe that individual should take some time for introspection to question if they are really happy with themselves and their lives.

Surely the lies on both side must create some form of cognitive dissonance and cause problems down the line?

As long as you can look in the mirror and be happy with yourself, why do you need to pay a woman to lie to you that she really cares for you whilst providing sex? 

If you want companionship I am sure a dog is a better choice. In my humble opinion, I think it would be better to separate lust from emotional bonding, for your wallets and well being.

One simple answer is an overnight with these stunning student types costs £100 a night rather than a grand a night with a hooker who usually isnt as natural or fit. For me it is purely a cost issue.  If girls of this quality on aw did overnights for the same price i would be on there.  There is no emotion just pure cost.

yobbra

  • Guest
Nice thread. I like the concept of SA but the reality is that unless one is single it's not practical or realistic and there is a very high chance of getting busted. If you're in a relationship or just cant be arsed with wining and dining etc escorts win every time. The financial elements just add an extra layer but really this is the bottom line I think

This is very true as well.  I wouldn't be on seeking if i was married but then i would be more interested in why i was married if i wanted to be on seeking this so often.  Just get a divorce life is too short.  Seeking is a good looking single man's game to optimize the benefits.  If you are an old/fat/ugly/bald married guy with little time you much better off financially seeing escorts hour by hour for the time needed than paying to use seeking.   You have to choose what suits your circumstances. 

Offline NigelF

A couple of observations from me. feel free to chime in gents and add.

I’ve seen the following categories on SA:
1.   Straight up hookers - pro/photoshopped pics, EEs - avoid
2.   Pro SBs – ridic allowances and as above
3.   Platonics – even more ridic and avoid
4.   Pic/vid/panty sellers and scammers - avoid
5.   Students – very flaky, some very disillusioned but some good gems
6.   Middle grounders – understand they need to provide sex for some sort of consideration whether that is ppm/monthly allowance or upmarket dinner and drinks.
7.   Daters – interesting category that want to rub shoulders with wealthy and/or successful men

This isn’t an exhaustive list and pretty generalised.

You should register as an SB and see the quality of what else is out there. Seriously, if you are a ‘normal’ guy, you’ll do pretty well. I’d say:
-   Don’t be overly sexualised in your prof
-   Put up some sort of picture, even if you blur your face
-   Don’t put your wealth is £10m or anything else ridic (youll be surprised at how many middle aged guys have taken a selfie in their parent’s dated bathroom and put they earn 1m a year!)
-   Avoid any horror selfies. I’d go as far as saying avoid any shirtless shots – even if youre ripped
-   Keep the text normal, show some personality and don’t try and be too ‘alpha’

Once you get talking to a SB, run game like you would do on tinder/bumble etc. Avoid transactional or sexualised chat as a lot of these girls don’t want to ‘feel’ like an escort – and some are quite easily startled. Being younger, cooler, fitter and having some game will help you get laid easier but not necessarily cheaper.

Some other tips from me:

- avoid any girl with a trout pout – they are invariably hookers, EEs, pro SDs with ridic demands and/or thick as sh*t
- avoid any profiles which have the words ‘spoilt’
- i'm wary of the girls who have been on there for over a year or less than 2 weeks
+ try and move the conversation the conversation over to whatsapp within 5 messages.
+ a quick phone call before a meet can sometimes wean out the flakers
+ non social media linked punting phone etc
- i personally avoid anyone giving me their kik. kik can be less personal than a phone number and hence there are a higher % of scammer/timewasters.
+ don’t pay upfront; includes train tickets and meets (be wary of girls who would take money and run out a bar)
+ carry plenty condoms, a lot of girls are pretty blasé about protection and there may be a line of thought that SBs could be riskier than hookers
- Don’t pre book any hotel rooms. Dayuse is great and you don’t get burned if you don’t use.
~ against my better judgement – ive brought girls back to my flat (I’ve got a decent place in central in a decent area) and the jurys still out for me on this – better to trust your judgement. My view is that the women on SA are more vindictive and crazier than on tinder/bumble etc
- students for me are the flakiest and never turn up on time. Probably because they haven’t matured yet but you can find good ‘value’ in this category.

As everyone else has mentioned, its hugely time consuming but can be extremely fun... enjoy

Very good post, cheers.

Question to you (and any other SA users reading this) - how would you compare SA to apps like Tinder & Bumble (even though there are differences between those apps themselves)? Specifically in terms of:
- Overall effort & time spent
- Attractiveness of the girls you meet
- How often the first meet ends in sex
- Quality of the sex

Obviously I'm well aware that answering the above will involve big generalisations and significantly depends on many personal factors (including location, what you're like, the approach you take (on the apps and SA), what you negotiate/offer to pay etc) but any attempt at answering would be appreciated.

I signed up to seeking but didn't pay for it. Did a search and there was about 1 girl in the area and looked a right minger. This was searching in a reasonably large city too... do you have to pay to see all search results or something?

It sounds like you were doing something wrong with your search. Unless something has changed in the past few months, when I last searched (as a free member, I've never paid) in Manchester I got loads of results. Even when I did a search in the small city of Oxford, I got numerous results (note the fairly specific/restrictive search criteria):
Searching just in Oxford for girls aged 18-28 shows around 100 profiles who've been active within the past 3 days.

No

Just got tired of all the lame punts and tried something different

You've had well over 2 years to review these "lame punts" so it's a shame you've never bothered and are happy for other guys to end up having the same lame punts. Please make an effort to rectify that before you continue posting in this much more superfluous thread.

I'm not in a position to leave any reviews ATM. Sorry, I realise it's expected but it's unlikely until I get more of a feel for this game.

You absolutely are in a position to leave reviews, at the very least you could review the WG you mentioned earlier:
Unfortunately I don't, so I accept the occasional company of a local SP despite it falling well short of what I actually want.

Here's a handy guide so you know what to include (you only really need to read the summary):
External Link/Members Only

After a string of very disappointing punts

Please review these punts, don't let it happen to others as well. Such reviews are often the most helpful things someone can post. I appreciate that you're a new member, for help see the the review writing guide that I linked above.

Offline king tarzan

One simple answer is an overnight with these stunning student types costs £100 a night rather than a grand a night with a hooker who usually isnt as natural or fit. For me it is purely a cost issue.  If girls of this quality on aw did overnights for the same price i would be on there.  There is no emotion just pure cost.

Sounds nonsense really... £100 over night as if a slut doesn't know her material worth and escorts not fit in looks..
Bollocks really.
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Offline dondraper

Really depends on your circumstances, how much time you want to spend with a girl.

Have tried both, and both work however Seeking is a lot more strings attached and less discrete than AW. Even if people claim to be no strings on Seeking, it still tends to require more contact and reassurance with girls, as they aren’t professionals. So even when it comes down to things like negotiating money, planning logistics etc. can take a lot of effort.

The effort however can be rewarding and tend to get longer dates and it is much more involved - but if that’s what you want.

However a well organised and professional girl on AW, tends to be much more discrete and organised. Less messing around with comms. Particularly if you are in a relationship for example, it’s less risky. This is something that professional working girls know, and any good one worth her money values her clients discretion.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2019, 11:23:49 am by dondraper »

Offline Spencer Fobby

Really depends on your circumstances, how much time you want to spend with a girl.

Have tried both, and both work however Seeking is a lot more strings attached and less discrete than AW. Even if people claim to be no strings on Seeking, it still tends to require more contact and reassurance with girls, as they aren’t professionals. So even when it comes down to things like negotiating money, planning logistics etc. can take a lot of effort.

The effort however can be rewarding and tend to get longer dates and it is much more involved - but if that’s what you want.

However a well organised and professional girl on AW, tends to be much more discrete and organised. Less messing around with comms. Particularly if you are in a relationship for example, it’s less risky. This is something that professional working girls know, and any good one worth her money values her clients discretion.
+1
When a sugar baby calls you out of the blue because she's got EAS...  :scare:
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