How often?

[ratpack]

I'm almost hitting my 50's. In my younger days I could cum multiple times in a session. Now, I have trouble cumming once. Don't get me wrong, I can keep it hard, rock hard, for hours. It's just cumming, takes absolutely ages. Almost to the point where the handler has to use 2 hands because one hand is tired! Surely I can't be the only one. I exercise regularly, eat well and drink plenty of water. I reckon it's because I wank almost every day and so I've gotten desensitised to it.

What do you think? Any hints-n-tips? Less wanking is not an option!

[DrIvan]

Oh the joys of getting older!! The wanking probably does desensitise your cock. Try skipping a day here and there 

[Billy no mates]

Well into my 50’s, I know I can’t pop twice, in fact, cock gets super, dont touch, sensitive, after orgasm.

Pretty good at coming once, had a couple of hiccups with wg’s, at staying hard, which could easily have been my fault,  but generally pretty good.

Try not to focus or stress about it as anxiety can cause more issues.

[Derrick101]

Well into my 60's.. Usually pop twice in an hour appointment, but that is with chemical 'assistance'

[WARSZAWA16]

I'm almost hitting my 50's. In my younger days I could cum multiple times in a session. Now, I have trouble cumming once. Don't get me wrong, I can keep it hard, rock hard, for hours. It's just cumming, takes absolutely ages. Almost to the point where the handler has to use 2 hands because one hand is tired! Surely I can't be the only one. I exercise regularly, eat well and drink plenty of water. I reckon it's because I wank almost every day and so I've gotten desensitised to it.

What do you think? Any hints-n-tips? Less wanking is not an option!

Unfortunately it sounds like you really need to keep your hands off it for a while if you can. Get yourself some boxing gloves!

[ratpack]

Chemical assistance is a possibility. Boxing gloves are not. Less wanking? Well that's just not cricket.

Perhaps I should take a visit to my GP? She'll be pleased to discuss this with me, although she'll just tell me to take a couple of Paracetamol's and come back in a couple of weeks.

Lately, I've been wanking dry, i.e. no oil or lube. I'm gonna try to get some lube. Can anyone recommend anything suitable for wanking? Something that wipes off screens easily 

[Derrick101]

Chemical assistance will only help with ED, not ejaculation.
Lay off the wanking (and porn?)
That WILL help 

[Lady Lover]

I am just hitting my 40's and have the same issue. I'm not a compulsive wanker (well some may say I am  ), only DIY usually once a week, but it just takes me an age to cum during sex.

When I started punting in my early 30's I could easily cum twice in a meet no problems. This turned to once usually with OWO to finish now I tend to cum with a firm handjob!

During sex, if I do get there, I tend to only cum when a WG is riding me and I can tense my leg muscles - apologies for all the info here!

Like the OP I have no problems getting it up and staying hard throughout the punt (no chemicals needed yet), I am pretty fit, don't drink much or do drugs.

Maybe it is an age thing or even a mind barrier? Anyway as long as we get there in the end, enjoy the journey 

[poly]

Stop wanking and watching porn for a couple of weeks

[Cupid Stuntz]

Can come 2x in a 1hr sesh no problem. 3x is pushing it a bit although a Polish Lady did get 3 pops out of me earlier this year. That was an exceptional meet though and one that needs to be repeated!

[Marcusnash187]

I have the opposite problem, I could pop 3 times in a half an hour session if I wanted too. 

[cueball]

I'm almost hitting my 50's. In my younger days I could cum multiple times in a session. Now, I have trouble cumming once. Don't get me wrong, I can keep it hard, rock hard, for hours. It's just cumming, takes absolutely ages. Almost to the point where the handler has to use 2 hands because one hand is tired! Surely I can't be the only one. I exercise regularly, eat well and drink plenty of water. I reckon it's because I wank almost every day and so I've gotten desensitised to it.

What do you think? Any hints-n-tips? Less wanking is not an option!

You've answered your own question in red

[elnukky]

You've answered your own question in red

Reminds me of people who eat 5 packs of chocolate biscuits a week and don't understand why they are fat!

[PLeisure]

Reminds me of people who eat 5 packs of chocolate biscuits a week and don't understand why they are fat!

Right? 

OP, it's simple... decide what you want 
You're getting on, can't have your cake and, etc; etc

[Waterhouse]

I have the opposite problem, I could pop 3 times in a half an hour session if I wanted too. 

Whoopie-fucking-doo.... ain't you a hotshot man amongst men.

Majority of your posts here seem to be about bragging rights since you joined three months ago.

[Cum_again]

Wank once a week.  Edge the night before a punt.  Cool you balls the day before a punt, sticking a wrapped ice block under them for half an hour the day before does wonder for my jazz volume.

Most importantly, see someone really sexy.. I find that’s the biggest difference.. although I’ve always produced large amounts of semen, so I’m starting off from a high point.

[Marcusnash187]

Whoopie-fucking-doo.... ain't you a hotshot man amongst men.
I joined 3 months ago and have done 5 reviews with 3 more on the way. You have been here 4 years and done the same amount as me, and I was not bragging there is nothing to brag about being able to pop more than once seeing as I'm in my early 20s. You come across as a complete bellend mate. 

Majority of your posts here seem to be about bragging rights since you joined three months ago.

[Marcusnash187]

Whoopie-fucking-doo.... ain't you a hotshot man amongst men.

Majority of your posts here seem to be about bragging rights since you joined three months ago.

I have been here for 3 months and posted 5 reviews with 3 more on the way, you have been here for over 4 years and posted the same amount as me. Being able to pop more than once is nothing to brag about as I am in my 20s. You come across as a complete bellend.

[Waterhouse]

I have been here for 3 months and posted 5 reviews with 3 more on the way, you have been here for over 4 years and posted the same amount as me. Being able to pop more than once is nothing to brag about as I am in my 20s. You come across as a complete bellend.

We'll see who the bellend is, fella. Honest contribution is what counts here; reviews are welcomed but are not a defining benchmark. You were already flagged by DrC. as possibly dodgy. Time will tell.

[Marcusnash187]

Every thing I have posted on here is 100% factual. THIS website is for the benefit of punters and I plan to post regular reviews FOR THE BENEFIT OF PUNTERS as I read reviews on here that benefit me. You obviously have a grudge against me as you commented negatively on a previous post of mine and did not like my response. Just because I have only been here 3 months and you have been here four years gives you no supperioty over me. I have posted 5 honest reviews in 3 months with 3 more on the way shortly, you have posted the same amount as me in four years! So you must spend a lot of time on here leeching  and criticising other people's posts/reviews. You can name drop other members as much as you like to gain support but everyone can see who is the bellend here. If you do get admin to ban me for whatever made up reason you have then so be it, I will continue punting regularly and within the four year time span you have posted 7 reviews I would of posted 60 plus. 

[Waterhouse]

Every thing I have posted on here is 100% factual. THIS website is for the benefit of punters and I plan to post regular reviews FOR THE BENEFIT OF PUNTERS as I read reviews on here that benefit me. You obviously have a grudge against me as you commented negatively on a previous post of mine and did not like my response. Just because I have only been here 3 months and you have been here four years gives you no supperioty over me. I have posted 5 honest reviews in 3 months with 3 more on the way shortly, you have posted the same amount as me in four years! So you must spend a lot of time on here leeching  and criticising other people's posts/reviews. You can name drop other members as much as you like to gain support but everyone can see who is the bellend here. If you do get admin to ban me for whatever made up reason you have then so be it, I will continue punting regularly and within the four year time span you have posted 7 reviews I would of posted 60 plus. 

Very techy. Maybe struck a nerve?
1) I've not been registered here for 4 years
2) I have no grudge against you or any other member here. Why would I? I don't know anyone here personally.
3) If you're referring to the post in https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=230320.msg2346333#msg2346333  It was you who became obtuse in saying that I was doing something wrong.
4) Leeching? Really? Is that the best you can come up with? Take a look at my contributions, then decide if you still think I'm a leech.
5) I cannot get Admin to ban you. Only you can trigger that by what you say, do, and contribute here.
6) Will look forward to your next 60 plus reviews. Seems slighty odd to me that a fella in his 20's has to pay for companionship in this fashion, but hey-ho... who am I to judge.

[NigelF]

3) If you're referring to the post in https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=230320.msg2346333#msg2346333  It was you who became obtuse in saying that I was doing something wrong.

 
I read both your comment and also his as a joke.

6) Will look forward to your next 60 plus reviews. Seems slighty odd to me that a fella in his 20's has to pay for companionship in this fashion, but hey-ho... who am I to judge.

I believe in a previous thread he made reference to getting some fanny from POF. However, that doesn't mean it didn't take time and effort and it also doesn't mean he's able to get as much as he wants, i.e. lots of it/many different girls, especially exactly when he wants. Appearance could also be an issue, especially if he doesn't often attract many of the kinds of girls he wants or if he has very specific tastes or perhaps a wide variety tastes which depend on his mood on the day etc.

A bloke in his 20s who likes shagging lots of different girls exactly when he wants pretty much has to pay for it unless he's got a hell of a lot of spare time and/or is very good looking and still puts in at least a decent amount of effort into something like Tinder - more time and effort than with punting although with the shit comms of many WGs, probably not that much more!

I agree with the rest of your points.

Going more back on topic, personally, I don't view being able to cum 3 times in 30 minutes as a good thing, seems a bit too often/premature and hard to get into a "stride". If I could choose I would like to be able to cum twice in an hour. However I can only cum once in both 30 mins or an hour. Even in 2 hours I can often struggle to pop twice. Indeed, even back in my earlier days I was only able to cum once in an hour but twice in 2 hours wouldn't be a problem.

[Marcusnash187]

My post that yondu misconstrued as "bragging" said i have the opposite PROBLEM as the op I.e I WAS NOT bragging I was saying it is not necessarily a good thing to be able to pop more than once in a short time and I AGREE Nigel I would rather be able to hold on for a hour  . Yondu clearly has issues. Also I do get a lot of funny on pof and I am a good looking guy who has no problem getting pussy, I just like to punt for variety, fun, ECT. Yondu is revealing something about himself in that he is insinuating only unattractive older gents who can not get fanny punt! He must be in that category and that is fine but don't stereotype all punters in the same way. Premiership footballers punt. Actors punt. Male models punt. Celebrity punt. It's a lifestyle choice that we all enjoy on this forum. Now you can make up whatever crap you want yondu it doesn't change facts.

[Marcusnash187]

Also I pay for 15 min pump and dumps hardly companionship as yondu states, perhaps another insight to his psych.

[last_days_of_logan]

I have been here for 3 months and posted 5 reviews with 3 more on the way, you have been here for over 4 years and posted the same amount as me. Being able to pop more than once is nothing to brag about as I am in my 20s. You come across as a complete bellend.

your age is showing. Yondu didnt come across as a bellend at all...infact i think he voiced what a lot of people were thinking....i.e "this is a place where like minded people get together to support each other and more importantly this is a thread for someone asking for a bit of support in a sensitive area.... why on earth would this person come here and completely cut the nuts off of people sharing similar experiences and solutions?"

Just take a step back and consider this for an extreme example " i have ED and this is affecting my personal like and sex life and i am very worried about this, does anyone experience this at all? please i need help"

...in bounces Marcusnash187 in his 20s in the same thread

"shit you do? i dont have this problem at all....i have a huge dick can stay hard for hours and bust my nut whenever i want its insance...i am having a blast out here  see you later op"

if that seems like the right time to come in and make a comment like that then no one will make you see where you came in wrong on this thing

I agree with Yondu ... maybe not on the aggressive assault but in general the reason he came in on you i do agree

[Marcusnash187]

I understand what your saying completely Logan and I would not jump in and comment negatively like the example you stated. In fact I have had that same sort of verbal diahrea you quite rightly mentioned put upon myself from yondu. I stated on a thread regarding time spent in a punt that 15 minutes was all I needed, then YONDU jumped in saying that was not long enough to take his shoes off. You seem like a very reasonable guy from what I've seen of your post, would you not say that he was doing to me the type of thing you mentioned e.g. jumping in condecendly on my post. Also a lot of members agreed 15 min p&D's were there prefered method of punting. I'm not some sensitive twat either who can not take criticism I've served in the armed forces for over 6 years I'm used to banter/ friendly insults but yondu came for me.

[last_days_of_logan]

I understand what your saying completely Logan and I would not jump in and comment negatively like the example you stated. In fact I have had that same sort of verbal diahrea you quite rightly mentioned put upon myself from yondu. I stated on a thread regarding time spent in a punt that 15 minutes was all I needed, then YONDU jumped in saying that was not long enough to take his shoes off. You seem like a very reasonable guy from what I've seen of your post, would you not say that he was doing to me the type of thing you mentioned e.g. jumping in condecendly on my post. Also a lot of members agreed 15 min p&D's were there prefered method of punting. I'm not some sensitive twat either who can not take criticism I've served in the armed forces for over 6 years I'm used to banter/ friendly insults but yondu came for me.

like i said....am not into the overly unnecessary aggressive response that Yondu used etc .. just the reason he did

having said that, i can see that you are clearly nothing like the person i thought you might be based on that one comment you made earlier...so for misjudging you i really do apologise.

[Marcusnash187]

like i said....am not into the overly unnecessary aggressive response that Yondu used etc .. just the reason he did

having said that, i can see that you are clearly nothing like the person i thought you might be based on that one comment you made earlier...so for misjudging you i really do apologise.

Thank you Logan, I understand that being a newish guy on a forum opens you up to more scepticism from more established members, but that does not mean that they are always in the right. I will take on board your comments though and hope to ONE day be a well established member of this forum with lots of useful reviews under my belt. It takes a big man to apologise to someone when perhaps it's going against the grain in doing so. Thank you for your input  to this forum pal.

[GreyDave]

   32 posts for 5 reveiws 

That equates to 6.4 posts to 1  reveiw  The lads busy
 
mine 39 post to 1  reveiw... I am spending to much time on her   As you  get older it gets less sesetive and refueling is the main problem for many ...

For me its a worry as my OH has started to comment on my fueling status  saying its getting long ... often after a punt 

[JamesKW]

I am into my 50s I can still cum relatively quickly but I have to use all my concentration to hold back as I can only cum once in three hours.At parties I try and hold back until the end so I get my monies worth and sometimes end up not cumming at all.Also girls which I know will  make me cum quickly I visit towards the end.

[peter.witless]

For me its a worry as my OH has started to comment on my fueling status  saying its getting long ... often after a punt 

I have the same issue ... and there's no way I'm going to explain to her that her 50+ yo bod just cannot compete with the lithesome 20-something down the road ... 

[shagmore]

With a WG its once within the hour or hour and a half, with the partner I was able to come several times over the course of a good 3-4 hour session,
Am able to last for ages, find that if you want often then this does de-sensitise you, try using the other arm, or if possible abstain - easier said than done

[Ilikemuff]

Very techy. Maybe struck a nerve?
1) I've not been registered here for 4 years
2) I have no grudge against you or any other member here. Why would I? I don't know anyone here personally.
3) If you're referring to the post in https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=230320.msg2346333#msg2346333  It was you who became obtuse in saying that I was doing something wrong.
4) Leeching? Really? Is that the best you can come up with? Take a look at my contributions, then decide if you still think I'm a leech.
5) I cannot get Admin to ban you. Only you can trigger that by what you say, do, and contribute here.
6) Will look forward to your next 60 plus reviews. Seems slighty odd to me that a fella in his 20's has to pay for companionship in this fashion, but hey-ho... who am I to judge.

Handbags Ladies!
Settle down

[Waterhouse]

Knew he was a wrong'un.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=192642