So I recently set up a lesbian duo and explicitly confirmed with the WG that there would be lesbian action involved (review already posted). However, after the paperwork as the session unfolded I suggested, then asked, but both girls deferred from actual oral sex on the other (kissing pubic hair is not oral sex). After asking, just gave up and enjoyed the rest of the session. However, it raised a question as to how more experienced punters handle these things. How do you handle it if something you have confirmed is on offer before the paperwork -- say CIM, CIF, DFK, or in my case lesbian oral sex in a duo -- is refused during the session?