I couldn't lose my virginity?!! What am I doing wrong?

[Pr0Ac1D]

Porn ruined me. Before this I was watching porn everyday and now my brain has been conditioned to porn to the point where I can last 30-1 hour+ without ejaculating and edge for several hours. It's absolutely awful because I have seen two escorts already and I'm still 19 years old virgin.

The second meeting
So the escort I was seeing this time was attractive, she gave me a blowjob with a condom. She had OWO on her profile but gave excuses to not do it "you could have diseases" even though I was a virgin.

The BJ didn't feel that good. I had more sensation of my dick(circumcised) pressed against my boxers on the car ride home then I did on that blowjob.

Then she went on top and I just couldn't feel anything.
Tell me this. Do you guys feel much when your dick is inside her? I honestly couldn't feel it. Maybe it's because of the condom?

Then we did missionary and I was so bad. I couldn't penetrate her much cos my dick size is kinda below average. And everytime, I was worried my dick came out off her.

Then she did a BJ again and she was mostly putting pressure on the bottom of my gland. I felt like peeing because of it.

15 minutes in, I got frustrated and decided to end it.

Do you guys think nofap will help me? Or maybe I should go for an 1 hour punt, I think I'll need at least an hour.

[southcoastpunter]

and I'm still 19 years old virgin.



Then she went on top and I just couldn't feel anything.
Tell me this. Do you guys feel much when your dick is inside her? I honestly couldn't feel it. Maybe it's because of the condom?

Then we did missionary and I was so bad. I couldn't penetrate her much cos my dick size is kinda below average. And everytime, I was worried my dick came out off her.

if the above is true, you ain't a virgin!

[FiveKnuckles]

If you penetrated, you ain't no virgin.

Did she go OTT with the lube?  and what do you mean by below average and were you erect?

[maxxblue]

if the above is true, you ain't a virgin!

I was thinking the same.

Previous post states he had sex - sounds like BS to me.

[Bogof60]

Sounds like bullshit to me

[Pr0Ac1D]

If you penetrated, you ain't no virgin.

Did she go OTT with the lube?  and what do you mean by below average and were you erect?

She didn't put any lube on.

Just under 5 inches in size.

[Pr0Ac1D]

I was thinking the same.

Previous post states he had sex - sounds like BS to me.

I meant ejaculating. I got that wrong then.

[Atrueyorkie]

Does kinda make my dodgy radar go off but I’ll answer it as if it’s a genuine question.

Sounds like you have anxiety issues. Porn won’t help at all (especially anxiety)distorts your reality that everyone has some King Kong dick swinging around and that’s definitely not the case. It can definitely hinder your punting experience, so I’d advise laying off it if you can.  Not everyone is the same though. No fap is okay, I feel it makes a significant difference to how hard you can’t get naturally. You gotta take care of yourself all round the board physically.

And yeah you had sex, your dick went in her vagina. That’s sex. I don’t like the cowgirl position I feel it’s the male equivalent of the females starfish. I lose interest in that one, my preference is miss and then doggy.

[Atrueyorkie]

Re-read, you’re 19. Way too early IMO lol, hit up some university chicks, read some books lol your still growing up. Relax

[isaac_gauss]

Your issue is not a punting issue. The desensitising effects of porn are well-documented.

19 is too young to pick up a punting habit. You wanted to lose your virginity. Well, mission accomplished. You can stop now.

Google PUA, and good luck.

Edit: regarding desensitisation, it ain't all bad news. So what if you didn't ejaculate? You're not trying to get anyone pregnant. If you can go for ages without cumming, girls will love it. Sexual inexperience, at your age, won't be a turn-off for normal girls of your peer group. You have plenty of time to learn things the normal way.

[mr.bluesky]

Is it half term already 

[Herts_Outcaller]

Honestly mate, nobody's first time is normally that great.

Like anything, you'll get better with practice.

See if you can find a freebie girl on Tinder or something at your age, otherwise, if it has to be punting, just keep at it. My first few punts I struggled. don't wank for 2 days before at least is my advice

[Moby Dick]

Do you wank to porn wearing a condom?
Maybe you need to get used to wearing a condom?

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And ask her to stick her fingers up your arse for good measure.

[Straightsix]

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[Straightsix]

What's your girth and what you benching?

[Pr0Ac1D]

What's your girth and what you benching?

Just measured. Above average girth and 5" length when erect.

[Colston36]

Just measured. Above average girth and 5" length when erect.

Find some whore who'll replicate your fantasies. Straightforward sex may be too tame for you.

[misterm]

Just measured. Above average girth and 5" length when erect.

The NHS website says 5-7" is normal and according to the sun NHS research shows the average is 5.1" External Link/Members Only

So I'd say your size is almost certainly average, not a size for a porn career or to brag about, but almost certainly nothing to worry about at all. Its most likely an issue of technique and confidence not size

[olddognewtricks49]

It's worse when you only last 30 secs to a minute!

[scutty brown]

The best way for the OP to lose his virginity is to spend a weekend in Manchester, touring the pubs and clubs around Canal Street.
Bound to find plenty there who will help him lose his cherry

[cueball]

Stop wanking

[Stealthmode]

pure fantasist

[semaphore]

I don't think he's a fantasist, simply because something similar happened to me. I got out of a long term relationship in my early 30s, and spent a couple of years too depressed to date again while watching far too much porn and wanking far too hard and too often. When I saw my first escort after a couple of years of that, I couldn't stay hard and I couldn't finish when she was riding me. The same happened a few other times until I finally sorted myself out. Wanking that hard and that often while watching porn was desensitising me to the point that I didn't feel anything with a real woman.

My advice is this: start exercising, stop watching porn, and stop wanking. And if you absolutely have to wank, get a fleshlight and use a condom. Do that for a month and then try again. That's what got rid of the problem for me

Also try kegels. There should be some guides online if you google

[Stevelondon]

He is 19 and is on here.
Gimme feckin strength.
Apart from the fact the OP is a schools out sort............I shall play along.

Stop watching porn. Get a bloody life your 19 for fucks sake and stop asking us lot questions.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Give him a break he probally hasnt got anyone else to ask!...

[jakeh]

Yes quit porn even if you are just watching it to get turned on.

If you wank just use your mind, also don't be too rough with the old chap so oil him up and gently do it.
Will take a good while but don't ruin yourself this young.

[george r]

Walter Mitty

[Purple_Bariquade]

pretty normal really if you're going from porn to escorts

• A hand gives way more stimulation so if you're destroying your dick with your hand it can desensitise it
• you can hardwire your brain to the more intense content of porn
• psychologically it can be hard to really relax around an escort which makes it harder to cum
• you can get trapped in your head where all you're thinking about is cumming, which makes it even harder to actually cum
• having a poorly fitting condom can massively reduce the sensation

For me when i started punting i booked a 1 or 1.5 hr session and it took the WG the entire session to make me cum once lol, they begged me not to book them ever again. It's gotten better for me since then as I worked out really gets me going and stuff

[Pr0Ac1D]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

[sharpshoes78]

Anyone who wasn't a 29 second job the 1st time is full of shit

I am in my 49's and sometimes get over excited

[The0neAnd0nly]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

So basically you've seen a SP in the last 24 hours since you started this thread?

Well done looking forward to the review 

[Al]

Anyone who wasn't a 29 second job the 1st time is full of shit

I am in my 49's and sometimes get over excited

My first time I couldn't finish in a condom and it took ages to finish by hand

the effects on porn on people who are under 40 (i.e those who most likely started watching from 2000 onwards on a PC are well known)

OP you need to stop masturbating to porn.

[Pr0Ac1D]

So basically you've seen a SP in the last 24 hours since you started this thread?

Well done looking forward to the review 

3 days 3 punts.

[flouch]

Anyone who wasn't a 29 second job the 1st time is full of shit

I am in my 49's and sometimes get over excited

I took ages to cum on my first ever punt. Too much porn, too much wanking and I had a wank too soon before the punt.

Same problem with civvie sex before that - was just addicted to wanking. Still am, but it's a bit more under control.

[Hobbit]

Who let the kids out? I really don't know why people entertain idiots like this. He's clearly talking crap just to get attention and get kicks out of it. Personally, I would tell him to fuck off but I got better things to do.

[Jimbag1]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

I thought I'd give this guy the benefit of the doubt until this post. Absolute load of twoddle.

[no2punter]

Don't grip your cock too hard when you wank. Wanking with lube might help. 'Death grips' are probably desensitising you.

[meptalon]

Sounds like bullshit to me

Same. Bullshitometer is ringing loud

[Home Alone]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

Presumably this is the end of the final chapter of the book you're writing for Mills & Boon, OP? 

[SamOmar]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt because I too started punting at 19 years old and my first 3 punts were quite nerve racking. Was going to give you some advise but you sound like a complete twat as you have failed to mention who this lady is / write a review.

[mr.bluesky]

I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt because I too started punting at 19 years old and my first 3 punts were quite nerve racking. Was going to give you some advise but you sound like a complete twat as you have failed to mention who this lady is / write a review.

+1. He says he has done 3 punts in 3 days yet no new reviews. A fantasist or Billy Bullshitter 

[Mr_Shins]

OP you have a big stigma about "losing your virginity" but when you grow up you may actually find out nobody else really cares.

If you have trouble keeping a hard-on there are performance pills available over the counter for this.

[tynetunnel]

OP logged onto the site this afternoon…

[Bogof60]

FFS i
Is anyone still responding
 

[hunkybc]

 
Op was you intoxicated when you wrote this??

[popmopcop]

Op should ask his father - his existence is proof of his father's expertise

[stevedave]

Stop wanking

He can't help it, he's a massive wanker 

[Pr0Ac1D]

I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt because I too started punting at 19 years old and my first 3 punts were quite nerve racking. Was going to give you some advise but you sound like a complete twat as you have failed to mention who this lady is / write a review.

The second one went embarrassing for me and I don't want to think about it. I'll do a review on the recent one soon.

[YorkshireLad]

Update: Officially lost my virginity. The last two punts were awful, I wouldn't consider my virginity lost.

Third time went so good. I was orgasmic almost throughout the OWO, handjob, missionary, cowgirl.

When she gave the blowjob, she put pressure between the top of the gland and the shaft. It felt heavenly.

I even managed to cum 20 minutes in during the handjob.

When I left, the smell of her perfume remained with me, it was nice

You lost your virginity the first time you put your dick in a vagina, no matter how bad the experience was!