Paying for dinner date (no fun involved) ?

[SwenyTodd]

Has anyone paid for a WG to join them for dinner or to an event but nothing sexual?

I've noticed a few SA girls asking for this "before we get intimate" but why would anyone pay £300+ to have a girl join them for dinner or drinks when I could actually pay at least 2 other girls for sex!

I probably would pay £50 max for a non-sexual date otherwise I would get it free from a normal female friend!  Would be good to hear any reasons or benefits behind a non-sexual meet up.

[lewisjones23]

what would be the point of it?

[Shearer1955]

A fool and his money are soon parted springs to mind 

[jamal2k94]

With SA, I am happy to cover a few drinks to ensure that the girl isn't 10 stone heavier than in her pictures/a total nutter etc before a sexual meet.

There is clearly some market for non-sexual/dinner date escorting, but I think a lot of girls deluded themselves into believing that market is a lot bigger than it actually is.

[hendrix]

It would have to have a sexual element for me to pay.

But, people pay for all sorts of things and good luck to them if it makes them happy. Those that say "I'd just get a civvie etc".. Well maybe not everyone is as attractive or socially confident as you

[shagmore]

No, wouldn't do it, paying for sex, bj and the rest not to watch them eat and drink. If it was someone who know really well then still wouldn't, just get a gf or wife if you ant to pay for a meal and have no sex

[JV547845]

That just always strikes me as being for idiots who want to be seen with an attractive trophy bird on their arm, but not do anything in the bedroom with her.  Or for people who can't cope with going to an event on their own. 

[Marmalade]

That just always strikes me as being for idiots who want to be seen with an attractive trophy bird on their arm

They look daft though don’t they. There’s always zero actual visible interaction, they walk about like they’ve achieved something, and I always think, “No, you haven’t: you paid for her.”

[Link7]

Would be good to hear any reasons or benefits behind a non-sexual meet up.

There are no benefits, and the only reason is idiocy.
If you are lonely/want friendship and meals out, join a dating website.

[king tarzan]

Never a dinner date..
I even refuse massage and get annoyed at the beginning if the lady waffles too much..
I pay for sex only
Not drinks not meals not conversation

[RogerBoner]

I think it's crazy and the guys must be desperately lonely. I know a girl that regularly enjoys 2 hour dinner dates and she charges her regular price of £200 for 2 hours. One chap gets a Hand Job at the end and another gets a peck on the cheek. She says that they want to be seen with a pretty young lady. This is real Escorting .

[Mr_Shins]

Does anybody really pay for a dinner date that is just dinner and nothing else?

Ignore what it says on the profile - you know what is really expected to happen.
So it will be part of a longer booking in which after dinner they go back to the bedroom and do you know what...

Either the escort will have a special "social" rate for the dinner part or the longer session itself will have a lower rate than the hours combined, e.g. 1 hour £150, 2 hours £200, 3 hours £250 like I saw on one profile, which essentially means you're getting £50 an hour for the "social" part in addition to the main hour (and encourages people to make longer bookings because they feel they're getting a discounted rate!).

If I have dinner with an escort then I also expect a bit of flirty fun under the table, but that's just me..

[Marmalade]

Deluded escorts dream of a life full of these.

Ones that are good at their job, don’t. They treat work as work and know that 2hrs is worth more than £200 at today’s extortionate rates but to do that they are expected to work for it.

Actually, if they are crap at shagging they’re probably crap at dinner dates. Very few prostitutes — I could count them on one hand and it would be less that 1% — can hold delightful upmarket conversation in a top quality restaurant for a couple of hours. The only civvies that can do it are ones with a brain that also have an interesting life, requirements that rule out nearly all of prostitutes.

A possible exception is the businessman staying overnight somewhere, who doesn’t want to eat alone and adds dinner to an overnighter. But that’s really off-topic.

[Mr_Shins]

I've taken various escorts on dinner dates, mostly to the same restaurant... The issue is that if you go to the nicer part of the restaurant, it takes ages to get served so that eats away at your time. It is also quite expensive.

I have done the occasional dinner date in my home, often my own cooking and once a Chinese takeaway. That works with one particular escort I know well. The food is prepared and we have plenty of bedroom time and it is all part of a rendezvous.

Of course, it takes away the fun of some time outdoors. (Yeah, a trophy woman by your side).

[smiths]

Has anyone paid for a WG to join them for dinner or to an event but nothing sexual?

I've noticed a few SA girls asking for this "before we get intimate" but why would anyone pay £300+ to have a girl join them for dinner or drinks when I could actually pay at least 2 other girls for sex!

I probably would pay £50 max for a non-sexual date otherwise I would get it free from a normal female friend!  Would be good to hear any reasons or benefits behind a non-sexual meet up.

I pay WGs for sex not for dinner on the clock. Unlike you I wouldn't pay 1p for a non sexual date as you call it. Punting even if no sex isn't dating in my world either.

[RogerBoner]

On a pragmatic level sex is not improved by eating a meal. She is more likely to start feeling like having a shit rendering Anal off the menu. I'm talking about with civvies too.

[hungrypunt]

Ive been a member of SA for a long time, and have had many requests just for dinner and "hugs" ha ha. They think Im happy to have a young filly on my arm and fucking pay for it. I can get that any day of the week, with just offering to pay for the meal and drinks. In fact my stock answer is, Im sick of meals, I do business meals all year long.

I want to fuck you in as many holes as possible as long as we click, the response rate from these students etc when money is on the cards is higher than what youd expect.

[pking_paul]

Done drinks and meeting out beforehand, never a meal. If its flirting beforehand like taking their knickers off and passing them over before hand or turning up in just a coat over lingerie, then it is more game on for me, just floats my boat with them being so slutty.

My money, my choice of fun.

 

[OakTree]

I imagine if I was single and really loaded and money really was no object, I may well do the day out then evening dinner rounded off with fucking in a very nice up market hotel. Unfortunately that’s not the case and it’s an hour incall with McDonald’s after on the way home.

[Silver Birch]

The reason I punt is so that I don't have to take them for dinner.

Not judging others though. Different strokes for different folks.

[Mr_Shins]

Sex is not improved by eating a meal. The experience I have with the escort is enhanced for me if we do other things in addition to sex.

[Health and Fitness]

Honestly it does sound like a waste of time and money. If I wanted to have a dinner date I would just take my partner out to a nice restaurant, no need to pay hundreds of pounds on an escort for that type of service.

[Bond]

Probably a no-sex dinner date with an escort works out cheaper than paying for the same length of time in a VIP session with a dancer in a strip club. Ok in the latter you get some private dances thrown in, but the point I'm trying to make is that there is indeed a market for blokes who are prepared to pay good money for a hot chick just to talk to them.

[PeachyAssFan]

No

[Richthescouser]

I had a really good punt in London. While ago with a girl who did social meeting before the punt as part of the price. No extra cost to me (other than a couple of drinks), but she was really interesting to chat with, looked great and it added a bit to the enjoyment knowing that I was going to be fucking her in another hour or so.
Would I have paid a lot for the privilege of the social side of things - no, but I did enjoy it.

[Type_O_Negative]

On a pragmatic level sex is not improved by eating a meal. She is more likely to start feeling like having a shit rendering Anal off the menu. I'm talking about with civvies too.

And deadly flatulence caused by fat spicy food 

[Jimmyredcab]

Would I pay for a dinner date with a sexy young 21 year old ? ---------------------- yes, absolutely, why not -------no more than £100 though.   

[scutty brown]

It used to be common for gay men to hire women for meals, just to try and mislead family / workmates etc

[Jimmyredcab]

It used to be common for gay men to hire women for meals, just to try and mislead family / workmates etc

I doubt that they fooled anyone, most shirtlifters stand out like a sore thumb.     

[Shearer1955]

I doubt that they fooled anyone, most shirtlifters stand out like a sore thumb.     

I don't know; you see stories of married men who suddenly come out after supposedly years of happy marriage and even kids
Mind you some are obvious and look as gay as a packet of "rainbows"   

[Mr_Shins]

I had a really good punt in London. While ago with a girl who did social meeting before the punt as part of the price. No extra cost to me (other than a couple of drinks), but she was really interesting to chat with, looked great and it added a bit to the enjoyment knowing that I was going to be fucking her in another hour or so.
Would I have paid a lot for the privilege of the social side of things - no, but I did enjoy it.

I had that arrangement with one escort too. If you booked her for 1.5 hours you could also take her out to dinner before and that time didn't count. As it took a long time to get served I think we ended up spending over 4 hours together for £185 (plus the cost of dinner to me).

[Marmalade]

This calling a booking a ‘date’ is an Americanism whereby the prossie instigates EAS reinforcement. It’s not a ‘date’ ffs: it’s a business arrangement between two people. If paying to watch a prostitute eat is your thing then why not. 

[Bangers and Gash]

Would I pay for a dinner date with a sexy young 21 year old ? ---------------------- yes, absolutely, why not -------no more than £100 though.   

FFS... next you'll be paying to watch them sleep. 

[Colin_85]

FFS... next you'll be paying to watch them sleep. 

That's called an overnight,

I once had a dinner date with 2 girls in Manchester, it was part of a booking, we met in the town centre then got a taxi out to the airport hotel where I was staying. I suggested dinner before hand as I was needing to eat anyway, didn't pay any extra for it but got two lovely ladies in skinny black dresses to look at knowing that we were going to have fun later on. They bounced off each other during the meal as they knew each other and were flirting away with me which made me want them even more. It can be a good experience and for the cost of a meal it is worth it but wouldn't be spending hundreds of pounds on top of a meet just to do it.

[pking_paul]

I had a really good punt in London. While ago with a girl who did social meeting before the punt as part of the price. No extra cost to me (other than a couple of drinks), but she was really interesting to chat with, looked great and it added a bit to the enjoyment knowing that I was going to be fucking her in another hour or so.
Would I have paid a lot for the privilege of the social side of things - no, but I did enjoy it.

I go along with that 

Just realised OP's title says no fun, what no fun whatsoever?? Definitely a no then 

[MilleMiglia]

Many years ago, before the internet, and upmarket escort agencies, this was a thing.

[Mr_Shins]

the topic "no fun involved" - obviously no.

"sex afterwards"... yes sounds good, it just depends on whether:
 - During the dinner it is totally utterly vanilla, i.e. she eats.. Or whether she flirts with you. For me that means footsie..
 - Whether the dinner part has the same hourly rate as the sex part. e.g. 1 hour of sex £150, 1 hour of sex plus one hour of dinner £300 plus you pay for dinner on top.. And what happens if it takes a while to be served and the expected time overruns.

[Rifte]

I know a Australia guy that does this in Singapore.

He is in his late 50s. I first met him in the lobby of a hotel I was staying at and I recognized him from the night before in the OT.

He had a young Vietnamese girl with him and despite the obvious gap and and the mental conclusion that she MUST be a hooker to anyone that saw them together, he had no shame in taking her to breakfast etc downstairs.

We got talking one evening and he told me that he 'buys' a girl fro m the OT for 3 days. No fucking involved, no kissing, no massages.....just straight up companionship.

I am perplexed how it works because conversation must be an issue because from my experience the English of the Vietnamese girls is basic at best.

[Home Alone]

Has anyone paid for a WG to join them for dinner or to an event but nothing sexual?

No; but I've mentioned on other threads of 2 examples about 10 years apart where, in the earlier example, my then-Regular accompanied me to an annual meal with my football-following mates and their wives as a prelude to an Overnight booking.

That Regular retired shortly afterwards when she got it together with another of her clients. They subsequently got married and came to my 70th party last year which some of those mates & their wives from 10 years before also attended. There were some confused expressions around when they saw my ex-Regular with her husband!

My then-Regular also attended that party and, unknown to any of the other guests who stayed overnight at the hotel which catered for the party, spent the night in my room.

[goldwing1]

Might look good at the works christmas party  ( or any other event ) but there`s no way I would pay a few hundred quid for some female company plus the cost of meals, drinks etc.

If I wanted some company, i`d just phone my best mate up , go to the pub and get pissed for around £25